ever felt depressed?

[Petershaw1984]

Have you ever felt very very low and fed up? So muh so that ypu cant be bothered getting up or eating?

[Santa's NaughtiNess]

No, not really. But we all have problems.

[arista]

Have you ever felt very very low and fed up? So muh so that ypu cant be bothered getting up or eating?


You have to Eat.

[Fetch The Bolt Cutters]

You have to Eat.

:joker:

[Holly Christmas]

Have you ever felt very very low and fed up? So muh so that ypu cant be bothered getting up or eating?

yes to the first bit, no to the getting up, I've never been affected in that way, yes to the eating to a certain extent.

[Petershaw1984]

Is it normal to think you are not good ebough for your partner?

[Santa's NaughtiNess]

Is it normal to think you are not good ebough for your partner?

I think some people are insecure. In this case it helps to talk to your partner about it.

[Petershaw1984]

Yeah

[Candy Annie Cane]

I think a lot of people go through stages in their relationships where they feel not worthy or like there are problems....if its you, you need to talk to your partner, you may find she has no idea you are feeling like that...

[Saph]

I had depression when I was younger (like 15/16) but i'm alright now

[Munchkins]

Erm yes, i feel down a lot of the time. Self esteem issues argh

[thesheriff443]

Is it normal to think you are not good ebough for your partner?

are you feeling like this?

[Maia]

Yes :/ A few years back

[Petershaw1984]

are you feeling like this?

No way. Its genuinely my mate

[thesheriff443]

No way. Its genuinely my mate

he needs to see a doctor to get some help.

[Vicky.]

Yes, I suffered depression on and off for about 5 years. At one point my doc tried telling me I was a 'manic depressive' though I dont think so as thats another word for bipolar and surely I would have known if I was (plus would have needed more than fluoxetine to control it) :/

[Black Dagger]

I went through a stage where I was close to depression, I was on tablets for a while, it was around when I was 12/13, I had a lot going on in my life and I was bulimic, it was the worst.

[Niall]

Quite a lot actually. It's something that's been increasing in both intensity and frequency for me over the past year, and I hate it.

[Z]

I've had two bouts with depression in my life, the first of which was brought on by Roaccutane and the second was brought on by being alone in a foreign country... it's very difficult to see the light at the end of the tunnel sometimes but thankfully the effects eventually wore off, and I returned to the UK with regards to the second time.

[Ammi]

Is it normal to think you are not good ebough for your partner?

No way. Its genuinely my mate

..well, it depends on his situation really..I don't think there is a 'normal'..but it is possible for any couple to have other things blur their feelings a bit..you know things like job commitments, children, financial stresses etc....

..maybe it would be good for him and his partner to try to get a break from all of that if possible...?..maybe get a relative to take the children if there's children involved..?...just for a day or so...and not think of work or any other things going on...just talk about how he feels to her..and try to re-connect...?...

..because she may also be feeiling that she isn't good enough too...and he doesn't know....

[GypsyGoth]

I suffered from depression once and took meds to help get over it.

Since then I've been pretty concious of my mood, and I try to do things that helps keep depression away, good diet and exercise.

[Roy Mars III]

yes, used to take stuff for it, but it effected me too much so i stopped

[CharlieO]

yes i do now :cry:

[the truth]

Have you ever felt very very low and fed up? So muh so that ypu cant be bothered getting up or eating?

try get some routine, especially when it comes to food and exercise and stick to it. if other things get in the way, try and catch up with it later in the day.

having a job and earning an income also helps. the rest tends to fall into place easier then.

mind you the state of england now is enough to make santa cry. Its a confused mess of a country. Just try and keep away from negative people and negative or dangerous situations.

[Munchkins]

When my eating disorder was really bad, and i took loads of tablets and got ill thats when i was genuinely depressed
now im way past the disorder tbh, and im quite happy, just get down from time to time with self esteem
its just such an awful thing though!

[King Gizzard]

For the last 5 or 6 years

[joeysteele]

I am very fortunate not to have felt any real depression in my life so far.
I, like everyone else have 'off' days but I have witnessed people with moderate to severe depression and it's really awful,for them and those connected to them too.

What really has annoyed me at times is the dismissive attitude some direct to those who have depression.

[Urban Cragou]

No, not really. I had self-esteem issues a few years back but nothing serious or anything (not enough to be considered depression).

[Jamie585]

Yeah, from when i was 5 till this present day!!
Always had confidence issues, so Kind of Expected. I have my dogs to cheer me up :love:

[the truth]

my old man once told me the only cure he knew for depression was to think of things other than yourself. Thats probably easier when youve left school and away from all the peer pressure, when youre in school the pressure is pretty intense. It forces people to conform and to dwell on their appearance , rather than experiment and explore oneself and the world around them. Peer pressure can be a positive thing in focusing a person on challenges, but it can also be suffocating and has the potential to destroy people too.

[Merry Mockmas]

I think we all get like that sometimes but you just have to try and get through it.

[Locke.]

No but I suspect I will be tonight.

[Merry Mockmas]

Is it normal to think you are not good ebough for your partner?

Well I'm not up on relationships but I'm sure it happens to every couple at some point.

[InOne]

Yes, I've had really bad depression for about four years. And it's safe to say it has ruined my life and any chance that I have of making anything of myself.

[Merry Mockmas]

Yes, I've had really bad depression for about four years. And it's safe to say it has ruined my life and any chance that I have of making anything of myself.

Don't try and think like that, there's somewhere for everyone I'm sure.

[Ramsay]

On and off the last few years
I get extremely embarressed about it and have become somewhat of a master at hiding it

[Novo]

Luckily nothing has happened in my life worth being depressed about, i think the most depressed i have been is when i am bored