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Old 03-05-2008, 10:19 PM #1
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I fell out with with a friend a while ago. Its was something purely trivial. He had done a load of scribbles on a page and then said isn't my artwork great. I said, no thats crap. We were both joking. But then the next day, I found out that he had told everyone if I was serious and how I was so horrible to him and had said his art was crap for no reason! Later that day during PE, we were just talking with other people and I hear him call me a bitch! By this stage I had decided to let the whole thing go but then I hear him talking about me. So I called him out (how BBUSA am I!) and we argued gently for a while but then I got really annoyed with him. To cut a long story short, I ended up screaming at him, crying calling him every name under the sun.

Now I know why he did it. Theres this girl that he loooves, that I'm very good friends with. He's convinced that I'm his competition, but really shes just a friend, theres nothing going on, shes like a fag-hag to me. We've always been good friends, we talked, were partners for stuff, hung around all the time, but there was always this hatred from him bubbling underneath it all. I don't hate him a just find him very annoying and attention seeking.

It's not that I sad about losing him as a friend, were even talking again, but we have the same friends so theres always gonna be a divide now and its very uncomfortable. Any thoughts?
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I'd tell the girl he loves that.. he loves her? =\
Then again I'm that sorta person. -shrugs-

Hope you can sort things out though.
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I would take him into a private area, be honest with him and get everything off your chest and see what he does.

Or you could ignore him.
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This is the third time this has happened, where he likes the girl that I'm friends with. One time he even started a website about how gay I was, just because he liked this girls so much. He does all this tuff to eliminate any competition, but would never dream of admiting to anyone including the girls that he has feelings for her!
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You could tell him you know ..

or does he know you know ? x

Just try tlking to him .. thats wt id do =) x
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This has happened to me before too. Once my friend, asked me to come out to town, I said I couldnt so he said okayy. For the next year he didnt even bother phoning me up to go anywhere when everyone was there. Soo I confronted him, things were said, we both got very annoyed and I refused to speak to him for 3 months!! I had lots of people on my side, I told my other friend to hang around and listen to everything he was saying about me. I heard that he called a w****r to my other friends. But then one day he came up to me and started having a conversation. We are still now best of friends.

Everytime I have a mini argument with him now, I always say "I'll stop talking to you for 3 moths again!" and then its argument over lol. Its my weapon, because he got really annoyed when I didnt talk to him.
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