Callum telling Charlie he will allow her to pick people to talk to and advise her.

[Vanessa]

On LF, he is getting quite irritated with Charlie saying she could be the person who makes him evicted on Friday. Says she has hurt him so much. When she tried to talk about it he told her to sit and listen and got irritated.

Says Dexter is brainwashing her head, but that he will allow her to talk too and ask people for advice,

BB should stop this now, what is he doing.

[Vanessa]

Bearing in mind the conversation between Callum and Charlie was already up and running and she was crying during BOTS the live feed opened halfway through the conversation....

Callum:i try to use two ears and one mouth I try not to give advice to people. I try to listen and let them make their minds up.
Charlie: That's the thing Callum...
Callum: I haven't finished.

[Vanessa]

Callum: You made a choice. You've lost your biggest fan in the house. You've lost someone who fought in your corner and would never ever ever ever let you down.
Charlie: You're saying I lost completely anything to do with you because I nominated you.
Challuom: No, you're putting words in my mouth.
Chahrlie: You're saying...
Callum: No. Don't talk for me. You're putting words in my mouth.... You're going somewhere in your head now, please listen to me. I will not go out of my way as I have been recently. I will not go out of my way to force something on you that annoys you like a conversation. Sometimes I seek you out to see how you're feeling. A massage is an excuse to sit down. I won't put you in that position because I think there are people in the house in conversation that are better for you than me. People that won't annoy you and put words in my mouth. Don't think I'm avoiding you.

Charlie interrupts. Callum gets annoyed tells her to keep still for two seconds.

this is important because 30 minutes later he is still going

[Vanessa]

Callum:I'm taking it well I will avoid you in the house

after 14 minutes charlie stood up callum told her to sit down and shush

followed by a repeat of "you've lost your number one fan" speech

Callum: i will Let you choose who to speak to I will let you choose who you want to be with I will let you choose who you want to comfort you I'll let you pick people the people you want to have chats with and I'll let you pick the people you want to take advice from
You have disappointed me and I am surprised and feel let down
that's what we have lost now the closeness that will fade away
Hazel's lovely but Dexter pours ideas into your head I've got more up here than him

charlie mentions the incident with the tanning girls that gets birdsong every time anyone starts talking about it
Callum: My word,that's so disappointing,that's the worst thing you've said

a long speech about "i know i am soft i know i am soppy i know blah blah WHATMERS were committing suicide at this point
Callum: You've done it now, you've done it now
There are two people here I would've sacrificed myself for to keep them in: you and Sam Have a think about who else would do that? I thought you had the savvy to realise you were safe around me If I do go, you have lost true friend in me If I go, one of Charlie's true friends will be walking out the door I'm upset for you, you don't understand

Thankfully at this point he was called to the diary room.
he reappeared 45 minutes later and started repeating it all to Sam.

[Vanessa]

I think Jackie had Callum sussed straightaway. He is very controlling and manipulative with Charlie and that's not good at all.

[Lister of Smeg]

Im starting to think Jackie was right about Callums aggressiveness .

[Vanessa]

Im starting to think Jackie was right about Callums aggressiveness .

She knew he was aggressive and manipuative. I can see why she was wary.

[Lister of Smeg]

She knew he was aggressive and manipuative. I can see why she was wary.

I find it hilarious that he thinks Dexter influences Charlie if thats the case what does he do with Sam.

[Vanessa]

I find it hilarious that he thinks Dexter influences Charlie if thats the case what does he do with Sam.

Charlie has her own mind. I'm glad she's starting to trust Dexter . He really cares for her and treats her with respect.

[BJ2]

Charlie should have told Callum she didn't need his permission to do anything and then stood up and walked away.

I think Charlie is a people pleaser, that's her problem. She is emotionally immature and needs approval from other people.

I think it's greatly to do with the way she has been brought up. Jackie was also controlling of Charlie - remember when she walked away from Charlie when Charlie was shut in the prison.

Jackie recognized Callum's controlling nature but doesn't see it in herself.

[Indy]

Charlie should have told Callum she didn't need his permission to do anything and then stood up and walked away.

I think Charlie is a people pleaser, that's her problem. She is emotionally immature and needs approval from other people.

I think it's greatly to do with the way she has been brought up. Jackie was also controlling of Charlie - remember when she walked away from Charlie when Charlie was shut in the prison.

Jackie recognized Callum's controlling nature but doesn't see it in herself.

That's what makes Callum's treatment of her so much more disturbing. He knows she's not emotionally equipped to shut him down, just like he knows everyone else in the house is, which is why he would never dream of pulling this crap with them. Even when he rehashes his arguments to Sam, he completely rewrites what he's said to make himself sound less manipulative. (much like the way he told Sam he got in Wolfy's face when we all saw him calmly point out that she was doing it wrong)

[Niamh.]

Oh Dear that doesn't sound good, i hope they show that on H/Ls tonight

[Kazanne]

Do people forget others watch LF too,he didn't quite mean it in a possessive way now did he,but hey ho.

[Vanessa]

Oh Dear that doesn't sound good, i hope they show that on H/Ls tonight

I hope so as well.

