A thread for the broken hearted!

[InOne]

Well if anyone has had the pain of love they will know what this thread is about. :( It's not good. Getting you heart broken makes you think love does not exist, do you not think?

[Niamh.]

aawww, poor you :(

[bansheewails]

A heart break hotel thread for the love bereft!

[Novo]

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[Niamh.]

'tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all................

[MassiveTruck]

'tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all................

Yeah...

Don't you look back at your relationships with fondness? I do.

I guess it's different from person to person and what they aim to find in a relationship but I look back with fondness over all.

[Niamh.]

Every broken relationship teaches you something to make your next one better

[Jackie]

Thanks for starting this thread only this week i've decided to seperate from my husband after 21 years loads of issues that i won't go into i have one song on my mind which is "Too late to apoligize":bawling:

[Niamh.]

Thanks for starting this thread only this week i've decided to seperate from my husband after 21 years loads of issues that i won't go into i have one song on my mind which is "Too late to apoligize":bawling:

wow, 21 years! That's got to have been a tough decision to have made

[arsenalforever]

Especially when your still in love with the person who did the dumping
My last Gf who broke up with me was in my Film Studies class and damn i saw her everyday and she got with another guy in class. That was a killer

[Niamh.]

Especially when your still in love with the person who did the dumping
My last Gf who broke up with me was in my Film Studies class and damn i saw her everyday and she got with another guy in class. That was a killer

aaww, thats terrible, you can't get over someone if you have to see them everyday

[arsenalforever]

Especially when your still in love with the person who did the dumping
My last Gf who broke up with me was in my Film Studies class and damn i saw her everyday and she got with another guy in class. That was a killer

aaww, thats terrible, you can't get over someone if you have to see them everyday

especially when you can't stand each other and its so uneasy ut loking back on it, it's funny.

[Niamh.]

Yeah, I suppose so, my parents have to work together and they are separated 4 years after being married 30, a bit uncomfortable at times....

[arsenalforever]

Yeah, I suppose so, my parents have to work together and they are separated 4 years after being married 30, a bit uncomfortable at times....

thats tough

i wouldn't be able to do it
its uncomfortable to be in the middle of people who broke
sometimes they want you to pick sides

[Niamh.]

Yeah, I suppose so, my parents have to work together and they are separated 4 years after being married 30, a bit uncomfortable at times....

thats tough

i wouldn't be able to do it
its uncomfortable to be in the middle of people who broke
sometimes they want you to pick sides


well, it was very easy to pick sides in my case!! Though I wasn't expected to!

[arsenalforever]

Yeah, I suppose so, my parents have to work together and they are separated 4 years after being married 30, a bit uncomfortable at times....

thats tough

i wouldn't be able to do it
its uncomfortable to be in the middle of people who broke
sometimes they want you to pick sides


well, it was very easy to pick sides in my case!! Though I wasn't expected to!

my parents have been happily married for 35 years so i'm happy i didn't end up been in that situation.

i had a bad situation when my best friend's wife left him for my cousin.
i tell you that was real bad

[Niamh.]

Really?? Oh, that must have been very awkward for you. My dad had an affair with a girl the same age as my younger brother, :yuk: so, needless to say, I took my moms side

[arsenalforever]

Really?? Oh, that must have been very awkward for you. My dad had an affair with a girl the same age as my younger brother, :yuk: so, needless to say, I took my moms side

That must of been tough for your mum. i wouldn't blame you feeling like that. what age was your brother?

My cousin didn't feel sorry either did my best friends wife
christ they always come for christmas dinner we have with the whole family. we always try very hard to avoid one another. Its funy but so uncomfortable

[Niamh.]

Very tough, but she's such a strong woman, I have unbelievable respect for her. My dad was 51 and this girl was 24. They're living together now (though he did try to get back with my mom after but she wasn't having any of it).

I don't understand people like that, I can't imagine how people can be so cruel to not even seem to feel bad afterwards

[arsenalforever]

Very tough, but she's such a strong woman, I have unbelievable respect for her. My dad was 51 and this girl was 24. They're living together now (though he did try to get back with my mom after but she wasn't having any of it).

I don't understand people like that, I can't imagine how people can be so cruel to not even seem to feel bad afterwards

For older men having a young woman chase after them makes them feel young again and they think they have to relieve their youth again. Some of those young girls are usually with them cause

a) they have daddy issue's
or
b) they want a sugar Daddy

i was shocked thast his mum seemed okay with it but it spilt the family in terms of inviting him and her to family functions.

[Niamh.]

Very tough, but she's such a strong woman, I have unbelievable respect for her. My dad was 51 and this girl was 24. They're living together now (though he did try to get back with my mom after but she wasn't having any of it).

I don't understand people like that, I can't imagine how people can be so cruel to not even seem to feel bad afterwards

For older men having a young woman chase after them makes them feel young again and they think they have to relieve their youth again. Some of those young girls are usually with them cause

a) they have daddy issue's
or
b) they want a sugar Daddy

i was shocked thast his mum seemed okay with it but it spilt the family in terms of inviting him and her to family functions.

Well, I have my hubby warned that if he decides to have a mid-life crisis, buy a sports car ffs!!! Course I always tell him that he's waaaaay older than me anyway so he doesn't need a younger girl haha!

[arsenalforever]

:joker: your hubby is right about the Sports car

It seems less rare these days seen older guys with younger girls
cause they take these older guys clubbing with them. I'm shocked cause here in Dublin a few years back it was so shocking but now everyones cool with it

[Niamh.]

:joker: your hubby is right about the Sports car

It seems less rare these days seen older guys with younger girls
cause they take these older guys clubbing with them. I'm shocked cause here in Dublin a few years back it was so shocking but now everyones cool with it

haha, my hubby is only 5 years older than me really. I do think 27 years (in my dads case) is a bit much. My dad is a grandad ffs!!

[arsenalforever]

:joker: your hubby is right about the Sports car

It seems less rare these days seen older guys with younger girls
cause they take these older guys clubbing with them. I'm shocked cause here in Dublin a few years back it was so shocking but now everyones cool with it

haha, my hubby is only 5 years older than me really. I do think 27 years (in my dads case) is a bit much. My dad is a grandad ffs!!

my Gf is 19 and i'm 26 but its not a big matter for us

i wouldn't like to know my dad was with a girl i was older then

[Tom]

relationships are just stupid

[Niamh.]

:joker: your hubby is right about the Sports car

It seems less rare these days seen older guys with younger girls
cause they take these older guys clubbing with them. I'm shocked cause here in Dublin a few years back it was so shocking but now everyones cool with it

haha, my hubby is only 5 years older than me really. I do think 27 years (in my dads case) is a bit much. My dad is a grandad ffs!!

my Gf is 19 and i'm 26 but its not a big matter for us

i wouldn't like to know my dad was with a girl i was older then

Thats only 7 years though, thats not much and I do think a guy being a few years older is better cos guys tend to need those extra few years of maturing and settling lol!! (no offense!) but 27 years hhhmmm noo

[arsenalforever]

:joker: your hubby is right about the Sports car

It seems less rare these days seen older guys with younger girls
cause they take these older guys clubbing with them. I'm shocked cause here in Dublin a few years back it was so shocking but now everyones cool with it

haha, my hubby is only 5 years older than me really. I do think 27 years (in my dads case) is a bit much. My dad is a grandad ffs!!

my Gf is 19 and i'm 26 but its not a big matter for us

i wouldn't like to know my dad was with a girl i was older then

Thats only 7 years though, thats not much and I do think a guy being a few years older is better cos guys tend to need those extra few years of maturing and settling lol!! (no offense!) but 27 years hhhmmm noo

i agree i know i'm still a big baby at time:joker:
she's the stable one not me

i agree 27 years is a bit much especially when someone's married to boot

[Niamh.]

relationships are just stupid




lol, I wouldn't say that!! I've been with my hubby 6 years and he's great :lovedup:

[arsenalforever]

relationships are just stupid




lol, I wouldn't say that!! I've been with my hubby 6 years and he's great :lovedup:

aww thats sweet:lovedup:

depends who you hook up with
if you know the person is flaky or your not connected with them you have probelms up ahead

[Niamh.]

relationships are just stupid




lol, I wouldn't say that!! I've been with my hubby 6 years and he's great :lovedup:

aww thats sweet:lovedup:

depends who you hook up with
if you know the person is flaky or your not connected with them you have probelms up ahead

Definately, My ex (before my hubby) I was with for 2 and a half years and that was disasterous!!!

[arsenalforever]

relationships are just stupid




lol, I wouldn't say that!! I've been with my hubby 6 years and he's great :lovedup:

aww thats sweet:lovedup:

depends who you hook up with
if you know the person is flaky or your not connected with them you have probelms up ahead

Definately, My ex (before my hubby) I was with for 2 and a half years and that was disasterous!!!

we all have are bad ones in the closet
i' was with a girl who smashed up my tv on me

[Niamh.]

seriously!!! What did you do to her??? Or was she just a pyscho lol!!?

[arsenalforever]

seriously!!! What did you do to her??? Or was she just a pyscho lol!!?

yep she flung it to the floor
no it was an arguement over me working too much
had too to pay off the rent

[Niamh.]

seriously!!! What did you do to her??? Or was she just a pyscho lol!!?

yep she flung it to the floor
no it was an arguement over me working too much
had too to pay off the rent

Oh no!! Me and my ex had some blazing arguments as well. Gav (my hubby) and me rarly argue and they never get crazy like that, thank God!

[Beastie]

I have never really had my heart broken. Im still with my boyfriend who I first fell in love with. I hope we last!

[Niamh.]

I have never really had my heart broken. Im still with my boyfriend who I first fell in love with. I hope we last!

lucky you!!! How long have ye been together?

[Beastie]

I have never really had my heart broken. Im still with my boyfriend who I first fell in love with. I hope we last!

lucky you!!! How long have ye been together?

It will be 2 years this November :D

[Niamh.]

I have never really had my heart broken. Im still with my boyfriend who I first fell in love with. I hope we last!

lucky you!!! How long have ye been together?

It will be 2 years this November :D

Good for you :thumbs: If it's meant to be it will last!

[arsenalforever]

seriously!!! What did you do to her??? Or was she just a pyscho lol!!?

yep she flung it to the floor
no it was an arguement over me working too much
had too to pay off the rent

Oh no!! Me and my ex had some blazing arguments as well. Gav (my hubby) and me rarly argue and they never get crazy like that, thank God!

i had fights cause i just back of all the time cause i'm not a real in your face person. she knew how push my buttons in a fight

[Beastie]

I have never really had my heart broken. Im still with my boyfriend who I first fell in love with. I hope we last!

lucky you!!! How long have ye been together?

It will be 2 years this November :D

Good for you :thumbs: If it's meant to be it will last!

Yeah I am really happy now and as long as I am happy now that is all that matters!

[Niamh.]

seriously!!! What did you do to her??? Or was she just a pyscho lol!!?

yep she flung it to the floor
no it was an arguement over me working too much
had too to pay off the rent

Oh no!! Me and my ex had some blazing arguments as well. Gav (my hubby) and me rarly argue and they never get crazy like that, thank God!

i had fights cause i just back of all the time cause i'm not a real in your face person. she knew how push my buttons in a fight

I know what you mean, I hate fighting as well but my ex was a p**ck!! Gav is very laid back and easy going!

[arsenalforever]

well your very lucky or rather he is having you
:wink:

[Niamh.]

well your very lucky or rather he is having you
:wink:

Lol, yes he is haha!!

[arsenalforever]

well your very lucky or rather he is having you
:wink:

Lol, yes he is haha!!

they should call this the Niamhxo and Arsenalforever gosssip thread:joker:

[Niamh.]

well your very lucky or rather he is having you
:wink:

Lol, yes he is haha!!

they should call this the Niamhxo and Arsenalforever gosssip thread:joker:

hehe, I know!! Anyway, I have to go feed my moms cats!! Talk to you later! :hug:

[arsenalforever]

well your very lucky or rather he is having you
:wink:

Lol, yes he is haha!!

they should call this the Niamhxo and Arsenalforever gosssip thread:joker:

hehe, I know!! Anyway, I have to go feed my moms cats!! Talk to you later! :hug:

bye bye :thumbs:

[Tom]

relationships are just stupid




lol, I wouldn't say that!! I've been with my hubby 6 years and he's great :lovedup:

Depends who you're with I suppose, I've just come out of a relationship with a complete psycho slag, although thats probably karma for the way I got with her ...

[GypsyGoth]

I dislike anyone with the same name as someone who broke my heart. I know its a bit irrational but I can't help it.

[Chantel]

I had my heart broken this year :bawling:

puts me off ever wanting another relationship again

[blue-stairs-rock-x]

I dislike anyone with the same name as someone who broke my heart. I know its a bit irrational but I can't help it.

I wouldnt say thats irrational.Sometimes i like people just for thier names!

[Beastie]

I dislike anyone with the same name as someone who broke my heart. I know its a bit irrational but I can't help it.

Lol. I know what you mean. Well.. its like when I think in my head.. ooo what names would I call my children (in the future), if I know someone with a name I liked but they are not a very nice person then I immediately go off that name. It's a bit bizzare.

[GypsyGoth]

Also one of my exjerk boyfriends is called David, and that is a ridiculously common name. So in books, movies and real life I'm usually not fond of them.