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Old 10-09-2007, 08:55 PM #1
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my frend died yesterdaii
we jus got home from his 12th birthday party and he was walking home with me n my twin n friends then a lorry come we all dodged it but then then we saw him underneath the
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And No i aint jokin
no! i would never joke about this
he didnt deserve it
help me get over it ive non him since i was 2 help me
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Old 10-09-2007, 08:56 PM #2
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his name was dean i miss him loadz
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Awww, sorry to hear about your friend.
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tbh, If this isnt true you are very sick.

RIP if it is
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its truee i miss him loadz he was like my brother
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Have you spoken to your parents? You will be able to get grief counselling for you and your friends. I'm surprised the police didn't refer you since you were at the scene.
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Old 10-09-2007, 08:59 PM #7
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im 12 wat am i to no i had a panic attack
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Speak to your parents first of all.
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Well im not sure this is the appropriate forum to discuss a friends death...
And it does seem a little strange that you said "help me get over it"
Asthough you're putting the responsibility onto us to make you feel better.

However, if this is true then I know how you feel, as I lost my best friend when I was younger. He was stood ontop of a gravestone trying to pick conkers out of a tree..he fell and the gravestone collapsed ontop of him and crushed him to death.

Although to be fair, I was in mid primary school so it's hard to remember what he was like, and I couldn't understand it properly at the time.

But yea, im a little wary when people say things like this online.
As much as id like to sympathsise with you, there are many sick people out there, and also teenagers who class things like this as funny pranks.

Id suggest trying to get over it in real life, and talk to your friends who were also there about it...as they'll understand better than anyone. And of course, discuss it with your parents as already mentioned.
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I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt and taking your statement at face value.

However, there's a limit to what anyone can do for you online. You really need to speak to an adult in your life. If not your parents, then someone else you can confide in. You can't hold onto this on your own, and online is not the place to get the help you need.

Please try to speak to someone. I'd love to be able to help, but I'm only font on a screen I'm afraid.
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i miss dean so much
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It must have been a very disturbing scene toencounter.

I wish you well in the future.

However it is weird that you'd tell a gang of complete strangers before your own parents.
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Omg :O how horrible but why did Shauni just say i miss him so much, its obvious there the same peson lol
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Omg :O how horrible but why did Shauni just say i miss him so much, its obvious there the same peson lol
there not the same person there twins!and lol isnt realy a word that should be used in this thread...........
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Old 12-09-2007, 09:51 PM #16
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This forum is not really the right place to get the kind of support that you need, here are the links to 2 sites that you can go to for real support with this.

http://www.rd4u.org.uk/

www.connexions-direct.com
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OMG seriously thats shocking really i never know what to think with you if true sorry to hear that very sad.
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Omg :O how horrible but why did Shauni just say i miss him so much, its obvious there the same peson lol
there not the same person there twins!and lol isnt realy a word that should be used in this thread...........
Everyone doesn't need to go into mourning and stop themselves from laughing over something we don't know is true, and someone we've never heard of.

Plus, showing respect for death shouldn't mean having to make yourself utterly miserable. Im sure all decent people that lived, who are now dead, would want us all to get on with our lives, be happy and laugh as much as we can =]
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Omg :O how horrible but why did Shauni just say i miss him so much, its obvious there the same peson lol
there not the same person there twins!and lol isnt realy a word that should be used in this thread...........
Everyone doesn't need to go into mourning and stop themselves from laughing over something we don't know is true, and someone we've never heard of.

Plus, showing respect for death shouldn't mean having to make yourself utterly miserable. Im sure all decent people that lived, who are now dead, would want us all to get on with our lives, be happy and laugh as much as we can =]
i know i just meant that if somone posts a thread about there friend dieing i dont think theyd want somone to be repling with lol......
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True, but I don't think they were directly laughing at the fact someone had died...but something to do with someone being the same person.

If they did "lol" at someone's post about their dead friend, that'd be just plain evil. Whether you know if it's true or not, there'd still be a risk you are laughing at someone who's genuine. So I agree, it wouldn't be a wise response.

Dani's been banned now though, so it seems there's little we can do to help her.
Though Sunny provided her with a couple of links, so hopefully she got to read them before she left us.
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True, but I don't think they were directly laughing at the fact someone had died...but something to do with someone being the same person.

If they did "lol" at someone's post about their dead friend, that'd be just plain evil. Whether you know if it's true or not, there'd still be a risk you are laughing at someone who's genuine. So I agree, it wouldn't be a wise response.

Dani's been banned now though, so it seems there's little we can do to help her.
Though Sunny provided her with a couple of links, so hopefully she got to read them before she left us.
yes i know that funky sam didnt mean it in a harsh way at all but dani or shauni might take it the wrong way so im just saying that its best to avoid words like lol in a thread like this weather is meant in an evil way or not!!
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you must talk with your parents or a teacher , dont bottle it up . i have not seen it on the news .when did it happen .
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Mmm... I've just had a look on some news websites... Nothing at all. Surely something would have been said?

And with your record I'd put nothing past you.

If for once you're telling the truth then RIP.
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im sorry too.
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I dont know if this is actually true or a load of bull,im not gonna pretend i beleive you 100% just becuase its such a tragic story but if it did happen then you need to get some sort of help and not jsut from a forum.
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