So is Tom gay or not?

[kistar]

He said on his VT he prefered to get intimate with girls ? Could we all be missing the real big brother romance him and Alex?

[The Human Santapede]

He is bisexual, and Alex has said she fancies nobody in that house, so I don't think there is a romance there, just a very close friendship.

[Livia]

He is bisexual. When he wants sex, he has to buy it.

[alex_front2]

I don't know, I am shocked by Tom's alleged attraction to females. He just seems gay. No offence to bi people but I will admit I am suspicious about bisexual people (male and female) and reckon they all prefer men. But Tom knows what he likes so I won't question it.

[alex_front2]

Bi now, gay later!

[The Human Santapede]

He is bisexual. When he wants sex, he has to buy it.

Oh, Jay can earn a few quid whilst in the house then! :hugesmile:

[fruit_cake]

He is bisexual. When he wants sex, he has to buy it.

:laugh2:

[kistar]

So he says he is bi sexual so he doesnt have to admit to being gay? oh bless him thats sweet in a wierd kind off way.

[fruit_cake]

Oh, Jay can earn a few quid whilst in the house then! :hugesmile:

is Jay bi? I thought he might be when he went in at first

[G1dds]

as an old Bi (from college) friend of mine once said, he "could go to a nightclub and always go home with someone"

yes, yes - he was indeed a dirty so and so back then :D

[Livia]

Oh, Jay can earn a few quid whilst in the house then! :hugesmile:

Yeah, I'm not fan of Tom, but I think he'd have to be pretty desperate...

[alex_front2]

So he says he is bi sexual so he doesnt have to admit to being gay? oh bless him thats sweet in a wierd kind off way.

I strongly suspect Tom said he's bi so that he gets in the house over the other gay male applicants - claiming he's attracted to women means the producers think he has more showmance ie female possiblities. They put NO other 'out' males with homosexual leanings so they are just 'ticking a diversity' LGBT box. It's as if C5 are saying Tom can still have a BB romance...with a woman, just not a guy.

When I saw Jays' VT I really really really wanted him to be gay, just to be a different kind of gay man. I might have even forgiven Jay's 'freezer' indiscretion had he been gay or bi.

[fruit_cake]

He does seem have that really, nasty bitchy streak that often appears in gay men

[Jesus.]

He's as gay as a window. He's probably using bi-sexual as a way of breaking it to his family. He's also got a younger brother at school, which can't be easy. He won't end up with a woman in the long term.

[CaudleHalbard]

Tom is in the category I call "Supposedly Bisexual". I.e. 100% gay but wants to keep a foot in the other camp for appearance sake. (Oops... I said camp! ;))

I have an acquaintance who is also in that category. Unfortunately he was was kidding himself as well as other people and he ended up marrying a woman. His divorce came through a week ago!

Tom is probably too camp for many gay men - never mind women!

[alex_front2]

Can't really imagine Tom having a gf or having a good time with one. When they were discussing new housemates with Maisy and Jay he said 'wish they'd bring in a hot guy'. Why not a hot woman?!

[kistar]

What was he doing nibbling Alexs ear lobe then the other day? I cant think of one friend of mine who has ever done that to me , mabe my ears arent nibbleable? nibbley? nibble worthy? maybe my ears arent attractive?

[exoticrosebud]

is Jay bi? I thought he might be when he went in at first



No. he just aint very fussy !

[exoticrosebud]

He's as gay as a window. He's probably using bi-sexual as a way of breaking it to his family. He's also got a younger brother at school, which can't be easy. He won't end up with a woman in the long term.



....is busy wondering what a GAY WINDOW IS ???? lol...please enlighten.....:elephant:

[kistar]

....is busy wondering what a GAY WINDOW IS ???? lol...please enlighten.....:elephant:

Isnt it , you can see right through it ? His gayness that is

[lostalex]

He's less gay than Aaron imo. But they're both gay i think. Tom at least admits being bisexual though, which is half way there. lol Certainly more honest than Aaron.

I think tom is genuinely confused about his sexuality, and is just experimenting right now. Aaron i think is just a liar.

[exoticrosebud]

KISTAR.....i thank you for clearning up that very tricky matter for me lol....will be much more aware now of what to look out for lol....

[In the Drunk Tank]

Yeah, I'm not fan of Tom, but I think he'd have to be pretty desperate...

That's true, Jay would have to be pretty desperate :idc:

[kistar]

He's less gay than Aaron imo. But they're both gay i think. Tom at least admits being bisexual though, which is half way there. lol Certainly more honest than Aaron.

I think tom is genuinely confused about his sexuality, and is just experimenting right now. Aaron i think is just a liar.

You think the resident lothario is gay?

[kistar]

KISTAR.....i thank you for clearning up that very tricky matter for me lol....will be much more aware now of what to look out for lol....

You are welcome (Lets hope I got it right)

[Angus]

He is bisexual. When he wants sex, he has to buy it.


:D:laugh2:

[Mumbles]

I think Tom's asexual and probably a virgin. I can't imagine any man or woman wanting to get sexual with him without feeling a a bit dodgy that they're doing it with what looks like a child.

[alex_front2]

I think Tom's asexual and probably a virgin. I can't imagine any man or woman wanting to get sexual with him without feeling a a bit dodgy that they're doing it with what looks like a child.

