Is Dexter Really Gay?

[Daffodil]

Is it screamingly obvious, or have I totally misread all the signs??

:nono::conf::cat:

[optimisticcynic]

He says he likes women, but his boyfriend's not too sure.

[Raph]

I think so, yeah. Which is why neither his feelings towards Hazel nor Charlie were genuine in the slightest. I figure he has a crush on Dan anyways.

[smeagol]

what makes you think that?

is it the pink socks he was wearing when he said i might be more camp than you callum lol
or is it the make up sessions
or the tight pink shorts
or the webcam story lol

im just not seeing it , im looking for signs but just dont see any lol

[CaudleHalbard]

I think so, yeah. Which is why neither his feelings towards Hazel nor Charlie were genuine in the slightest. I figure he has a crush on Dan anyways.

It is becoming a bit obvious.

More likely bisexual but leaning heavily towards gay! ;)

[Verbal]

Yea he's Bi

[Cherie]

what makes you think that?

is it the pink socks he was wearing when he said i might be more camp than you callum lol
or is it the make up sessions
or the tight pink shorts
or the webcam story lol

im just not seeing it , im looking for signs but just dont see any lol

:joker:

[Ellen]

what makes you think that?

is it the pink socks he was wearing when he said i might be more camp than you callum lol
or is it the make up sessions
or the tight pink shorts
or the webcam story lol

im just not seeing it , im looking for signs but just dont see any lol

:laugh:

[Kyle]

I'm no expert on homosexuality (in fact I am no expert on anything) but I was under the impression that he was gay but was acting like he isn't.

[billy123]

Who knows and who cares?

[Kizzy]

He said he was an escort, that was for men?

[Visage]

I always thought he was trying to be liked by everyone, saying what he thought would work, but I get all confused by who Dexter wants to be that I don't know either way.


That said it doesn't really matter either way.

[JayBlaze]

maybe he fancies Callum?

[Chuckyegg]

There is no other reason to think that he is gay other than Sunday boredom.

[Jemal]

Wait what? Boyfriend not to sure? He has a boyfriend?

[alex_front2]

If it emerged that Dexter was a gay/bi man (same thing as far as I'm concerned) then I would NOT be shocked.

Dexter is very camp (as all gay men seem to be, even the ones who bang on about being straight acting a la Gareth Thomas eventually struggle to keep up the act and relax into their true camp selves from what I see) and in touch with his feminine side (enjoying flamboyant swanky designer clothing, hanging out with girls, disliking blokey bloke stuff etc).

[kistar]

He said he was an escort, that was for men?

Yeah that's what I thought.

[Fish_Fingers]

I wouldn't be surprised if it is something he claims this week, to increase his chances of staying.

[Vicky.]

There is no other reason to think that he is gay other than Sunday boredom.

Indeed. I find it a bit unsettling too that it seems to be those who dislike him rushing to say he is gay..almost as if its some kind of insult :/

I dont care tbh.

[alex_front2]

He said he was an escort, that was for men?

Something like 90% of male escort work is for male clients. Even a plain woman can walk into a pub and get a man to sh@g her. Not really much of a market for female clients, the whole myth that there's a new escort internet arena for wealthy independent female clients is stuff of tabloid editors imaginations.

Most of the escort guys who do sleep with women actually sleep with men too as that's where the repeat custom money is. Not that I should know this stuff. :joker::hugesmile:

I once read Gay Times and was surprised by the amount of sex lines, blatant escort services, 'hook up for sex' ads towards the back of the mag. Can't imagine the same in Cosmopolitan.

[Kyle]

Indeed. I find it a bit unsettling too that it seems to be those who dislike him rushing to say he is gay..almost as if its some kind of insult :/

I dont care tbh.

I would hope nobody was using it as an insult? :conf:

I think the OP was generally curious and to be fair it is really nobody's business, his sexual orientation.

I will say though that if he is gay and he is hiding it I think it's sad that still in society someone still feels like they have to hide that part of them from the greater public.

[Vicky.]

I would hope nobody was using it as an insult? :conf:

I think the OP was generally curious and to be fair it is really nobody's business, his sexual orientation.

