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belle777 · 21-08-2016, 09:30 PM

Bear has set the tone to how he may be treated by the way he treats the housemates .
he has chosen a particular way as his game plan. playing a game of wearing them down, demoralising them. making them seem whiney, and subdued by comparison.getting himself undeserved viewing time. you have to see beyond the immediate facade. what are his motives. what is his gain ? tbh most of the time now i just switch the volume down or switch to another channel as soon as he starts a new conflict . who wants to watch people fighting and arguing ? toxicity. not I!
big brother is going to shoot themselves in the foot if they think y=they are gaining viewers by displaying such behaviour. its going to end up like the Jerry Springfield show or whats the name of that english guy .... on ITV ?

Vanessa · 21-08-2016, 09:31 PM

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Originally Posted by belle777

Bear has set the tone to how he may be treated by the way he treats the housemates .
he has chosen a particular way as his game plan. playing a game of wearing them down, demoralising them. making them seem whiney, and subdued by comparison.getting himself undeserved viewing time. you have to see beyond the immediate facade. what are his motives. what is his gain ? tbh most of the time now i just switch the volume down or switch to another channel as soon as he starts a new conflict . who wants to watch people fighting and arguing ? toxicity. not I!
big brother is going to shoot themselves in the foot if they think y=they are gaining viewers by displaying such behaviour. its going to end up like the Jerry Springfield show or whats the name of that english guy .... on ITV ?

Hi Lilie!

rusticgal · 21-08-2016, 10:37 PM

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Originally Posted by belle777

Bear has set the tone to how he may be treated by the way he treats the housemates .
he has chosen a particular way as his game plan. playing a game of wearing them down, demoralising them. making them seem whiney, and subdued by comparison.getting himself undeserved viewing time. you have to see beyond the immediate facade. what are his motives. what is his gain ? tbh most of the time now i just switch the volume down or switch to another channel as soon as he starts a new conflict . who wants to watch people fighting and arguing ? toxicity. not I!
big brother is going to shoot themselves in the foot if they think y=they are gaining viewers by displaying such behaviour. its going to end up like the Jerry Springfield show or whats the name of that english guy .... on ITV ?

Well said.

Kazanne · 21-08-2016, 10:42 PM

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Originally Posted by jet

This takes the biscuit. It really does. Bear has bullied and tried to degrade most of the HM's (who have feelings too!) when he had his little squad around him, now that they are getting booted one by one out he is showing how diminished he is without his support group. So poor likkle Bear is now being seen as a victim because he was told a few home truths. You couldn't make it up.

wendywillow · 22-08-2016, 12:20 AM

this is the twilight zone. bear is being bullied. ok

Vicky. · 22-08-2016, 12:25 AM

Been going on for ages tbh. But he takes it well...choses to be more ****ing annoying instead of taking it to heart. Viewers say 'he brought it on himself so we care not' and such, but its not very nice to watch tbh even if you dislike the person on the receiving end

Tom4784 · 22-08-2016, 12:30 AM

It's not down to his victims to wrap him up in cotton wool and be considerate of his feelings when he's been awful to them for weeks. He alienated himself, it's karma.

Ammi · 22-08-2016, 05:15 AM

..I still don't see or get 'ganged up on', with that task...he was chosen first by one person/Aubrey to speak about..(and actually it was quite gentle ..)...and then James had to follow with the same person/and back to Aubrey because that was the task requirement...he was interrupting and interjecting all through the task anyway because he always wants the attention, so he seemed quite happy that he was getting it and again, all about him...it's really noticeable how audibly loud he gets when there's lots going on, like at party celebrations etc to grab attention over everything else and he'll elevate himself onto a table or something ..just always having to stand out and be the centre...

