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Old 15-10-2008, 08:32 PM #1
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Okay there's a guy I've been seeing and I called him today and this is how our conversation went.

"Are you busy tonight? Wanna go out?"
"Oh sorry Mel. I have a boyfriend now."
-speechless-
"It's Ian."
"Are you talking about my Ian?!?!"
"I'm really sorry.."

Then I hung up on him.
Come on, my almost boyfriend and my bff? I introduced them to each other!
Apparently it's been going on for a couple of days and everyone was too afraid to tell me. Why?!!?
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That's erm, well erm, shocking! Well, we'll make you feel better
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I came out to my mum last week! :]

Anyho.
Woah. Sorry Mel =| That must really suck.
I guess the best you can do is support them both =\
&find a straight guy.
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I came out to my mum last week! :]

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Woah. Sorry Mel =| That must really suck.
I guess the best you can do is support them both =\
&find a straight guy.
Probablly the best advice...
And Darenn how did that go?
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I came out to my mum last week! :]

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Woah. Sorry Mel =| That must really suck.
I guess the best you can do is support them both =\
&find a straight guy.
Yeah I'm going to talk to my friend later, I'm just really shocked right now because I thought they were both straight. Congrats on coming out to your mom though!
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Just go on like nothing happened. And be grateful that they told you straight up and didn't find out a couple of months down the line.
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Poor you.
Stay strong, dont let it get you down.
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who the **** would cheat on mel??
youre super sexy and really nice
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I came out to my mum last week! :]

Anyho.
Woah. Sorry Mel =| That must really suck.
I guess the best you can do is support them both =\
&find a straight guy.
Yeah I'm going to talk to my friend later, I'm just really shocked right now because I thought they were both straight. Congrats on coming out to your mom though!
Thank you<3
Good luck I guess, I hope it all turns out for you. You're extremely beautiful and come across as a strong, intelligent woman so I doubt you need to worry about not finding a guy. Just make sure you get one that's decent+straight!

&JustJake; went well thanks, she was fine with everything.
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who the **** would cheat on mel??
youre super sexy and really nice
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A gay guy, obv.

No offence Mel.!
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Yeah, my best friend and my friend went off together as well.
I still haven't spoken to them. :P
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Wow thats some Hollyoaks shizz right there. Sorry Mel, 'm sure your not feeling great at the moment seeing as he was your almost bf. But your a beauitful girl and I'm sure you have queing for you
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Hey Mel

At least you are finding out now rather than later.

You defo need to talk things over with you mate since he hasnt really been much of a mate to you - letting you see this guy and him liking him and flirting etc.

If you ask me you are better without them both if they were going to do that to you but would totally understand if you forgave them as well.

I think its mainly a shock to your system and a nights sleep might help.

Good luck with whatever you decide
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OMG the like worst case situation
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