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15-12-2017, 02:00 PM | #26 | |||
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The police wouldn't have to withhold evidence to get rape figures up... That would suggest that women are not being raped daily and they are.
I don't like this, the attempt is to undermine public confidence in both the police and the justice systems in rape cases....Hmmmm, very odd indeed.
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15-12-2017, 02:00 PM | #27 | |||
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where is The Truth when we need him to make sense of this mess?
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15-12-2017, 02:03 PM | #28 | |||
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15-12-2017, 02:30 PM | #29 | ||
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Really shocking, thankfully barely just exposed in time however the devastation to this lad's life is a disgrace. I agree she should be prosecuted. I really hope he can now lift himself up in time and confidently live his life from now on. |
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15-12-2017, 02:34 PM | #30 | |||
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15-12-2017, 02:47 PM | #31 | ||
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Rape conviction stats are very low, though, especially in comparison to rape allegation stats... and even in comparison to how often charges go ahead.
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15-12-2017, 04:02 PM | #32 | ||
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Still cannot make any sense of the polices actions in all of this.
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15-12-2017, 04:11 PM | #33 | ||
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But yeah, reading that again it sounds basically like the sexual encounter happened, she talked (favourably) about it to friends afterwards and messaged him multiple times about hooking up again, was turned down, and then reported the initial hook-up as not being consensual... |
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15-12-2017, 04:22 PM | #34 | ||
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Seems the total opposite happened in this one case
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15-12-2017, 04:24 PM | #35 | |||
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there are a few possible explanations, my top 2 would be - meeting targets set for the department or the chap had previous history with the police that they didn't get a conviction for so were balancing things up
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15-12-2017, 04:25 PM | #36 | |||
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I wouldn't rule out her knowing someone dealing with it
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15-12-2017, 04:30 PM | #37 | ||
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I'd imagine that it totally depends on the various prejudices of the officers directly involved and also the personalities and circumstances of the suspect and claimant. It shouldn't... but I'm sure it does.
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16-12-2017, 05:46 AM | #38 | |||
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regardless I was perfectly aware it was in relation to convictions thank you, I didn't need that explaining to me .
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16-12-2017, 07:42 AM | #39 | ||
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And given that you seemed to be questioning "why they would need to resort to underhand tactics to raise conviction stats", when genuine incidences of rape happen every day, it sort of seems like you did need that explained to you . |
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16-12-2017, 02:11 PM | #40 | |||
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I'm not questioning it... it was an entirely rhetorical question. They wouldn't have to resort to that the force a conviction.That was my point, having said that why are you trawling after me again in a vain attempt to interpret what I say? Are you really so short sighted to suggest that unless there are witnesses it is impossible to assess if a woman has been raped?... This is a prime example of my issue in another thread you accused me of having no direct experience from which to draw a conclusion on one issue and concluded my input was irrelevant... and here you are voicing how difficult it is for a woman to prove she was raped :/ I will make myself very clear to you to prevent you feeling the need to school me on my own points. There are cases where it is very obvious a woman has been raped without witnesses, that was my point here. I am aware of the difficulty in securing a conviction in cases of date rape or historical abuse.
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16-12-2017, 02:16 PM | #41 | |||
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Looking at stats a couple of very disturbing figures just leapt out...
Rape Crisis England & Wales headline statistics 2016-17 Where age is known, 2,651 were aged 15 or under, an increase of 55% on last year; those aged under 25 represented 36% of service users. Over 30 times more children reported multiple assaults than last year - 904 compared with 29 in 2015-16. That is a really shocking and frightening jump! https://rapecrisis.org.uk/statistics.php
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16-12-2017, 02:46 PM | #42 | ||
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Why am I "trawling after you" when you laid out some quite blatant sarcastic bait in your own post? You even put it in italics . You might think that you can be snarky and leave it ambiguous enough that I'm not going to call you out on it or... Something... But I think it'll save us a lot of time if I just point out that you're wrong there. If you choose to "call me out", I'm gonna respond, and I'm not going to drop it or pretend that I don't know exactly what you were doing . Sooo if you don't want to be "trawled after", you might want to reign in the snippy sarcasm. Either that, or stop complaining about it. Or neither and I'll merrily "trawl along". Would be lying if I said I care either way.
As for "why do I feel qualified to point out that rape is difficult to prove"? Because there is a mountain of statistical evidence that demonstrates without question that it is difficult to prove. If you can't see how that's different to your opinion that "games reduce empathy cos Kizzy thinks games probably reduce empathy", then I really can't help you, and nor can anyone else. |
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16-12-2017, 03:44 PM | #43 | |||
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You used italics in your initial response to me, were you being snarky? The comment you made was not in relation to any stats or evidence it was directed at myself personally... that I was not a gamer or a game developer therefore my comments were irrelevant, and yet here you are not with any actual evidence for your claim other than the great TS chose to impart his knowledge on the subject. Not once did I make any reference to empathy,so you have not only misinterpreted me but you're now misquoting me too in your quest to mansplain my own views to me! Bravo! You've surpassed yourself.
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16-12-2017, 04:26 PM | #44 | ||
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16-12-2017, 04:54 PM | #45 | |||
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16-12-2017, 07:40 PM | #46 | ||
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16-12-2017, 07:45 PM | #47 | ||
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Basically Kizzy, it seems like you've decided that I can't respond to any of your posts to disagree in any way, because doing so is apparently me "trawling you" or trying to "mansplain". It's neither. It's me thinking you're incorrect and stating my own opinion. But this is a discussion forum, and that's what it's for, so if you don't like it... I'm afraid it's straight up tough ****. I'm going to keep doing it, no matter how many times you bleat "mansplaining" at me or accuse me of singling you out or "trawling" your posts in an attempt to shut down criticism of them.
I'm not really interested in the snidiness or the whining so I'm going to leave this here, and carry on as I have been. |
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16-12-2017, 08:41 PM | #48 | |||
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Everything is consensual up and until one person says 'no'. My partner could play that rape game with me or have rough sex with me right up to the point of me saying 'no' or using a previously arranged safe word. If I call out that safe word, then he must stop because if he doesn't, he could find himself up on a charge in a court of law. Remember, we all have the right to change our mind at any given moment. A fantasy is nothing more than a sexual desire and if you are going to make it reality, you better make sure you have enough control to stop that fantasy when things start going Pete Tonge.
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16-12-2017, 08:50 PM | #49 | |||
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I wasn't being snarky, my use of the word explain was a direct reference to you mansplaining , I've come to expect it from you now.
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16-12-2017, 08:54 PM | #50 | |||
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