Dexter warned over 'sexist' language/insulting Sophie

[Jake.]

Hope this hasn't been posted, it hasn't from what I can see :laugh:

'Big Brother UK housemate Dexter Koh has been warned over his language in the house.

Dexter in the latest housemate to be hauled in front of Big Brother this series, with Dan getting a warning for threatening Callum earlier in the week.

The former Escort told his friends about some of the various sex acts he got up to, explaining “rodeo-ing” to his housemates: “This is where a guy and a girl have sex and the guy covers the girl with a sheet and loads of men run in the room.

“It’s like a rodeo. Men put sheets over the girl. Loads of men run in and do stuff and wait to see if she notices.”

An unimpressed Daley snapped: “That’s *******ing rape, bruv.”

After being called into the Diary Room, a sheepish Dex returned to tell the others: “I got into trouble.”

Dexter also came under fire for remarking on Sophie Lawrence’s gypsy roots: “You can’t take the caravan park out of the girl.”

A spokesperson for Big Brother and Channel 5 confirmed: “Dexter has been reminded about the use of inappropriate language in the house. He has since apologised.”

Big Brother airs nightly on Channel 5.

Read more: http://tellymix.co.uk/reality-tv/big-brother/153046-big-brother-2013-dexter-koh-warned-over-sexist-language.html#ixzz2YFkEnrbK'

[MTVN]

That is basically just rape

[Jake.]

Sounds like something you'd see on an extreme porn site

[Jemal]

Respect Lost.
Moving on.

[Josy]

What the actual ****

[Kizzy]

Omg..... and he saw this as a 'fun' thing to do?
Rarely am I lost for words.....

[Visage]

I never know if he makes it up to make himself look interesting.

Though if he is making it up, he's doing a bad job of it, he's coming across like an idiot.

[Jake.]

IF this is aired, could he lose some fans?

[Jemal]

I want vanessa too see this:laugh2:
See what she says.

[Visage]

IF this is aired, could he lose some fans?

Most likely, it's certainly not going to do him any good.

[Jake.]

I want vanessa too see this:laugh2:
See what she says.

Tbh I don't know if his hardcore fans would just brush it off

[fingers]

I want vanessa too see this:laugh2:
See what she says.
the short answer to that will be "I don't care I still love him!":wavey:

[Jemal]

the short answer to that will be "I don't care I still love him!":wavey:

:laugh3: typical.

[sampvt]

He seems to be a man of many talents and this show is allowing him to play out all his yet untried fantasies. I wonder what he will be like if he does win and gain fame and fortune from his so called exploits. Will he live them out in real life.

[Marc]

What the...

[coll]

Where is the proof of this please?

[smeagol]

he got a warning for saying caravan park ? is that for real lol nooooo way

[Jemal]

he got a warning for saying caravan park ? is that for real lol nooooo way

lol uwotm8.
Is that what you noticed in that article?

[armand.kay]

Lord :/

[hijaxers]

I think Dexter is a bit of a Walter Mitty , day dreaming about what he'd really like to be !
This is a world where Dex uses his weapon of choice !! much more than he gets to in reality !!
Nowt wrong with having dreams - but keepem to yerself - esp when yer escaping to the world of ' Percy Filth '

[smeagol]

lol uwotm8.
Is that what you noticed in that article?

lol yea ,other stuff just sounds like a sex party game, there's some kinky people about. each to their own i guess, im sure she consented or he wouldn't be mentioning it.
never know with dex he has some crazy stories , what is true is another matter.

[Patricia4]

Some of his stories are fake I feel sure of it he likes to feel big but I like him.

[Cherie]

is there a link for this, I don't like that at all..

[karezza]

As soon as a housemate looks like becoming too popular BB release negative stories about them. Watch out Gina!

[Jake.]

The link is at the bottom of the article

[Visage]

Some of his stories are fake I feel sure of it he likes to feel big but I like him.

I question how true some of them are, however he's clueless if he thinks this talk will gain him new friendships. Most people are quick to judge and some of his comments are a little shady/cringe..

[rusticgal]

He is an out and out liar....bigging himself up all the time he thinks he sounds 'cool' and 'out there'.... he is really just a prick and the longer he is in there the bigger his ego will grow and the bigger hole he will dig himself....carry on Dexter.

