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'Will anyone sleep with my Down's syndrome son?' Mother makes appeal for a lover for 21-year-old Otto

By Luke Salkeld
Last updated at 8:30 AM on 17th March 2009


Like most mothers Lucy Baxter wants her child to live a fully rounded life - including the experience of a physical relationship and even finding love.

But her 21-year-old son Otto has Down's syndrome and has had trouble finding a partner.

So she is appealing for women to come forward so Otto can 'enjoy the same experiences as other men his age'.


Lucy Baxter is doing all she can to find a girlfriend for her son Otto, 21, so he can lose his virginity

She says she is even prepared to go so far as to pay for a prostitute for her adopted son.

Miss Baxter, 50, also hopes he may one day become a father - despite the controversy this may attract.

'Society has a learning disability when it comes to Down's syndrome,' she said.

'Why should these people be kept separate and pigeon-holed when they have the same emotions, desires and feelings as so-called normal people?

'If he doesn't get a girlfriend, I will feel really bad, because I have sold him this thing that he is like everybody else. That's why I'm working overtime to get this sorted for him.'


Otto enjoys a day at the park with friends

Miss Baxter from Abingdon, Oxfordshire, works for the mental health charity Mencap and campaigns for the rights of those with Down's syndrome.

She is single and has never married but has three other adopted sons - James, 27, Titus, 14, and Raphael, seven. They all have Down's syndrome.

She has already helped James to set up a page on a social networking website to invite potential partners to come forward for him.

'I'd like all my boys to find love and enjoy sex,' she said.

'I would have no problem paying for Otto to go to Amsterdam to visit a brothel if that's what he wanted.

'A few of his friends suggested it a few months ago and since then I've talked to Otto about it in an adult way. Why shouldn't he enjoy the same experiences as other men?'

Otto is an aspiring actor who has appeared in local stage versions of Macbeth and The Canterbury Tales.

He persuaded his mother to help him find a partner after three years without success.

He says his ideal woman is television and radio presenter Fearne Cotton.

He added: 'I'm on a mission to find a girlfriend. My reason is I want to have sex. I'm looking for girlfriends everywhere.'

Recalling previous encounters, he added: 'There was Jackie - she was a sexy bird, she was gorgeous. She gave me four kisses.

'Then there was Sarah. We had a crazy snog together. It was a few months ago. I'm still waiting for her to call me back.'


Otto Baxter's Bebo page, which his mother helped set up

Miss Baxter would be 'delighted' if Otto brought a woman back to their house for sex.

'I don't have a problem with any of it,' she said. 'He's going to Las Vegas for a few days to promote himself as an actor so who knows, he might get lucky over there. When he gets back home I've lined up a few dating agencies for him to join. I always encourage him to go to nightclubs and other places where people pick up women.

'I have brought Otto up to relate to everybody so he has always been to mainstream school and mixed with everybody. I would like to see him with a girlfriend. I would prefer to see him with a girlfriend who doesn't have Down's.'

She said she would love to be a grandmother. 'I would also love it if Otto got a girlfriend pregnant. It's another experience everyone else goes through so why not him?'

She acknowledged that this was certain to cause controversy and said: 'I know if he did get someone pregnant everyone would have an opinion on it.'

Miss Baxter also hopes that her eldest adopted son will eventually lose his virginity but is not taking such drastic action as with Otto because James is a little less outgoing.

Carol Boys of the Down's Syndrome Association said: 'People with Down's syndrome have the same feelings and desires as everyone else and there is no reason why they shouldn't have relationships.

'There are many with Down's syndrome who have found a partner and some that have gone on to get married. Otto's experience highlights that there are different challenges that they have to face because they have a visible disability.'

The family's story is featured in TV show Natalie Cassidy's Real Britain, on BBC3, at 8pm on Thursday.


http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/ar...-old-Otto.html

[MarkWaldorf]

"I LIKE S CLUB 7"

LOL

[arista]

Paying for a Hooker?
Thats cold.

[Scarlett.]

Jesus Christ woman, he is only 21, he is still young and has the rest of his life to find someone

[xDramatick]

"Scared of Sex with Older Ladies" wtf?

That whole article is just.. bizarre.

[arista]

Originally posted by Chewy
Jesus Christ woman, he is only 21, he is still young and has the rest of his life to find someone

Chewy
do you understand Down Syndrome?

rest of his life
could be short.

[andyman]

She could do it for him......

[arista]

Originally posted by Satisfaction
"Scared of Sex with Older Ladies" wtf?

That whole article is just.. bizarre.

Not that Bizarre
this is a Disabled person.

[Lauren]

I don't find issue with the fact she's finding a woman for him. Sex is sex is sex is sex. Not this major "special" thing.

I find issue with the fact she's doing it in order to quash her guilty feelings. She's basically saying "hey guys, I lied to my son and told him he could find love like normal, now he can't can I have people to go along with the lie with me lolz".

She's only humiliating him.

[andyman]

"sucky sucky 2 dollar, fky fky 5 dollar!" "me love you longtime"

[arista]

Originally posted by andyman
She could do it for him......

You are Sick.

[arista]

Originally posted by Lauren
I don't find issue with the fact she's finding a woman for him. Sex is sex is sex is sex. Not this major "special" thing.

I find issue with the fact she's doing it in order to quash her guilty feelings. She's basically saying "hey guys, I lied to my son and told him he could find love like normal, now he can't can I have people to go along with the lie with me lolz".

She's only humiliating him.

We have yet to see how the Lad
is Doing
Lauren.

[Mark]

Originally posted by arista
Paying for a Hooker?
Thats cold.

You don't expect them to work for free do you!

[Tom]

LOL!!!!

Thats a bit creepy of her

[arista]

Originally posted by Mark

You don't expect them to work for free do you!

No but a Hooker would be a Cold Experience
and could make his life worse.

[Novo]

It says he is seeing someone

so he cant be doing that bad

[Bells]

"I'm on a mission to find a girlfriend. My reason is I want to have sex." Nice.

[Fom]

This is so bad... I remember reading this in the paper.

[Lauren]

Originally posted by .Andy.
It says he is seeing someone

so he cant be doing that bad

It also says he loves ham pizzas and a famous actor.

We can't take everything he says on his bebo for granted LOL.

[Lauren]

LOL @ how "sex with older ladies" is the only bit not in uppercase... it's like his mum wrote it, hahaha.

[Novo]

Just looked up his page and some people are being far to harsh to him

'His room is stuffed full of condoms which he buys every time he goes to the pub with his friends and his collection of pornography is staggering.'

The 21-year-old said: “I’m on a mission to find a girlfriend. My reason is I want to have sex. I’m looking for girlfriends everywhere.”

YOU STAY CLASSY, OTTO




I'll let you stick in my arse for Ł500

[Lauren]

This is what I mean about his mum humiliating him. Did she really need to come out to the press about her virgin son wanting to get laid? Seriously???

[Novo]

Originally posted by Lauren
This is what I mean about his mum humiliating him. Did she really need to come out to the press about her virgin son wanting to get laid? Seriously???

"Why is everyone talking to the downy like it's a human?

Although from the way you spell, several of you are probably ****ing mutants as well"

Poor lad

[arista]

Originally posted by Lauren
This is what I mean about his mum humiliating him. Did she really need to come out to the press about her virgin son wanting to get laid? Seriously???

In a way I can understand the Mother
as it will be a great deal of Stress 24/7.


Its no good taking this to the Star paper
is it.

[andyman]

He could work in porn... Even midgets get laid..