I will say though that if he is gay and he is hiding it I think it's sad that still in society someone still feels like they have to hide that part of them from the greater public.
Probably not, I just noticed how the only people saying he is..dislike him. Struck me as a bit odd tbh.

[alex_front2]

Indeed. I find it a bit unsettling too that it seems to be those who dislike him rushing to say he is gay..almost as if its some kind of insult :/

I dont care tbh.

Sadly a lot of straight men do see being gay as the worst insult. That's so 'gay' is really common in lad culture.

[Samm]

He might be Bi because I think he like's dan but I don't blame him I love dan

[calyman]

If it emerged that Dexter was a gay/bi man (same thing as far as I'm concerned) then I would NOT be shocked.

Dexter is very camp (as all gay men seem to be, even the ones who bang on about being straight acting a la Gareth Thomas eventually struggle to keep up the act and relax into their true camp selves from what I see) and in touch with his feminine side (enjoying flamboyant swanky designer clothing, hanging out with girls, disliking blokey bloke stuff etc).
It may surprise you to learn that many Gay men neither want to act "straight" or "camp", they just want to act what they are........male.

[alex_front2]

Probably not, I just noticed how the only people saying he is..dislike him. Struck me as a bit odd tbh.

I find Dexter entertaining, but I just can't 'buy' him as hetero. He seems a bit too femmy and camp. I can see him admiring the brand of jeans that Charlie wears rather than her legs and bum.

[Kyle]

Probably not, I just noticed how the only people saying he is..dislike him. Struck me as a bit odd tbh.

What about Dan and one of (if not both of) the twins? They are homosexual surely people would have an axe to grind with them aswell?

And for the record I don't actually dislike Dexter, I have never met him I have no right to have an opinion like that.

[Vicky.]

It may surprise you to learn that many Gay men neither want to act "straight" or "camp", they just want to act what they are........male.

Indeed.

I really dislike speculating on housemates/celebs sexuality based on their behavior. I would rather take their word for it. As there is no definitive behavior for a gay person anyway, and to say 'oh hes gay as he wears pink socks' or something is very stereotypical.

[karezza]

My gut feeling is that he is bisexual. But who cares?

[Vicky.]

What about Dan and one of (if not both of) the twins?

And for the record I don't actually dislike Dexter, I have never met him I have no right to have an opinion like that.

What about them? :conf:

[alex_front2]

It may surprise you to learn that many Gay men neither want to act "straight" or "camp", they just want to act what they are........male.

But they are still are different to how a lot of straight guys act. Watched Dan's boyfriend on BBOTS and fact is, he had obvious stereotypical gay mannerisms. I don't why some gay men I see get so huffy that women now can tell when they are gay. :joker:

[Kyle]

What about them? :conf:

Sorry I didn't elaborate on that.

I meant that there is no direct correlation between people disliking Dexter and other homosexual housemates. I don't think you can use that as a crux for peoples comments on Dexter.

[Vicky.]

Sorry I didn't elaborate on that.

I meant that there is no direct correlation between people disliking Dexter and other homosexual housemates. I don't think you can use that as a crux for peoples comments on Dexter.

Still don't get you at all. The only people in here so far that have said Dexter is gay are people who dislike him (as far as I know). Dan and the twin actually being gay has no bearing at all on what my point was.

[alex_front2]

Indeed.

I really dislike speculating on housemates/celebs sexuality based on their behavior. I would rather take their word for it. As there is no definitive behavior for a gay person anyway, and to say 'oh hes gay as he wears pink socks' or something is very stereotypical.

But discussing them is part of BB and that includes sexuality. Yes, it does pander into separating gays from straights, but the fact is gay men are seen as different to straight men. As gays get more visible eg gay rights people will discuss them. If gay men don't want to be discussed then don't come out and act like Liam Gallagher and 50 Cent and no one will guess!

[Vicky.]

But discussing them is part of BB and that includes sexuality. Yes, it does pander into separating gays from straights, but the fact is gay men are seen as different to straight men. As gays get more visible eg gay rights people will discuss them. If gay men don't want to be discussed then don't come out and act like Liam Gallagher and 50 Cent and no one will guess!

They shouldnt be seen as different to straight men though. I know straight men who are extremely camp, and I know (a large number of) gay men who arent camp at all and are very 'manly'. You wouldnt know they were gay if they didnt tell you.

