View Full Version : Arron's cold eyes last night..
fruit_cake
28-10-2011, 07:53 AM
when he was hugging Faye you could catch a cold from them
I agree, it was not a look of affection, but he got out of bed to find her, said some nice things and gave her a hug to make her feel better, at the very least he was being a good friend, but then anything he does is usually interpreted as part of his evil masterplan, so damned either way it seems.:conf:
exoticrosebud
28-10-2011, 08:08 AM
i should think hes well sick of her continual moping, moaning and crying....thnk he 'hugged her' out of a sense of duty and not to rock the boat further.....i think he likes her a bit but i cant see any future....shes not a particularly good role model for his son to be fair.....and with Aunty Jem and Nanny Chrissie to contend with.....who the hell would want to be involved with that ! ?
Pyramid*
28-10-2011, 08:09 AM
I agree, it was not a look of affection, but he got out of bed to find her, said some nice things and gave her a hug to make her feel better, at the very least he was being a good friend, but then anything he does is usually interpreted as part of his evil masterplan, so damned either way it seems.:conf:
Damned if he does, damned if doesn't.
It looked more that he knew he couldn't leave her in there upset and alone, even after the crap she dishes him out (telling him not to 'effing ever speak to me again) ....it was a look of 'resignation' rather than cold - as he said, doesn't mean he doesn't care for her, but if he's resigned to the fact that she's not what he initally thought - he's sure to feel disappointed.
Kazanne
28-10-2011, 08:10 AM
when he was hugging Faye you could catch a cold from them
As someone already astutely said (Angus58 I think)"They go with Fayes cold heart" what a great analogy that was and so true.
Pyramid*
28-10-2011, 08:10 AM
i should think hes well sick of her continual moping, moaning and crying....thnk he 'hugged her' out of a sense of duty and not to rock the boat further.....i think he likes her a bit but i cant see any future....shes not a particularly good role model for his son to be fair.....and with Aunty Jem and Nanny Chrissie to contend with.....who the hell would want to be involved with that ! ?
Ha...... looks like we were thinking exactly the same thing.
...yes..the look of a man who's been sucked dry by the Palmer Violets.....let's get rid of the last one....we owe it to him...
Pyramid*
28-10-2011, 08:12 AM
As someone already astutely said "They go with Fayes cold heart" what a great analogy that was and so true.
along with the cold shoulder that she keeps giving him when it takes her fancy.
Christ, it would be like living in Antartica living with Faye. No wonder Aaron's always wearing his jumper when he's around her. :devil:
exoticrosebud
28-10-2011, 08:14 AM
perhaps hes realised he cant quite afford the 4x4 she wants lol.....
Kazanne
28-10-2011, 08:15 AM
along with the cold shoulder that she keeps giving him when it takes her fancy.
Christ, it would be like living in Antartica living with Faye. No wonder Aaron's always wearing his jumper when he's around her. :devil:
:joker::joker::joker:COOL post :joker::joker:
Angus
28-10-2011, 08:25 AM
Calling all Faye Fans. Rescue the poor ickle babby from Aaron's evil clutches and DON'T vote for her tomorrow night. Why on earth would you want to inflict another fortnight with such a wicked person on to someone you say you support and like? Just think she can go back to the loving bosom of her dysfunctional family, and be getting her baps out by the end of next week in all the trash mags. Think of all the fun she'll have with her caring sister on BBBOTS slagging of the man she has stalked relentlessly in the house since day 1.
pegson123
28-10-2011, 08:53 AM
i have given people hugs like that. where u dont really want to and ur looking around like what am i doing here.
karezza
28-10-2011, 08:58 AM
No man could put up with a monster like Faye. She is 2-faced, she moans, she whinges, she cries, she bitches & she backstabs. Faye has nominated Aaron 3 times - she can't be trusted.
