Relationship dilemma...

[Ammi]

..you acquired an STD from a previous partner for which you have been treated and the disease is cured...you are just about to be married to an amazing guy/lady..would you tell them about the STD..or would you keep it a secret as you no longer had it...?

[Niamh.]

hhhmmmm, keep it a secret most probably, the past is the past imo

[Marcus.]

tell them for me i have no talls

[Legend killer]

LOL that disease being kept under wrap not something you want to talk about over a Sunday lunch

[Vicky.]

I dont see why you would mention it if its not an issue anymore really. Unless you had left it too long to get treated and have some kind of complications because of it.

[Roy Mars III]

if it was gone, than I probably wouldn't mention it

[Marcus.]

I dont see why you would mention it if its not an issue anymore really. Unless you had left it too long to get treated and have some kind of complications because of it.

i tell me wife everything as i say i keep no secrets

[Niamh.]

i tell me wife everything as i say i keep no secrets

But is there any need to discuss your past sex life? I don't think there is, I wouldn't want to know if it was the opposite way round

[Legend killer]

BB12 does your wife know your joint first of the gentlemen club??

[Marcus.]

But is there any need to discuss your past sex life? I don't think there is, I wouldn't want to know if it was the opposite way round

no secrets

[SharkAttack]

i tell me wife everything as i say i keep no secrets

But if there's no present problem and no way to spread something further, who exactly are you helping by telling her?

[Ammi]

LOL that disease being kept under wrap not something you want to talk about over a Sunday lunch

..is that a lunch invite LK...:wink:

[Marcus.]

BB12 does your wife know your joint first of the gentlemen club??

1.i have not got an wife/girlfrieind/lass
2.me ex knew that i was an gentleman

[Niamh.]

no secrets

But if there's no present problem and no way to spread something further, who exactly are you helping by telling her?

Exactly. Why would your partner even want to know that? I have no desire to picture my husband with someone else or to know if he ever had an std (unless it wasn't cured that is :laugh: )

[Josy]

If it's cured then I don't see the point in bringing it up.

[Roy Mars III]

If it came up in discussion somehow, I would tell her about it. But I wouldn't just tell her I had gonorrhea randomly on the way to the movies though.

[Marcus.]

Exactly. Why would your partner even want to know that? I have no desire to picture my husband with someone else or to know if he ever had an std (unless it wasn't cured that is :laugh: )

ok but if it was talk about then no secrets

[Niamh.]

ok but if it was talk about then no secrets

It's all about good communication BB12 and what's right for each individual couple, me and my husband for example have never wanted to know about eachothers past sex life, not because we're hiding anything but because we just don't want or need to know about it.

[Marcus.]

It's all about good communication BB12 and what's right for each individual couple, me and my husband for example have never wanted to know about eachothers past sex life, not because we're hiding anything but because we just don't want or need to know about it.

oh but for me if she what to know i well say

[InOne]

bb12 if someone offered you a million pounds for a night with your wife what would you do?

[Marcus.]

bb12 if someone offered you a million pounds for a night with your wife what would you do?

no i would not

[Livia]

I would not tell. And the person who gave it to me would be dead, so it wouldn't be like they would be talking any time soon.

[Niamh.]

I would not tell. And the person who gave it to me would be dead, so it wouldn't be like they would be talking any time soon.

:laugh2:

[Mystic Mock]

Not unless i've still got it.

[Legend killer]

The moral of this story is keep that sausage wrapped at all times

[Mystic Mock]

Will do, Legend Killer.

[mizzy25]

of course i wudnt tell. there has 2 be some secrets.

[Me. I Am Salman]

Don't see the point in telling so no.

[Munchkins]

Wrap your willy dont be silly

i wouldn't tell them if it was cured

[Mystic Mock]

Wrap your willy dont be silly

i wouldn't tell them if it was cured

:laugh3:

[Marcus.]

Wrap your willy dont be silly

i wouldn't tell them if it was cured

i tell them if it was brought up

[Jessica.]

I don't see a reason to mention it, I wouldn't deny it if they asked though, which I doubt would be a normal question for someone to ask in the first place. Sounds like an awkward situation though, if you feel your husband should know it would probably be best to tell them. o.o

[Mystic Mock]

I wonder what Zee will do when he has this dilemma?

[Kizzy]

Urgh, no way. Some things are better left unsaid!

[Jessica.]

I wonder what Zee will do when he has this dilemma?
That's mean! :nono:

[Mystic Mock]

Mean but would be fun lol.

[BizarreCharisma]

..you acquired an STD from a previous partner for which you have been treated and the disease is cured...you are just about to be married to an amazing guy/lady..would you tell them about the STD..or would you keep it a secret as you no longer had it...?

I'd say keep it to yourself, there's no need to really inform him of it, the point is you are safe now :)

[Benjamin]

Nay reason to say anything. If it's gone then they have no reason to know. Although some STD's, although cured, do linger.

[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

There's no need to tell them unless it puts them at risk. And you're free of it so what's the point of bringing it up? :/

[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

If it came up in discussion somehow, I would tell her about it. But I wouldn't just tell her I had gonorrhea randomly on the way to the movies though.

Lol what if it's a comedy you're watching, randomly joking about the STD you had. Your wife/partner makes a comment about it, either ew/or laughs, would you feel obliged to let it pass, or let her reaction to it not affect you or would you say baby I had that?

[thesheriff443]

save it for the wedding speach!

[Mystic Mock]

save it for the wedding speach!

Now that's a Wedding Ceremony I'd like to see.:joker: