why is callum obsessed with intelligence

[smeagol]

everytime he speaks he mentions intelligence or being clever etc. over and over
he puts it into every convo. it is driving me madddddddddddddddd lol

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everytime he speaks he mentions intelligence or being clever etc. over and over
he puts it into every convo. it is driving me madddddddddddddddd lol
It complements his boasting about his sexual prowess and conquests, total rubbish

[Itza]

I had a former internet friend who did this, too. I think he felt insecure in his own intelligence. The former internet friend was very manipulative and clever with words.

I quite liked Callum until I heard the conversation with Charlie where he told her she'd lost her biggest fan in the house. That whole conversation was redolent of former internet friend. Not good.

[brucie]

He reminds me of Anton..both have insecurity complex regarding intelligence.

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I had a former internet friend who did this, too. I think he felt insecure in his own intelligence. The former internet friend was very manipulative and clever with words.

I quite liked Callum until I heard the conversation with Charlie where he told her she'd lost her biggest fan in the house. That whole conversation was redolent of former internet friend. Not good.
Callum's a control freak but now he only has Sam in his control. it is a symptom of his controlling nature that he works with children.

[Tom4784]

Because he lacks it, He's obsessed with trying to be someone he's not. He wants to be this big intellectual alpha type male but he quite simply isn't. It's why he hates Dexter so much I think, Dexter is a lot more intelligent then he is and he holds the Alpha Male role in the house while Callum is disliked by everyone.

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Because he lacks it, He's obsessed with trying to be someone he's not. He wants to be this big intellectual alpha type male but he quite simply isn't. It's why he hates Dexter so much I think, Dexter is a lot more intelligent then he is and he holds the Alpha Male role in the house while Callum is disliked by everyone.

Everyone EXCEPT Sam!

[brucie]

Anton used to do the same thing often saying 'I'm too intelligent' when trying and failing in all aspects with Aaron..

I remember when Louise said 'He's going mad...' in reference to Anton when he knew the game was up and he was being evicted..

[Roy Mars III]

Callum really wants to be smart and clever but he isn't. One of the main reasons that he doesn't like Dexter, as Dezzy said, is jealousy. Dexter is smart, no matter what his haters say, and Callum realizes it and hates him for it

One reason he likes Sam so much as he's probably one of the few in the house he is smarter than and can be the 'leader' in the relationship

[MatthewS]

Google Freud Defense Mechanisms & Personality Theory. That should shed some insight.

[Lister of Smeg]

Callum has little penis syndrome

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Callum also pointd out last night that he believes Dexter's back story and thinks he is loaded and has a business in London "worth thousands", . Maybe a little hint of jealousy??

[GiRTh]

Because he has none. Callum cannot live up to his own self image and its tearing him apart. He's a very strange man.

[Vicky.]

Callum also pointd out last night that he believes Dexter's back story and thinks he is loaded and has a business in London "worth thousands", . Maybe a little hint of jealousy??

Can't be that intelligent then, considering most of this forum had Dexter's backstory pinned as rubbish within the first few days :D

[MatthewS]

Callum is pretty ignorant and jaded. He said he's sure Dexter has 5 figures in the bank. Entirely possible. I didn't know someone having a lifesaving's of 10K constitutes being rich or whatever. I think that a fair amount of people who are responsible and have a professional career easily have that much. Callum mentioned he doesn't have anything saved up. So is this all jealousy? Dexter has more money and generally gets along with Charlie more, so I guess that's an issue for him?

[barbel13]

He has low self esteem and have issues of not good enough with the ladies.Need to grow out of this before it too late as his prime age time is passing by quickly. At 28 he should have been settled with a trusted women,married with children.

He is taking his insecurity and anger on dexter because Charlie nominated him and not dex.

Social incompetence from callum.