No man could put up with a monster like Faye. She is 2-faced, she moans, she whinges, she cries, she bitches & she backstabs. Faye has nominated Aaron 3 times - she can't be trusted.
don't forget...'Don't *******ing speak to me again Aaron...' and to Louise and Alex '......I don't give a ******* how Aaron feels.......'
...every man likes a supportive gf.........
HBB1508
28-10-2011, 09:10 AM
It was as if his eyes were saying "Oh Dear".
fruit_cake
28-10-2011, 09:24 AM
lol u lot can keep him and his cold eyes :joker:
Samuel.
28-10-2011, 09:27 AM
He had a case of the sleepys.
fruit_cake
28-10-2011, 09:28 AM
I wish we could swap him for Bobby
lol u lot can keep him and his cold eyes :joker:
..his blood will start to warm again, once the last of the Palmers has left the building
psychtracker
28-10-2011, 09:48 AM
I hate to be a spelling nazi, by why do people continuously call Aaron - Arron?
joeysteele
28-10-2011, 09:48 AM
I didn't see them as cold eyes, he asked if she needed a hug, her smile said everything but in the back of his mind now,(as it would be in mine),is the fact that her Family have really all but punched him in the face.
His feelings as he was giving her a hug resembled someone pre-occupied in thought by the negatives there now were between them but he knew she wanted and needed a hug,so he did so.
He must be massively tender now from the crushing blow from her Mum and particularly the awful Sister, who first wanted to split them up and Faye to have nothing to do with him but then as she is leaving, tells him to look out for her.
Had she left them be, Jemma would not have needed to walk likely and he and Faye may have been even closer and more relaxed in their relationship.
His eyes were then, reflecting those negative thoughts but he did seek her out, he did talk to her, he did offer a hug despite whatever hurt he felt because of her family and Faye had also avoided him since her Sister went too.
He rightly cold have been seen as being cold had he 'not' spoken to her and offered to give her a hug, now that would have been cold.
I saw sadness and hurt in his eyes not coldness and if I was him I would now be thinking why did I ever let myself get into this situation.
He maybe realises he and Faye have very little chance outside now,he will know that even more when he watches programmes back once out, the still heavy bashing, quitter Jemma, is giving him on every show she goes on.
I wish I could tell him to pull right back from Faye now,to be a good friend to her in the house certainly but once out, to run as far away as he could from that destructive family. Just even for his own sanity.
I didn't see them as cold eyes, he asked if she needed a hug, her smile said everything but in the back of his mind now,(as it would be in mine),is the fact that her Family have really all but punched him in the face.
His feelings as he was giving her a hug resembled someone pre-occupied in thought by the negatives there now were between them but he knew she wanted and needed a hug,so he did so.
He must be massively tender now from the crushing blow from her Mum and particularly the awful Sister, who first wanted to split them up and Faye to have nothing to do with him but then as she is leaving, tells him to look out for her.
Had she left them be, Jemma would not have needed to walk likely and he and Faye may have been even closer and more relaxed in their relationship.
His eyes were then, reflecting those negative thoughts but he did seek her out, he did talk to her, he did offer a hug despite whatever hurt he felt because of her family and Faye had also avoided him since her Sister went too.
He rightly cold have been seen as being cold had he 'not' spoken to her and offered to give her a hug, now that would have been cold.
I saw sadness and hurt in his eyes not coldness and if I was him I would now be thinking why did I ever let myself get into this situation.
He maybe realises he and Faye have very little chance outside now,he will know that even more when he watches programmes back once out, the still heavy bashing, quitter Jemma, is giving him on every show she goes on.
I wish I could tell him to pull right back from Faye now,to be a good friend to her in the house certainly but once out, to run as far away as he could from that destructive family. Just even for his own sanity.
...some excellent points Joey
fruit_cake
28-10-2011, 10:00 AM
I didn't see them as cold eyes, he asked if she needed a hug, her smile said everything but in the back of his mind now,(as it would be in mine),is the fact that her Family have really all but punched him in the face.