[blue]

how is this ' rape' if the girl is aware of it bcos it does say the girl has to guess what the guys are doing, it doesn't say anything about them all gang raping her or having sex with her it actually says they run around the room, ppl really need to stop making mountains out of mole hills seriously :nono:

[karezza]

The Big Brother debunking of Dexter and Gina has begun. They'll come out of the Safe House a lot less popular than they went in.

Big Brother wants the Twins to win.

[Gillian-73]

I want vanessa too see this:laugh2:
See what she says.
:laugh2: ditto
how is this ' rape' if the girl is aware of it bcos it does say the girl has to guess what the guys are doing, it doesn't say anything about them all gang raping her or having sex with her it actually says they run around the room, ppl really need to stop making mountains out of mole hills seriously :nono:

No it says 'to see if the girl notices'

[JTM45]

Trying to make something out of nothing again!
There's a lot weirder sh*t than this going on behind closed doors between consenting adults!!!

[Patrick]

Absolute disgrace.

I know what said may be offensive to some people - but I still think it's a ******ing joke that he even got a warning for it, and as for that thing with Sophie? Do me a favour.

I'm honestly fed up with the amount of politically correct bollocks that's coming from this year's producers. The housemates can't sh*t right without having a warning over their heads.

It's a reality show, I mean for **** sake - there's other shows that are far more explicit nowadays, the way Big Brother use to be.

They need to STOP catering for the single mothers at home who email Ofcom, and START catering for the audience that matters.

[Patrick]

how is this ' rape' if the girl is aware of it bcos it does say the girl has to guess what the guys are doing, it doesn't say anything about them all gang raping her or having sex with her it actually says they run around the room, ppl really need to stop making mountains out of mole hills seriously :nono:

That's TiBB for you - they still haven't got over Conor's 'vile abusive rape threats' towards Deana, last Summer.

[anne666]

This was rape IF the girl involved was drugged/asleep or had not consented. Clearly if she was awake she had consented. Mountains out of mole hills. What he said to Sophie was surely a joke ???? If not so what ? She has said she is proud of her gypsy roots. This demonstrates far more to me about BB prejudice regarding Gypsies. Naught BB

[R0B1S]

BB has really become so *****ing soft/scared. Warnings for every little thing HMs do or say if that potentially by someone somewhere could be interpreted as offensive - it's ridiculous and it kinda ruins the show. Just let them be.

[reece(:]

We don't know the WHOLE facts, so cannot assume rape was suggested.

[anne666]

Absolute disgrace

They need to STOP catering for the single mothers at home who email Ofcom, and START catering for the audience that matters.

Sweeping ,sexist , statement. . I contacted Ofcom re the Conor incident. I am not a SINGLE at home Mum. But I am probably the only one then ?

[karezza]

All housemate warnings should be shown. We saw Jemima receiving a warning.

[M X]

What on earth.

[Jemal]

If a girl is a helpless or has no control over whats happening to her, that's a form of rape.
The girl supposedly had a sheet over her and she wasnt to know different men would come in and do different stuff to her.

[Jemal]

If a girl is a helpless or has no control over whats happening to her, that's a form of rape.
The girl supposedly had a sheet over her and she wasnt to know different men would come in and do different stuff to her.

[Visage]

We don't know the WHOLE facts, so cannot assume rape was suggested.

My thoughts too.

[jet]

Dexter lost me on his 'women are my accessories' comment. I knew then how sexist he was so this comes as no surprise.

[actor99]

Anyone that's into what's he into has got to be dodgy. im surprised women support this guy. or even men at that. A guy like him that uses women should win BB

[James]

I think it is worth mentioning that the original source for this story is The Daily Star.

[Visage]

I think it is worth mentioning that the original source for this story is The Daily Star.

Well that puts a slant on it.



Like I mentioned earlier, we don't know how true this really is. It could be Dexter making it up (though if he did, it's not a very smart move) or it could be totally pie in the sky.


Either way, it's got people talking..

[Im_Juz_ChiLLin]

It's funny how you never mentioned the source of the info was Daily Star they are so reliable with thier information aren't they.....

Here is more news ;

http://www.dailystar.co.uk/news/view...for-violence-/
http://www.dailystar.co.uk/news/view...-TERROR-ALERT/
http://www.dailystar.co.uk/playlist/...n-s-advances-/

[Im_Juz_ChiLLin]

If a girl is a helpless or has no control over whats happening to her, that's a form of rape.
The girl supposedly had a sheet over her and she wasnt to know different men would come in and do different stuff to her.

