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Old 23-05-2009, 09:09 PM #1
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Default Age Gap in Relationships

Following on from the indecent proposal (lol)...

What age gap do you personally think you'd be comfortable with in a relationship?

This debate isn't about what you think is right for other people, but what you think is right for yourself.

I'd say 5 years either way would be ok for me, but I doubt I'd go beyond that.
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I would say upto 10 years older and 3 years younger. I dont think age really matters. Its how you feel with that person.
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For men: half your age + 7 and upwards, when you are 18+


That's "the rule"
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I'm 17.
I think I could go out with anyone up to around 34? (Unless they were David Tennant... <3)
But I don't think I could date a 15 year old. A 16 year old I reckon would be okay...

so that's like 17+, and 1- hahahaha
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At 18 i wouldn't go for anyone under 17 or anyone over 21..
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Clearly if a young guy about 18 is with a gorgeous 29 year old or 25 year old... HES AN ABSOLUTE LEGEND!!

If theres a man 49 going for a girl 16, he deserves to be in prison
See, I don't get that.. yet my male friends have said the same thing... it's the shizzle for an 18yr old lad to score with a woman in her 20s or 30s..
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For men: half your age + 7 and upwards, when you are 18+


That's "the rule"
Wait...


So, a 40 yr old guy can have a 27 yr old gf.. ? Am I doin it right?
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Yep, 27+
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Madonna and Guy and 10 years gap
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Following on from the indecent proposal (lol)...
HEHE! offer still stands! < this is a joke for those who don't get it!
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At 18 i would go for anyone under 17 or anyone over 21..
Anyone under 17?!
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Mark I have heard of that rule as well when Matt was 24 and seeing me I was 19, so that makes it perfect.

24/2 = 12 + 7 = 19!! That is me!
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Following on from the indecent proposal (lol)...
HEHE! offer still stands!
Seriously man.. cut it out!!!!

Mark, sort him out lol
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At 18 i would go for anyone under 17 or anyone over 21..
Anyone under 17?!
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Yeah i think she meant WOULDN'T
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At 18 i would go for anyone under 17 or anyone over 21..
Anyone under 17?!
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Ahh i meant i wouldn't oh no.. editing it now

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Yep, 27+
Does this rule only apply to men then?
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At 18 i would go for anyone under 17 or anyone over 21..
Anyone under 17?!
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Ahh i meant i wouldn't oh no.. editing it now
I wondered if anyone was guna call you on that one lol.. shoulda known Sia would do it.. Lmao!
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I don't think I could go out with an older (like really older) woman than me. I mean, I always like to be the oldest. It feels like I'm in control of God knows what but still. I'm a bit macho on that point lol

But hey, people can do whatever they want with their a$$, their privacy. I can see why it can shock people but mentalities are changing and it's becoming more and more accepted.
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It is more socially acceptable now Remy. I think people are more inclined to mind their own business nowadays.

I personally couldn't imagine going out with a guy under 30 now though... that would just make me feel like a relic! LoL.. At the same time, I draw the line around 40, cuz I don't want to go out with a relic.. (haha.. I'm bad!)
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I don't think I could go out with an older (like really older) woman than me. I mean, I always like to be the oldest. It feels like I'm in control of God knows what but still. I'm a bit macho on that point lol

But hey, people can do whatever they want with their a$$, their privacy. I can see why it can shock people but mentalities are changing and it's becoming more and more accepted.
I am older than you! Dont you love me anymore?
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Well Im 14 so I think I could go out with a 14 year old or 15 year old, maybe 16.
I don't think anyone under 13 lol
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As long as people dont confuse her for my mom at a restaurant, Or later on maybe something like, sir, your daughter is beautiful, then its OK!
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I don't think I could go out with an older (like really older) woman than me. I mean, I always like to be the oldest. It feels like I'm in control of God knows what but still. I'm a bit macho on that point lol

But hey, people can do whatever they want with their a$$, their privacy. I can see why it can shock people but mentalities are changing and it's becoming more and more accepted.
I am older than you! Dont you love me anymore?
You're less than a year older than me, it doesn't matter then.

I'm saying I couldn't with older like 27+. At this age, women know more about sex than a 19 y-o guy and I couldn't bare it. Like I said, I need to feel I am the big one. Especially in bed lmao OK I stop now, kids are reading.
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hahaha AMA... yeah, that would be bad!


Oh but Remy, I could teach you so much.......
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I'm 15, atm I'd go out with anyone up to 18, or a 14 year old. When I'm older I'd prefer to be the younger one, by no more than about 5/6 years
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