I don't know, boy-ish skinny men on the gay scene are quite a popular niche. Think the correct expression is 'twinks'
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Twink_(gay_slang)

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Twink_(gay_slang)


[Alex Front2 proudly smiles at her limited gay culture knowledge]

[CaudleHalbard]

I don't know, boy-ish skinny men on the gay scene are quite a popular niche.

Only cute ones! ;)

Tom is in no way cute. He is quite ugly, has an awful hairstyle and a questionable taste in clothes.

[kistar]

I think Tom's asexual and probably a virgin. I can't imagine any man or woman wanting to get sexual with him without feeling a a bit dodgy that they're doing it with what looks like a child.

I dont think we can tell if he is a virgin or not by looking at him , he doesnt look like a child he looks like a young teenager and they are rampant... apparently.

Asexual is a bit harsh too maybe he wants to hes just not sure which corridor to head for?

[kistar]

Only cute ones! ;)

Tom is in no way cute. He is quite ugly, has an awful hairstyle and a questionable taste in clothes.

He may however give great h**d

[Kore]

As said before only Tom knows what he is, however I think he preferrs men more than women lol

[CaudleHalbard]

He may however give great h**d

But may be true of a lot of mingers and munters however..........

.............. nobody allows them near enough to find out. :joker:

[fruit_cake]

I don't know, boy-ish skinny men on the gay scene are quite a popular niche. Think the correct expression is 'twinks'
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Twink_(gay_slang)
[Alex Front2 proudly smiles at her limited gay culture knowledge]

lol I learnt something new today
:joker:

[kistar]

But may be true of a lot of mingers and munters however..........

.............. nobody allows them near enough to find out. :joker:

Oh my how funny! I could say sooooooo many rude things to that comment however there are children looking at this so I am going to be a good girl and just put a dancing elephant up instead :elephant:

[flamingGalah!]

I think Tom is 100% gay. He came out to his family while in the house as Bi, probably so it would be less shocking than saying he is gay (I did the same) But his family must be incredibly thick if they never had an inkling that Tom was gay! He is camper than Christmas :joker:

And Tom isn't a 'Twink', they are far more attractive... He is what is known as a 'Bitchy Queen' ;)

[fruit_cake]

there sometimes seems as though there might be a bit more than just a friendship between him and Alex though

[iRyan]

Tom is too camp to be bisexual. He probably lied about it just because it makes him sound more "unique" and because he is trying to be like Mika.

[kistar]

I think Tom is 100% gay. He came out to his family while in the house as Bi, probably so it would be less shocking than saying he is gay (I did the same) But his family must be incredibly thick if they never had an inkling that Tom was gay! He is camper than Christmas :joker:

And Tom isn't a 'Twink', they are far more attractive... He is what is known as a 'Bitchy Queen' ;)

Ive just researched twinks and to be honest I cant remember what any one of them looked like not sure what attractive has to do with it..... I need to sit down and do more research......(WOW)

[Mumbles]

I dont think we can tell if he is a virgin or not by looking at him , he doesnt look like a child he looks like a young teenager and they are rampant... apparently.

Asexual is a bit harsh too maybe he wants to hes just not sure which corridor to head for?

I think he looks and acts llike a child - making up silly little songs, playing childish games. And presumably by young teenager you mean 13-15, and that is effectively a child still. I can't imagine anyone being sexually attracted to him, man or woman, without feeling at least a little seedy about it.

[dyfed]

Alex and Tom got very close this evening......what was Alex thinking???

[lostalex]

You think the resident lothario is gay?
How can you call him a lothario when he admits he hasn't had sex with a woman in 7 years?? lol
How many str8 men that are as good looking as Aaron is do you know that would not have sex for 7 years? He's clearly gay.

[kistar]

How can you call him a lothario when he admits he hasn't had sex with a woman in 7 years?? lol
How many str8 men that are as good looking as Aaron is do you know that would not have sex for 7 years? He's clearly gay.

You do know there are many other sexual acts other than penetration?

[flamingGalah!]

How can you call him a lothario when he admits he hasn't had sex with a woman in 7 years?? lol
How many str8 men that are as good looking as Aaron is do you know that would not have sex for 7 years? He's clearly gay.

He may be lying about not having sex of course... I don't see how that makes him 'clearly gay'... :conf:

[kistar]

How can you call him a lothario when he admits he hasn't had sex with a woman in 7 years?? lol
How many str8 men that are as good looking as Aaron is do you know that would not have sex for 7 years? He's clearly gay.

Also he said the last time he had sex with a woman a baby was made and that is why he hasnt done it since , so clearly hes enjoying woman in other ways.

OBVIOUSLY!:xyxwave:

[alex_front2]

How can you call him a lothario when he admits he hasn't had sex with a woman in 7 years?? lol
How many str8 men that are as good looking as Aaron is do you know that would not have sex for 7 years? He's clearly gay.


I must admit this is interesting. Aaron is quite clearly a decent looking guy (best looking man in the house imho),and yes he's camp, but he wouldn't struggle to get women into bed. He'd get women rather easily - despite his flaws.And yet,he's not into it if he hasn't had sex for 7 years. And so I was not 100% sure I believe this 7 year thing, and it's because he is attractive, but then why shouldn't a good looking man not be into sex?

Back to Tom, I must admit I just can't imagine him seducing a woman unless he likes a bit of a very dominant woman for str@p-on action! :laugh3::yuk::shocked:

[exoticrosebud]

Alex and Tom got very close this evening......what was Alex thinking???

i like alex but im not sure THINKING is one of her strong points lol....