[Indy]

Do people forget others watch LF too,he didn't quite mean it in a possessive way now did he,but hey ho.

In what way did he mean to say he was giving her permission to talk to other people?

[Daffodil]

That conversation made me shiver. It was stomach-churningly uncomfortable to read. Who is HE to give Charlie permission to do anything???? There also seems to be an undercurrent of mental blackmail. Nasty nasty. Will make brilliant viewing though (if BB show it). He may just have signed his exit ticket.

[Niamh.]

Is there any videos of it floating around?

[Vanessa]

That conversation made me shiver. It was stomach-churningly uncomfortable to read. Who is HE to give Charlie permission to do anything???? There also seems to be an undercurrent of mental blackmail. Nasty nasty. Will make brilliant viewing though (if BB show it). He may just have signed his exit ticket.

He treats Charlie like she belongs to him. He tells her who to talk to. Possessive much? :crazy:

[Daffodil]

He treats Charlie like she belongs to him. He tells her who to talk to. Possessive much? :crazy:

Vibes of the movie 'Misery'. :bawling: ::conf:: :o

[Vanessa]

Vibes of the movie 'Misery'. :bawling: ::conf:: :o

He can't handle it that Charlie likes Dexter. :laugh2:

[rusticgal]

OMG....he has to stay...he is an absolute nutcase. Charlie is an angel giving him so much space!!!

[Vanessa]

OMG....he has to stay...he is an absolute nutcase. Charlie is an angel giving him so much space!!!

He has to go.

[smeagol]

he is everything a woman hates so controlling needy desperate agressivve manipulative untrustworthy etc etc he will let her choose lol thats kind of him

they should put he's ex's on bbots i bet they have some stories. i bet they couldn't go to the toilet without him asking where they were going lol

The fact he blames dex and is obsessed with him is just sad. he needs to start looking at himself not others.

[Daffodil]

OMG....he has to stay...he is an absolute nutcase. Charlie is an angel giving him so much space!!!


I must admit a part of me is thinking about the nightmare scenario of Charlie and him being the last two housemates. How awful would that be?

[Kazanne]

In what way did he mean to say he was giving her permission to talk to other people?

I took it to mean he would not shun her even when she mingled with others,(as some people would do that)although she nommed him he still liked her,he might have worded it clumbsily,he does trip himself up at times(don't we all)but imo there was NO malice in that also people seem determined to use the dark side to it.

[Kazanne]

he is everything a woman hates so controlling needy desperate agressivve manipulative untrustworthy etc etc he will let her choose lol thats kind of him

they should put he's ex's on bbots i bet they have some stories. i bet they couldn't go to the toilet without him asking where they were going lol

The fact he blames dex and is obsessed with him is just sad. he needs to start looking at himself not others.

Clap trap,I'm a woman and I don't hate him,he wants to be liked that's all,no need for all the dramatics:hugesmile:

[Jemal]

Callum said that she will allow him to goto who she wants to goto. Before callum would automatically goto her for a convo. But he said he won't do that anymore because it may make for awkward convo. He said that shes lost her number 1 fan in the house, he also added that ill give advice and listen to people when they need it. If you want to come to me for a chat i will chat, but i won't go out of my way to talk to you and to stand up for you anymore. That's the gist. The script vanessa has written has made it sound like a horror movie. They were bloody laughing at each other and bantering halfway through the
Conversation. Charlie kept on repeating 'I adore you, I find comfort around you' etc all those things. It was in no way controlling. When you talk to someone dont you want them to look you in the eyes? Thats why he said PLEASE look at me. Callum also let her speak numerous times and she rambled on and on in circles. Callum haters who are obviously dexter fans are trying to make callum what they want him to be when hes really and never will be that :spin:

[Jemal]

And also im flipping tamping that Charlie is pissed off with the spray tan lady.
Jesus ****ing Christ are you his husband? He can do what he flipping wants, she said the spray tan lady looked uncomfortable, sam then replied no she wasnt "she was Larven It!"
Case closed. Charlie was jealous the attention wasnt on her. I see right through.

[Im_Juz_ChiLLin]

And also im flipping tamping that Charlie is pissed off with the spray tan lady.
Jesus ****ing Christ are you his husband? He can do what he flipping wants, she said the spray tan lady looked uncomfortable, sam then replied no she wasnt "she was Larven It!"
Case closed. Charlie was jealous the attention wasnt on her. I see right through.

So sam and Callum are thinking for the married tan lady that came to do her job..... :sleep:

[Im_Juz_ChiLLin]

Creepster Callums true colours have come and he is loony stalker psycho who can't let go that the woman hates him !!!

[Im_Juz_ChiLLin]

Oh Dear that doesn't sound good, i hope they show that on H/Ls tonight

Videos Of Callum's Disgusting Emotional Blackmail last night - Everyone was cringing and worried for housemates safety.....THE EVIDENCE IS CLEAR !!!

