Conzors
17-11-2012, 03:16 PM
Hey guys.
Sorry to use you all as agony aunts but i seriously don't know what to do, and i want an impartial view.
Around February, me and this guy were dating for a few months. He then randomly said to me 'Im going on a second date with this other guy, so i dont wanna date you anymore'. I was kinda hurt and a little taken back, but i soon got over it. I haven't dated anyone since him. Last week, he got back into contact with me, and said sorry for what he did and he is just in a bad place. He is seeing another guy, but he wants me to be his friend and help him 'become a better person'. He revealed that last year he had a serious relationship and his ex abused him and stuff and that made him weak, paranoid and caused him to get cold feet all the time. However last week i also met a guy and we went on a date yesterday (friday 16th nov) and it went well we had dinner and had a little kiss.
Im meeting the guy i was seeing in February tonight for a coffee and to talk, i'm confused about my feelings towards him.
Do i stick with this new guy and see what happens? Or do I see how things go with the old one.
I dont wanna date them both at the same time.
Sorry to use you all as agony aunts but i seriously don't know what to do, and i want an impartial view.
Around February, me and this guy were dating for a few months. He then randomly said to me 'Im going on a second date with this other guy, so i dont wanna date you anymore'. I was kinda hurt and a little taken back, but i soon got over it. I haven't dated anyone since him. Last week, he got back into contact with me, and said sorry for what he did and he is just in a bad place. He is seeing another guy, but he wants me to be his friend and help him 'become a better person'. He revealed that last year he had a serious relationship and his ex abused him and stuff and that made him weak, paranoid and caused him to get cold feet all the time. However last week i also met a guy and we went on a date yesterday (friday 16th nov) and it went well we had dinner and had a little kiss.
Im meeting the guy i was seeing in February tonight for a coffee and to talk, i'm confused about my feelings towards him.
Do i stick with this new guy and see what happens? Or do I see how things go with the old one.
I dont wanna date them both at the same time.