What happened to Aarons 'dignity?

[jet]

That he has been rattling on about from day one. Tonight showed a total lack of dignity from a man who has been held up, especially by himself, to be the epitome of dignity. I wouldn't have been surprised if Mark had did this (and it would have been funny, because that IS mark - or even Jay (though thrusting against men isn't his thing). But coming from a man that even a burp disturbs his sensibilities it doesn't make any sense. Is this the Aaron who is so reticent about sexual matters that he never once got hot with Faye in bed, and hasn't had sex for 7 years (well we know that is a lie already.)
He gets a little trophy for being 'most entertaining' and before you can say 'dignity' he is stark naked, thrusting himself obscenely at Tom and rubbing his balls into his neck. Yes, it was a game, but hitherto Aaron would have taken the high road, given that little arrogant shake of the head he is so fond of that means he doesn't approve of lesser mortals actions and said 'oh dear' in that old woman way. What a turnaround. What a complete and utter fake he is.
You could tell Faye was mortified. Poor girl. I think the light is beginning to dawn on her.

[paper-cut-exit]

Was very surprised to see Aaron flaunt his flat, bare arse on my TV tonight - he's the last person in the house I would expect that from tbh... considering how the pompous twat seems to promote on a regular basis just how dignified a person he is.

[Videostar]

Or (just to give the other point of view) he was joining in a game and was having fun.??

[Vicky.]

Or (just to give the other point of view) he was joining in a game and was having fun.??

:shocked: Surely not.

This is Aaron we are talking about.

Everything he does must be twisted into the worst possible scenario.

[vesavius]

Aaron's 'dignity' is as conditional and situational as the rest of him.

Adopted and discarded as the game plan requires.

Fake rolling of the eyes one minute at the mention of a rude part, streaking through the garden naked the next.

[paper-cut-exit]

:shocked: Surely not.

This is Aaron we are talking about.

Everything he does must be twisted into the worst possible scenario.

He's a hypocrite... can't have it both ways. Easy cam time for him tho.

[jet]

Or (just to give the other point of view) he was joining in a game and was having fun.??

Who, Aaron? The one who never before let fun get in the way of his 'dignity'?
He was very quick to strip for TOM, the boy who had fancied him and had once accused Aaron of leading him on. Why on earth pick him? I am beginning to think that if he and Faye hadn't taken off, Tom would have been his victim for a showmance. :hugesmile:

[In the Drunk Tank]

Aaron got naked and jumped in the pool in week 1

[Locke.]

Went down the toilet with his confidence after the first 2 nights

[BBfan6418]

From last nights show

Big Brother "Aaron if you dropped a few F bombs around them do you think that might encourage them to swear"

Aaron "Well I won't be doing that no. No task is worth me losing my self respect"


Funny where the line is drawn.

[jet]

:shocked: Surely not.

This is Aaron we are talking about.

Everything he does must be twisted into the worst possible scenario.

At least we are consistent :hugesmile:

On the other side, Aaron is praised for having certain qualities - then when those prove not to be quite true, the goalposts shift....and shift...and shift once more to fit in with any behaviour he cares to display. I would rather be consistent than all over the place just to save face.

[vesavius]

At least we are consistent :hugesmile:

On the other side, Aaron is praised for having certain qualities - then when those prove not to be quite true, the goalposts shift....and shift...and shift once more to fit in with any behaviour he cares to display. I would rather be consistent than all over the place just to save face.

Well said :dance:

[jet]

From last nights show

Big Brother "Aaron if you dropped a few F bombs around them do you think that might encourage them to swear"

Aaron "Well I won't be doing that no. No task is worth me losing my self respect"


Funny where the line is drawn.

Ha! I was trying to remember that, but couldn't recall the exact words. Thanks! :hugesmile:

[Vicky.]

At least we are consistent :hugesmile:

On the other side, Aaron is praised for having certain qualities - then when those prove not to be quite true, the goalposts shift....and shift...and shift once more to fit in with any behaviour he cares to display. I would rather be consistent than all over the place just to save face.

LOL. Whatever you say :joker:

[Videostar]

At least we are consistent :hugesmile:

On the other side, Aaron is praised for having certain qualities - then when those prove not to be quite true, the goalposts shift....and shift...and shift once more to fit in with any behaviour he cares to display. I would rather be consistent than all over the place just to save face.

