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T* · 17-05-2015, 05:18 PM

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Aaron then said: "But I could be a girl. I could be a drag queen for you."

im crying omfg

Northern Monkey · 17-05-2015, 05:21 PM

Jeez!And people think Danny is a sex pest??
And people slated Jack for watching the girls train??

Heaven = Winner · 17-05-2015, 05:35 PM

pahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

Liam- · 17-05-2015, 05:37 PM

Vom

Jamesy · 17-05-2015, 05:51 PM

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"He'd be like 'Aaron bend over' and I would be like 'yes sir'. I joke… even though you're 19…. I'd call him Sir. I'd do everything for him… I'd be your bitch. How would you feel about that if I was a girl?"

Jamesy · 17-05-2015, 05:52 PM

Aaron going down in my books.

I know gays can be pervs over straight guys although that comment is a bit

joeysteele · 17-05-2015, 05:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Raph

If that was a man saying that to a woman, it wouldn't be classed as okay. It's rather vulgar of Aaron to speak in such a manner to Joel - especially given that he's younger than him (although really, regardless).

As for Joel's sexuality, yes during auditions when we spoke I did question it, but ultimately it's important to take his word for it, in such a situation. If he's telling Aaron he's 'straight', then Aaron should respect that, instead of trying to use his homosexuality as a shield to speak to Joel in the way in which he did.

I agree with all that.

Natalie. · 17-05-2015, 05:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Jack_

here for it

I said this on launch night and people started insinuating I was being homophobic. I meant it as a compliment, if he is anything like Craig he will be amazing

Yea, Craig is my favourite male housemate

lily. · 17-05-2015, 05:58 PM

If this turns into Craig/Anthony MK II .. it will be BRILLIANT. That was one of the funniest messes in BB history.

joeysteele · 17-05-2015, 05:59 PM

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Originally Posted by lily.

If this turns into Craig/Anthony MK II .. it will be BRILLIANT. That was one of the funniest messes in BB history.

That's true as well.

Raph · 17-05-2015, 06:08 PM

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Originally Posted by joeysteele

I agree with all that.

Thanks joey, just trying to make sense of the situation. It's a shame Aaron feels it's okay to talk to Joel like that.

Vanessa · 17-05-2015, 06:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Raph

Thanks joey, just trying to make sense of the situation. It's a shame Aaron feels it's okay to talk to Joel like that.

It's not right. If he was a man saying that to a woman he would get in trouble.

lily. · 17-05-2015, 06:12 PM

There are always double standards though. If a man was going on about pussy as much as Adjoa does, the viewers would hate it.

Raph · 17-05-2015, 06:15 PM

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Originally Posted by lily.

There are always double standards though. If a man was going on about pussy as much as Adjoa does, the viewers would hate it.

In my opinion, there's an inherent difference. Adios talks about liking pussy - which is entirely fine. She likes pussy and she should have every right to talk about it, as its just a form of expression for her. As for Aaron, he's not saying 'I like dick' -- he's effectlvely imposing his own sexual desires on Joel, without respecting the fact that Joel has strongly insinuated that he's not interested.

Northern Monkey · 17-05-2015, 06:15 PM

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Originally Posted by lily.

There are always double standards though. If a man was going on about pussy as much as Adjoa does, the viewers would hate it.

Adjoa has basically given the men a free pass to talk about pussy as much as they want now though.If anyone complains then everyone will be like 'well look what Adjoa said".

lily. · 17-05-2015, 06:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Raph

In my opinion, there's an inherent difference. Adios talks about liking pussy - which is entirely fine. She likes pussy and she should have every right to talk about it, as its just a form of expression for her. As for Aaron, he's not saying 'I like dick' -- he's effectlvely imposing his own sexual desires on Joel, without respecting the fact that Joel has strongly insinuated that he's not interested.

Oh yeah, I don't think the two situations are the same in any way. I should have clarified that in my post.

I was just making an observation about double standards. They exist everywhere.

waterhog · 17-05-2015, 06:17 PM

i think now joel has said it - it will be a good idea if arron calls it - but i have a feeling it is going to go very wrong for arron.

Raph · 17-05-2015, 06:19 PM

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Originally Posted by lily.

Oh yeah, I don't think the two situations are the same in any way. I should have clarified that in my post.

I was just making an observation about double standards. They exist everywhere.

Fair, fair. You're right and its a shame. That being said, hopefully discussions like this on the forum will help (even in the smallest possible way) to step away from the gender binary and its social constructs.

Firewire · 17-05-2015, 06:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Raph

Yeah? Please tell me in what way, we're all always trying to learn and educate ourselves and if there was something inherently homophobic in my post, I'd really like to be called out on it. I have my views but I'm always seeking to better my views

Joel was present for the conversation and was okay with the conversation topic, so I don't think Aaron overstepped. Had Joel not been there and Aaron make comments like that, then, yes, I would agree that it was in bad taste.

Joel's sexuality being a talking point isn't a bad thing, because no one is using it against him. Joel says he's straight, then he might be, but speculating otherwise isn't inappropriate unless it's being used against him. And in this case, it isn't. People want this relationship to happen, so I don't feel like Aaron isn't using his sexuality as a shield... (what does that mean?)

I know you have met Joel and you have a better grasp of him than I do, but I just don't feel like Aaron is in the wrong as he isn't forcing his sexuality on him.

I don't mean to criticise you, Raph... just analysing your post

lily. · 17-05-2015, 06:58 PM

Raph, you have met Joel? I did not know this.

uniquedude · 17-05-2015, 08:18 PM

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Originally Posted by adamski94

Aaron is disgusting had a "straight" man said this there would be no end slating him but because its a gay person then its perfectly OK I'm sorry but its not OK its bang out of order

People are slating him on this very thread lol