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Old 23-01-2009, 05:22 PM #1
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Old 23-01-2009, 05:26 PM #2
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I have the same problem but I registered to the Anger Management thing and I try my best not to get angry all the time.

I know it's hard to control yourself. What I do, is to close your eys and breathe quietly, it generally helps a lot.
But if it doesn't work out...then let it out and you will feel better.
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Old 23-01-2009, 05:27 PM #3
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Old 23-01-2009, 05:45 PM #4
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I know how you feel Ninastar, I supposedly have a Personality Disorder. It can leave me very messed up and angry at times because of the quick mood changes.
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I sometime cry and them most times i break things. One time i punched a wall but then it hert and cut my knuckle so i wont do that again lol. Thanks remy i willl try that x
When I was a child I used to cry and I did when I got older (but not often). You cry because you are so frustrated to be that angry (it's damn complicated).

I do also break things, my fave one is bottles, like glass bottles hence I got banned from 4 bars in my city. I do argue a lot but it's always 'nice'. Or I can get way worse.

I can see where you're coming from, it's not another personality, we're not schizos, it's a full part of our personality and it's so frustrating to see that you can hurt people. We have to accept to deal with it and to take care of this.
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I used to have really bad aggression problems and I took up boxing ... still get wound up really easily but I'm not half as bad as I was
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I used to have really bad aggression problems and I took up boxing ... still get wound up really easily but I'm not half as bad as I was
You're lucky sport helped you because it didn't for me. I do practice rugby, handball and I got to the gym...nothing ! It helped me to hurt someone with a bigger it that's all lol
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I used to have really bad aggression problems and I took up boxing ... still get wound up really easily but I'm not half as bad as I was
You're lucky sport helped you because it didn't for me. I do practice rugby, handball and I got to the gym...nothing ! It helped me to hurt someone with a bigger it that's all lol
Yes but taking everything out on a punchbag (or someone else) isn't the same as other sport

I've always been really sporty though so I can just kind of channel anger into performance
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I have anger problems, but everyone tells me I am really passionate about what I think.
Anyway, if you want to punch someone just remember that theres no real point to it, but it helps.
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Have you heard of CBT,cognative behavioural therapy?
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Have you heard of CBT,cognative behavioural therapy?
Been thre, done nothing for me, they say it doesn't really work. I'm still a common ****! Pointless.
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not all types of therapy suit everyone.
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