[haggis]

i havee read a few threads on here, about how saffia left her kids etc and they p%%%%%%% me afff,,

I got a job when i was 19 which took me away from my then girlfriend and my 5 months old son for 4nd half months,, so does that make me a bad dad,

then when me and my now wife got together again ive worked away, i worked over in the usa for 10 weeks,@ a time, and getting home for 3 weeks, my daughter was born while i was away, i spent about 3 months if that with her in her first yr, then we had our second kid,again i missed the birth,, and over a 2 yr period i spent around maybe just over 7 months in total with my wee boy,

So does that make me a bad dad.

i worked bloody hard for my family, to give them a decent life,

saffia is doing the same, trying to give her wee ones a decent life,
ok she might not win, but she will get cash for newspaper deals, mag deals, etc, and her kids will get things and get to go to places which they might never had gotten to.

this does not make saffia a bad mum, infact makes her a wonder mum, she is only trying to secure a nice future for her and her kids.

bad mums and dads are the junkie likes, that shoot up and konk out while there wee ones play, or alcoholic mums and dads, who drink there selfs in to a stuper everyday while their kids go hungry, etc

time to get off saffia case. i think