[Christina]

Hii,
Ok this may sound a bit weird to some of you but something rather new to me has just happened and i need some help.
Today i got a text of a girl who is in year 9 [were friends] and the text was just simply asking me how i was so i replied saying that i was revising and how i was bored. So she text me back saying she knows something that would cheer me up so i asked her what that was. She replied saying:

'Youre actually really fit '

So i was like omg is she being serious. So i asked her if she was and she said:

'Yeah
Oh didnt i tell you i was bisexual?'

But she didnt and ive just realised that most of my friends think shes a lesbian because of the way she acts around me. E.g - Constantly coming up to me and giving me really long hugs etc.. and saying how she loves my hair and makeup. Anyway i fowarded the messages to a very close friend and she called me and said she wouldnt tell. I have no problem with her being bi but the thing is im scared now incase i act differently around her but i need to make it clear that im straight And im rather scared because a couple of weeks ago my friend Lianne was messing around on my phone and sent a text to her and several other girls saying that i was in love with them for a joke. Im scared now incase she thinks that the text was true but i was just scared to admit it. Ahh and my mum totally heard my conversation over the phone which is even more embarassing! But yeah, do any of you have any advice, because i know when i see her im gonna feel so awkward?

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ALL IS SORTED NOW.. THANKS FOR THE HELP

[Annie]

Is she hot?

[Sam!]

Just say to her "Sorry but im straight" or get someone to tell her or sumin. like "Babe, I'm so sure Christinas straight, she fancies that guy in the year above, you know the one with the blue bag?, Yeh its a ffing nice bag ennit"

Sumin like that.

[Xander]

LOL You could ask her out to settle everything.

[Christina]

Originally posted by Annie
Is she hot?

No. But even if she was im straight lol.

[Christina]

Originally posted by Xander
LOL You could ask her out to settle everything.

Nooo thanks.

[Christina]

Originally posted by Scampi
Just say to her "Sorry but Im straight" or get someone to tell her or sumin. like "Babe, I'm so sure Christinas straight, she fancies that guy in the year above, you know the one with the blue bag?, Yeh its a ffing nice bag ennit"

Sumin like that.

LMAO, I go to an all girls school But yeah im probably gonna get my friend Jennifer to tell her im straight and that she saw the messages down my phone LOL. Thanks

[AyeAye_xO]

speak to her alone &+ just tell her that uur straight. but try not to be weird around her., cause it will be embarrasing and awkward for hur too.

[MrGaryy]

HAHA! good old Weir-dom eh?

[Sam!]

Originally posted by Christina

LMAO, I go to an all girls school But yeah Im probably going to get my friend Jennifer to tell her Im straight and that she saw the messages down my phone LOL. Thanks

Whoops. Yeh good idea!

[Christina]

Originally posted by Gazbo
HAHA! good old Weir-dom eh?

LMAO its not even her Gaz, this is another one. I think i have a school full of Weirs [PJ]

[Christina]

Originally posted by AyeAye_xO
speak to her alone &+ just tell her that uur straight. but try not to be weird around her., cause it will be embarrasing and awkward for hur too.

Lol yeah true, thanks!

[WATERS]

Tell her you're not into girls.

[Princess]

The getting someone else to tell her you're straight is a good idea I think. It might be a tad uncormtable to do it yourself. Although you shouldn't worry too much about it

[lily.]

Xtina, you should go to her and have a word .. don't get others involved. Just tell her yer flattered she fancies you but that yer not into girls, and hope ye can still be friends.

[pinkmichk]

if she is a friend you should tell her yourself why not do it by text or email if you think it may be arkward in person

[Annie]

How do you know you are 100% straight...

[MrGaryy]

Originally posted by Christina

LMAO its not even her Gaz, this is another one. I think i have a school full of Weirs [PJ]

LMAO! You just attract lessys don't you?

[Christina]

Originally posted by pinkmichk
if she is a friend you should tell her yourself why not do it by text or email if you think it may be arkward in person

Ooh thanks but im not really sure what i should say lol. When she said i was fit i just said 'Thanks lol' ahh im terrible lol!

[pinkmichk]

just say something like i'm flattered that you fancy me but i'm not into girls but i dont want it to ruin our friendship

[Christina]

Thanks all

And Annie, dunno lol.. just never really liked the idea of me being with girls and have always been attracted to males.. never females lol.

[Christina]

Originally posted by pinkmichk
just say something like i'm flattered that you fancy me but i'm not into girls but i dont want it to ruin our friendship

Ooh thanks, if she texts me saying anything i'll say that lol.

[Loukas]

Being Bi is difficult. The best thing to do is talk to her FACE TO FACE, it might be hard to speak to her but it's SO much better than texting. Her being Bi shouldn't make you act different. Don't see her as bi, see her as a normal person. . Main thing is DON'T LET IT AFFECT YOUR FRIENDSHIP.

[Sam!]

Bye Bi! Say that.. or not

[Christina]

Originally posted by DoubleTrouble
Being Bi is difficult. The best thing to do is talk to her FACE TO FACE, it might be hard to speak to her but it's SO much better than texting. Her being Bi shouldn't make you act different. Don't see her as bi, see her as a normal person. . Main thing is DON'T LET IT AFFECT YOUR FRIENDSHIP.

Yeah id never ever judge her for being bi.. never! And thanks Loukas thats great advice.. will talk to her next time i see her.