As for 'noone would guess'..why would people guess in the first place? I really dont see why it matters, in the slightest. Besides 'pandering into seperating gays from straights'

[calyman]

But they are still are different to how a lot of straight guys act. Watched Dan's boyfriend on BBOTS and fact is, he had obvious stereotypical gay mannerisms. I don't why some gay men I see get so huffy that women now can tell when they are gay. :joker:
I think that stereotypical views are just a lazy way for people to categorise and label others into neat little boxes. We are all more than just one "stereotype", our background, nationality, age, gender, sexuality, class, economic situation, etc surely would involve a lot of conflicting "stereotypes"

[Kyle]

Still don't get you at all. The only people in here so far that have said Dexter is gay are people who dislike him (as far as I know). Dan and the twin actually being gay has no bearing at all on what my point was.

It's on my point. If the people who dislike him comment on his alleged homesexuality then you could be intimating that this is a reason why they don't like Dexter therefore they would dislike all homosexual's in the house.

You said the people who said he is gay are people who dislike him so are you saying people don't like him because they think he is gay?

[Fish_Fingers]

50 Cent !

50 Cent has to be gay. Always showing off his well-developed, oiled torso like that. That kind of behaviour screams gayness.

[Vicky.]

I am geting deja vu..I had this exact same argument either last year or the year before..

[alex_front2]

Indeed.

I really dislike speculating on housemates/celebs sexuality based on their behavior. I would rather take their word for it. As there is no definitive behavior for a gay person anyway, and to say 'oh hes gay as he wears pink socks' or something is very stereotypical.

Stereotypical but often based on reality.

Jack and Joe are twins, both pretty camp but it's obvious that Jack is camper and therefore more likely to be the gay one.

I know Daley acted horrendously but take away SH-gate, it would have been a stereotype breaker if he had been gay. Alas, it's Dan (and Jack) who likes Britney Spears and claps his hand rapidly like a seal when excited (straight bloke just would never do this). There are some behaviours that are give aways as a straight bloke would never get a shag if he did this. Even the way Dan dances just screams gay.

Lesbians are a bit harder to spot but as soon as Wolfy cropped up on screen on VT and opened her mouth everyone in room screamed 'lesbian'. May not be PC but when ever I see the gay guys parading down through gay pride wearing chaps with their pimply arses hanging out there's no way in the world I am thinking 'oh these blokes are soo straight'. Lets be realistic.

[Vicky.]

It's on my point. If the people who dislike him comment on his alleged homesexuality then you could be intimating that this is a reason why they don't like Dexter therefore they would dislike all homosexual's in the house.

You said the people who said he is gay are people who dislike him so are you saying people don't like him because they think he is gay?

No thats not what I was saying at all. I am saying that those who dislike him seem to have decided he is gay. And as its only those who dislike him that have decided this, it appears to be being used as an insult...

[Kyle]

No thats not what I was saying at all. I am saying that those who dislike him seem to have decided he is gay. And as its only those who dislike him that have decided this, it appears to be being used as an insult...

But surely if someone used it as insult they would have a derogatory view of homosexuality?

[Vicky.]

But surely if someone used it as insult they would have a derogatory view of homosexuality?

Quite possibly. Not necessarily though.

[steviebhoy]

Is he a giver or receiver though, that is the question :hugesmile:

[Kyle]

Quite possibly. Not necessarily though.

It's easy to assume that way though. I am not for one minute saying you meant it like that but for example when you said people who dislike Dexter are the ones saying he is gay then you were meaning people including me (which is fine I can understand why you think that after I posted a topic about how less people support him :hugesmile:).


Now if you thought that I meant it as insult then I would think that you thought I had a problem with homosexuality which I don't.

Sorry if we got our wires crossed.

[optimisticcynic]

No thats not what I was saying at all. I am saying that those who dislike him seem to have decided he is gay. And as its only those who dislike him that have decided this, it appears to be being used as an insult...

I think you're reading far too much into this Vicky. My "interest", though that in itself I fear is an exaggeration, into Dexter's sexuality is rooted in this new-found "love" for Charlie in order to get a storyline. Sexuality is key if this story is to be believed, and I also recall Dexter's tales, though likely equally bull****-based, of being a highly paid male escort.