Im not getting your point? are you seriously saying that the only way to prove he has dignity is to sit in a corner for the whole 9 weeks and refuse to join in any of the games?

[Videostar]

From last nights show

Big Brother "Aaron if you dropped a few F bombs around them do you think that might encourage them to swear"

Aaron "Well I won't be doing that no. No task is worth me losing my self respect"


Funny where the line is drawn.

The game they were playing wasn't a part of a task, and didn't involve swearing.

He has showered naked throughout the show, he isn't shy about his body, so whats the problem?

[Vicky.]

The game they were playing wasn't a part of a task, and didn't involve swearing.

He has showered naked throughout the show, he isn't shy about his body, so whats the problem?

Are you talking about the dares game?

If so, it was part of a task. It was to win alcohol.

It’s been a strange old day in the Big Brother House, newly Faye-less and contending with the money split decision earlier, the mood has been slightly wavering. Aaron has spent most of the day finding areas of the House to have a nap or a little moment alone. So it’s just about time Big Brother shook things up a bit, and what better way than with a daring Task…



Today’s Task will see the housemates playing a game of ‘pass the dare’.When the music starts Housemates must pass the parcel around the group in a clockwise direction.



When the music stops, the Housemate that has the parcel must open one layer of paper. Inside the first 6 layers of the parcel are dares that the Housemates must complete. The following 6 layers will contain a dare and a prize.



Housemates are not allowed to swap dares or ask other Housemates to compete the dare for them and all dares must be completed in order to receive alcohol this evening.



How far will the housemates dare to go? Stick with us to find out...

[jet]

Im not getting your point? are you seriously saying that the only way to prove he has dignity is to sit in a corner for the whole 9 weeks and refuse to join in any of the games?

Not at all. Maybe you need to re - read what I said.

[Videostar]

Not at all. Maybe you need to re - read what I said.

I read your point, you seem very upset that Aaron is joining in some fun and games in the house instead of rocking backwards and forwards in a corner sulking.

[BBfan6418]

The game they were playing wasn't a part of a task, and didn't involve swearing.

He has showered naked throughout the show, he isn't shy about his body, so whats the problem?



So sayin Fu** a few times is worse than dancing on a guys shoulders naked?

[Videostar]

Are you talking about the dares game?

If so, it was part of a task. It was to win alcohol.

It’s been a strange old day in the Big Brother House, newly Faye-less and contending with the money split decision earlier, the mood has been slightly wavering. Aaron has spent most of the day finding areas of the House to have a nap or a little moment alone. So it’s just about time Big Brother shook things up a bit, and what better way than with a daring Task…



Today’s Task will see the housemates playing a game of ‘pass the dare’.When the music starts Housemates must pass the parcel around the group in a clockwise direction.



When the music stops, the Housemate that has the parcel must open one layer of paper. Inside the first 6 layers of the parcel are dares that the Housemates must complete. The following 6 layers will contain a dare and a prize.



Housemates are not allowed to swap dares or ask other Housemates to compete the dare for them and all dares must be completed in order to receive alcohol this evening.



How far will the housemates dare to go? Stick with us to find out...

Oh right, fair enough.

[Videostar]

So sayin Fu** a few times is worse than dancing on a guys shoulders naked?

To Aaron....YES.

[Vicky.]

Oh right, fair enough.

Heh. I saw your edit there :p

But theres really no point in this argument.

As if he had refused to do the task, he would be wrong. If he had done the task half heartedly, he would be wrong. And if he threw himself into it, did what the others said, and made them laugh a lot(like he did) he is still wrong :D

[Videostar]

Why does it frighten some people so much that there are those out there who dont like to swear, or talk about sex all the time, or be rude and nasty?

That is a sign of broken britain, in other countries an Aaron type of person wouldn't be hated or thought of as a fake for being this way, because those countries have manners and respect for others.

[rk3388]

to win alcohol is even worse- getting naked to win alcohol on national television. Oh yeah, he definitely still has his dignity :rolleyes:

[Videostar]

Heh. I saw your edit there :p

But theres really no point in this argument.

