When you look up at your private message and its in bold and you think "oh what lovely message is this
"and then its an infraction or a profile warning or a ban
that is not right.
These type of messages should come in another way and a member should not think "oh God what have I done now" every time he (or she) gets a private message
As a member who rarely understands what it is I have actually done wrong (but am sure i have broke the rules ) I find this constant state of anxiety not good and i think we can all agree this needs to be sensitively addressed in this inclusive time in which we live??
I cant be the only member who suffers from
"Private message inbox infraction anxiety disorder" ?