[alex_front2]

Is he a giver or receiver though, that is the question :hugesmile:

:joker::shocked::shocked::shocked:

I kind of find it hard to imagine any gay man as a giver for some reason.

I watched C4's Dinner Dates (real life first dates instead of BB) and there were 2 really camp gay guys. I just didn't know which one would have been the giver. Both with plucked eye brows, wavey hands and diva attitudes.

I do like Dexter as a HM but he talks about women in a text book way. Can't imagine he actually has bonked a woman. He seems kind of asexual which is usual a sign that a guy is not venturing into lady land.

[Vicky.]

As for my deja vu thing, just found my previous posts on this

Which is what I was trying to say. I hate when people reckon they can tell if someone is gay because of their behaviour tbh.

The only difference between a gay bloke and a straight bloke, is that they like penis instead of vagina.

Its not :laugh:

Its easy to spot overly camp men, I agree. (but camp doesnt always mean gay, usually it does though)

But a lot of gay men...you wouldnt know it until they start necking on with a bloke in front of you. They probably 'act' a lot straighter than most straight people do.

Same as not all lesbians are butch...and you cant tell if a girl is gay or not just by their mannerisms...

I think its just piss ignorant to say there are any defining characteristics of a gay person tbh. Not everyone plays to stereotypes

:joker:

I get way too defensive when people think camp = gay. Possibly because of my mates tbh.

[Fish_Fingers]

:joker::shocked::shocked::shocked:

I kind of find it hard to imagine any gay man as a giver for some reason.

I watched C4's Dinner Dates (real life first dates instead of BB) and there were 2 really camp gay guys. I just didn't know which one would have been the giver. Both with plucked eye brows, wavey hands and diva attitudes.

The fact that you even speculate on this brings your own sexuality into question. It's a slippery slope, from imagining gay sex to viewing gay porn to going to gay clubs and eventually going the whole hog. One of my gay friends told me...

[calyman]

Stereotypical but often based on reality.

Jack and Joe are twins, both pretty camp but it's obvious that Jack is camper and therefore more likely to be the gay one.

I know Daley acted horrendously but take away SH-gate, it would have been a stereotype breaker if he had been gay. Alas, it's Dan (and Jack) who likes Britney Spears and claps his hand rapidly like a seal when excited (straight bloke just would never do this). There are some behaviours that are give aways as a straight bloke would never get a shag if he did this. Even the way Dan dances just screams gay.

Lesbians are a bit harder to spot but as soon as Wolfy cropped up on screen on VT and opened her mouth everyone in room screamed 'lesbian'. May not be PC but when ever I see the gay guys parading down through gay pride wearing chaps with their pimply arses hanging out there's no way in the world I am thinking 'oh these blokes are soo straight'. Lets be realistic.
Do you really beleieve that all the Gays meet up in London and have a big GAYFEST? Yes there are people dressed as you described marching along, perhaps you also missed the many more who are dressed more appropriately.

You will certainly have missed the vast majority of Gay people who are anonymous in society, simply because they are not marked out as a GAY but as an everyday sort of person.

I am a Gay man, there is no such thing as Gaydar, I can only make ill informed assessments based on a stanger's behaviour, in which I am either right or wrong in classing a "straight" man as gay or a gay man as "straight.

In the end I would prefer to feel that I can categorise someone else, based on a good knowledge of who they are, not what the appear to be.

[Slevin]

i just have to laugh at this stuff every season. at least for BBUS anyways. pick someone who is straight or claims to be and have a 3 month fest of gay comments based on looks or little other things they do when most of the time its false. frankly i could give a crap what side the guy is batting for. he can do both if he wants no big deal to me.

[the truth]

hes a randy hetro , hes just a bit camp and the pink stuff is there to keep voters guessing and win the gay vote....hes gone out of his way to say he would consider rodgering a man.

[Daffodil]

I think so, yeah. Which is why neither his feelings towards Hazel nor Charlie were genuine in the slightest. I figure he has a crush on Dan anyways.


Who hasn't???? lol :lovedup:

[alex_front2]

The fact that you even speculate on this brings your own sexuality into question. It's a slippery slope, from imagining gay sex to viewing gay porn to going to gay clubs and eventually going the whole hog. One of my gay friends told me...