His feelings as he was giving her a hug resembled someone pre-occupied in thought by the negatives there now were between them but he knew she wanted and needed a hug,so he did so.
He must be massively tender now from the crushing blow from her Mum and particularly the awful Sister, who first wanted to split them up and Faye to have nothing to do with him but then as she is leaving, tells him to look out for her.
Had she left them be, Jemma would not have needed to walk likely and he and Faye may have been even closer and more relaxed in their relationship.
His eyes were then, reflecting those negative thoughts but he did seek her out, he did talk to her, he did offer a hug despite whatever hurt he felt because of her family and Faye had also avoided him since her Sister went too.
He rightly cold have been seen as being cold had he 'not' spoken to her and offered to give her a hug, now that would have been cold.
I saw sadness and hurt in his eyes not coldness and if I was him I would now be thinking why did I ever let myself get into this situation.
He maybe realises he and Faye have very little chance outside now,he will know that even more when he watches programmes back once out, the still heavy bashing, quitter Jemma, is giving him on every show she goes on.
I wish I could tell him to pull right back from Faye now,to be a good friend to her in the house certainly but once out, to run as far away as he could from that destructive family. Just even for his own sanity.
Faye has had to live with her family all her life, he's known them for five minutes and we are supposed to feel sorry for him?
Cherry Christmas
28-10-2011, 10:04 AM
It was as if his eyes were saying "Oh Dear".
:joker:love it.
Kazanne
28-10-2011, 10:07 AM
Faye has had to live with her family all her life, he's known them for five minutes and we are supposed to feel sorry for him?
No one said you have to feel sorry for him have they?I must say I feel sorry for him as he geninely likes faye,but I'm sure the family from hell has put him off big time,I'm sure it would me.He has only known her for a few weeks and in normal circumstances,they would still be at the 'getting to know each other stage'faye has got them married with 3 kids and a Range Rover:joker:Poor bloke.Wish you'de make your mind up Fruit-cake,one minute you like him,next you don't,you have the same traits as Faye!
Faye has had to live with her family all her life, he's known them for five minutes and we are supposed to feel sorry for him?
..her family have had to put up with her also..yes they've all had a cr*p deal.
joeysteele
28-10-2011, 10:29 AM
Faye, hardly sees her Sister, Faye doesn't seem to care much for her Dad, no wonder she is as she is, I feel sorry for both of them.
You have made some fair comments recently fruit_cake but I see you are back to bashing Aaron time again. They are both at fault, things are rarely only just one person's fault,in that BB envrionment the problems are hugely magnified too.
Not one of my family would have totally ignored my feelings and laid into someone I liked the way Jemma, Fayes' Mum and the bf did after as you say knowing him only from the TV for 5 minutes,
Jemma wanted to control Faye from the first day she went in, Fayes main reason for rebelling against that was because she 'wanted' to be with Aaron. Jemma set out then to ruin him and their relationship.
I personally feel really sorry for Faye, her family will be interfering 'in her life, 'all her life' if she doesn't take a stand soon.
I would want to be miles away from the lot of them especially the Mother, my Mother would never,even had it been right, come on TV and be so cold and dismissive of my hopes for any possible future.
Sad we are back to the disagreeing part fruit_cake but it's never just one person's fault usually, I try to be fair.
Faye has a very unhappy life ahead with or without Aaron but that will in the end be down to her Family's interference and controlling attitude to her. Maybe they even interfered before too and that's how she got more hurt then as well.
Aaron is too savvy not to realise that he is being used as the proverbial, emotional punchbag... but is naturally feeling conflicted by his emotions. He is not qualified either, to be a professional councillor. The onus of lifting Fayes mood was put upon him, but he is out of his depth and Fayes deep rooted issues are not his responsibility.
joeysteele
28-10-2011, 10:39 AM
Aaron is too savvy not to realise that he is being used as the proverbial, emotional punchbag... but is naturally feeling conflicted by his emotions. He is not qualified either, to be a professional councillor. The onus of lifting Fayes mood was put upon him, but he is out of his depth and Fayes deep rooted issues are not his responsibility.