As if he had refused to do the task, he would be wrong. If he had done the task half heartedly, he would be wrong. And if he threw himself into it, did what the others said, and made them laugh a lot(like he did) he is still wrong :D

He cant win with some sure enough. :joker:

[Videostar]

to win alcohol is even worse- getting naked to win alcohol on national television. Oh yeah, he definitely still has his dignity :rolleyes:

So you wouldn't be annoyed with him if he sat in the corner and refused to join in, losing them the booze.? ;)

[BBfan6418]

I am annoyed he is a hypocrite.

[jet]

Heh. I saw your edit there :p

But theres really no point in this argument.

As if he had refused to do the task, he would be wrong. If he had done the task half heartedly, he would be wrong. And if he threw himself into it, did what the others said, and made them laugh a lot(like he did) he is still wrong :D

If he was the person who he has portrayed himself as ALL ALONG - someone with dignity and principles - he could still have done a strip tease in a tasteful and funny way (did he HAVE to strip completely naked)??? - and not thrust himself at Tom and mounted his shoulders (especially when the boy had had a 'thing' for him, and could have still....)
Less was definitely more in this case. Really, anyone who says differently are not doing themselves any favours.
Alex is my fav - but if she stripped naked and bucked herself at Louise (task or no task) it would be so out of character I would go right off her - because she wouldn't be the person I thought she was.
I thought Aaron fans loved his dignified and principled manner (which is fake in my eyes). Can you see anything dignified in his behaviour in that task?

[vesavius]

to win alcohol is even worse- getting naked to win alcohol on national television. Oh yeah, he definitely still has his dignity :rolleyes:

:joker::joker:

[Vicky.]

If he was the person who he has portrayed himself as ALL ALONG - someone with dignity and principles - he could still have done a strip tease in a tasteful and funny way (did he HAVE to strip completely naked)??? - and not thrust himself at Tom and mounted his shoulders (especially when the boy had had a 'thing' for him, and could have still....)
Less was definitely more in this case. Really, anyone who says differently are not doing themselves any favours.
Alex is my fav - but if she stripped naked and bucked herself at Louise (task or no task) it would be so out of character I would go right off her - because she wouldn't be the person I thought she was.
I thought Aaron fans loved his dignified and principled manner (which is fake in my eyes). Can you see anything dignified in his behaviour in that task?

Ah but see the odd thing about these Aaron fans that you speak of...not every one of them thinks the exact same thing on every situation like you seem to think they do. Same as not all Alex fans think the exact same thing, all Jay fans, and so on. Its simply ridiculous for people to keep pigeonholing fans.

Personally I like him because hes entertaining, and has been since the start. Every storyline...he has been a part of, I love his humour, and find his behaviour intriguing as I have never known anyone like him before. Nothing to do with dignity or principles. Also, I accept that he has flaws (many of them) yet still like him.

So to me, dignity aint really a problem, as this entertained me.

[Cheddarcakes]

Aaron was always up for a game of dare , it's a time honoured BB tradition afterall so as a super-fan it was right he flung himself into it with gusto.Hilarious too :p

Nothing to do with diminishing his dignity or corrupting his sense of values.Good on 'im

[WeeShorty]

Or (just to give the other point of view) he was joining in a game and was having fun.??

well said there...that's not the reaction given when other HMs provide controversial and even disgusting bahaviour for viewing but hey, why not dis someone for simply playing along with the game? geeze everyone keeps going on about him joining in with the group and being less uptight but when he does suddenly there's a problem with that too! He was having a laugh with the other HMs and we've seen so much worse in that house let's face it lol

Anyone wanna sniff my finger???

[Videostar]

I am annoyed he is a hypocrite.

But he's not, he has always been the same in the house throughout, why are you ignoring that fact.?

[Videostar]

well said there...that's not the reaction given when other HMs provide controversial and even disgusting bahaviour for viewing but hey, why not dis someone for simply playing along with the game? geeze everyone keeps going on about him joining in with the group and being less uptight but when he does suddenly there's a problem with that too! He was having a laugh with the other HMs and we've seen so much worse in that house let's face it lol

Anyone wanna sniff my finger???

:joker::joker: yes, I think we can all do without Jay fun. :nono:

[WeeShorty]

:joker::joker: yes, I think we can all do without Jay fun. :nono:

exactly...some people need to get a grip on reality...its just an entertainment show and that's exactly what its meant to do, entertain us.