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Callum is pretty ignorant and jaded. He said he's sure Dexter has 5 figures in the bank. Entirely possible. I didn't know someone having a lifesaving's of 10K constitutes being rich or whatever. I think that a fair amount of people who are responsible and have a professional career easily have that much. Callum mentioned he doesn't have anything saved up. So is this all jealousy? Dexter has more money and generally gets along with Charlie more, so I guess that's an issue for him?
Dexter has NO money No Property and NO business except the phoney one he created on April 2nd in Lancashire but supposedly in London!

[MatthewS]

^^^
Entirely possible. But Callum doesn't know that. Or does he? He's assuming that having 5 figures saved up is a negative thing thought and he's having a go at people because of it.

[MatthewS]

^^^
Entirely possible. But Callum doesn't know that. Or does he? He's assuming that having 5 figures saved up is a negative thing thought and he's having a go at people because of it.

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^^^
Entirely possible. But Callum doesn't know that. Or does he? He's assuming that having 5 figures saved up is a negative thing thought and he's having a go at people because of it.Dexter has been boasting, since day one, about his properties overseas, his Media "business" and his lifestyle. Not forgetting his "huge Gambling win" which made him spend £120,000 on Cristal Champagne!

[MatthewS]

They both clearly have some issues they need to work out...

Callum seems to take it to the next level though imo, he's really bothered by Dexter. Whereas I don't think Dexter really cares that much...

[Kazanne]

They both clearly have some issues they need to work out...

Callum seems to take it to the next level though imo, he's really bothered by Dexter. Whereas I don't think Dexter really cares that much...

On the surface no,but deep down,seething,lol

[Withano]

If you tell it to yourself enough, you'll start to believe it.

[hijaxers]

Callum's a control freak but now he only has Sam in his control. it is a symptom of his controlling nature that he works with children.
I doubt very much that he will be working with children again !

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I doubt very much that he will be working with children again !

I think he knows it too!

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Any institution or education authority that would hire him now or let him anywhere near to children should be closed down. The title "Coach" is becoming more laughable with every Live Feed!

[CaudleHalbard]

Callum is in delf-destruct mode, for sure.

[mr rochester]

Callum really wants to be smart and clever but he isn't. One of the main reasons that he doesn't like Dexter, as Dezzy said, is jealousy. Dexter is smart, no matter what his haters say, and Callum realizes it and hates him for it

One reason he likes Sam so much as he's probably one of the few in the house he is smarter than and can be the 'leader' in the relationship

Sam is the only one left who will listen to him...talk about irony...

[CaudleHalbard]

Sam is the only one left who will listen to him...talk about irony...

Indeed. The deaf guy is the only one who'll listen.

I do wonder whether Sam switches off his hearing aid; wouldn't blame him if he did!:D

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Indeed. The deaf guy is the only one who'll listen.

I do wonder whether Sam switches off his hearing aid; wouldn't blame him if he did!:D

Nah, Sam laps it up, he even feeds Callum ammunition and gets pissed off if Callum doesn't use it correctly!

[erinp5]

Callum isn't smart he uses lines from films:joker:
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[CaudleHalbard]

Callum regards Sam as being similar to the kids he coaches... even calling him "Toddler" now.

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Callum regards Sam as being similar to the kids he coaches... even calling him "Toddler" now.

That's just sick!

Edit: He'd better not let the toddler hear him calling him that!

[CaudleHalbard]

He'd better not let the toddler hear him calling him that!

Callum repeatedly called Sam 'toddler' to his face on LF.

Sam didn't seem to mind.

[Tozzie]

Toddler? whats that about

[Daffodil]

Toddler? whats that about

Seconded. What sort of nick name is that?

very strange :(

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Sam must think it is one of Callums terms of endearment!

[anne666]

Because it's his greatest aim in life

[Spoon]

Probably because he's insecure.

[Sophster]

Indeed. The deaf guy is the only one who'll listen.

I do wonder whether Sam switches off his hearing aid; wouldn't blame him if he did!:D

I actually have done this in lessons before. Rebel.

But I do think Callum wants power and respect and isn't getting any which is driving him mad.