That is all really true and a very fair comment.
Parmy
28-10-2011, 11:03 AM
After slagging her off for most of the day it was probably a cuddle full of guilt.It certainly looked as warm as an eskimos nose.
vesavius
28-10-2011, 11:25 AM
i should think hes well sick of her continual moping, moaning and crying....shes not a particularly good role model for his son to be fair.....
But his continual moping, moaning, and sulking are?
His son watching him based on this show would just learn that people existed to just be used, it's better to control through passive agrressive tactics then convince through calm conversation, and that by choosing the fake personality you want to present to the world you can fool them into liking you no matter who you really are.
Kazanne
28-10-2011, 11:28 AM
After slagging her off for most of the day it was probably a cuddle full of guilt.It certainly looked as warm as an eskimos nose.
How on earth has he 'slagged' her off?
soundslike
28-10-2011, 11:44 AM
But his continual moping, moaning, and sulking are?
His son watching him based on this show would just learn that people existed to just be used, it's better to control through passive agrressive tactics then convince through calm conversation, and that by choosing the fake personality you want to present to the world you can fool them into liking you no matter who you really are.
totally agree
Tourmaline
28-10-2011, 11:46 AM
Aaron is too savvy not to realise that he is being used as the proverbial, emotional punchbag... but is naturally feeling conflicted by his emotions. He is not qualified either, to be a professional councillor. The onus of lifting Fayes mood was put upon him, but he is out of his depth and Fayes deep rooted issues are not his responsibility.
Yes I agree with you completely there
Parmy
28-10-2011, 12:07 PM
How on earth has he 'slagged' her off?
.Didn't you see him to harry and the viewers saying how she changed as soon as she heard she was up for eviction..that to me is a clear plea to the fans, insinuating that she's game playing..
dyfed
28-10-2011, 12:12 PM
I didn't see them as cold eyes, he asked if she needed a hug, her smile said everything but in the back of his mind now,(as it would be in mine),is the fact that her Family have really all but punched him in the face.
His feelings as he was giving her a hug resembled someone pre-occupied in thought by the negatives there now were between them but he knew she wanted and needed a hug,so he did so.
He must be massively tender now from the crushing blow from her Mum and particularly the awful Sister, who first wanted to split them up and Faye to have nothing to do with him but then as she is leaving, tells him to look out for her.
Had she left them be, Jemma would not have needed to walk likely and he and Faye may have been even closer and more relaxed in their relationship.
His eyes were then, reflecting those negative thoughts but he did seek her out, he did talk to her, he did offer a hug despite whatever hurt he felt because of her family and Faye had also avoided him since her Sister went too.
He rightly cold have been seen as being cold had he 'not' spoken to her and offered to give her a hug, now that would have been cold.
I saw sadness and hurt in his eyes not coldness and if I was him I would now be thinking why did I ever let myself get into this situation.
He maybe realises he and Faye have very little chance outside now,he will know that even more when he watches programmes back once out, the still heavy bashing, quitter Jemma, is giving him on every show she goes on.
I wish I could tell him to pull right back from Faye now,to be a good friend to her in the house certainly but once out, to run as far away as he could from that destructive family. Just even for his own sanity.
Joey.
I could not have put it better:xyxwave: well said.
Vicky.
28-10-2011, 12:13 PM
But his continual moping, moaning, and sulking are?
His son watching him based on this show would just learn that people existed to just be used, it's better to control through passive agrressive tactics then convince through calm conversation, and that by choosing the fake personality you want to present to the world you can fool them into liking you no matter who you really are.
Luckily his son doesnt watch the show. And I doubt Aarons behaviour is even seen as slightly odd outside the house. Noone would say it was passive aggressive for someone to walk away from an argument and go home, or wait an extra day before phoning/visiting someone as you were pissed off about something :)
flamingGalah!
28-10-2011, 12:18 PM
lol u lot can keep him and his cold eyes :joker:
Jesus you are fickle. You like Aaron, You hate Aaron, You like Aaron, You hate Aaron (Repeat x 20 times a day)...
No wonder you like Faye... :joker:
Jesus you are fickle. You like Aaron, You hate Aaron, You like Aaron, You hate Aaron (Repeat x 20 times a day)...
No wonder you like Faye... :joker:
:laugh2:
flamingGalah!
28-10-2011, 12:19 PM
.Didn't you see him to harry and the viewers saying how she changed as soon as she heard she was up for eviction..that to me is a clear plea to the fans, insinuating that she's game playing..
Hows that 'slagging her off'?? :conf:
She DID change as soon as she heard she was up for eviction! :joker:
vesavius
28-10-2011, 12:20 PM
Luckily his son doesnt watch the show. And I doubt Aarons behaviour is even seen as slightly odd outside the house. Noone would say it was passive aggressive for someone to walk away from an argument and go home, or wait an extra day before phoning/visiting someone as you were pissed off about something :)
Vicky, I already demonstrated to you how sulking in a group as a means of control is a passive aggressive behaviour trait. I even gave you a link to have a read about it.
cba to have that conversation again... :sleep:
But you really think the cold passive aggressive calculating manipulator is something Aaron became when he went into the house?
No, thats his type. Thats what he is, and thats why he is a terrible role model for any child. The constructed part of his personality is the bumbling Hugh Grant gent- the part designed to push the public's buttons.
Parmy
28-10-2011, 12:20 PM
Hows that 'slagging her off'?? :conf:
She DID change as soon as she heard she was up for eviction! :joker:
Only because of the pep talk from Jem.:sleep: and not because she was game playing as aaron would have us believe..
joeysteele
28-10-2011, 12:24 PM
I don't think people should bring Aaron's son into this debate, his son has never been part of the show in person at all and according to Aarons wife does not watch the show.
She clearly thinks Aaron is a great Dad to their son,that's all that matters and his wife will know far more than we do.
Parmy
28-10-2011, 12:26 PM
Vicky, I already demonstrated to you how sulking in a group as a means of control is a passive aggressive behaviour trait. I even gave you a link to have a read about it.
cba to have that conversation again... :sleep:
But you really think the cold passive aggressive calculating manipulator is something Aaron became when he went into the house?
No, thats his type. Thats what he is, and thats why he is a terrible role model for any child. The constructed part of his personality is the bumbling Hugh Grant gent- the part designed to push the public's buttons.
EXACTLY,He does it all the time, time and time again, just the other day he was telling faye he can't wait to get out the house to slag his housemates off in the papers..last night as well when he went to faye to make up with her..it was her who had to sit up and reach into him for a cuddle...he really does have a nasty controlling side to him which to me is as clear as day....It's Aarons way or the highway..not once has he did anything that faye has asked him too to help their relationship.
Even on last nights h/l show he patronised alex into giving faye her coffee he had made, then almost bellittling her as she walked out the door to give her it by smugly saying good girl or something like that..he's horrible.
flamingGalah!
28-10-2011, 12:29 PM
Only because of the pep talk from Faye.:sleep: and not because she was game playing as aaron would have us believe..
Eh?? The talk Jem gave her do you mean?? :conf:
If anything she probably cheered up because that evil with of a sister was gone, not from anything she said to her!
And if you interpreted what Aaron said as trying to insinuate that Faye is a gameplayer then maybe you just have a suspicious mind... Or shock horror, maybe Faye IS playing a game... ;)
Vicky.
28-10-2011, 12:31 PM
Vicky, I already demonstrated to you how sulking in a group as a means of control is a passive aggressive behaviour trait. I even gave you a link to have a read about it.
cba to have that conversation again... :sleep:
But you really think the cold passive aggressive calculating manipulator is something Aaron became when he went into the house?