HMs are picked based on whether they may be entertaining to the viewer...what's the big deal with some of the ppl on here? In the words of the man himself...Oh dear :rolleyes:

Videostar...I'm so glad some of us 'get' it lol

[rk3388]

So you wouldn't be annoyed with him if he sat in the corner and refused to join in, losing them the booze.? ;)

aha but i wouldnt be mad - if he didnt go on and on about how he cant relate to the others and has dignity and self respect. And he didnt have to go that far- i doubt bb thought the persdon would go full nakey

But instead he decided to straddle tom naked to win some booze- classy. So much self respect as well :idc:

[rk3388]

and people who said aarons entertaining, i dont know what show your watching, but the past 4 weeks of the aaron and faye storyline was horrible and i acually had to skip all their nonsense completely this week

[BBfan6418]

But he's not, he has always been the same in the house throughout, why are you ignoring that fact.?

So as long as your being a hypocrite throughout your not really a hypocrite. Got it.

Because he did it again tonight. He sat in front of everyone and said if he was offered 50K to leave he would take it. Then at the end of the show he is telling tom if they gave him 100K for second he would not take it because winning was more important.

[jyunga]

Being a hypocrite means saying one thing and doing another. You can say one think and then change your mind the next day. That isn't hypocritical at all.

[Pyramid*]

They were playing strip..... given that there were 2 girls - it would have been a bit unfair to expect the girls to do it - so it could be said that Aaron jumped in to defend the honour and dignity of the ladies remaining in the house :tongue:- as well as having a big of fun (you know, that thing many non Aaron fans accuse him of not being). :bored:


I actually burst out laughing - that real belly laugh stuff - because it was so completely unexpected and he was laughing - Tom totally lapped it up - and IIRC, I can't remember hearing Tom protesting much. ;)

[Pyramid*]

So you wouldn't be annoyed with him if he sat in the corner and refused to join in, losing them the booze.? ;)

Precisely. If he had refused, he'd have been called the party pooper, ruining it for everyone else, selfish, didn't give a damn about anyone else........

Ssheeshh... there's no pleasing some people at times eh! :D

Aaron to win. :dance:

[Bluerang1]

He didn't have to take it that far is all.

[G1dds]

OMG - I must have missed the bit where he rubbed his naughty bits all over Tom :o

The last I saw, he was half sitting over Toms shoulders still covering his man bits

[joeysteele]

I thought it was funny, Aaron has not been shy as to stripping off his clothes before and the game where he kissed Tom was no better or worse than this incident.

Just another storm in a teacup from perhaps some who likely have no time for Aaron at all and it wouldn't matter if he acted perfectly all the time in the house, he would still get criticised for that even.

I also think Faye was surprised but never-the-less had to smile at it too.

[Kazanne]

That he has been rattling on about from day one. Tonight showed a total lack of dignity from a man who has been held up, especially by himself, to be the epitome of dignity. I wouldn't have been surprised if Mark had did this (and it would have been funny, because that IS mark - or even Jay (though thrusting against men isn't his thing). But coming from a man that even a burp disturbs his sensibilities it doesn't make any sense. Is this the Aaron who is so reticent about sexual matters that he never once got hot with Faye in bed, and hasn't had sex for 7 years (well we know that is a lie already.)
He gets a little trophy for being 'most entertaining' and before you can say 'dignity' he is stark naked, thrusting himself obscenely at Tom and rubbing his balls into his neck. Yes, it was a game, but hitherto Aaron would have taken the high road, given that little arrogant shake of the head he is so fond of that means he doesn't approve of lesser mortals actions and said 'oh dear' in that old woman way. What a turnaround. What a complete and utter fake he is.
You could tell Faye was mortified. Poor girl. I think the light is beginning to dawn on her.

Mortified(my arse)and as for dignity,pmsl,you are talking dignity!!!!!when the likes of Jay and Louise are smelling fingers that have been on body parts,farting,****ting talk all the time,the girl who said she would never have sex on TV.perhaps Aaron should have **** on Toms head then people would have loved him,the few detractors here are soooooooooooooooooooo desperate now,lol,It was something they did together as a task,but how DARE Aaron join in,it's skin,get over it,we see enough of the others

[BBfan6418]

Maybe it is because I am from the US and used to our version. Most of us have no problem if you lie to fellow HM's. Just don't go to the diary room and lie to us. I feel like aaron has done that on multiple occasions. I understand if you disagree just stating my opinion.

