People criticise Daley for flirting but not Dexter?

[Headie]

This isn't an anti-Dexter thread, he's actually growing on me more and more and I'd be overjoyed if he won, but don't understand why everyone made a big fuss over Daley expressing that he "liked" Hazel and then flirting with her all the time even though he had a girlfriend, but Dexter has done the exact same thing with Charlie?

Is it just because he's a fan favourite? Or because his lifestyle's fake and his girlfriends fake? I mean, his girlfriend still comes to evictions and supports him, and she didn't get a serious interview on BOTS or anything. Just a question I was wanting to be answered as I just thought of it whilst watch this Chexter thing rekindle again on the HL show.

[Ramsay]

they went on like 2 dates..his girlfriend gave him a free pass and now has a new boyfriend but still supports dexter so she obviously doesnt care
daley's girlfriend was with him for a very long time and was upset when that stuff went down..think there is a kid involved too? so that's the difference

[smeagol]

not another anti dexter thread is he now fav to win or something thats 3 odd ones ina row lol

[Vanessa]

Dexter and Charlotte only went on 2 dates. I wouldn't class that as a proper relationship. She has a new boyfriend and still supports Dexter to win.

[Im_Juz_ChiLLin]

do we have to give the same answer on every single thread about Dexter's gf or what......

[Parmy]

It's because his penis is so small it can not penetrate.

[smeagol]

It's because his penis is so small it can not penetrate.

very random. im sure its bigger than ginas lol and i doubt the twins have seen theres in years lol

[Headie]

do we have to give the same answer on every single thread about Dexter's gf or what......

Simple answer = Yes.

Dexter and Charlotte only went on 2 dates. I wouldn't class that as a proper relationship. She has a new boyfriend and still supports Dexter to win.

Ah ok. Thank you for actually giving me an answer, unlike other people in this thread! :xyxwave:

Why did Emma say Dexter's girlfriend was in the eviction crowd then if they aren't dating?

[anne666]

If Channel 5 had given us the same sob story interview as Daley's GF, I still wouldn't have believed it just as I didn't believe that.They missed a trick there.

[anne666]

Simple answer = Yes.



Ah ok. Thank you for actually giving me an answer, unlike other people in this thread! :xyxwave:

Why did Emma say Dexter's girlfriend was in the eviction crowd then if they aren't dating?

They have it all sussed before they even enter the house, a new generation of BB professionals I'm afraid. They will all laugh all the way to the bank.

[Withano]

I think the "free pass" saved him, his girlfriend is probably getting more dick than a prostitute

[Vanessa]

Simple answer = Yes.



Ah ok. Thank you for actually giving me an answer, unlike other people in this thread! :xyxwave:

Why did Emma say Dexter's girlfriend was in the eviction crowd then if they aren't dating?

No idea. Maybe she doesn't know about it. It was Dexter friend Jo who said all this on twitter. :shrug:

[waylander1973]

It is different situation, you should it see as such.

Dexter's girlfriend only dated him twice.

Daley's girlfriend had couple of months with him before he went into the house.

if you dated someone for months then you are clearly are in committed relationship.

For the record i think daley was more wrong than hazel in the flirting between them, if he had or wanted his girlfriend back why did he go there in the first place. :conf:

[anne666]

BB professionals? Nothing more !

[Vicky.]

Dexters girlfriend isnt exactly a girlfriend if they have dated twice. Even so, she gave him a pass which to me means she didnt care in the first place..but she reckons it was a test. But she did give it, confirmed by her. She is now seeing someone else and wishes Dexter well.

Also Dexter in no way behaved like Daley. There have been a few talks of meeting on the outside and some hugs (and a kiss that they had to do for a task). No erection rubbing and such :o

[Parmy]

I don't think dexter has ticked the girlfriend for when I,m on tv box yet.

[icecakes]

It's because his penis is so small it can not penetrate.

How nasty, he's only a game show contestant you know, not a mass murderer :nono:

[Parmy]

How nasty, he's only a game show contestant you know, not a mass murderer :nono:

Yes, of course. Silly me, guess ill just have to stick to whispering about Denis nielsons chode.

[cookiemonster]

Daley's relationship was established, Dexter's wasn't. plus he probably didn't really want to be with her as she would have been attracted to the fake Dexter which wasn't the real him

[icecakes]

Yes, of course. Silly me, guess ill just have to stick to whispering about Denis nielsons chode.

perhaps you should

[Kazanne]

Simple answer = Yes.



Ah ok. Thank you for actually giving me an answer, unlike other people in this thread! :xyxwave:

Why did Emma say Dexter's girlfriend was in the eviction crowd then if they aren't dating?

She's also been saying she is pissed at him but funny how those things are brushed under the carpet,lol
this doesnt look like a two date affair
http://www.unrealitytv.co.uk/big-brother/big-brother-2013-insiders-say-dexter-kohs-girlfriend-may-dump-him-when-c5-air-his-passionate-snog-with-charlie-travers-video/

[CaudleHalbard]

Dexter is totally incapable of flirting! :D

[anne666]

Once again folks, BB professionals.

[Cherie]

Sense of Deja Vue here, didn't we have a similar thread yesterday.

[Jemal]

I made a thread about this.
Also stated that Emma said hes girlfriend was in the crowd
But of course i got attacked and accused of hating dexter. Which i do, but tht isnt why i made the thread.

