View Full Version : Dumped again then or What?
Cromwell1900
26-10-2011, 10:08 PM
I want to meet your Mom
I want a Range Rover
We want such different things, i can't see us together
Yes Massively edited but how did we go from Aaron wanting to Meet Mum to Dumping Faye again all in the space of 1 day max?
Vicky.
26-10-2011, 10:09 PM
He didnt dump her though...he just said they want different things in life...which has been made obvious to him by her recent conversation.
Not every relationship has to be one where you end up being married and have kids, and theres no reason to think that it should be like that...so how you can see this as him dumping her, I really dont know :laugh:
Niamh.
26-10-2011, 10:09 PM
I think it was more to do with the fact she wants kids in 10 years which would make him 40 etc
Cromwell1900
26-10-2011, 10:54 PM
He didnt dump her though...he just said they want different things in life...which has been made obvious to him by her recent conversation.
Yep! Sounded like a Process that you go through if your thinking of a Dumping.
He was the one gazing into the future and considering Kids, in the Dumping process being fair, so i'm not sure where that fact leaves your following reasoning.
Not every relationship has to be one where you end up being married and have kids, and theres no reason to think that it should be like that...
I think it was more to do with the fact she wants kids in 10 years which would make him 40 etc
So he's put off by a revelation that a 19/21 yr old (still aren't sure) doesn't want kids till she's 30. I think that's part of Loving Faye though, it's not unreasonable for a Woman to wait till she's 30 before having kids.
Vicky.
26-10-2011, 11:00 PM
OK rather than spending time writing out a reply(only for me to be told that I am wrong again), I will quote someone elses reply that I agree with 100% as its easier and less time consuming
He didn't say he sees no future with Faye or that he doesn't want to be with her. He confided in the Diary Room (that's what it's there for) that he wasn't sure him and Faye wanted the same things for the future and that he wasn't sure how he felt about that. He didn't say he'd made any decision about whether he wanted to be with her. He hasn't done anything Louise didn't do when telling Big Brother how she felt she had no chemistry with Jay.
If he had just randomly popped out with the comment to Faye saying "oh I'm not sure if we want the same things for the future", he would have left her feeling unnecessarily confused and worried, and I'm sure he'd still be being attacked, this time for being 'cruel and manipulative'. Perhaps, just perhaps, he was employing some tact and getting things off his mind to Big Brother so that he could organise his thoughts without causing any upset to Faye by getting into a serious discussion at an inappropriate time. He didn't make ANY decision about their future, he was just talking about what was worrying him. For all we know he could have been in there for an hour before Faye even came up in the conversation.
And thats me done in here. As this is a thread that will just go round in circles I imagine :)
Cherie
26-10-2011, 11:01 PM
He was quite pissed .....
Cromwell1900
26-10-2011, 11:17 PM
OK rather than spending time writing out a reply(only for me to be told that I am wrong again), I will quote someone elses reply that I agree with 100% as its easier and less time consuming
And thats me done in here. As this is a thread that will just go round in circles I imagine :)
Please feel free to not reply if you feel it would be a waste of time, rather that than find fault with the topic and/or Me the Op. Thanks :thumbs:
rusticgal
26-10-2011, 11:23 PM
Having experienced the venom of Fayes sister and mum....I'd be looking for an easy way out too....
Cromwell1900
26-10-2011, 11:24 PM
He was quite pissed .....
But he's always dumping the girl. and in this instance on the same day as talking about meeting her Mum. It's not right tbh. And smacks of Game Play.
flamingGalah!
26-10-2011, 11:27 PM
But he's always dumping the girl. and in this instance on the same day as talking about meeting her Mum. It's not right tbh. And smacks of Game Play.
But he didn't actually dump her did he? He simply went into the diary room to talk to Big Brother about things he had heard Faye say. What's wrong with that?
Kazanne
26-10-2011, 11:31 PM
Having experienced the venom of Fayes sister and mum....I'd be looking for an easy way out too....
i am surprised to be honest he's put up with faye so long,she is always pushing him on the relationship,I think she is rushing it far too much and to be brutally honest,they say like mother ,like daughter,If I was Aaron i would have moved on weeks ago,shame he likes her so much really,fancy asking him and telling him what he needs to be like with her mom,after her mom had been so nasty the day before,FFS Faye LEAVE the bloke alone,not surprised she hasn't had much luck with boyfriends.
Having experienced the venom of Fayes sister and mum....I'd be looking for an easy way out too....
I agree
It's just a shame it's taken him so long to come to this conclusion
Cromwell1900
26-10-2011, 11:46 PM
Having experienced the venom of Fayes sister and mum....I'd be looking for an easy way out too....
