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Old 08-11-2012, 02:56 PM #1
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..you acquired an STD from a previous partner for which you have been treated and the disease is cured...you are just about to be married to an amazing guy/lady..would you tell them about the STD..or would you keep it a secret as you no longer had it...?
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hhhmmmm, keep it a secret most probably, the past is the past imo
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LOL that disease being kept under wrap not something you want to talk about over a Sunday lunch
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..is that a lunch invite LK...
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I dont see why you would mention it if its not an issue anymore really. Unless you had left it too long to get treated and have some kind of complications because of it.
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I dont see why you would mention it if its not an issue anymore really. Unless you had left it too long to get treated and have some kind of complications because of it.
i tell me wife everything as i say i keep no secrets
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But is there any need to discuss your past sex life? I don't think there is, I wouldn't want to know if it was the opposite way round
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But if there's no present problem and no way to spread something further, who exactly are you helping by telling her?
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Exactly. Why would your partner even want to know that? I have no desire to picture my husband with someone else or to know if he ever had an std (unless it wasn't cured that is )
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Exactly. Why would your partner even want to know that? I have no desire to picture my husband with someone else or to know if he ever had an std (unless it wasn't cured that is )
ok but if it was talk about then no secrets
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if it was gone, than I probably wouldn't mention it
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If it came up in discussion somehow, I would tell her about it. But I wouldn't just tell her I had gonorrhea randomly on the way to the movies though.
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If it came up in discussion somehow, I would tell her about it. But I wouldn't just tell her I had gonorrhea randomly on the way to the movies though.
Lol what if it's a comedy you're watching, randomly joking about the STD you had. Your wife/partner makes a comment about it, either ew/or laughs, would you feel obliged to let it pass, or let her reaction to it not affect you or would you say baby I had that?
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I would not tell. And the person who gave it to me would be dead, so it wouldn't be like they would be talking any time soon.
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