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Im_Juz_ChiLLin
27-07-2013, 12:07 AM
Callum just told Sam that there was no Boos for Sam when Charlie told her there was 70 % cheers and 30 % boos. Then he goes onto say that Dexter has poisoned her brains and that she is her love sick puppy that hangs on his every word....

What a liar this Creepster Callum is !!! If your a real friend then you would tell him the truth instead of lieing to him.

Im_Juz_ChiLLin
27-07-2013, 12:09 AM
He's getting caught out now the fake was trying to lie by saying he got 100 % cheers....

Vanessa
27-07-2013, 12:09 AM
Callum just told Sam that there was no Boos for Sam when Charlie told her there was 70 % cheers and 30 % boos. Then he goes onto say that Dexter has poisoned her brains and that she is her love sick puppy that hangs on his every word....

What a liar this Creepster Callum is !!! If your a real friend then you would tell him the truth instead of lieing to him.

he's a lying scumbag. i hope they show this on the highlights. of course everything it's dexter fault. :bored:

_catapult_
27-07-2013, 12:12 AM
Does anybody understand what Sam is trying to get across about representing etc.?? Nobody Will let the poor guy finish a sentence!!

Im_Juz_ChiLLin
27-07-2013, 12:12 AM
he's a lying scumbag. i hope they show this on the highlights. of course everything it's dexter fault. :bored:

yeah he blames everything on Dexter, and he is lieing to Sam again saying he heard no boos at all, he keeps telling him he got 100 % cheers.... :nono:

Brother Leon
27-07-2013, 12:12 AM
He's protecting his friend by lying. Believe it or not that is what friends do sometimes ;)

Jordan.
27-07-2013, 12:13 AM
oh well, atleast he doesn't nominate his friends.

Im_Juz_ChiLLin
27-07-2013, 12:13 AM
Does anybody understand what Sam is trying to get across about representing etc.?? Nobody Will let the poor guy finish a sentence!!

I don't know because Callum has told him he is not bum licking him 10 times already when he clearly is .... :nono:

Vanessa
27-07-2013, 12:13 AM
He's protecting his friend by lying. Believe it or not that is what friends do sometimes ;)

He's jealous that Charlie prefers spending time with Dexter. :joker:

Im_Juz_ChiLLin
27-07-2013, 12:14 AM
He's protecting his friend by lying. Believe it or not that is what friends do sometimes ;)

he's not protecting he just sweared on his moms life that he heard no boos, he really will do anything to cover the fact that there was no boos... :sleep:

Im_Juz_ChiLLin
27-07-2013, 12:15 AM
oh well, atleast he doesn't nominate his friends.

Callum still nominated Dexter you must be talking about him when he was his friend :joker:

Vicky.
27-07-2013, 12:16 AM
Wow, Sams really pissed off about this..

blue
27-07-2013, 12:16 AM
maybe he is just trying to protect his feelings, nothing wrong with that

Vanessa
27-07-2013, 12:16 AM
Wow, Sams really pissed off about this..

Callum is a liar. He blames everything on Dexter.

Im_Juz_ChiLLin
27-07-2013, 12:17 AM
Wow, Sams really pissed off about this..

I know the poor lad is crying :bawling: a real friend would tell him the truth not sugar coat it with lies.... :nono:

Brother Leon
27-07-2013, 12:17 AM
He's jealous that Charlie prefers spending time with Dexter. :joker:

What does that have to do with this topic? Lol

Jake.
27-07-2013, 12:17 AM
Or he was attempting to protect his pal? God forbid, it is Callum after all...

Vanessa
27-07-2013, 12:18 AM
What does that have to do with this topic? Lol

callum said that charlie believes everything dexter says. he blames dexter for everything.

Vicky.
27-07-2013, 12:18 AM
maybe he is just trying to protect his feelings, nothing wrong with that

There is though as Sam specifically said (multiple times) for him NOT to make him feel better and for him to tell the truth. And Callum kept lying about it until other housemates told Sam the truth.

He is deaf, hes not a child that needs to be protected. And if he wants the truth, you tell him that. Its patronizing to use his disability to your advantage..tbh. Which is kinda what Callum did :S

Tozzie
27-07-2013, 12:20 AM
Callum has a serious problem with dexter and it appears he is trying to sway Sam to disliking Dexter too.

Vanessa
27-07-2013, 12:20 AM
Callum is blaming Dexter for Charlie hearing boos for Sam, saying Dexter has influenced her. Is he for real? :crazy:

Vanessa
27-07-2013, 12:21 AM
Callum has a serious problem with dexter and it appears he is trying to sway Sam to disliking Dexter too.

He's wasting his time. They all dislike Dexter anyway. :joker:

karezza
27-07-2013, 12:22 AM
Callum wants complete control of Sam. Callum is a psycho.

fingers
27-07-2013, 12:22 AM
Callum has a serious problem with dexter and it appears he is trying to sway Sam to disliking Dexter too.

Well, it may have blown back in his face because Sam is proper pissed off at him and Callum Is pissed off at every one and especially Dexter.

Vanessa
27-07-2013, 12:22 AM
Callum wants complete control of Sam. Callum is a psycho.

After watching the live feed i now HATE HIS GUTS! :nono:

Jemal
27-07-2013, 12:23 AM
Lmao this is comedy.

reece(:
27-07-2013, 12:24 AM
Poor Sam.

GypsyGoth
27-07-2013, 12:24 AM
Sam wants to be told the truth of what's happening around him, he has asked people to do this.

The HMs who are trying to shelter him from the reality of what happened are not doing it for his benefit.

Vanessa
27-07-2013, 12:24 AM
Poor Sam.

Callu lied to him.

karezza
27-07-2013, 12:25 AM
Control-freak Callum is up in the Diary Room blaming Dexter for everything.

Jemal
27-07-2013, 12:25 AM
Gina agrrees with callum and the twins. She thinks he didnt get any boos.

Vanessa
27-07-2013, 12:26 AM
Sam wants to be told the truth of what's happening around him, he has asked people to do this.

The HMs who are trying to shelter him from the reality of what happened are not doing it for his benefit.

Callum trying to turn everyone against Dexter. He says he influenced Charlie hearing boos. :crazy:

karezza
27-07-2013, 12:26 AM
Gina agrrees with callum and the twins. She thinks he didnt get any boos.

Gina said Callum is dishonest with Sam.

Im_Juz_ChiLLin
27-07-2013, 12:26 AM
Control-freak Callum is up in the Diary Room blaming Dexter for everything.

It's good thing Big Brother has called Creepy Callum in because he was going on and on and on about hearing 100% cheers.... :sleep:

Vanessa
27-07-2013, 12:26 AM
Control-freak Callum is up in the Diary Room blaming Dexter for everything.

Callum has taken Dan place in the House. He's the one bullying Dexter now. :joker:

daniel-lewis-1985
27-07-2013, 12:27 AM
Just looking out for his friend.

Wow what a bastard to not want to hurt his feelings.

Vanessa
27-07-2013, 12:27 AM
Gina said Callum is dishonest with Sam.

He lied to try and get everyone to turn against Dexter.

Vicky.
27-07-2013, 12:27 AM
Callum is blaming Dexter for Charlie hearing boos for Sam, saying Dexter has influenced her. Is he for real? :crazy:

Was quite funny when it turned out to be Sophie rather than Dexter who had been talking to Charlie about it :D

Vanessa
27-07-2013, 12:28 AM
Was quite funny when it turned out to be Sophie rather than Dexter who had been talking to Charlie about it :D

Callum is trying to turn everyone against Dexter.

joeysteele
27-07-2013, 12:29 AM
Callum heading to be the new hate figure now.
I cannot say if Callum's actions with Sam are all good but there were a few boos for Sam as there were all of them.
Sophie far less.

Sam doesn't understand this twist, he is upset, Callum may have been unwise to say there were no boos or a few boos but I would give him the benefit of the doubt that he was trying to spare his feelings.
Sam isn't a child but he is a bit more vulnerable in there than the others, the poor lad had no idea what was going on when Emma was explaining the twist.

I still think Callum is a friend to Sam, he is getting a pretty rough ride in there himself and he owes Dexter nothing for the way Dexter attempts to belittle him at every opportunity.

Vicky.
27-07-2013, 12:29 AM
Callum is trying to turn everyone against Dexter.

They are both as bad as each other for that. And its boring to watch now. I dont get why they cant just ignore each other

Vanessa
27-07-2013, 12:31 AM
They are both as bad as each other for that. And its boring to watch now. I dont get why they cant just ignore each other

Dexter was minding his own business. Callum started blaming Dexter for Charlie hearing boos. He's saying he wants to wind Dexter up on purpose.

Jemal
27-07-2013, 12:31 AM
Just looking out for his friend.

Wow what a bastard to not want to hurt his feelings.
Lol this

karezza
27-07-2013, 12:34 AM
Just looking out for his friend.

Wow what a bastard to not want to hurt his feelings.

Control freak Callum is thinking of himself not Sam.

Im_Juz_ChiLLin
27-07-2013, 12:34 AM
Sam wants to be told the truth of what's happening around him, he has asked people to do this.

The HMs who are trying to shelter him from the reality of what happened are not doing it for his benefit.

Agreed they are just taking advantage of him and he should be told the truth, a true friend gives a straight up answer when asked for it not continue lieing to them... :nono:

Vanessa
27-07-2013, 12:35 AM
Agreed they are just taking advantage of him and he should be told the truth, a true friend gives a straight up answer when asked for it not continue lieing to them... :nono:

I think Callum will start bullying Dexter. It's started already.

Vicky.
27-07-2013, 12:36 AM
I suppose it comes down to what you class as a good friend

For example
A friend asks if a dress makes them look bad, it does

Person A would say no, and allow their friend to go out looking bad all night, but they wouldnt have felt bad for 5 seconds
Person B would be honest and their friend would not look bad all night, but would feel bad for all of 5 seconds.

Im_Juz_ChiLLin
27-07-2013, 12:37 AM
I think Callum will start bullying Dexter. It's started already.

who knows what he will do, he is complete liar in my eyes... :nono:

joeysteele
27-07-2013, 12:37 AM
Just looking out for his friend.

Wow what a bastard to not want to hurt his feelings.

Exactly, I think he was just looking out for him too.

Vanessa
27-07-2013, 12:38 AM
who knows what he will do, he is complete liar in my eyes... :nono:

He'll start bitching about him non stop , just like Dan used to do.

fingers
27-07-2013, 12:39 AM
Sam is one VERY calculating guy, he has it all worked out in his head how he will win this and nothing and nobody will deflect him from his course.

None of this Live Feed will filter through to the general public and Sam will still be the blue eyed public's darling.

Vanessa
27-07-2013, 12:40 AM
Callum : Dexter being the negative person that he is has influenced Charlie and now she hears boos. What an absolute bellend! :mad:

Im_Juz_ChiLLin
27-07-2013, 12:42 AM
Callum : Dexter being the negative person that he is has influenced Charlie and now she hears boos. What an absolute bellend! :mad:

In every situation all he sees is Dexter.... :cat:

CaudleHalbard
27-07-2013, 12:56 AM
In every situation all he sees is Dexter.... :cat:

Of course! Callum is obsessed with Dexter.

He cannot believe a "top bird" like Charlie (who will "soar") could possibly have a better connection with a metrosexual like Dexter rather than an alpha male he-man like himself..... in his own eyes of course. :D

Im_Juz_ChiLLin
27-07-2013, 12:56 AM
Sam is one VERY calculating guy, he has it all worked out in his head how he will win this and nothing and nobody will deflect him from his course.

None of this Live Feed will filter through to the general public and Sam will still be the blue eyed public's darling.

He does seem to feature more on a Live Feed then a highlights show hard to form an opinion on him.. :conf:

Im_Juz_ChiLLin
27-07-2013, 12:58 AM
Of course! Callum is obsessed with Dexter.

He cannot believe a "top bird" like Charlie (who will "soar") could possibly have a better connection with a metrosexual like Dexter rather than an alpha male he-man like himself..... in his own eyes of course. :D

lol yeah and Creepy Callum has told the whole house that Dexter has manipulated this whole situation by talking to Charlie all night, but he still never heard no boos, even big brother must be getting bored in the diary room about 100% cheers he heard for sam or his gameplan...... :joker:

Pink Pegasus
27-07-2013, 01:01 AM
Sam annoyed me went he kept going on and on and on about 'representing' people.

(I'm guessing he meant deaf people because he started going on about past housemates with disabilities and where they came in the competition)

Callum isn't the only one who didn't hear boos for Sam, one of the twins also didn't.

Vanessa
27-07-2013, 01:03 AM
Sam annoyed me off went he kept going on and on and on about 'representing' people.

(I'm guessing he meant deaf people because he started going on about past housemates with disabilities and where they came in the competition)

Callum isn't the only one who didn't hear boos for Sam, one of the twins also didn't.

It's not just the lying. He said it's Dexter fault that Charlie heard Sam boos. Can you believe this guy ? :bored:

Jemal
27-07-2013, 01:03 AM
Sam annoyed me off went he kept going on and on and on about 'representing' people.

(I'm guessing he meant deaf people because he started going on about past housemates with disabilities and where they came in the competition)

Callum isn't the only one who didn't hear boos for Sam, one of the twins also didn't.

Didn't you know? Callum's the new new target. Get used to it love.
Its always callum that gets picked on. But whatever.

Jemal
27-07-2013, 01:04 AM
It's not just the lying. He said it's Dexter fault that Charlie heard Sam boos. Can you believe this guy ? :bored:

Nooooo he said that its dexter fault Charlie thinks their was more boos for her. Jesus Christ not Sam!

fingers
27-07-2013, 01:05 AM
Sam annoyed me off went he kept going on and on and on about 'representing' people.

(I'm guessing he meant deaf people because he started going on about past housemates with disabilities and where they came in the competition)

Callum isn't the only one who didn't hear boos for Sam, one of the twins also didn't.
That's why I said he has it all worked out how he can win and the only fly in the ointment in his eyes is Gina because of the tennis ball and the final task putting them in order of popularity.
Why Callum persists in mentoring him as though he is an imbecile, I have no idea.

karezza
27-07-2013, 01:06 AM
Nooooo he said that its dexter fault Charlie thinks their was more boos for her. Jesus Christ not Sam!

Calllum is obsessed with Dexter. Everything is Dexter's fault.

Vanessa
27-07-2013, 01:08 AM
Calllum is obsessed with Dexter. Everything is Dexter's fault.

Correct and that's why i'm so pissed off tonight. I bet Callum was slagging Dexter off the whole time he went to the diary room. Ugh! This is bullying. :bored:

Vanessa
27-07-2013, 01:11 AM
This comment on DS made me laugh. :joker:

maybe if Callum didn't act as Sams nanny Sam would interact more with the other HMs

but Callum is always at his side

Giving Sam his own space would be a start for Sam to make his own opinions on what has happened in the house and not spoon fed titbits from Callum

Pink Pegasus
27-07-2013, 01:12 AM
That's why I said he has it all worked out how he can win and the only fly in the ointment in his eyes is Gina because of the tennis ball and the final task putting them in order of popularity.
Why Callum persists in mentoring him as though he is an imbecile, I have no idea.

Fingers I think you may be right about Sam. Only very recently Sam was growing on me and I thought he's just dull but a very sweet lad.
Listening to him tonight going on and on has put me off him quite a bit. I really feel now that it's not just that he's just quiet, but that he's deliberately holding back a lot in there. :suspect:

Vanessa
27-07-2013, 01:13 AM
Fingers I think you may be right about Sam. Only very recently Sam was growing on me and I thought he's just dull but a very sweet lad.
Listening to him tonight going on and on has put me off him quite a bit. I really feel now that it's not just that he's just quiet, but that he's deliberately holding back a lot in there. :suspect:

Could be.

CaudleHalbard
27-07-2013, 01:14 AM
Callum's ideal world we would be his "bird" Charlie plus his mate Sam.

With all others excluded. He would of course mentor them both.

Vanessa
27-07-2013, 01:16 AM
Callum's ideal world we would be his "bird" Charlie plus his mate Sam.

With all others excluded. He would of course mentor them both.

He's very devious. He knows what he's doing.

Marsh.
27-07-2013, 01:22 AM
he's a lying scumbag. i hope they show this on the highlights. of course everything it's dexter fault. :bored:

Put the voodoo doll down or I'll set fire to your Dexter Shrine. :devil:

fingers
27-07-2013, 01:22 AM
Fingers I think you may be right about Sam. Only very recently Sam was growing on me and I thought he's just dull but a very sweet lad.
Listening to him tonight going on and on has put me off him quite a bit. I really feel now that it's not just that he's just quiet, but that he's deliberately holding back a lot in there. :suspect:

Yep, I posted before about how he was livid with Callum for letting himself be bested by Jackie in their argument in the garden. Sam is anything BUT a sweet boy!

Jemal
27-07-2013, 01:23 AM
I still love Sam, but i think their might be another side to the welsh lad

Vanessa
27-07-2013, 01:25 AM
Dan was right about Callum and so was Dexter.

Jordan.
27-07-2013, 01:29 AM
Oh god the fake outrage at EVERYTHING Callum does just because Dexter doesn't like him is unbearable http://i.imgur.com/yMANw0f.gif

Jemal
27-07-2013, 01:30 AM
Jesus Christ. How do I cope with this forum.

fingers
27-07-2013, 01:33 AM
Oh god the fake outrage at EVERYTHING Callum does just because Dexter doesn't like him is unbearable http://i.imgur.com/yMANw0f.gif
Its not quite right to lie and then to swear on your mother's life that you're not lying! Last one to swear on someone's life was Daley.

Im_Juz_ChiLLin
27-07-2013, 01:34 AM
Calllum is obsessed with Dexter. Everything is Dexter's fault.

^^^ This

Jemal
27-07-2013, 01:41 AM
Its not quite right to lie and then to swear on your mother's life that you're not lying! Last one to swear on someone's life was Daley.

Has it come to your mind that he may not have HEARD THE FLIPPING BOOS?

Indy
27-07-2013, 01:45 AM
Has it come to your mind that he may not have HEARD THE FLIPPING BOOS?

Then he should say he didn't hear them, not that Dexter invented them and told everyone else to make Sam feel bad. There is no reason for people to lie about that, so by suggesting they are, he is basically telling Sam that those people don't like him.

Jemal
27-07-2013, 01:50 AM
Then he should say he didn't hear them, not that Dexter invented them and told everyone else to make Sam feel bad. There is no reason for people to lie about that, so by suggesting they are, he is basically telling Sam that those people don't like him.

What the hell are you on about.
Firstly He said dexter put negative thoughts in Charlie's mind about Charlie getting more boos than cheers. Which callum disagreed with, and said although she got boos, she should also focus on the positive.
Now Sam is a different matter. First of all callum and jack and joe said they only heard a women say Get Sam out! But then callum said there was a 3-4 second of no reaction then Sam got cheers. Whether he mis-interpreated those boos sam really got for no reactions is likely, because it just doesn't make sense. There's a massive over reaction here. People in the house always think they hear things and they actually don't, dexter thought last week he got a "get dexter out" chant when there was zilch of that. I mean the callum hate is real strong that its gotten to the point were if he drinks a cup of water, he gets slated. And ill always back him to the end cause i dont get the hate lol.

Indy
27-07-2013, 01:59 AM
What the hell are you on about.
Firstly He said dexter put negative thoughts in Charlie's mind about Charlie getting more boos than cheers. Which callum disagreed with, and said although she got boos, she should also focus on the positive.
Now Sam is a different matter. First of all callum and jack and joe said they only heard a women say Get Sam out! But then callum said there was a 3-4 second of no reaction then Sam got cheers. Whether he mis-interpreated those boos sam really got for no reactions is likely, because it just doesn't make sense. There's a massive over reaction here. People in the house always think they hear things and they actually don't, dexter thought last week he got a "get dexter out" chant when there was zilch of that. I mean the callum hate is real strong that its gotten to the point were if he drinks a cup of water, he gets slated. And ill always back him to the end cause i dont get the hate lol.

