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M X
14-08-2009, 08:37 PM
In July, I posted a thread in which I said my mum's cousin Shirley had cancer and was dying - and the doctors gave her only a few weeks to live.

Well, exactly a week ago today she died and today was her funeral. It's been honestly one of the saddest days of my life. She is leaving behind two children, Rachel (17) and Ross (14) and she was only 44. About 150 people turned up but it was still so intimate and the priest was great. I cried so much during the funeral (more because i felt so sorry for her children and admired their bravery).. there were some really heartwarming speeches and she was such a great person. When the coffin was lowered and the curtains were closed her daughter Rachel just burst into tears and starting sobbing, that made me cry even more. Ross just kept his head down during the whole service, crying. I can't imagine what they must be feeling.

R.I.P Shirley, you will never be forgotten.

and I also posted that my auntie Doreen had swine flu.

Well, she has now recovered so that ends that :|

Anyway, just thought I would post this because you were all really supportive when I told you guys about them.

Braden
14-08-2009, 08:39 PM
:(
i'm really sorry to here about this
i hope your auntie doreen gets better :sad:

M X
14-08-2009, 08:41 PM
Originally posted by BradenMaccie
:(
i'm really sorry to here about this
i hope your auntie doreen gets better :sad: Thanks.
& she's already better. :hello:

Tom
14-08-2009, 09:06 PM
Even when you know they're going to die its still always a massive shock when they actually do. Hope you're all OK :flowers:

JOSHUAH!
14-08-2009, 09:15 PM
RIP

BlackOrWhite
14-08-2009, 09:17 PM
Sorry to hear that. :sad: Always sad especially when young kids are left without a mother.

bronaaaa
14-08-2009, 09:19 PM
Aww sorry to hear that :( :hug:

\PJ/
14-08-2009, 09:32 PM
:sad:Such a shame.

MrGaryy
14-08-2009, 09:34 PM
Ross and Rachel - was that deliberate or just coincidental.

MrGaryy
14-08-2009, 09:35 PM
Ross and Rachel - was that deliberate or just coincidental?

MrGaryy
14-08-2009, 09:35 PM
Ross and Rachel - was that deliberate or just coincidental?

Dom:D
14-08-2009, 09:44 PM
Omg that is so sad:sad:
When my auntie died she left her two kids who were only 8

M X
14-08-2009, 09:47 PM
Originally posted by MrGaryy
Ross and Rachel - was that deliberate or just coincidental? I still don't undersand what you meant after the third time.

MrGaryy
14-08-2009, 10:08 PM
friends ref, obv :p

Z
14-08-2009, 10:24 PM
Aw Michael I'm sorry for your loss :(. At least she got the chance to say her goodbyes to her family, and even though it's not fair that she died, she was given that blessing! I hope your family pulls through this!

M X
14-08-2009, 11:36 PM
Thanks Zee.

BBUK4LYFE
14-08-2009, 11:54 PM
Sorry. :sad:

Christina
15-08-2009, 12:24 AM
Funerals are so upsetting.. :( Hope you're okay and RIP to Shirley she seemed extremley brave :hug:

Princess
15-08-2009, 12:29 AM
RIP

Hope you're going to alright :hug: