Why is everyone always gossiping about Dexter when he hasn't actually done anything?

[cookiemonster]

i don't understand why people are so funny around him

he seems like a nice guy underneath it all

[Vanessa]

i don't understand why people are so funny around him

he seems like a nice guy underneath it all

I know, it really pisses me off. He's lovely. He doesn't gossip and is friendly with everyone. So he's a massive flirt. Nothing wrong with that. :nono:

[Locke.]

And they are all going to gang up and nominate the poor guy as well, we need a twist sometime soon

[Vanessa]

:D I think he's hilarious. He comes up with such corkers. :joker:

[MrWong]

A few things have been mentioned

Like the way he hovers around conversations, not saying anything.

A number of hm's have said he's a bit creepy.

A few hm's think he says weird things to and about Hazel.

[cookiemonster]

i hover around conversations and don't say anything, it's not a crime

[smeagol]

i think cause he's a horny hobbit he even chatted up dan the other day lol

[Vanessa]

i think cause he's a horny hobbit he even chatted up dan the other day lol

:joker: Dan was enjoying that!

[karezza]

Dexter is the least bitchy housemate. He isn't snakelike. He is just a bit socially awkward.

:shrug:

[Vanessa]

Dexter is the least bitchy housemate. He isn't snakelike. He is just a bit socially awkward.

:shrug:

I agree. If there's a snake in there it's Dan. :devil:

[smeagol]

:joker: Dan was enjoying that!

yeah think he was sure he had a semi lol

hope dex stays he is the only one i find interesting. the stuff he says is funny , ssss lol

[muchadoaboutnothing]

I don't think it is so much that he has isolated himself but more that the HMs have slightly isolated him. I didn't like the way Wolfy made him a topic of conversation in the bedroom as if to indicate her dislike of him. I actually don't trust Wolfy and I do feel sorry for Dexter but the feeling is that he will get most of the nominations. I only hope he is up with somebody who he can beat.

[Vanessa]

yeah think he was sure he had a semi lol

hope dex stays he is the only one i find interesting. the stuff he says is funny , ssss lol

He's hilarious! :laugh:

[Vanessa]

I don't think it is so much that he has isolated himself but more that the HMs have slightly isolated him. I didn't like the way Wolfy made him a topic of conversation in the bedroom as if to indicate her dislike of him. I actually don't trust Wolfy and I do feel sorry for Dexter but the feeling is that he will get most of the nominations. I only hope he is up with somebody who he can beat.

It's a bit like Deana all over again.

[muchadoaboutnothing]

Another thing I didn't like on tonights show was when BB asked who called Dexter a snake, then Baily (or is he Daly) and Callum started to do a snake like routine with Wolfy joining in.

[Ammi]

Dexter is the least bitchy housemate. He isn't snakelike. He is just a bit socially awkward.

:shrug:

..yeah, this exactly..I expected him to be really cocky and he's the complete opposite, he seems very awkward around people...

[Vanessa]

Another thing I didn't like on tonights show was when BB asked who called Dexter a snake, then Baily (or is he Daly) and Callum started to do a snake like routine with Wolfy joining in.

Yes, i'm disappointed in Callum. :nono:

[cookiemonster]

Another thing I didn't like on tonights show was when BB asked who called Dexter a snake, then Baily (or is he Daly) and Callum started to do a snake like routine with Wolfy joining in.
yeh i didn't like that either. typical high school bullying behaviour

[Lostie!]

I don't expect him to last much longer, but I'd like him to outlast most of the others.

[smeagol]

yeah they done snake dance (but snakes dont dance by the way even the ones on crack lol )


very two faced dan wolfy & co they wouldn't like it if someone done to them.

[Vanessa]

It's a shame it's a vote to evict. I worry Dexter might go . :bawling:

[fruit_cake]

he's not really done anything wrong imo. I feel a bit sorry for him the group seem to be turning against him.

[Vanessa]

he's not really done anything wrong imo. I feel a bit sorry for him the group seem to be turning against him.

It's not fair. He's always nice to everyone and never gossips like most of the others. :bored:

[fruit_cake]

he needs to step up his act and tell Hazel to stop flirting with him

[karezza]

Dexter is this year's scapegoat. The other housemates have made their minds up about him and won't give him a chance.

:sad:

[Vanessa]

Dexter is this year's scapegoat. The other housemates have made their minds up about him and won't give him a chance.

:sad:

In vote to save we could keep him, but it's a vote to evict. I still hope he'll survive eviction. He hasn't been nasty, so who knows ?

[cookiemonster]

as someone who's had people dislike them for no particular reason all their life, it's very interesting. just confirms it's their problem

[Vanessa]

as someone who's had people dislike them for no particular reason all their life, it's very interesting. just confirms it's their problem

I think the more they pick on him the more the public will feel sorry for him. So it could work on his favour.

[Cherie]

i hover around conversations and don't say anything, it's not a crime

:joker: no not in real life, but in there he is an easy target, poor Dex.

[cookiemonster]

I think the more they pick on him the more the public will feel sorry for him. So it could work on his favour.
possibly, but i really have no idea what the public thinks. the public thinks very differently to the people on this forum. usually the opposite

what people don't seem to understand is that at the beginning he went on about being a sugar daddy and rich because he doesn't have any confidence. i think people may think he's arrogant when in fact he's actually the complete opposite. most people won't figure this out though

[Vanessa]

It's starting to look like bullying to me. I'm so disappointed in Callum.

[fruit_cake]

in fairness he is extremely creepy though

[Vanessa]

in fairness he is extremely creepy though

He's a bit of a flirt. That's not a crime. :shrug:

[cookiemonster]

vanessa i have to say your sig isn't really helping the perception of him :joker:

ah finally, someone! how is he creepy fruit_cake?