It's your choice to back someone when they lie. That doesn't mean everyone who doesn't do the same is inventing things they watched live in front of them. He was blaming Dexter for Charlie telling Sam there were boos. It's why Charlie got Sophie to back her up, not Dexter.

Donovan.
27-07-2013, 01:59 AM
oh well, atleast he doesn't nominate his friends.

This, tbh. The double standards are ridiculous. I was okay with Dexter's Gina nomination being excused as gameplay, because they don't owe eachother anything, nobody in that house does. I'm even okay with Callum gettin flack for this, but the "NOT A REAL FRIEND!!!" outcry is so forced and is only happening, because it's Callum.

Indy
27-07-2013, 02:00 AM
This, tbh. The double standards are ridiculous. I was okay with Dexter's Gina nomination being excused as gameplay, because they don't owe eachother anything, nobody in that house does. I'm even okay with Callum gettin flack for this, but the "NOT A REAL FRIEND!!!" outcry is so forced and is only happening, because it's Callum.

And when he nominated his friend Dexter face to face?

Donovan.
27-07-2013, 02:11 AM
And when he nominated his friend Dexter face to face?

I'm not claiming that he's a good friend, I don't care either way, but it's silly to bring that nomination up without bringing up Dexter's nomination of Gina. Why persecute somebody for doing something and praise somebody else for the same thing.

Im_Juz_ChiLLin
27-07-2013, 03:15 AM
Then he should say he didn't hear them, not that Dexter invented them and told everyone else to make Sam feel bad. There is no reason for people to lie about that, so by suggesting they are, he is basically telling Sam that those people don't like him.

Brilliant post 100 % Agree Creepy Callum was back tracking on live Feed when everyone outed his lie ..... :cat:

Im_Juz_ChiLLin
27-07-2013, 03:19 AM
I'm not claiming that he's a good friend, I don't care either way, but it's silly to bring that nomination up without bringing up Dexter's nomination of Gina. Why persecute somebody for doing something and praise somebody else for the same thing.

This is not about nominations, it was Sam asking Callum for his honest opinion. Even then he said he heard no boos and to trust him that Dexter was the one manipulating Charlie into thinking there was Boo's for Sam. He had no proof or evidence Dexter said anything of the sort yet bought that point in just to make Sam think it's all Dexter's fault which it clearly wasn't... his obsession over Dexter has to stop and it is good BB called Creepy Callum into the diary room before he went on about it all night long.... :nono:

Verbal
27-07-2013, 03:28 AM
sooo...yea...lovely weather we've been having

Donovan.
27-07-2013, 03:47 AM
This is not about nominations, it was Sam asking Callum for his honest opinion. Even then he said he heard no boos and to trust him that Dexter was the one manipulating Charlie into thinking there was Boo's for Sam. He had no proof or evidence Dexter said anything of the sort yet bought that point in just to make Sam think it's all Dexter's fault which it clearly wasn't... his obsession over Dexter has to stop and it is good BB called Creepy Callum into the diary room before he went on about it all night long.... :nono:

Fair enough, but I was using that as an example. Dexter hasn't been the truest friend either and there is little to no reaction, and there shouldn't be. This Callum hate though, has been ever the top IMO. And when there's finally a solid reason for people to be mad at him, it's trivialized to "not being a true friend" instead of what it should be.

I get that he might be taking advantage of Sam's disability(or as a friend of mine would say, his "different ability") but I also understand that he might just be trying to protect Sam, and that it's a tough position to tell your friend that they might not be so well-liked.

vortex
27-07-2013, 06:42 AM
That comment had a double intention and giving Sam security wasn't even the main one, he wants Sam to hate on Dexter aswell, blaming Dexter out of the blue was ridiculous, Charlie told him what she heard, Dexter had nothing to do with it.

joeysteele
27-07-2013, 06:59 AM
I'm not claiming that he's a good friend, I don't care either way, but it's silly to bring that nomination up without bringing up Dexter's nomination of Gina. Why persecute somebody for doing something and praise somebody else for the same thing.

I really like Dexter but no one really dare say anyhing negative as to him for being jumped on. If Callum has said something against Dexter then he will be the new hate figure just as Dan was, and sadly it is Dexter that gets protected on here and very few others.
I was a Dan fan and got pulled up for being too defensive, Dexter can be mentioned on every thread with the same comments and not a word said.

You are spot on,as to the Dexter/Gina nomination but as I say Dexter can do little wrong on here.

Callum looks out for Sam and Sam trusts him, a good friend has 3 choices to make when someone is upset, do they fill them in with the whole truth or do they try to get them over the upset period first then choosing a better time to say all that may have actually been the case.

The boos Sam got were small and there was a mixture of cheers with them too, they all got a mixed reaction and so I can give Callum some credit for trying to spare Sam's feelings further by not jumping in and saying you got boos.

Being a good friend often means picking your moments to do the right thing and sometimes when someone is upset or hurt,you have to sidestep a little.

fingers
27-07-2013, 09:17 AM
Sam doesn't need protecting, in fact he is probably the single person in there who can stand up for, and defend, himself.

smeagol
27-07-2013, 09:26 AM
creepy up to his tricks again. , i said ages ago he is using sam for his own ends. and talks down to him like a little kid. he is a bit deaf he isn't dumb

Jemal
27-07-2013, 09:30 AM
I really like Dexter but no one really dare say anyhing negative as to him for being jumped on. If Callum has said something against Dexter then he will be the new hate figure just as Dan was, and sadly it is Dexter that gets protected on here and very few others.
I was a Dan fan and got pulled up for being too defensive, Dexter can be mentioned on every thread with the same comments and not a word said.

You are spot on,as to the Dexter/Gina nomination but as I say Dexter can do little wrong on here.

Callum looks out for Sam and Sam trusts him, a good friend has 3 choices to make when someone is upset, do they fill them in with the whole truth or do they try to get them over the upset period first then choosing a better time to say all that may have actually been the case.

The boos Sam got were small and there was a mixture of cheers with them too, they all got a mixed reaction and so I can give Callum some credit for trying to spare Sam's feelings further by not jumping in and saying you got boos.

Being a good friend often means picking your moments to do the right thing and sometimes when someone is upset or hurt,you have to sidestep a little.

:worship:

Kris
27-07-2013, 10:03 AM
Callum heading to be the new hate figure now.
I cannot say if Callum's actions with Sam are all good but there were a few boos for Sam as there were all of them.
Sophie far less.

Sam doesn't understand this twist, he is upset, Callum may have been unwise to say there were no boos or a few boos but I would give him the benefit of the doubt that he was trying to spare his feelings.
Sam isn't a child but he is a bit more vulnerable in there than the others, the poor lad had no idea what was going on when Emma was explaining the twist.

I still think Callum is a friend to Sam, he is getting a pretty rough ride in there himself and he owes Dexter nothing for the way Dexter attempts to belittle him at every opportunity.

This...except for saying Callum is the NEW hate figure as its nothing new. Callum can't say hello to anyone without being called everything from a pig to a dog. The amount of flack he caught yesterday just for doing the washing up was rediculas.

Maybe in the confusion of the night he really didn't think he heard boos for Sam or maybe he was trying to protect a freind but just what is it he could really gain from it otherwise.

This is just another case of the firing squad looking for a reason to pull the trigger.

Jemal
27-07-2013, 10:05 AM
Exactly. Callums the new hate figure, and tbh i kinda like it.

fingers
27-07-2013, 10:48 AM
Sam annoyed me went he kept going on and on and on about 'representing' people.

(I'm guessing he meant deaf people because he started going on about past housemates with disabilities and where they came in the competition)

Callum isn't the only one who didn't hear boos for Sam, one of the twins also didn't.

He has a well thought out strategy for winning and it involved studying how all the other people with disabilities fared, he knows which of them won and which of them came second and he thinks he knows how he should play this. It involves putting across the idea that he's doing this for the "people he represents" i.e. some deaf charity in Wales. So just keep a low profile while the "big" players are gunned down one by one. His only real fear is that Gina will pip him to the post. and unfortunately he's probably right!