No, thats his type. Thats what he is, and thats why he is a terrible role model for any child. The constructed part of his personality is the bumbling Hugh Grant gent- the part designed to push the public's buttons.
Yes, I know that, but it would NOT be seen as passive aggressive OUTSIDE of the house to simply walk away from an argument would it...or to not call/visit someone for an extra day because you were annoyed with them? This is my point.
While it can come across as passive aggressive in that environment, walking away from conflict is a GOOD quality outside.
coralqueen
28-10-2011, 12:31 PM
i dont believe his eyes where cold looking, just a case of, (what am i going to do next)!!
tonyface
28-10-2011, 12:37 PM
Faye needs to be careful, I said early on that Aaron looks like Jeffrey Dahmer.
Those same cold piercing eyes.......:o
http://www.imagechunk.com/images/dahmer_103.jpg
If she ends up as a bowl of soup one day, dont say I did'nt warn you.....:idc:
vesavius
28-10-2011, 12:43 PM
Yes, I know that, but it would NOT be seen as passive aggressive OUTSIDE of the house to simply walk away from an argument would it...or to not call/visit someone for an extra day because you were annoyed with them? This is my point.
While it can come across as passive aggressive in that environment, walking away from conflict is a GOOD quality outside.
No, sulking is a passive aggressive trait in or out of the house. It is one used as a weapon and method of control.
Sulking is a negative trait, not a positive one, but I have stated all this before.
I get your point, and like I say I addressed it before, with links to support what I was saying. But ok, it's not like I am gonna change your mind, I can see that, so I will agree to just leave you to it. Lets maybe not quote each other again on the subject though? It gets dull going around in circles.
Vicky.
28-10-2011, 12:48 PM
No, sulking is a passive aggressive trait in or out of the house. It is one used as a weapon and method of control.
Sulking is a negative trait, not a positive one, but I have stated all this before.
I get your point, and like I say I addressed it before, with links to support what I was saying. But ok, it's not like I am gonna change your mind, I can see that, so I will agree to just leave you to it. Lets maybe not quote each other again on the subject though? It gets dull going around in circles.
Jesus...you honestly think walking away from an argument in the normal world is passive aggressive?! Or not calling or visiting someone for a day or two because they pissed you off?
I can see how it could be seen as that in the environment they are in now, but to say it would be the same outside is bordering on ridiculous :D
Kazelle
28-10-2011, 12:56 PM
He's been looking really rough the past few days his face looks very drawn.
He looks emotionally drained and his eyes reflected that.
Bill Carson
28-10-2011, 01:20 PM
I wish we could swap him for Bobby
Lol,did you see aaron in the same shot as Bobby?...he looked like a hunched over shortass dummy ffs!.:hugesmile: :hugesmile: :hugesmile:
fruit_cake
28-10-2011, 01:23 PM
Lol,did you see aaron in the same shot as Bobby?...he looked like a hunched over shortass dummy ffs!.:hugesmile: :hugesmile: :hugesmile:
haha yeah he was in samuel's avatar
ibkaz
28-10-2011, 01:54 PM
Damned if he does, damned if doesn't.
It looked more that he knew he couldn't leave her in there upset and alone, even after the crap she dishes him out (telling him not to 'effing ever speak to me again) ....it was a look of 'resignation' rather than cold - as he said, doesn't mean he doesn't care for her, but if he's resigned to the fact that she's not what he initally thought - he's sure to feel disappointed.
Absolutely, no body knows what he was thinking at that moment. People reading too much into things.
Totally damed if he does, damed if he doesn't.
ChristmasNeeve
28-10-2011, 02:50 PM
Jesus...you honestly think walking away from an argument in the normal world is passive aggressive?! Or not calling or visiting someone for a day or two because they pissed you off?
I can see how it could be seen as that in the environment they are in now, but to say it would be the same outside is bordering on ridiculous :D
Exactly. I'd much rather a person walk away from an argument and go calm down, so they don't say something they regret in the heat of the moment and are able to have a rational, productive conversation once they've cooled off.
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