[karezza]

in fairness he is extremely creepy though

That's just your perception. Other housemates such as Dan, Callum and Sam could also be labelled as creepy

:nono:

[fruit_cake]

I like him, but he is creepy, he thinks he's god's gift and talks to people like they're objects

[oathbreaker]

Feel really sorry for the guy.
normally when a HM gets through an eviction they give that person some space for a week. I don't think he means any harm he comes across as really awkward around other people and sometimes says the wrong thing.
Goodness help that house when he does go because who will be the next focus for all negative attention

[Vanessa]

I like him, but he is creepy, he thinks he's god's gift and talks to people like they're objects

It's all a front. He comes across as very insecure to me. He's very articulate and intelligent , but a bit socially awkward.

[Patricia4]

I think he's harmless he seem's nice.

[joeysteele]

All I see is those that are shown on the highlights anyway, is all of them talking about someone or everyone else in any case not just about Dexter.
Dexter talks about many others too.
What else is there to do in that house really anyway.

[cookiemonster]

I like him, but he is creepy, he thinks he's god's gift and talks to people like they're objects
this proves EXACTLY what i just said in my post up there. he only comes across as god's gift (to a lot of people) because he doesn't want everyone to know how little confidence he actually has.

i don't know why you think he talks to people like they're objects though. to me when he talks to people he really looks like he's listening. a lot of the people, Jemima especially, are always looking round the room and appearing disinterested when people are talking to them

[fruit_cake]

It's all a front. He comes across as very insecure to me. He's very articulate and intelligent , but a bit socially awkward.

only time will tell Vanessa, only time will tell :bigsmile:

[fruit_cake]

this proves EXACTLY what i just said in my post up there. he only comes across as god's gift (to a lot of people) because he doesn't want everyone to know how little confidence he actually has.

i don't know why you think he talks to people like they're objects though. to me when he talks to people he really looks like he's listening. a lot of the people, Jemima especially, are always looking round the room and appearing disinterested when people are talking to them

no way! Jem is a good listener.

Dex thinks he can score by using some sort of technique..he even teaches it apparently. He needs to get real and show the world who he is instead of trying to fake it. I like him though I thought he was very empathetic with Michael even though it was misguided obviously.

[cookiemonster]

no way! Jem is a good listener.

Dex thinks he can score by using some sort of technique..he even teaches it apparently. He needs to get real and show the world who he is instead of trying to fake it. I like him though I thought he was very empathetic with Michael even though it was misguided obviously.
well i think that's why he's gone on the show, to make himself a better person

[fingers]

no way! Jem is a good listener.

Dex thinks he can score by using some sort of technique..he even teaches it apparently. He needs to get real and show the world who he is instead of trying to fake it. I like him though I thought he was very empathetic with Michael even though it was misguided obviously.

He does indeed teach it, and he considers that he does it well! :dance:

> http://vimeo.com/67715156

[smeagol]

he does comes across creepy sometimes but thats whats funny to me. as he tries too hard , and says all the wrong things .
he obviously uses money to get women .but by the look of it but thats cause he is poor at talking.
he is very insercure always trying to impress people thats why he talks about all the things he has done sort of self validation but it comes of looking bad .think he just wants to be liked and loved and cant express himself properly,
he is funny.reminds me of like delboy trotter lol

[fingers]

Everybody loves a con-man, that's why/how they exist!

[joeysteele]

he does comes across creepy sometimes but thats whats funny to me. as he tries too hard , and says all the wrong things .
he obviously uses money to get women .but by the look of it but thats cause he is poor at talking.
he is very insercure always trying to impress people thats why he talks about all the things he has done sort of self validation but it comes of looking bad .think he just wants to be liked and loved and cant express himself properly,
he is funny.reminds me of like delboy trotter lol

Actually I agree with you here I am pleased to say. I think his stories are to set out to impress people to hide his insecurities too,thinking that will make them like him more.
He is funny, I really enjoy watching him and as I have said loads, I love hearing his stories, taking most of them as just that, stories though,not likely fact.

[MTVN]

The biggest snake in there

[muchadoaboutnothing]

The biggest snake in there

is DAN

[Livia]

He's an awkward, slightly creepy man who promotes himself as a "Publicist" which requires excellent communication skills, and his communication skills are clumsy at best. He also described himself as a "Date Coach" but he has all the seductive allure of Howard Wolowitz.

[fingers]

I had to Google Wolowitz, I've never watched Big Bang!! :elephant:

> https://twitter.com/Jew_Howard

[Kizzy]

Looking at your avvy fingers that's who dexter reminds me of a bit, there's just something not quite right about him I think *shudder*

[Me. I Am Salman]

Why is everyone running to precious Dexter's defence each time someone utters a bad word against him?

[fingers]

Looking at your avvy fingers that's who dexter reminds me of a bit, there's just something not quite right about him I think *shudder*

I missed that, good spot, Kizzy! :dance:

[Livia]

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/f/fd/Howard-wolowitz-the-big-bang-theory-16865313-930-1246.jpg

Dexter.

[Nedusa]

I saw the film "Hitch" recently where Will Smith plays the role of a date coach. The thought of Dexter as a date coach is absurd, he needs a date coach himself as he comes over to woman as a nerdy, geeky 13 yr old schoolboy.

I fear for this man's sanity I really do. Having witnessed already on more than one occasion his extreme overreaction to any slight criticism from other HM I think as time goes on his fragile psyche may cause him to be the series first "walker"

He is no "Date Coach".........!!!!