The girl is not helpless lmao, its called a adult party and the girl knows whats happening to her some find it kinky some don't. The key point to these parties is that the girl knows whats happening to them so if both adults are consenting what's you're problem? :conf:

[Brother Leon]

Tbf, I can imagine him saying something this stupid. Weird how there wasn't a video of it or anything though. It was obviously a fairly big moment in the day.

[Roy Mars III]

probably a fake story

98% of the **** this guy says are lies anyway

[Visage]

Tbf, I can imagine him saying something this stupid.

From what I've seen of Dexter I can see him saying something like this too. It looks like he's trying to be the cool guy with all these stories, yet I don't think he realises how dumb some of his comments are.

[YodaBB]

"I didn't expect to be saved after my stupid comment last night", DS are saying he also said that live yesterday & that he was called to the diart room at 1.31am

[jet]

The girl is not helpless lmao, its called a adult party and the girl knows whats happening to her some find it kinky some don't. The key point to these parties is that the girl knows whats happening to them so if both adults are consenting what's you're problem? :conf:

Nope. Dexter is quoted as saying "Loads of men run in and do stuff and wait to see if she notices.”

No consent there.

[Im_Juz_ChiLLin]

Nope. Dexter is quoted as saying "Loads of men run in and do stuff and wait to see if she notices.”

No consent there.

Why are you talking for that girl? Were you there? id think twice before you call something unconsenting if you don't have any evidence for it and are just going on heresay, don't you see its a game of like you are blindfolded and you have to wait and see what happens, i'm sorry but it looks like you don't know what exactly happens at sex parties.... some games are adventorous and furthermore this story is from the dailystar..... :joker:

[jet]

Why are you talking for that girl? Were you there? id think twice before you call something unconsenting if you don't have any evidence for it and are just going on heresay, don't you see its a game of like you are blindfolded and you have to wait and see what happens, i'm sorry but it looks like you don't know what exactly happens at sex parties.... some games are adventorous and furthermore this story is from the dailystar..... :joker:

I wasn't speaking for anyone, I was quoting what Dexter himself said. :conf:

[Im_Juz_ChiLLin]

I wasn't speaking for anyone, I was quoting what Dexter himself said. :conf:

There is no evidence that Dexter has said that... all you are quoting is the Daily star.... :nono:

[Roy Mars III]

Dexter is basically Jay from Inbetweeners

[jet]

There is no evidence that Dexter has said that... all you are quoting is the Daily star.... :nono:

The Daily Star is a terrible excuse for a newspaper, however, I think this story seems more genuine because rather than just narrating a story and twisting it for sensationalism they have attributed actual words to Dexter and an actual response from Daley.

[karezza]

There is no evidence that Dexter has said that... all you are quoting is the Daily star.... :nono:

The Daily Star does BB's dirty work. If a housemate becomes too popular BB debunks them.

[Roy Mars III]

The Daily Star does BB's dirty work. If a housemate becomes too popular BB debunks them.

yea, call me a nut but I do find it interesting that this story comes out the moment when Dexter's popularity is at its peak

[aman201]

Hope this hasn't been posted, it hasn't from what I can see :laugh:

'Big Brother UK housemate Dexter Koh has been warned over his language in the house.

Dexter in the latest housemate to be hauled in front of Big Brother this series, with Dan getting a warning for threatening Callum earlier in the week.

The former Escort told his friends about some of the various sex acts he got up to, explaining “rodeo-ing” to his housemates: “This is where a guy and a girl have sex and the guy covers the girl with a sheet and loads of men run in the room.

“It’s like a rodeo. Men put sheets over the girl. Loads of men run in and do stuff and wait to see if she notices.”

An unimpressed Daley snapped: “That’s *******ing rape, bruv.”

After being called into the Diary Room, a sheepish Dex returned to tell the others: “I got into trouble.”

Dexter also came under fire for remarking on Sophie Lawrence’s gypsy roots: “You can’t take the caravan park out of the girl.”

A spokesperson for Big Brother and Channel 5 confirmed: “Dexter has been reminded about the use of inappropriate language in the house. He has since apologised.”

Big Brother airs nightly on Channel 5.