Ok so he's looking for a way to escape the family. And lets assume he decided to seek a way out after talking about meeting the family earlier on the same day.
If he reverses direction & continues to encourage Faye (like after burpgate) it's a clear sign he is using her.
The bloke is horrible at best and God only knows what Faye would make of his DR performances.
Cromwell1900
26-10-2011, 11:53 PM
But he didn't actually dump her did he? He simply went into the diary room to talk to Big Brother about things he had heard Faye say. What's wrong with that?
No your right not exactly,
BB "if these things matter to Faye how are things going to pan out"
Aaron "I don't see that it does"
To me that's decision made.
Btw apologies for last night i think it was you i said "Absolutely Crap" to. i realized later it was uncalled for.
karezza
27-10-2011, 12:29 AM
Faye's horrible mother & sister have put him off her.
Vicky.
27-10-2011, 01:16 AM
Deleted a load of posts in here. Stick to discussing the housemates, not the fans. Cheers
(If your post was deleted and you didnt discuss fans, then you quoted someone that did :p)
He never dumped her though he just pointed out they want different things, also Faye sat there in front of Aaron and said she doesnt want any kids for another 10 years or so and it looked to me like she completely forgot he already has one, if she want's to make a go of the relationship with him outside the house then she will have to be willing to make some commitments regarding his son.
Cromwell1900
27-10-2011, 01:23 AM
He never dumped her though he just pointed out they want different things, also Faye sat there in front of Aaron and said she doesnt want any kids for another 10 years or so and it looked to me like she completely forgot he already has one, if she want's to make a go of the relationship with him outside the house then she will have to be willing to make some commitments regarding his son.
Sounded like a Dumping to me, anyway i think everyone with eyes can see this relationship is doomed except Faye & Aaron (lol isn't it always the way)
Faye won't drop it, but Aaron does, then resurrects it, and off we go again.
Jords
27-10-2011, 01:55 AM
Its never gon' last on the outside, hes too up and freaking down.
I am surprised that being a observant guy it took him so long to realize they are on 2 totally different levels and at different stages in their lives. He has finally observed the non-compatibility the public see.
rk3388
27-10-2011, 02:44 AM
on BBOTS he pretty much called her a gameplayer :O
HE. called her a gameplayer :rolleyes:
Jords
27-10-2011, 03:35 AM
on BBOTS he pretty much called her a gameplayer :O
HE. called her a gameplayer :rolleyes:
I know right! What the **** was that about.
exoticrosebud
27-10-2011, 07:56 AM
im not sure i understand this 'dumping' business....how the hell can you dump someone when you havent even been out the door with them...some late night kisses and boring conversations does not make a relationship......
There are obvious differences between Faye and Aaron..hence the conversation in the sauna when Harry pointed out it's not a great sign when a couple need counselling after only knowing each other a couple of weeks.....Aaron and Faye are both complex personalities..I believe there is an attraction of some sorts but I don't think it's a 'healthy' relationship..they are too different in too many ways..
The other housemates see it......the public see it....Faye's family see it and I'm guessing both of their families and friends have doubts about them as a couple......but if Aaron sees it, he is 'dumping her'...........streuth!!!!!!
Haven't we all been saying this all along!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
chuff me dizzy
27-10-2011, 08:15 AM
He NEEDS to dump her ,the sooner the better
He NEEDS to dump her ,the sooner the better
This is the best shot we have of allowing Aaron to enjoy and relax in has last few weeks in the house...All Aaron fans should be wanting Faye out...
chuff me dizzy
27-10-2011, 08:22 AM
This is the best shot we have of allowing Aaron to enjoy and relax in has last few weeks in the house...All Aaron fans should be wanting Faye out...
Im voting like a loonie !! equal for Harry,Aaron
Im voting like a loonie !! equal for Harry,Aaron
Me too Chuff, especially Harry as I think Aaron will be ok but I have an awful feeling Harry will slip through the net here..young girls will relate to Faye..
jo1791
27-10-2011, 08:53 AM
I don't know, after all the conversations they have had (compared to Jaylou who never talk apparently!!) you'd think he'd have got a whiff of 'some of' this before now....declaration of love and all and then suddenly he can declare that just maybe she wasn't who he thought she was blah blah.
It doesn't sit right with me. Poor Faye.
fruit_cake
27-10-2011, 08:56 AM
I don't know, after all the conversations they have had (compared to Jaylou who never talk apparently!!) you'd think he'd have got a whiff of 'some of' this before now....declaration of love and all and then suddenly he can declare that just maybe she wasn't who he thought she was blah blah.