Im_Juz_ChiLLin
27-07-2013, 01:15 PM
I really like Dexter but no one really dare say anyhing negative as to him for being jumped on. If Callum has said something against Dexter then he will be the new hate figure just as Dan was, and sadly it is Dexter that gets protected on here and very few others.
I was a Dan fan and got pulled up for being too defensive, Dexter can be mentioned on every thread with the same comments and not a word said.

You are spot on,as to the Dexter/Gina nomination but as I say Dexter can do little wrong on here.

Callum looks out for Sam and Sam trusts him, a good friend has 3 choices to make when someone is upset, do they fill them in with the whole truth or do they try to get them over the upset period first then choosing a better time to say all that may have actually been the case.

The boos Sam got were small and there was a mixture of cheers with them too, they all got a mixed reaction and so I can give Callum some credit for trying to spare Sam's feelings further by not jumping in and saying you got boos.

Being a good friend often means picking your moments to do the right thing and sometimes when someone is upset or hurt,you have to sidestep a little.

Being a good friend means telling the truth not lieing and making it a blame game about Dexter being the bad influence when he was the one lieing in the first place. When a friend asks you for the truth you don't sugar coat it with lies, Creepy Callum is a bad friend !!! :nono:

CaudleHalbard
27-07-2013, 01:19 PM
It is not sort of deep meaningful friendship. They are house friends and probably know very little of each other in reality.

It does not surprise me Callum was over-protective.

caffacaf
27-07-2013, 02:30 PM
Hmm I didn't really hear boos for Sam tbh, I thought there was just a bit of overlap between some boos Dan got, then Emma said Sam's name, the boos continued for a second but then switched to cheers. Maybe Callum thought this too?

Either way I genuinely don't think he is a bad (fake nice) person people are making him out to be. Even if he said no boos, to protect Sam, so what? it might not be what everyone thinks is right but it doesn't make him bad. He may just not have wanted Sam to worry all week on something not that important, since he got mostly cheers.
He either did what he thought was right to him or didn't hear any genuinely.

Also I don't think it can be compared to letting your friend go outside in an ugly dress/clothes totally different. Sam not knowing doesn't make a fool of him at all.

CaudleHalbard
27-07-2013, 02:32 PM
There were "Get Sam Out" chants as well as boos. I doubt anyone has told Sam about those!

fingers
27-07-2013, 02:36 PM
There were "Get Sam Out" chants as well as boos. I doubt anyone has told Sam about those!
They did actually, several of them ,but they all claimed it was a lone woman's voice!

Jemal
27-07-2013, 02:38 PM
Hmm I didn't really hear boos for Sam tbh, I thought there was just a bit of overlap between some boos Dan got, then Emma said Sam's name, the boos continued for a second but then switched to cheers. Maybe Callum thought this too?

Either way I genuinely don't think he is a bad (fake nice) person people are making him out to be. Even if he said no boos, to protect Sam, so what? it might not be what everyone thinks is right but it doesn't make him bad. He may just not have wanted Sam to worry all week on something not that important, since he got mostly cheers.
He either did what he thought was right to him or didn't hear any genuinely.

Also I don't think it can be compared to letting your friend go outside in an ugly dress/clothes totally different. Sam not knowing doesn't make a fool of him at all.
:worship:

Im_Juz_ChiLLin
27-07-2013, 02:38 PM
They did actually, several of them ,but they all claimed it was a lone woman's voice!

Yeah apparently the Twins only heard 1 women shouting it..... :cat:

Im_Juz_ChiLLin
27-07-2013, 02:39 PM
It's your choice to back someone when they lie. That doesn't mean everyone who doesn't do the same is inventing things they watched live in front of them. He was blaming Dexter for Charlie telling Sam there were boos. It's why Charlie got Sophie to back her up, not Dexter.

100 % Agree Callum came out looking like a fool in yesterday nights life feed the way he was going and on and on and on about him being right.... :sleep: