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18-03-2018, 05:23 PM | #1 | ||
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... Involved in heated threads.
Continued from SD; Because when someone says something personal, and yes completely unfair, to another member then their post is deleted and they get an infraction, which is completely right. But when the same thing happens and a mod is on the receiving end, the thread gets locked, and if you comment on the thread being locked, that thread is locked too and you get blocked from making new threads in the section completely. This represents a two-tier system of forum membership and illustrates exactly why people feel like they can't engage naturally in threads with "mods posting as members" no matter how much those mods insist that they can keep their capacity as a mod and their capacity as a member separate. So just to note; I think what was said to Niamh in the thread I question was awful and also, from what I know of her, completely untrue. However I think that the response is knee-jerk, over the top, a complete abuse of power, and a double standard. Also I'll say that I have no idea if it was Niamh herself who started locking & blocking, it may well not have been, but it was certainly because it was a moderator on the receiving end of a hurtful comment. My personal opinion on this is that the forum is now at a point where mods need to choose between being a non-staff member, or being a mod and staying impartial in contentious threads. Being both quite clearly doesn't work, for various reasons. Last edited by Toy Soldier; 18-03-2018 at 05:24 PM. |
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18-03-2018, 05:27 PM | #2 | ||
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I agree. Although, I was under the impression if a mod was heavily involved in a discussion thread, they just left it to another mod to do all of the moderating. Sometimes, this doesn't seem to be the case.
It's quite telling that it took a comment to Niamh to get the thread locked, but not everything that came before it. Last edited by Marsh.; 18-03-2018 at 05:28 PM. |
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18-03-2018, 05:31 PM | #3 | ||
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I'm not going to pretend that that thread wasn't a mess but the timing of it being locked and masses of posts being purged, and the removal of my thread-posting privileges for pointing it out, suggests that it's not a simple coincidence that exactly then was when it was deemed to have "gone too far". |
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18-03-2018, 05:32 PM | #4 | ||
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18-03-2018, 05:36 PM | #5 | |||
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There is a rule that mods shouldn't moderate in threads they are actively participating in, not sure how well observed that is
that said the personal comment to Niamh was totally unfair, and should have been removed as there really wasn't any need to go so low, I think the thread has maybe reached its natural conclusion and maybe that is why it was locked, other threads have been locked in the same way, in such a contentious thread a note from whoever locked it might have defused the need for further threads.
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18-03-2018, 05:28 PM | #6 | ||
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I also don't understand why you have been blocked? I didn't see any rule breaking?
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18-03-2018, 05:33 PM | #7 | ||
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I get why it's a rule break but, again, it's not an action I've EVER seen taken before which suggests to me that "emotions are running high" with moderation, and that is something that really needs some consideration . |
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18-03-2018, 05:34 PM | #9 | |||
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18-03-2018, 05:34 PM | #10 | |||
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To be fair, there was an announcement in sd that this kind if ban would be trialled.
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18-03-2018, 05:37 PM | #11 | ||
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It wasn't me who "said wot got said", though, all I did was point out what I see as heavy handed and emotionally driven moderating. The response to which was... Some more heavy handed and emotionally driven moderating.
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18-03-2018, 05:42 PM | #12 | |||
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Figured it was fine for me to do this, as I had barely been involved in the thread, and was definitely not involved in the bickering stuff. But no doubt I was still wrong. As for Quote:
I have been asking for a while to be de-modded as I just cannot be arsed with the way we are always in the wrong and accused of being biased, and how some members seem to think we should not have opinions as mods. I genuinely am sick to the back teeth of this forum and how nothing is ever right and stuff.
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18-03-2018, 06:05 PM | #13 | |||
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You can call people who are in transition "blokes in dresses" but I'm below the belt? Sure. This is why threads like this exist... because of actions like yours. |
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18-03-2018, 06:10 PM | #14 | |||
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18-03-2018, 06:34 PM | #15 | ||
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oh fack off
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I did however agree with the larger discussion about the kind of atmosphere that has been fostered in these types of threads. But that's a wider issue, and not one that can be narrowed down to a couple of mods. |
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18-03-2018, 05:46 PM | #16 | ||
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In that thread, we had members calling for another to be banned. If that member had been banned, that would have been great. However, when its them on the receiving end, all of a sudden its biased and heavy handed. I think this will be my last post in here..as I can already see how this is going to go. Admin will probably comment when they come on. But I am not getting into a load of 'omgs mods are so biased' stuff, where its just another pile onto the staff and loads of assumptions made. **** that. Enjoy the ranting all
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18-03-2018, 05:39 PM | #17 | ||
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18-03-2018, 05:35 PM | #18 | |||
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just get rid of serious debates
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18-03-2018, 05:36 PM | #19 | |||
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Excuse me, first of all I didn't lock the thread or do any of the modding on it and none of it was to do with what was said to me.
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18-03-2018, 05:36 PM | #20 | ||
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Threads get locked when they have descended into bickering baiting nonsense. The reason they are locked as they are cleaned is because otherwise the bickering continues while someone is deleting pages and pages of threads, and then by the time its cleaned there is another load to go. This has happened near forever. If the thread is considered saveable, it is reopened after deletions. there are around 150 deletions in that thread now, both from when james locked it, and when I did. That thread has been locked twice to be cleaned already. A third time I reckon it will remain locked.
And niamh did not lock the thread either. Nor moderate in there.
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18-03-2018, 05:44 PM | #21 | ||
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Like I said above... I don't think that really matters. And I flat put don't believe that it wasn't that comment that prompted a lock n purge. The timing is far too coincidental. And here's where the real problem lies - even if I'm totally wrong, even if this ISN'T an example of staff loyalty / rallying round and everything being said by staff in response is the 100% honest truth... The fact that it has to be taken on faith and there's a question mark hanging over it is still a problem, and still makes me think that being "normal member sometimes mod sometimes" simply isn't working. There is a power implication that affects normal interaction. There is always a question of how hard you can push before someone with the power to do so starts taking action. I know there are a few members who are having this issue and honestly I hadn't given it all THAT much thought until it was raised but... ... It's a problem. |
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18-03-2018, 05:47 PM | #22 | |||
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18-03-2018, 05:50 PM | #23 | ||
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Well indeed. I can say that I came back online at Today, 05:33 PM. Started looking at the few hundred extra comments at Today, 05:34 PM. Locked thread at Today, 05:41 PM as I said
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and got to Mokkas comment at Today, 05:47 PM. As this is documented in the admin forum by my comments in a thread about bans from the serious debates section.
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18-03-2018, 05:51 PM | #24 | ||
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I believe that it wasn't you who started taking mod action but I also believe that it was prompted by another staff member feeling loyal / defensive . If it wasn't you who closed the thread then you can't possibly know which post prompted it being closed.
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18-03-2018, 05:56 PM | #25 | |||
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Well I can know that because we were discussing it with MTVN before Mokka even made the comment to me, both Matt and Vicky then went offline and I had already decided not to mod that thread, then Vicky came back online and started cleaning the thread. But I don't know why I'm even bothering to tell you this anyway because you've already decided you're own narrative
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