I am a woman so gay men would not really have an impact :joker:

[CaudleHalbard]

hes a randy hetro , hes just a bit camp and the pink stuff is there to keep voters guessing and win the gay vote....hes gone out of his way to say he would consider rodgering a man.

He may be randy but he sure isn't 100% hetero.

As has been said, he was a male escort... we can take it this means for gay male clients. He has also admitted, ahem, "performing" for men on webcam.

Perhaps the totally straight male members of the forum would like to say whether they would be happy to do what Dexter has done? :)

[alex_front2]

Do you really beleieve that all the Gays meet up in London and have a big GAYFEST? Yes there are people dressed as you described marching along, perhaps you also missed the many more who are dressed more appropriately.

You will certainly have missed the vast majority of Gay people who are anonymous in society, simply because they are not marked out as a GAY but as an everyday sort of person.

I am a Gay man, there is no such thing as Gaydar, I can only make ill informed assessments based on a stanger's behaviour, in which I am either right or wrong in classing a "straight" man as gay or a gay man as "straight.

In the end I would prefer to feel that I can categorise someone else, based on a good knowledge of who they are, not what the appear to be.

I am sorry but for me I can often tell. Even gay guys who are not screamers. Knew nothing about Gareth Thomas and thought he was gay, bingo he was (and he hasn't stopped droning on about being gay since).

Dan says no one could tell he was gay when he joined the Force. Eh? Dan is camp, granted he's not Alan Carr levels of camp but the fact that he managed to dupe women into sleeping with him beggers believe. These women must have been really sheltered or in denial

The women who insisted that Clay Aitkin or whatever his name is just seemed really silly. Oh c'mon. How did people ever think George Michael was straight? Are folks blind. Women who marry gay men with out realising, seriously?? seriously? Have these women met their husbands :joker: There's a gay guy I used to work with who is gay, everyone knows it despite the fact he pretends he's straight. None of us out him or tell him as loads of gays like to think they can fool straights with their straight acting and take pride in the 'no one can tell I am gay' bless. It seems cruel to tell them :joker: We know, we know. No biggie.

I don't get why so many gay men get annoyed that women can increasingly tell when men are gay. It's 2013. Seriously doubt a Liberace would be able to fool women and sue a paper for claiming he was gay...and win. I spotted Frank Ocean as gay long long before he came out, even though everyone said there's no way pseudo-homophobe and Frank's group collaborator Tyler the Creator would work with a gay bloke in Future

[smeagol]

He may be randy but he sure isn't 100% hetero.

As has been said, he was a male escort... we can take it this means for gay male clients. He has also admitted, ahem, "performing" for men on webcam.

Perhaps the totally straight male members of the forum would like to say whether they would be happy to do what Dexter has done? :)

lol dex is just a horny hobbit he would probably go with anyone regardless of gender or anything. he has a open mind which is a good thing
i dont see how it matters though . he can goose who he likes charlie dan both i doubt he'd say no

one of the twins is apperently gay. i'm not sure i'm buying that. its probably part of the act.

i find dan funny though. he considers himself straight acting he got a bit offended at the beginning of the show when someone said he was camp. but he is getting more camp by the day if you notice. though i reckon he is acting it up now just to stay in.

[camertone]

dexter is gay gay gay, any straight guy fancies a girl, who is given an open opportunity to kiss her, he would kiss her on the lips, instead dexter kissed charlie on the cheek. that was so telling, the way he dresses, the he sits, he is so gay gay gay. he had crush on daley before, now maybe has crush on dan,

[camertone]

dexter is probably a virgin and gay.

[alex_front2]

one of the twins is apperently gay. i'm not sure i'm buying that. its probably part of the act.



jack but it wouldn't surprise me if Joe was gay, too.

[alex_front2]

dexter is gay gay gay, any straight guy fancies a girl, who is given an open opportunity to kiss her, he would kiss her on the lips, instead dexter kissed charlie on the cheek. that was so telling, the way he dresses, the he sits, he is so gay gay gay. he had crush on daley before, now maybe has crush on dan,

Yep, agree.

[CaudleHalbard]

jack but it wouldn't surprise me if Joe was gay, too.

Is Jack the slightly fatter one?