[Kazanne]

If he was the person who he has portrayed himself as ALL ALONG - someone with dignity and principles - he could still have done a strip tease in a tasteful and funny way (did he HAVE to strip completely naked)??? - and not thrust himself at Tom and mounted his shoulders (especially when the boy had had a 'thing' for him, and could have still....)
Less was definitely more in this case. Really, anyone who says differently are not doing themselves any favours.
Alex is my fav - but if she stripped naked and bucked herself at Louise (task or no task) it would be so out of character I would go right off her - because she wouldn't be the person I thought she was.
I thought Aaron fans loved his dignified and principled manner (which is fake in my eyes). Can you see anything dignified in his behaviour in that task?

But it's ok Alex has stripped off before the show?lol,so because you did not see that(or perhaps you have)that's ok then,he did it in the spirit of the BB game,stop over reacting ffs,but I guess it gives you something to do.I'de say his dignity is well intact it's not as though he has robbed a blind woman ,is it?You'de prefer someone like that,oh dear!

[armand.kay]

Its not the first time he has got naked so i dont know why your so shocked...

[billy123]

Are you talking about the dares game?

If so, it was part of a task. It was to win alcohol
You mean the same kind of task where Aaron got the slapped arse attitude for a whole day when tom did no cleaning and so decided to ruin it for him and everyone else even after trying to be shushed by all the other housemates so as not to make him fail but he did it anyway?

[Kazanne]

Aarons dignity was well and truly covered by his hands,what is some peoples problem?

[exoticrosebud]

Aaron got naked and jumped in the pool in week 1

and you saw him showering naked early on!

[tuesday1962]

Phish-posh! It’s the final week the entertainment dying in there BB wanted to lighten the mood. Aaron didn’t want to put a dampener on things by being unsociable. So your questioning him reason why did a striptease for Tom? Imo it was a logical choice. Aaron sees Alex as childlike and innocent, Louise is Jay girlfriend and it would have been disrespectful to Faye, Jay who considers himself as a man’s man like himself and did want to embarrass him and then you have Tom, would is considered to be bi, who probably would take offense and it would a nice early birthday present memory for him. And don’t forget you as the viewer will see that he is not all doom and gloom as BB are making him out to be. This isn’t a question of dignity it a question of Op and others who can’t stand the sight of Aaron trying to make sure he integrates with the group not only for himself but for everyone else’s benefit!

Aaron FTW!

[Kazanne]

Phish-posh! It’s the final week the entertainment dying in there BB wanted to lighten the mood. Aaron didn’t want to put a dampener on things by being unsociable. So your questioning him reason why did a striptease for Tom? Imo it was a logical choice. Aaron sees Alex as childlike and innocent, Louise is Jay girlfriend and it would have been disrespectful to Faye, Jay who considers himself as a man’s man like himself and did want to embarrass him and then you have Tom, would is considered to be bi, who probably would take offense and it would a nice early birthday present memory for him. And don’t forget you as the viewer will see that he is not all doom and gloom as BB are making him out to be. This isn’t a question of dignity it a question of Op and others who can’t stand the sight of Aaron trying to make sure he integrates with the group not only for himself but for everyone else’s benefit!

Aaron FTW!

here,here,well said:xyxwave:

[joeysteele]

Phish-posh! It’s the final week the entertainment dying in there BB wanted to lighten the mood. Aaron didn’t want to put a dampener on things by being unsociable. So your questioning him reason why did a striptease for Tom? Imo it was a logical choice. Aaron sees Alex as childlike and innocent, Louise is Jay girlfriend and it would have been disrespectful to Faye, Jay who considers himself as a man’s man like himself and did want to embarrass him and then you have Tom, would is considered to be bi, who probably would take offense and it would a nice early birthday present memory for him. And don’t forget you as the viewer will see that he is not all doom and gloom as BB are making him out to be. This isn’t a question of dignity it a question of Op and others who can’t stand the sight of Aaron trying to make sure he integrates with the group not only for himself but for everyone else’s benefit!

Aaron FTW!

Very well pointed out.

[Vicky.]

You mean the same kind of task where Aaron got the slapped arse attitude for a whole day when tom did no cleaning and so decided to ruin it for him and everyone else even after trying to be shushed by all the other housemates so as not to make him fail but he did it anyway?

yes, because hes psychic :idc:

[In the Drunk Tank]

Phish-posh! It’s the final week the entertainment dying in there BB wanted to lighten the mood. Aaron didn’t want to put a dampener on things by being unsociable. So your questioning him reason why did a striptease for Tom? Imo it was a logical choice. Aaron sees Alex as childlike and innocent, Louise is Jay girlfriend and it would have been disrespectful to Faye, Jay who considers himself as a man’s man like himself and did want to embarrass him and then you have Tom, would is considered to be bi, who probably would take offense and it would a nice early birthday present memory for him. And don’t forget you as the viewer will see that he is not all doom and gloom as BB are making him out to be. This isn’t a question of dignity it a question of Op and others who can’t stand the sight of Aaron trying to make sure he integrates with the group not only for himself but for everyone else’s benefit!

Aaron FTW!

Also Jay and Aaron had just snogged each other so to then go and give him a naked striptease would be pushing the boundaries somewhat

[Vicky.]

Also Jay and Aaron had just snogged each other so to then go and give him a naked striptease would be pushing the boundaries somewhat

Certainly would have given people something to talk about :eek: :p

[Parmy]

to win alcohol is even worse- getting naked to win alcohol on national television. Oh yeah, he definitely still has his dignity :rolleyes:

:joker::dance:

[tuesday1962]

never trust a man who sticks out a pinky when supping cheap lager.

"I hate rnb" but I'll dance alone in a bathroom to it!! :joker::dance:

I'd rather trust a man who does stick out his pinky while drinking and does dances alone in the bedroom toilet, than someone who sh*ts in the freezer and embarrasses his girlfriend by telling the whole nation about how she smells after fingering her. I can see we have different standards. :joker::dance:

Aaron FTW!

[connie]

Just because there are people who don't keep on about sex all the time doesn't mean they don't have it, while others just boast or keep on about like some do today which is sad. Same said for swearing/ drinking .
Can't understand some youngsters today, they must realise what there doing isn't right, you have your whole life in front of you not behind.

[connie]

and you saw him showering naked early on!

YOU CAN SHUT YOUR EYES OR JUST HAVE A GOOD LOOK OR DO YOU SHOWER FULLY DRESSED.:joker:

[Vicky.]

YOU CAN SHUT YOUR EYES OR JUST HAVE A GOOD LOOK OR DO YOU SHOWER FULLY DRESSED.:joker:

Dont make posts all in capitals please...its against the rules.

[connie]

Dont make posts all in capitals please...its against the rules.

YOU WERE QUICK OF THE MARK VICKY, BUT FOR SOME REASON THE CAPS BUTTON KEEPS GETTING STUCK.:joker:

[Vicky.]

YOU WERE QUICK OF THE MARK VICKY, BUT FOR SOME REASON THE CAPS BUTTON KEEPS GETTING STUCK.:joker:

I'm always quick :evilgrin:

But any posts you make from now on that are all in capitals, I will delete them.

Sorry.

[Parmy]

Doesn't the forum automatically change them itself anymore?

[Vicky.]

Doesn't the forum automatically change them itself anymore?

It does if the whole post is in caps...but when people put a smiley on the end the : joker : part isnt caps...so it doesnt get changed.

[WeeShorty]

OMG - I must have missed the bit where he rubbed his naughty bits all over Tom :o

The last I saw, he was half sitting over Toms shoulders still covering his man bits

Yes, that's all anyone saw....as usual it has been exaggerated to say that he rubbed them all over him when in fact he just straddled Tom's shoulders while 'cupping' his privates.

[Spring]

Love or hate Aaron has most threads are about him. Can you imagine what everyone would be talking about if he'd never been on BB this year.We know we could write about Jay n Louise's filthy habits ...or even Alex but what's to write about her nuffing of interest really is there. Aaron deserves to win imo

[MachoPoodle]

At least we are consistent :hugesmile:

On the other side, Aaron is praised for having certain qualities - then when those prove not to be quite true, the goalposts shift....and shift...and shift once more to fit in with any behaviour he cares to display. I would rather be consistent than all over the place just to save face.

THIS. But whatever, just write something condescending and put lots of identical smileys in a row and the argument is deemed won no matter what apparently...

[chuff me dizzy]

Aarons pride and dignity is fully intact and Im so proud of it too,