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Old 12-11-2009, 09:12 PM #1
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If they are two loving parents that will take great care of the child, why not?

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i have no problem, as long as these children are brought up with love, discipline and respect for others.
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i have no problem, as long as these children are brought up with love, discipline and respect for others.
Exactly this, and it's my view for m-f couples too.
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i have no problem, as long as these children are brought up with love, discipline and respect for others.

do you mean in the world that the Waltons live in?
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It helps unwanted babies, so I'm all for it. Better let a child expirence real love then none because both parents are male/female
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Yeah no problem either. Live and let live.
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No problem with at all, especially since I think that same sex relationships seem to have less hostility involved with them in general, which probably stems from my own experiences. Women and men just rub each other the wrong way.... statistics prove it. I think it could be argued that a more loving enviroment might stem from same sex partnerships.
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No problem with at all, especially since I think that same sex relationships seem to have less hostility involved with them in general, which probably stems from my own experiences. Women and men just rub each other the wrong way.... statistics prove it. I think it could be argued that a more loving enviroment might stem from same sex partnerships.
I am sorry, but what???. WOmen and men rub each other the wrong way, and there is more love in gay relationship!! WTH??

FIne if you are OK with same sex adoption ( I am not by the way), but to say for some reason that Gay relationships are healthier than straight?
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I am sorry, but what???. WOmen and men rub each other the wrong way, and there is more love in gay relationship!! WTH??

FIne if you are OK with same sex adoption ( I am not by the way), but too say for ome reason that Gay relationships are healthier than straight? Cmon now.
Why are you not ok with it?
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I am sorry, but what???. WOmen and men rub each other the wrong way, and there is more love in gay relationship!! WTH??

FIne if you are OK with same sex adoption ( I am not by the way), but too say for ome reason that Gay relationships are healthier than straight? Cmon now.
No no, I don't mean that it's that cut and dry lol; it's just an opinion of mine seeing as divorce rates are climbing yearly.
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No no, I don't mean that it's that cut and dry lol; it's just an opinion of mine seeing as divorce rates are climbing yearly.
HOw many gay couples get married? Of course their divorce rate is lower.
ANd how long was it even allowed to have gay marriges?

Anyways, yeah I dont think it should be dissallowed the gay adoption but straight couple should be the priority imo.
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HOw many gay couples get married? Of course their divorce rate is lower.
ANd how long was it even allowed to have gay marriges?

Anyways, yeah I dont think it should be dissallowed the gay adoption but straight couple should be the priority imo.
I'm not talking about just marriage; I'm talking about relationships here and cases of domestic abuse and marriage break ups that are happening all the time. It's doubtful that there's as many bust ups in gay partnerships... hey, I might be wrong but I just think that opposite sexes drive each demented on occassion lol.
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HOw many gay couples get married? Of course their divorce rate is lower.
ANd how long was it even allowed to have gay marriges?

Anyways, yeah I dont think it should be dissallowed the gay adoption but straight couple should be the priority imo.
I agree with this^^^^

It's not that I don't think same sex couples wouldn't do a good job, I just think that having both a mother & a father is a more "ideal" situation. I have 2 kids 1 boy and 1 girl and especially for my son there are alot of things that my husband gives to my son that I couldn't. He benefits greatly from having a father in his life.
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and what about the riducule?
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i think the poster is referring to happy land where the liberals run free and you get lager out of the cold tap.
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i think the poster is referring to happy land where the liberals run free and you get lager out of the cold tap.
Happy land? What are you talking about? Don't hide behind your own ignorance and fear of other ways and methods of living. It's not as black and white as that... you're far too rigid.

I'm simply stating that same sex partnerships should be given that opportunity to nurture and love a child if they've been together for a significant length of time. The cold reality it that divorce rates are climbing all the time and domestic abuse is everywhere in heterosexual relationships. They're not exactly working so why not allow same sex relationships to have a child?
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People get ridiculed for all sorts of reasons, wearing glasses, ginger hair etc...its not right for people to have to change because of bullies. Bullying needs to be tackled by society...
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Right so what your saying is a ginger haired boy should dye his hair incase of ridicule? Or should we as a society say ridicule is wrong? We've come along way because people have fought prejudice Trumpet dude, so dont give me "its the way it is bollox"! If we all had that attitude we'd still be sat round the fire in our caves mate!
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People get ridiculed for all sorts of reasons, wearing glasses, ginger hair etc...its not right for people to have to change because of bullies. Bullying needs to be tackled by society...
Bullying wont stop, EVER.

people get picked on every day at school and it doesnt stop until they move school sometimes.. it happens again.
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Bullying wont stop, EVER.

people get picked on every day at school and it doesnt stop until they move school sometimes.. it happens again.
No but prejudice can be tackled and has been, and not by hiding away either
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I don't have a problem with it at all.
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I'm all for it, and if there was more of it I think the next generation would be brought up to accept homosexuality.
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I dont think theres anything wrong with it.
Maybe children would turn out better if they had a male and a female parent,but if a couple will try their best to be good parents then I dont think gender matters.
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