Live Feed 30th July 2013 Part 1 of 2

http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x12g6dn_live-feed-30th-july-2013-part-1-of-2_shortfilms

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Live Feed 30th July 2013 Part 2 of 2

http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x12gip6_live-feed-30th-july-2013-part-2-of-2_shortfilms

x12gip6_live-feed-30th-july-2013-part-2-of-2_shortfilms

[Indy]

And also im flipping tamping that Charlie is pissed off with the spray tan lady.
Jesus ****ing Christ are you his husband? He can do what he flipping wants, she said the spray tan lady looked uncomfortable, sam then replied no she wasnt "she was Larven It!"
Case closed. Charlie was jealous the attention wasnt on her. I see right through.

When Gina explained to Sam what they saw when his back was turned, he wasn't yelling "she was lovin it" anymore, in fact he looked rather worried. This isn't Charlie "pissed off with the spray tan lady" - the whole house thought it went too far, and two other hm's mentioned it in their nominations. They cut the live feed any time the subject comes up now, so obviously it's nothing to do with Charlie and everything to do with their legal team.

[erinp5]

Is it normal to put your spray tan assisitant in a headlock.
Paw them and put your face into theirs.

21EVI2IHiaE

[Kazanne]

Of course the other housemates thought he went too far as dan was telling them that,why was nothing said about Sam kissing one of them,

[Indy]

Of course the other housemates thought he went too far as dan was telling them that,why was nothing said about Sam kissing one of them,

There was - Gina said it to him tonight, and then the LF cut away, as it did for the rest of the night, any time the tanning came up.

[CaudleHalbard]

Tanning girls are probably suing BB for emotional distress! Lol! ;)

[Spoon]

I think Jackie had Callum sussed straightaway. He is very controlling and manipulative with Charlie and that's not good at all.

Amen. Charlie has a history of anorexia and drug addiction, making it all the more important to make sure she's in control and empowered. She shouldn't be around people who want to make decisions for her or weaken her. (No one should.)

And yeah, interesting the censoring of any discussion of the tanning girls' treatment...

[Patricia4]

I took it to mean he would not shun her even when she mingled with others,(as some people would do that)although she nommed him he still liked her,he might have worded it clumbsily,he does trip himself up at times(don't we all)but imo there was NO malice in that also people seem determined to use the dark side to it.

I took it that way too Kazanne but to say Jackie was right about Callum its the best joke Ive heard for awhile. :joker:

[fingers]

The LF last night/this morning was just a joke, they constantly cut from one group to another to prevent the viewers getting any idea of what each group was discussing, that, and the constant censoring allowed me to get an early night (this morning lol)

[smeagol]

Amen. Charlie has a history of anorexia and drug addiction, making it all the more important to make sure she's in control and empowered. She shouldn't be around people who want to make decisions for her or weaken her. (No one should.)

And yeah, interesting the censoring of any discussion of the tanning girls' treatment...

worst kind of person charlie could be involved with.
he is always so manipulating trying to bring her down so he can then bring her back up again . thats the last thing she needs.
that thing on the bench the other day where he said what do you see when you look in the mirror was a prime example .

[Lister of Smeg]

Videos Of Callum's Disgusting Emotional Blackmail last night - Everyone was cringing and worried for housemates safety.....THE EVIDENCE IS CLEAR !!!

Live Feed 30th July 2013 Part 1 of 2

http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x12g6dn_live-feed-30th-july-2013-part-1-of-2_shortfilms

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Live Feed 30th July 2013 Part 2 of 2

http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x12gip6_live-feed-30th-july-2013-part-2-of-2_shortfilms

x12gip6_live-feed-30th-july-2013-part-2-of-2_shortfilms christ what a cringe bag everthing that comes out of Callums gob is cringy.

[smudgie]

:joker::joker: At the housemates, saying she was not talking to him
Dan making an idiot
of himself saying Callum was a womaniser just for talking and larking around with them.

Hardly surprising BB hushes it when they talk about it as the girls are not housemates and are not open to the bulsh*t they spout.

[Josy]

Amen. Charlie has a history of anorexia and drug addiction, making it all the more important to make sure she's in control and empowered. She shouldn't be around people who want to make decisions for her or weaken her. (No one should.)

And yeah, interesting the censoring of any discussion of the tanning girls' treatment...

She also shouldn't be drinking so much if at all since it's well known that addicts will substitute one substance for another.

[fingers]

She also shouldn't be drinking so much if at all since it's well known that addicts will substitute one substance for another.

...and she sure as hell can't handle alcohol!

[Waynoo]

I bet they dont show it in full

[oopsimawesome]

Callum has got to be the biggest creep to ever enter the BBUK house. It makes me uncomfortable just watching him, can't imagine how much worse it is in the house. He's the mayor of Cringe City. ;)

[Johnnyuk123]

Thank god Charlie didn't have a fab lolly addiction!

[Waynoo]

Callum has got to be the biggest creep to ever enter the BBUK house. It makes me uncomfortable just watching him, can't imagine how much worse it is in the house. He's the mayor of Cringe City. ;)

Agreed

[Tozzie]

Vibes of the movie 'Misery'. :bawling: ::conf:: :o

fantastic movie but that was a movie, this is real life oh dear, whats Callum doing