[GypsyGoth]

Just because he's pretty camp, that doesn't make him gay.

[Toy Soldier]

I said this last night when watching it. No because he's camp, plenty if effeminate straight guys out there, but because his "attraction" to both Charlie and originally Hazel has seemed completely contrived, like he's had to act it. Not that he "must" fancy them or anything... But, it's more like he dorant even know what a guy who likes a girl would act like... So he's struggling and going with stereotypes.

I think he may well be either gay or asexual (no attraction to either sex).

[alex_front2]

Is Jack the slightly fatter one?

Yes, Jack is fatter with the shaved bit in hair.

[thesheriff443]

next to dan a bannana would look straight:joker:
i don't care what way he swings, but he has the body of a ten year old! not very manly.

[CaudleHalbard]

Yes, Jack is fatter with the shaved bit in hair.

Interesting, because his brother Joe is more camp!

Probably both gay but "one straight, one gay" covers a wider audience! :D

[Kyle]

This thread is a 10 pager no doubt about that......

[the truth]

hes certainly enigmatic .....these threads have ranged from guessing he is a rampant horny hobbit lady killer to a rampant homosexual to a rampant bi to an asexual monk

keep them guessing , good work dexy

[alex_front2]

Interesting, because his brother Joe is more camp!

Probably both gay but "one straight, one gay" covers a wider audience! :D

Both twins are camp (show tunes, hissy fits, flirting with Daley and Callum etc) but Jack seems camper to me. Joe at least pretends to lust after Hazel.

[CaudleHalbard]

I do get the impression he has worked in the sleaze industry.

I doubt fine dividing lines of sexuality matter quite as much to him.

[Miranda123]

is it screamingly obvious, or have i totally misread all the signs??

:nono::conf::cat:

thankyou............................at last

[camertone]

dexter is gay, he looked so awkward with charlie in shower, like he was so scared, when charlie gave her lips forward, he instead kissed her on the lips.
plus, the way he sits and holds things, he does it in very girly way.

[CaudleHalbard]

The way he talked about women on his VT was more like a boy in his early teens than like a grown man. It was ludicrous! :D

[Jesus.]

I've never known people as obsessed with hm's sexuality as on here. Whether it's perceived or confirmed, why does it really matter?

[alex_front2]

I've never known people as obsessed with hm's sexuality as on here. Whether it's perceived or confirmed, why does it really matter?

It doesn't. Does discussing BB as a whole matter? No, but you still do.

[CaudleHalbard]

I've never known people as obsessed with hm's sexuality as on here. Whether it's perceived or confirmed, why does it really matter?

It doesn't but it's fun! : D

[the truth]

I've never known people as obsessed with hm's sexuality as on here. Whether it's perceived or confirmed, why does it really matter?

were trying to partner him up with you

[Daffodil]

I've never known people as obsessed with hm's sexuality as on here. Whether it's perceived or confirmed, why does it really matter?

In reality a person's sexuality doesn't matter at all (unless it is pervy). But in Dexter's case, he is trying (and failing badly) to put forward a raging hunky sex-machine *grab crotch* ow he-man.
:cat:

[Kyle]

What if your all wrong and he actually likes animals! :elephant:

I saw him eyeing up that shellfish during that task I could tell he had the hots for it.

[MatthewS]

.
plus, the way he sits and holds things, he does it in very girly way.

*facepalm*

[CaudleHalbard]

What if your all wrong and he actually likes animals! :elephant:

I saw him eyeing up that shellfish during that task I could tell he had the hots for it.

You could be onto something there! :eek:

[the truth]

What if your all wrong and he actually likes animals! :elephant:

I saw him eyeing up that shellfish during that task I could tell he had the hots for it.

its wrong to be prejudiced against a mans sexual desires.....if he wants larry lamb who are we to judge? ooooo I love liberal societies

[Kyle]

its wrong to be prejudiced against a mans sexual desires.....if he wants larry lamb who are we to judge? ooooo I love liberal societies

Larry lamb? So homosexual bestiality?

Well done guys I think we have finally pegged his sexuality, good work all of us. :joker:

[Kizzy]

Larry lamb? So homosexual bestiality?

Well done guys I think we have finally pegged his sexuality, good work all of us. :joker:

:joker::joker::joker:

[Chuckyegg]

When you run out of insults, start speculating on sexual orientation and that will keep the negativity alive.

[halfacrown]

This thread is mental, what a lot of old rubbish! Surely the people who say being camp is a requirement for being gay are just wind-up merchants. Sexuality seems to be very fluid and certainly hard to pin down using character traits. After all, prisons are full of very 'masculine', 'butch' men having sex with each other, while their wives and girlfriends are at home.

[Cherie]

*facepalm*

When you run out of insults, start speculating on sexual orientation and that will keep the negativity alive.

This thread is mental, what a lot of old rubbish! Surely the people who say being camp is a requirement for being gay are just wind-up merchants. Sexuality seems to be very fluid and certainly hard to pin down using character traits. After all, prisons are full of very 'masculine', 'butch' men having sex with each other, while their wives and girlfriends are at home.

.

[calyman]

I am sorry but for me I can often tell. Even gay guys who are not screamers. Knew nothing about Gareth Thomas and thought he was gay, bingo he was (and he hasn't stopped droning on about being gay since).

Dan says no one could tell he was gay when he joined the Force. Eh? Dan is camp, granted he's not Alan Carr levels of camp but the fact that he managed to dupe women into sleeping with him beggers believe. These women must have been really sheltered or in denial

The women who insisted that Clay Aitkin or whatever his name is just seemed really silly. Oh c'mon. How did people ever think George Michael was straight? Are folks blind. Women who marry gay men with out realising, seriously?? seriously? Have these women met their husbands :joker: There's a gay guy I used to work with who is gay, everyone knows it despite the fact he pretends he's straight. None of us out him or tell him as loads of gays like to think they can fool straights with their straight acting and take pride in the 'no one can tell I am gay' bless. It seems cruel to tell them :joker: We know, we know. No biggie.

I don't get why so many gay men get annoyed that women can increasingly tell when men are gay. It's 2013. Seriously doubt a Liberace would be able to fool women and sue a paper for claiming he was gay...and win. I spotted Frank Ocean as gay long long before he came out, even though everyone said there's no way pseudo-homophobe and Frank's group collaborator Tyler the Creator would work with a gay bloke in Future
I'm pleased that you are so good at perceiving effeminate acting men and classing them as Gay.

Have you ever been mistaken in your categorising and classed someone as Gay who you later found out was actually straight?

Have you never been surprised to learn that someone you could have sworn was straight was actually Gay?

Have you ever thought how those women who later found their husbands were Gay, felt when they learned the truth?

Have you ever thought how hurtful and nasty it may be for someone to know they are the sniggering topic of other's speculation as to their true sexuality?

Have you ever thought that Gay men you know are not trying to "act straight", but in fact are acting like an adult male should, regardless of their sexuality?

[south12345]

I never got to see Dexter enter the house, so when i first watched him i assumed he was gay and was disappointed, at the time, that they had sent in another stereotypical gay man. Then the penny dropped that he actually wasnt gay but a supposed big time Sugar daddy.
Im not sure what he thinks a sugar Daddy is but i assumed that the term Daddy would pertain to a much older person, he still looks in his late teens, which no doubt put him in good steads as a male escort with the men.
Hes certainly the campest straight man i have ever seen....

[cfromhx02]

He might not be gay, but the way he walks, he minces, and I think I've seen him be limp wristed a few times too.He certainly appears more gay than straight anyway

[Robertocarlo]

Speaking as a Gay man myself, I think Dexter is more likely to be Gay than not. He's showing all the signs of a Gay man in a straight environment trying hard to hide his true sexuality by over doing the "I fancy her" bit.

By the way, many Gay men have had straight sex encounters, including myself having a son, but are just too attracted to men to ever be happy having sex with women full time. There are a lot of "straight" men having sex with other men on the side - fact!!

[Robertocarlo]

This thread is mental, what a lot of old rubbish! Surely the people who say being camp is a requirement for being gay are just wind-up merchants. Sexuality seems to be very fluid and certainly hard to pin down using character traits. After all, prisons are full of very 'masculine', 'butch' men having sex with each other, while their wives and girlfriends are at home.

As a Gay man myself I think you are 100% correct in what you say.