It doesn't sit right with me. Poor Faye.
he's been playing moralistic games with her all along. All she's ever done is tell him how much she likes him imo
I don't know, after all the conversations they have had (compared to Jaylou who never talk apparently!!) you'd think he'd have got a whiff of 'some of' this before now....declaration of love and all and then suddenly he can declare that just maybe she wasn't who he thought she was blah blah.
It doesn't sit right with me. Poor Faye.
...considering the emotional rollercoaster he's been going through since the family nominations, I think it's very understandable that he's in a particularly thoughful mood atm...as the guys pointed out in the sauna..it's not a great sign that a couple need counselling only a few weeks after they've met each other....I think both Faye and Aaron have ignored their differences as they've both needed to concentrate on their attraction only in that environment...recent events have forced Aaron to start seeing it all as a 'whole picture'...as the public already have..
chuff me dizzy
27-10-2011, 09:08 AM
he's been playing moralistic games with her all along. All she's ever done is tell him how much she likes him imo
Is the list ready of all the"moralistic "things hes done ? still waiting :idc:
Kazanne
27-10-2011, 09:12 AM
Sounded like a Dumping to me, anyway i think everyone with eyes can see this relationship is doomed except Faye & Aaron (lol isn't it always the way)
Faye won't drop it, but Aaron does, then resurrects it, and off we go again.
Faye has 'dropped' him a couple of times at least!!!what are you watching?They hopefully will NOT last,Aaron will have such a miserable life if he ends up with 'that',hopefully he is now seeing 'the light'Even BB described Faye as 'backtracking':joker:
jo1791
27-10-2011, 09:14 AM
...considering the emotional rollercoaster he's been going through since the family nominations, I think it's very understandable that he's in a particularly thoughful mood atm...as the guys pointed out in the sauna..it's not a great sign that a couple need counselling only a few weeks after they've met each other....I think both Faye and Aaron have ignored their differences as they've both needed to concentrate on their attraction only in that environment...recent events have forced Aaron to start seeing it all as a 'whole picture'...as the public already have..
I agree, this is why I lean more towards Jaylou, there's too much drama with Faaron and I don't think it is natural at all. Even Faye has commented that Jay being 'besotted' with Louise and she is questioning whether she is the problem...
I agree, this is why I lean more towards Jaylou, there's too much drama with Faaron and I don't think it is natural at all. Even Faye has commented that Jay being 'besotted' with Louise and she is questioning whether she is the problem...
I think they're both the problem in that they are just not a good match in enough ways to make a healthy relationship..they are both complex, with emotional scars and complicated lives..maybe they recognise that in each other and it's one of the things that draws them together...they've obviously both had these doubts..hence the on..off.on...off...but I think, because of the recent events, Aaron is starting to see it as an unchanging factor, rathwer than one that can be overcome..I don't think he's 'dumping' her at all
fruit_cake
27-10-2011, 09:22 AM
Is the list ready of all the"moralistic "things hes done ? still waiting :idc:
tick tock tick tock
jyunga
27-10-2011, 09:23 AM
Yeah but when Lousie gets drunk she's all horny and whispering how much she likes him.
When Faye gets drunk (every night) she burps in Aarons face, or tries to have serious conversations about silly stuff and then storms off mad cause Aaron doesn't feed into it.
How many times have you seen Aaron drunk in the house? All the housemates have commented on how bad Faye gets when she drinks. Tom has commented on how she tromps off when she gets mad.
There only issue IMO is that they are in the BB house. She said she doesn't drink or smoke outside the BB house. They are loading her up with alcohol on almost a daily basis it seems.
I think her and Aaron have a better relationship in terms of talking and having serious conversations compared to Jay and Lousie. They only think stopping them is Fayes drinking and Aaron needing to chill out a bit more. Once they are outta the house thinks will be different for them and more relaxed. However for Jay and Lousie I see them slipping up rather fast as soon as the topic of living together or getting serious in any way comes up. Lousie isnt going to wanna stick around for Jay when she can get tons of money modeling after this. Travel the world etc
jyunga
27-10-2011, 09:23 AM
Yeah but when Lousie gets drunk she's all horny and whispering how much she likes him.
When Faye gets drunk (every night) she burps in Aarons face, or tries to have serious conversations about silly stuff and then storms off mad cause Aaron doesn't feed into it.
How many times have you seen Aaron drunk in the house? All the housemates have commented on how bad Faye gets when she drinks. Tom has commented on how she tromps off when she gets mad.
There only issue IMO is that they are in the BB house. She said she doesn't drink or smoke outside the BB house. They are loading her up with alcohol on almost a daily basis it seems.
