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Old 16-10-2023, 05:14 PM #26
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I’m not fussed if people want to be in an open relationship. If it suits them, that’s cool. It’s not for me though.
Exactly. I think people getting all up in arms about it is weird, it's not your relationship so why care

I'd never be in one myself though.
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Buy what? That him and his partner are happy in their relationship? I don’t see why people would just assume otherwise
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im beginning to think he is a homeopathy doctor
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He didn't look like he believed what he was saying, I bet his bf didn't really want a(n exclusive) relationship with him, so was like "um yeah sure we're going out, but we're open!"
Probably similar to swingers,where you'll likely get 1 person more into it than the other.
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Old 16-10-2023, 05:51 PM #30
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Probably similar to swingers,where you'll likely get 1 person more into it than the other.
and in this case i doubt its the good doctor...
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Each to their own of course, but I always find myself rolling my eyes when those in open relationships always go off on some massive spiel about why they’re in one and the benefits of it etc etc…

Just admit you want your cake AND you want to eat it
This tbh.

Doesn’t bother me in the slightest what anyone wants to do in their relationship. It’s their relationship and no one else’s business.
People are far too quick to judge what other people do in their lives.
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I knew a married couple that were swingers.
Not seen them for years but they were very happily married.
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I am more than OK with him living how he chooses, no one's being hurt, but I dislike the way that he tries to gaslight Olivia here.

It came across as him saying that she was somehow lesser or less enlightened for not sharing his view on it and that she could reprogram her worldview to be somehow better. That he was somehow superior because he likes to **** around.

The truth is that her views and preferences on it were equal to his. His lifestyle is not 'progressive', it's just an alternative.

He needs to respect others and the way that they choose to live as much as he expects the same from them.
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im beginning to think he is a homeopathy doctor
He's a trained doctor who received the best individual results at A Level at his grammar school.
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He's a trained doctor who received the best individual results at A Level at his grammar school.
Yeah, he works in geriatrics I believe?
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Anyway there's an explanation and I don't really appreciate your tone. It's very aggressive so I'm going to close this, sorry for killing the internet mate

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He's a trained doctor who received the best individual results at A Level at his grammar school.

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No, his school says. https://www.gov.im/news/2017/oct/30/...lence-for-all/
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He’s likely just qualified as a doctor/a junior doctor, isn’t he like 25?
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He’s likely just qualified as a doctor/a junior doctor, isn’t he like 25?
…hmmm, is it 7 years minimum for degree and training, plus probably around the same time again for any specialising training….isn’t he 24 yrs old…?…
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…hmmm, is it 7 years minimum for degree and training, plus probably around the same time again for any specialising training….isn’t he 24 yrs old…?…
I think you can still be classed as junior doctor before specialist training. But my knowledge on the medical world is limited.
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I know quite a few couples who've been in long term open relationships (7+ years minimum) and it's worked beautifully for them if you both want the same thing and there's a strong communication and understanding between the couple then there shouldn't be any issues.

Tends not to work when they've been dating for like 3 months though
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I know quite a few couples who've been in long term open relationships (7+ years minimum) and it's worked beautifully for them if you both want the same thing and there's a strong communication and understanding between the couple then there shouldn't be any issues.

Tends not to work when they've been dating for like 3 months though
I agreed with Olivia.
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