[Cherie]

Lots of people "who knew best" said Aaron was gay as well, mainly because he wore pastel cardies and wasn't a mans man.

[calyman]

he still looks in his teens, which no doubt put him in good steads as a male escort with the men.
Hes certainly the campest straight man i have ever seen....
What are you saying???

[Tozzie]

couldn't give a flying fig if he's straight, gay, bi, all that matters to me is he carries on being his quirky self. The best housemate ever for me personally.

[Miranda123]

is it screamingly obvious, or have i totally misread all the signs??

:nono::conf::cat:

i think he is asexual

men and women hate him in equal measures

[Miranda123]

couldn't give a flying fig if he's straight, gay, bi, all that matters to me is he carries on being his quirky self. The best housemate ever for me personally.

all that matters to me is that the nasty little weasel doesnt win lol

BULLIES SHOULD BE BULLIED TO THE END

[Miranda123]

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I dont think anyone one here cares whether he is Gay or Straight, we are all in the same boat, none of us would go anywhere near the slimey little toad

GET HAZEL & DEXTER OUT

[smeagol]

yawn

[south12345]

What are you saying???

Exactly as i put it, plenty of older gay men like younger lads...and its the older men that generally have the money to buy an escort....

[Vanessa]

I think he's bisexual. He seems to be attracted to both males and females. :hugesmile:

[Pronshi]

He is certainly interested in males. Not sure if gay or bi tho.

[Vanessa]

He is certainly interested in males. Not sure if gay or bi tho.

Nothing wrong with it, i think . It's been a long time since we had a bi male in the House. :hugesmile:

[south12345]

Speaking as a Gay man myself, I think Dexter is more likely to be Gay than not. He's showing all the signs of a Gay man in a straight environment trying hard to hide his true sexuality by over doing the "I fancy her" bit.

By the way, many Gay men have had straight sex encounters, including myself having a son, but are just too attracted to men to ever be happy having sex with women full time. There are a lot of "straight" men having sex with other men on the side - fact!!

Agree

[calyman]

Exactly as i put it, plenty of older gay men like younger lads...and its the older men that generally have the money to buy an escort....
Except that most escorts tend to be in their 20's, not Teenagers. As it happens, I don't know many Gay men, who favour Teenagers over men who have more maturity and who would be much more interesting to interact with.

[Johnnyuk123]

Dexters grandma is welsh apparently. Looks like we have this years winner!

[Daffodil]

Dexters grandma is welsh apparently. Looks like we have this years winner!

LOL :dance::elephant::dance::joker:

[south12345]

Except that most escorts tend to be in their 20's, not Teenagers. As it happens, I don't know many Gay men, who favour Teenagers over men who have more maturity and who would be much more interesting to interact with.

At the end of the day an escort is a more polite way of saying prostitute. Yeah there maybe a few escorts that do company only but the vast majority are in the sex trade. You are blinkered if you dont think this is true....

I live in the real world to know that a lot of older men prefer younger guys. If u dont believe me join any gay website.

[Pronshi]

Nothing wrong with it, i think . It's been a long time since we had a bi male in the House. :hugesmile:

I didn't say there was something wrong haha I'm bi lol.

[calyman]

At the end of the day an escort is a more polite way of saying prostitute. Yeah there maybe a few escorts that do company only but the vast majority are in the sex trade. You are blinkered if you dont think this is true....

I live in the real world to know that a lot of older men prefer younger guys. If u dont believe me join any gay website.
I understood we were talking about sex workers when I used the term escort. I'm sorry you did not get that.

While I agree that many Gay men are attracted to younger men, I took issue with your claim that it's Teenagers Gay men are attracted to.

Do you have to make comments about my being "blinkered" when in fact it is you who has shown limited perception in what I was saying, espercially as you now appear to be agreeing with me.

[south12345]

I understood we were talking about sex workers when I used the term escort. I'm sorry you did not get that.

While I agree that many Gay men are attracted to younger men, I took issue with your claim that it's Teenagers Gay men are attracted to.

Do you have to make comments about my being "blinkered" when in fact it is you who has shown limited perception in what I was saying, espercially as you now appear to be agreeing with me.

What i was getting at was that there is a market out there for young looking escorts and with Dexters youthful looks he would be very popular.....so im guessing we both got cross wired in what the other meant.....