I think her and Aaron have a better relationship in terms of talking and having serious conversations compared to Jay and Lousie. They only think stopping them is Fayes drinking and Aaron needing to chill out a bit more. Once they are outta the house thinks will be different for them and more relaxed. However for Jay and Lousie I see them slipping up rather fast as soon as the topic of living together or getting serious in any way comes up. Lousie isnt going to wanna stick around for Jay when she can get tons of money modeling after this. Travel the world etc
Kazanne
27-10-2011, 09:26 AM
Yeah but when Lousie gets drunk she's all horny and whispering how much she likes him.
When Faye gets drunk (every night) she burps in Aarons face, or tries to have serious conversations about silly stuff and then storms off mad cause Aaron doesn't feed into it.
How many times have you seen Aaron drunk in the house? All the housemates have commented on how bad Faye gets when she drinks. Tom has commented on how she tromps off when she gets mad.
There only issue IMO is that they are in the BB house. She said she doesn't drink or smoke outside the BB house. They are loading her up with alcohol on almost a daily basis it seems.
I think her and Aaron have a better relationship in terms of talking and having serious conversations compared to Jay and Lousie. They only think stopping them is Fayes drinking and Aaron needing to chill out a bit more. Once they are outta the house thinks will be different for them and more relaxed. However for Jay and Lousie I see them slipping up rather fast as soon as the topic of living together or getting serious in any way comes up. Lousie isnt going to wanna stick around for Jay when she can get tons of money modeling after this. Travel the world etc
Don't forget when Faye is drunk she like to cop a feel of OTHER blokes too!!!:joker:
jo1791
27-10-2011, 09:39 AM
Yeah but when Lousie gets drunk she's all horny and whispering how much she likes him.
When Faye gets drunk (every night) she burps in Aarons face, or tries to have serious conversations about silly stuff and then storms off mad cause Aaron doesn't feed into it.
How many times have you seen Aaron drunk in the house? All the housemates have commented on how bad Faye gets when she drinks. Tom has commented on how she tromps off when she gets mad.
There only issue IMO is that they are in the BB house. She said she doesn't drink or smoke outside the BB house. They are loading her up with alcohol on almost a daily basis it seems.
I think her and Aaron have a better relationship in terms of talking and having serious conversations compared to Jay and Lousie. They only think stopping them is Fayes drinking and Aaron needing to chill out a bit more. Once they are outta the house thinks will be different for them and more relaxed. However for Jay and Lousie I see them slipping up rather fast as soon as the topic of living together or getting serious in any way comes up. Lousie isnt going to wanna stick around for Jay when she can get tons of money modeling after this. Travel the world etc
Doesn't sound as though Faaron have had too many serious conversations after last nights revelation....how come he's only realising that they want different things?
Nobody can foresee what will happen on the outside but I know which one I'd place a bet on...Jaylou:blush:
I don't know, after all the conversations they have had (compared to Jaylou who never talk apparently!!) you'd think he'd have got a whiff of 'some of' this before now....declaration of love and all and then suddenly he can declare that just maybe she wasn't who he thought she was blah blah.
It doesn't sit right with me. Poor Faye.
Aaron doesn't have real feelings for Faye and never did. All he cares about is himself. His game plan was to have a relationship in the house. He fancied Louise but she likes her men to be manly, not moody old women. Then he tried it on with Maisy and that blew up in his face. Faye was his last chance - and boy, did he get payback with that one. Serves him right. No way was it ever going to work, and he is intelligent enough to have known that from early on. I can't believe how anyone can't see through how fake that 'romance' is.
chuff me dizzy
27-10-2011, 10:07 AM
Aaron doesn't have real feelings for Faye and never did. All he cares about is himself. His game plan was to have a relationship in the house. He fancied Louise but she likes her men to be manly, not moody old women. Then he tried it on with Maisy and that blew up in his face. Faye was his last chance - and boy, did he get payback with that one. Serves him right. No way was it ever going to work, and he is intelligent enough to have known that from early on. I can't believe how anyone can't see through how fake that 'romance' is.
Lets think this through should we? Did Aaron get in Maisys bed? Did Aaron get in Fayes bed? :idc: say no more about whos using who
Lets think this through should we? Did Aaron get in Maisys bed? Did Aaron get in Fayes bed? :idc: say no more about whos using who
What does it matter who got in whose bed way back? No matter whose bed it was, he ended up kissing Maisy, Faye and Tom and got into a fake romance with Faye. Now he wants out of it because he didn't really want her in the first place and it's become too much for his delicate nerves. His game plan has backfired with bells on.
Can you truly say that there is any genuine spark, or passion, or romance, or loving affection, or even mutual understanding in that relationship? It's about as passionate and romantic as a dead herring, on Aaron's part particularly.
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