..anyways, he was awful last night again with Renee...it's not really 'humour' to wind people up to anger points the way he does and then not even respect that anger and emotion you've brought, but rather to laugh at it and would be incredible annoying to anyone to have their emotions purposefully brought to the surface through winding up and then be laughed at...sadly there is often a trend of trying to mask nastiness under the guise of humour and throwing it at the other person for becoming upset (so long as we say it in a humorous way and are 'edgy' and make people laugh/we can be awful..).../there is no honesty in that...and humour is always subjective anyway..a 'joke' that can only be had at the expense of the feelings of others and their misery is not something that I find funny....hahaha I upset them/I got a reaction/how funny....if you're funny then you're funny and funny in your own right, you don't need to cause misery to others to be that 'funny person' an not a 'funny' I have any admiration for....

JTM45 · 22-08-2016, 05:20 AM

He's still the person who's carried the whole series and i think he's gonna' walk out of the house as the winner.
He's the only person in there that has done enough to deserve the title!

hijaxers · 22-08-2016, 05:33 AM

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Originally Posted by JTM45

He's still the person who's carried the whole series and i think he's gonna' walk out of the house as the winner.
He's the only person in there that has done enough to deserve the title!

He hasn't carried the series , he's ambushed it and BB have made a massive mistake in allowing him to do so , plenty of us are sick to death of the same childish, nasty behaviour day after day , its now become monotonous . I would think every bully in the country has picked up some very handy tips from him , so no moaning from parents who's kids get bullied - its entertainment you know and its funny !

Paula D · 22-08-2016, 08:18 AM

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Originally Posted by jet

This takes the biscuit. It really does. Bear has bullied and tried to degrade most of the HM's (who have feelings too!) when he had his little squad around him, now that they are getting booted one by one out he is showing how diminished he is without his support group. So poor likkle Bear is now being seen as a victim because he was told a few home truths. You couldn't make it up.

Absolutely, this is another ploy to get Bear to win and I think he will actually but he doesn't deserve it.

Then again, I don't really know who does deserve it, except maybe Renee or Aubrey?

Paula D · 22-08-2016, 08:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Ammi

..I still don't see or get 'ganged up on', with that task...he was chosen first by one person/Aubrey to speak about..(and actually it was quite gentle ..)...and then James had to follow with the same person/and back to Aubrey because that was the task requirement...he was interrupting and interjecting all through the task anyway because he always wants the attention, so he seemed quite happy that he was getting it and again, all about him...it's really noticeable how audibly loud he gets when there's lots going on, like at party celebrations etc to grab attention over everything else and he'll elevate himself onto a table or something ..just always having to stand out and be the centre...

..anyways, he was awful last night again with Renee...it's not really 'humour' to wind people up to anger points the way he does and then not even respect that anger and emotion you've brought, but rather to laugh at it and would be incredible annoying to anyone to have their emotions purposefully brought to the surface through winding up and then be laughed at...sadly there is often a trend of trying to mask nastiness under the guise of humour and throwing it at the other person for becoming upset (so long as we say it in a humorous way and are 'edgy' and make people laugh/we can be awful..).../there is no honesty in that...and humour is always subjective anyway..a 'joke' that can only be had at the expense of the feelings of others and their misery is not something that I find funny....hahaha I upset them/I got a reaction/how funny....if you're funny then you're funny and funny in your own right, you don't need to cause misery to others to be that 'funny person' an not a 'funny' I have any admiration for....

Couldn't have put it better.

Vanessa · 22-08-2016, 08:20 AM

[QUOTE=Vicky.;8933227]Been going on for ages tbh. But he takes it well...choses to be more ****ing annoying instead of taking it to heart. Viewers say 'he brought it on himself so we care not' and such, but its not very nice to watch tbh even if you dislike the person on the receiving end

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He deals with it so well. Never takes it personally, instead he just does his own thing.

belle777 · 23-08-2016, 10:50 PM

JTM45 "He's still the person who's carried the whole series and i think he's gonna' walk out of the house as the winner.
He's the only person in there that has done enough to deserve the title!"

are you joking me ? a bully to win ? what message does that send ? is that the kind of country we want ? where bullies get rewarded!

i hope he gets close enough to nearly taste it , but never get close enough to bite.