Read more: http://tellymix.co.uk/reality-tv/big-brother/153046-big-brother-2013-dexter-koh-warned-over-sexist-language.html#ixzz2YFkEnrbK'

Team Dexter. :dance:

[karezza]

yea, call me a nut but I do find it interesting that this story comes out the moment when Dexter's popularity is at its peak

Gina is clear favourite to win. I expect a bad edit for her from now on.

[lime]

Sounds like a sex party to me.Not sure if Dexter has been to one or has just heard about them.
Big difference between waiting to see if she notices & without her consent

[karezza]

Sounds like a sex party to me.Not sure if Dexter has been to one or has just heard about them.
Big difference between waiting to see if she notices & without her consent

It is probably as apocryphal as the sexcam annecdote. :wavey:

[Roy Mars III]

The Daily Star is a terrible excuse for a newspaper, however, I think this story seems more genuine because rather than just narrating a story and twisting it for sensationalism they have attributed actual words to Dexter and an actual response from Daley.

they quote his describing a sex act, not saying that he took part in one. So maybe he did describe it, nothing different then what he has been doing the whole show.

(stole this point from someone on DS)

same thing from when Dan supposedly was almost thrown out for violence. The Star bull****ting as usual

[Kizzy]

Absolute disgrace.

I know what said may be offensive to some people - but I still think it's a ******ing joke that he even got a warning for it, and as for that thing with Sophie? Do me a favour.

I'm honestly fed up with the amount of politically correct bollocks that's coming from this year's producers. The housemates can't sh*t right without having a warning over their heads.

It's a reality show, I mean for **** sake - there's other shows that are far more explicit nowadays, the way Big Brother use to be.

They need to STOP catering for the single mothers at home who email Ofcom, and START catering for the audience that matters.

Ridiculous thing to say...

[Vicky.]

If its come from the star well....I dont think much needs to be said tbh

I wonder why we never see any of these 'warnings'. Even Dans, what reason could they have not to show it?

[karezza]

If its come from the star well....I dont think much needs to be said tbh

I wonder why we never see any of these 'warnings'. Even Dans, what reason could they have not to show it?

They show warnings when it suits their agenda.

[Vicky.]

Also for all those quick to label him a rapist, it says nowhere in the article (if you can call it that..) that he actually took place in this. Its like someone describing what a donkey punch is...most people know..but have never done it.

[Vicky.]

Dexter took the prank too far and made a nasty jibe, saying: “You can’t take the caravan park out of the girl.”

--

Also, how is this sexist language?

And didnt Dexter say he lived in a caravan himself for 5 years?

[armand.kay]

Also for all those quick to label him a rapist, it says nowhere in the article (if you can call it that..) that he actually took place in this. Its like someone describing what a donkey punch is...most people know..but have never done it.
what is it? :suspect:

[Roy Mars III]

he supposedly was warned for say this to Sophie as it was too mean

funny thing is that he only said it because Big Brother gave him a task to try and piss off housemates

[Vicky.]

he supposedly warned for say this to Sophie as it was too mean

funny thing is that he only said it because Big Brother gave him a task to try and piss off housemates

Well (if the warning is true) then that kinda takes the piss a lot tbh

[Vicky.]

what is it? :suspect:

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=donkey%20punch

[Roy Mars III]

it wouldn't surprise me if he actually did describe what a rodeo act was and big brother called him in to warn him about trying to stop that kind of talk

the Star probably took that, made up an article and blew it up like he was almost kicked out like they did with the Dan bulling Wolfy thing

[CaudleHalbard]

Dexter has probably got all his knowledge of heterosexual sex from the internet.:D

He gives off rather gay vibes. Indeed that might be at the root of his social inadequacy... non-acceptance of his true self.

[smeagol]

what is it? :suspect:

should watch the movie donkey punch - good film

[jet]

Also for all those quick to label him a rapist, it says nowhere in the article (if you can call it that..) that he actually took place in this. Its like someone describing what a donkey punch is...most people know..but have never done it.

I wouldn't label him or anyone else a rapist without proof, and certainly not because the DS implies it, but I have gone off him since he made the 'women are like my accessories' remark. I wanted to like him, and did for quite a while, but there is something sexist and sleazy about him that I personally find off - putting. I think he's a con man who tries to make himself look 'big' and important when really he is coming across to me as just a pathetic little man with an over sized ego.
I admit that he can make for good viewing at times, but no matter how entertaining someone is, I couldn't support them to win if I don't like their basic character.

[Brother Leon]

Dexter took the prank too far and made a nasty jibe, saying: “You can’t take the caravan park out of the girl.”

--

Also, how is this sexist language?

And didnt Dexter say he lived in a caravan himself for 5 years?

He had a task to piss her off. In true Dexter fashion he comes up with that LOL

[MTVN]

Don't tellymix normally reference the Star specifically when they are citing a story from there?

(I know the Star have carried the story but tellymix posting the article as they have done suggests it's fairly reliable)

[MatthewS]

So you can get a warning for just explaining what's involved in a sexual fantasy that's enjoyed by consenting adults?

I personally find the fantasy/act itself to be quite odd/weird, but whatever, some people might be up for that, who am I (or BB) to judge? I don't see how you can warn someone for just describing/explaining what this (legal) act entails? Makes no sense.

Also, shame on all those (and Daley) playing the rape card. Rape is specific, it's the forced act of sexual endeavors on a party without consent. Dexter doesn't say anything to suggest that this 'act' involves forcing yourself onto another party without consent. BB is really over reaching this year, you can't even have a conversation about 'fringe' kink or sexually adventurist acts without getting a warning.

[Kizzy]

'to see if she notices' suggests to me that there is no consent.

[karezza]

I wish Big Brother would show us warnings been given rather than leaking stuff to the Daily Star.

[Kizzy]

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=donkey%20punch

Stu Kent likes this :joker:

[jet]

So you can get a warning for just explaining what's involved in a sexual fantasy that's enjoyed by consenting adults?

I personally find the fantasy/act itself to be quite odd/weird, but whatever, some people might be up for that, who am I (or BB) to judge? I don't see how you can warn someone for just describing/explaining what this (legal) act entails? Makes no sense.

Also, shame on all those (and Daley) playing the rape card. Rape is specific, it's the forced act of sexual endeavors on a party without consent. Dexter doesn't say anything to suggest that this 'act' involves forcing yourself onto another party without consent. BB is really over reaching this year, you can't even have a conversation about 'fringe' kink or sexually adventurist acts without getting a warning.

The article implied that Dexter took part in an act where the girl might not be consenting as various men do things to her 'to see if she notices'.
We don't really know if Dexter said he actually DID take part, but if he did, then a warning was certainly in order, and a severe one at that. If he didn't personally take part, then it wasn't.
I wish BB would show footage of these convo's and warnings and let the viewers actually see exactly what occurred.

[Roy Mars III]

The article implied that Dexter took part in an act where the girl might not be consenting as various men do things to her 'to see if she notices'.
We don't really know if Dexter said he actually DID take part, but if he did, then a warning was certainly in order, and a severe one at that. If he didn't personally take part, then it wasn't.
I wish BB would show footage of these convo's and warnings and let the viewers actually see exactly what occurred.

which is probably the B.S. part of the article. They don't quote him, because he never hinted to it. If he did, they would have quoted it. This is the amazingly similar to the Dan/Wolfy article. A real event blown up out of proportion by the DS

[MatthewS]

This is the problem, the whole "we don't know if Dexter" participated, but we're going to assume he might have so we'll warn him anyways. We'll also assume that one of the participants may not have consented. It's so PC it hurts.

[Roy Mars III]

we don't even know if he was actually given a warning or just reminded to watch what he talks about on the show

[MatthewS]

which is probably the B.S. part of the article. They don't quote him, because he never hinted to it. If he did, they would have quoted it.

Bingo. The lack of journalistic integrity and motivation to put as negative a spin on it as possible, to create a 'talking point', is just beyond me.

[Kizzy]

which is probably the B.S. part of the article. They don't quote him, because he never hinted to it. If he did, they would have quoted it. This is the amazingly similar to the Dan/Wolfy article. A real event blown up out of proportion by the DS

“This is where a guy and a girl have sex and the guy covers the girl with a sheet and loads of men run in the room.

“It’s like a rodeo. Men put sheets over the girl. Loads of men run in and do stuff and wait to see if she notices.”

They do quote him.

[Roy Mars III]

“This is where a guy and a girl have sex and the guy covers the girl with a sheet and loads of men run in the room.

“It’s like a rodeo. Men put sheets over the girl. Loads of men run in and do stuff and wait to see if she notices.”

They do quote him.

Not saying he took part, only describing the act. Anyone with internet could do that

[CaudleHalbard]

He got all that from the web - or a porno vid! :D

[smeagol]

doesn't matter if he took part or not. if the girl is consenting which no doubt she did there is no problem and it has nothing to do with bb.
those sex parties n stuff they do all sorts. blind folds ppl goose them n try figure out who it was after. its all legal and consenting. describe it the wrong way though could seem dodgy which i guess is what dex has done.
and the caravan thing is just beyond sad , they will be watching every word soon then the show becomes just a robot house of people like calum thinking before they speak and never revealing anything.

[MatthewS]

Meanwhile, you can turn on any other channel and see shows like CSI, Dexter, The Sopranos, Bones, Weeds, Law & Order - which clearly depict scenes of violence, rape, substance abuse, physical abuse, elements of racism, etc.

Dare to have an adult conversation in the BB house about those topics though and you're chances of getting reprimanded are shockingly high.

[Kizzy]

Not saying he took part, only describing the act. Anyone with internet could do that

''told his friends about some of the various sex acts he got up to''
Would they put it like this if he hadn't? I guess he should get the benefit of the doubt though.

[Scream]

LMFAO!!

[Lwize]

Dexter is quite the storyteller.

[EzzaB]

Fake

[Kazanne]

Also for all those quick to label him a rapist, it says nowhere in the article (if you can call it that..) that he actually took place in this. Its like someone describing what a donkey punch is...most people know..but have never done it.

Vicky,what's a 'donkey punch' seriously never heard of it,and I take it ,it's not punching a donkey(well I bloody hope not):shocked:

[goroos1994]

Dexter's shooting himself in the foot.

[calyman]

If a girl is a helpless or has no control over whats happening to her, that's a form of rape.
The girl supposedly had a sheet over her and she wasnt to know different men would come in and do different stuff to her.
EXCEPT, if she gave her consent to the alleged sex game then it isn't rape.

The issue is whether others find ths alleged game morally acceptable or not, that's fine. However if you find it unpalatable, then please don't cry rape on behalf of the girl. My view is "live and let live"

[JayBlaze]

Rodeoing is so 2011.. donkey punches are back in for 2013

[karezza]

Rodeoing is so 2011.. donkey punches are back in for 2013

Karezza is the future:

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=karezza

:blush:

[jet]

EXCEPT, if she gave her consent to the alleged sex game then it isn't rape.

The issue is whether others find ths alleged game morally acceptable or not, that's fine. However if you find it unpalatable, then please don't cry rape on behalf of the girl. My view is "live and let live"

But the article implies she doesn't give her consent. You need to read it again.

[MatthewS]

Does that article really seem like a legitimate source of factual information? From what I can tell that website is essentially an online based - TV specific - tabloid and gossip blog.

I think it's safe to say that if Dexter actually made comments insinuating he raped someone, the police would be involved, we all know they monitor afterall. Seeing as Dex hasn't been kicked out yet, I think we can chalk that article to exactly what it appears to be, unsubstantiated and outlandish gossip designed to bring traffic to their site.

[Vanessa]

:laugh2: ditto


No it says 'to see if the girl notices'

To both of you : I don't pass judgement until i have proof that Dexter did something wrong. The Daily Star is know for embellishing the truth.

[Vanessa]

Wow! Big Brother must be really worried that Dexter could win. They're doing their best to discredit him. Just like they did with Aaron. :bored:

[CaudleHalbard]

The should have learned by now: the more they try to discredit Dexter, the more popular he will be!

[Vanessa]

The should have learned by now: the more they try to discredit Dexter, the more popular he will be!

They did even worse with Aaron and they failed. But back then there was vote to save. Now we have vote to evict. Ugh! :nono:

[Ramsay]

Big brother is just jealous of all the sex Dex is getting

[Vanessa]

Big brother is just jealous of all the sex Dex is getting

I think he's a big storyteller. No one eve knows when he's telling the truth. :hugesmile:

[CaudleHalbard]

Journalists make stories up, especially in the summer when there's not much else to report.

Always have, always will.

[Vanessa]

Journalists make stories up, especially in the summer when there's not much else to report.

Always have, always will.

I'll never buy the Daily Star again. They went too far this time. Dexter should sue them. :nono:

[zakman440]

1) This is the Daily Star were talking about. They always bull**** when it comes to 'Big Bruv'.

2) The bull**** article doesn't actually insinuate that Dexter partook in this, and its not rape anyway of the girl consented to participate in the adult party. This warning hasveen unfairly given to Dexter.

3) The Conor incident last year was serious, he threatened to punch a woman, that's a bit different to an adult party with consent. Conor deserved more than a warning and did not deserve a 50K reward!

4) From what I read in TellyMix, they just copy from other sources, so it might be true, it might not. In this instance, it probably isn't.

[Vanessa]

1) This is the Daily Star were talking about. They always bull**** when it comes to 'Big Bruv'.

2) The bull**** article doesn't actually insinuate that Dexter partook in this, and its not rape anyway of the girl consented to participate in the adult party. This warning hasveen unfairly given to Dexter.

3) The Conor incident last year was serious, he threatened to punch a woman, that's a bit different to an adult party with consent. Conor deserved more than a warning and did not deserve a 50K reward!

4) From what I read in TellyMix, they just copy from other sources, so it might be true, it might not. In this instance, it probably isn't.

Yes. I'm sure Dexter may be kinky, but it's still consenting adults. I see nothing wrong with that.

[jet]

Yes. I'm sure Dexter may be kinky, but it's still consenting adults. I see nothing wrong with that.

Where does it say in the article that the girl consented? Can I have the quote please?
People keep saying that she consented, and I must be reading a different article because it clearly says 'to see if she notices'.
I'm not saying Dexter participated, because there is no evidence that he did, but I just wish people would stop making up their own version of something that is written in black and white.

[MatthewS]

Journalists make stories up

Not 'real' journalists. They investigate and report facts. Those facts and claims are subsequently vetted and validated before anything would ever go to print and hit the mainstream media. This is how legitimate reporting works lol.

These are just tabloid/gossip mags/blogs, they're held to a much lower standard and couldn't be further from actual 'journalism' imo.

[Vanessa]

Where does it say in the article that the girl consented? Can I have the quote please?
People keep saying that she consented, and I must be reading a different article because it clearly says 'to see if she notices'.
I'm not saying Dexter participated, because there is no evidence that he did, but I just wish people would stop making up their own version of something that is written in black and white.

It's the Daily Star. They always lie. Especially about Big Brother. They need to be sued.

[Videostar]

Where is the proof of this please?

It was in The Daily Star, so obviously it's true. :joker:

So some on here who pretended to once like him but now don't because of this unfactual story from a sleazy rag.

[jet]

It's the Daily Star. They always lie. Especially about Big Brother. They need to be sued.

I know it's the Daily Star, which is a horrible excuse for a newspaper.
No one has given me a quote yet that says the girl consented though....people are saying she consented and I can't find where it says that...

[calyman]

But the article implies she doesn't give her consent. You need to read it again.
I think you need to be more specific. the post does not imply, impute, suggest, mention, claim or hint that the girl does not give her consent for this alleged sex game. If a spurious article claims otherwise, then I have no intention of reading it.

[Videostar]

Is this the same rag that had front page headlines saying that the house was haunted and they were calling in an Exorcist, talk of Jemima being in lesbian romps...and so on?

[jet]

I think you need to be more specific. the post does not imply, impute, suggest, mention, claim or hint that the girl does not give her consent for this alleged sex game. If a spurious article claims otherwise, then I have no intention of reading it.

Actually it does imply it, but if some wish to remain deluded that is their choice.

[Vicky.]

Is this the same rag that had front page headlines saying that the house was haunted and they were calling in an Exorcist, talk of Jemima being in lesbian romps...and so on?

Indeed. And that Dan was a demon and he possessed Wolfy at some point, IIRC

[Vicky.]

I know it's the Daily Star, which is a horrible excuse for a newspaper.
No one has given me a quote yet that says the girl consented though....people are saying she consented and I can't find where it says that...

Probably because the star has only taken a couple of quotes (not on saying he actually took part in this btw) and spun them to make him out to be some kind of sexual deviant.

[Roy Mars III]

I know it's the Daily Star, which is a horrible excuse for a newspaper.
No one has given me a quote yet that says the girl consented though....people are saying she consented and I can't find where it says that...

There was no specific girl, he was describing an act.

also it never said she doesn't consent for this act. You can just as easily interpret it as being described as an act she was consented to

[Videostar]

Indeed. And that Dan was a demon and he possessed Wolfy at some point, IIRC

And that the cops were about to enter the house to drag Dan out, remember that one.? :joker:

And if this was such a big deal why didn't BB broadcast it in lastnights HL's show.?

[Tozzie]

It's the Daily Star. They always lie. Especially about Big Brother. They need to be sued.

I agree Vanessa, they don't care that they may damage a persons credibility and possibly ruin their lives. Horrid newspaper, can't believe they haven't already been sued

[Shaun]

:laugh2: wow, that's a low accusation.

[Vicky.]

Whats on tonights show [contains spoilers]

http://tellymix.co.uk/reality-tv/big-brother/153065-big-brother-2013-day-24-highlights-and-recap.html

No mention of caravans, or a warning about anything. Quelle surprise. Very much like Dans warning for making Wolfys nose explode...eh? ;)

[Indy]

If its come from the star well....I dont think much needs to be said tbh

I wonder why we never see any of these 'warnings'. Even Dans, what reason could they have not to show it?

I wonder if Scott's sister is still dead, apart from that time she came back to life to do family nominations...

[Lex]

I think Dexter is a bit of a Walter Mitty , day dreaming about what he'd really like to be !
This is a world where Dex uses his weapon of choice !! much more than he gets to in reality !!
Nowt wrong with having dreams - but keepem to yerself - esp when yer escaping to the world of ' Percy Filth '

This :wavey:

[Emmyasdfghjkl]

oh come on, it never said rape, chances are the girl was consenting. why do people assume things.

[Macie Lightfoot]

They did even worse with Aaron and they failed. But back then there was vote to save. Now we have vote to evict. Ugh! :nono:

Aaron deserved everything he got. And his win truly came from reduced price FB voting and this the forums becoming a too powerful fringe group.

[JTM45]

So the Insulting Sophie thing was part of a *****ing task anyway!!!!
Some news story that one!

[Brother Leon]

So the Rodeo thing has either been covered up or didn't happen at all?

hmm...

[calyman]

Actually it does imply it, but if some wish to remain deluded that is their choice.
The only aspect of delusion that I can see, is people reading into it what they would like believe they see, and which clearly there is no evidence for what they read, rather than what is actually written. As for the post in question, there is absolutely no ambiguity as to what is being claimed. The girl is not being described as an unwilling participant in this alleged sex game.

It's too easy to try and damn someone with unsubstantiated vitriol and slander, those who do so, should question their own integrity. This is one reason why I wouldn't read hate and filth mongering rags lilke the star.

[Vicky.]

Ah he did say about the caravan..as part of a task that BB set.

What a ****ing pisstake (am a bit behind on it :laugh: )

[Tozzie]

Ah he did say about the caravan..as part of a task that BB set.

What a ****ing pisstake (am a bit behind on it :laugh: )

catch up Vicky! :wavey::joker::hugesmile:

[anne666]

Don't believe a word of it now.

[Cherie]

No, it's been taken way out of context, and I expect the Rodeo thing has been as well.

[anne666]

No, it's been taken way out of context, and I expect the Rodeo thing has been as well.

Sorry I Meant the rodeo thing.

[flamingGalah!]

How pathetic! He was describing a sex act (if he even said all that anyway) those sort of things take place at sex parties/orgies, the girl would clearly have consented to being there, it is not rape in any way shape or form :sleep:

And as for BB warning him for the caravan comments!?! WTF?? Quite ridiculous, BB wanted him to rile up Sophie, then have a go at him for doing just that! It wasn't even an offensive comment FFS... They seem to have it in for our Dex now :nono:

[Tozzie]

How pathetic! He was describing a sex act (if he even said all that anyway) those sort of things take place at sex parties/orgies, the girl would clearly have consented to being there, it is not rape in any way shape or form :sleep:

And as for BB warning him for the caravan comments!?! WTF?? Quite ridiculous, BB wanted him to rile up Sophie, then have a go at him for doing just that! It wasn't even an offensive comment FFS... They seem to have it in for our Dex now :nono:

how did you get inside my head? You just yped word for word what I was thinking:hugesmile:

[Vanessa]

Wow! Dexter might have a chance of winning if they have to resort to this kind of low lever diffamation. :shocked:

[hannah.]

I can't believe nobody has even mentioned the fact that Dexter didn't even specify that the 'things' the other men do are sexual... I assumed he meant they come in the room and make noises,touch her hair and so on and see if she notices....