[Kyle]

She's also been saying she is pissed at him but funny how those things are brushed under the carpet,lol
this doesnt look like a two date affair
http://www.unrealitytv.co.uk/big-brother/big-brother-2013-insiders-say-dexter-kohs-girlfriend-may-dump-him-when-c5-air-his-passionate-snog-with-charlie-travers-video/

Sweep sweep nothing to see here.

[Vicky.]

She's also been saying she is pissed at him but funny how those things are brushed under the carpet,lol
this doesnt look like a two date affair
http://www.unrealitytv.co.uk/big-brother/big-brother-2013-insiders-say-dexter-kohs-girlfriend-may-dump-him-when-c5-air-his-passionate-snog-with-charlie-travers-video/

Reading that link, I honestly dont see how you have come to either of the bold bits?

[joeysteele]

Well oddly enough, Daley actually ended up saying after a short while in the house that he wasn't even sure he stll had any relationship outside the house as things were bad with it when he came in.

Amazing that Dexter can have all his cake and eat it and get not a word of criticism despite even with the free pass, clearly also having some connection to someone romantically outside.

Even more amazing is that Charlie also gets off scot free despite all that but Hazel was and still is pilloried for her and Daley's connection.

However there you go, a rule for Dexter and another for everyone else.

[Vicky.]

Well oddly enough, Daley actually ended up saying after a short while in the house that he wasn't even sure he stll had any relationship outside the house as things were bad with it when he came in.

Amazing that Dexter can have all his cake and eat it and get not a word of criticism despite even with the free pass, clearly also having some connection to someone romantically outside.

Even more amazing is that Charlie also gets off scot free despite all that but Hazel was and still is pilloried for her and Daley's connection.

However there you go, a rule for Dexter and another for everyone else.

But the pass is key here..along with the only 2 dates part of it :laugh:

[joeysteele]

But the pass is key here..along with the only 2 dates part of it :laugh:

You conveniently miss the last bit off, I also added that even with the free pass, he still clearly had a romantic connection to someone outside.

So in effect he has failed that test with that person so how can he or should he be really trusted with anyone else.

[Kyle]

But the pass is key here..along with the only 2 dates part of it :laugh:

2 dates or 20 dates is irrelevant if one of them asked the other out and they said yes they are in a relationship.

[CaudleHalbard]

The relationship is irrelevant if it matters so little to one party that she gives the other a "house pass".

[waylander1973]

2 dates or 20 dates is irrelevant if one of them asked the other out and they said yes they are in a relationship.

Maybe dexter has really fallen for charlie, he's at the end of day only human, give him a break.

[Kyle]

The relationship is irrelevant if it matters so little to one party that she gives the other a "house pass".

Smoke and mirrors my friend, it's all smoke and mirrors.

[Kyle]

Maybe dexter has really fallen for charlie, he's at the end of day only human, give a break.

Does your point extend to Daley as well or just Dexter?

[CaudleHalbard]

Smoke and mirrors my friend, it's all smoke and mirrors.

I know it is. I was just answering on the level of this thread! ;)

There is no girlfriend at all actually... but let's keep that to ourselves - it only upsets people! :)

[waylander1973]

Does your point extend to Daley as well or just Dexter?

Read my first post from earlier ie:- daley was the one that should known better, dexter only dated the girl (even if sex was involved) twice it does not make a committed relationship.

As far i am concerned if you commit to someone then you have to stay true it or break it off by telling the person you are with first before trying on with other women (I do know he was in big brother), daley was the one that should told hazel to stay away from him not dexter. daley was awful housemate for that he shouldn't gone anywhere near hazel even before the safehouse situation.

If are with someone for months then yes you are committed, there is a difference between dating and a committed relationship that's why dexter's girlfriend was more relaxed with her reaction towards dexter with than daley's girlfriend was.

[icecakes]

Does your point extend to Daley as well or just Dexter?

Daley was like a rampant lion on heat, dexter's just a pussycat :joker:

[Kyle]

Daley was like a rampant lion on heat, dexter's just a pussycat :joker:

That may be but both had girlfriends allegedly and both pursued people in the house.


Both are out of order.

[Jemal]

The vibe im getting is that, even though i just got with a girl for just 3 dates or 1 week in a new relationship, i can still go and go for other Girls?
Im sorry but saying Daley was in a longer relationship doesnt mean jack ****e. If your in a relationship, your in a relationship. In my mind no such thing as a bloody free pass. Your either taken or not. And dexter is or was, but he doesn't know about that. Long relationships or New relationship are still under the title that your taken. Jesus.

[boomoo]

Dexter and Charlotte only went on 2 dates. I wouldn't class that as a proper relationship. She has a new boyfriend and still supports Dexter to win.

Well to Dexter it was. He said, I sacrificed a lot.
So he thinks he gave up something to go on the show. He knew for ages that he was going on the show so why start a relationship just before you go into BB?

[Northern Monkey]

Selective criticism

[Kazanne]

Maybe dexter has really fallen for charlie, he's at the end of day only human, give him a break.

Oh,I'de love to:joker::joker:

[waylander1973]

Oh,I'de love to:joker::joker:

Your post made me laugh, thank you honesty:hugesmile:.

[JTM45]

The vibe im getting is that, even though i just got with a girl for just 3 dates or 1 week in a new relationship, i can still go and go for other Girls?
Im sorry but saying Daley was in a longer relationship doesnt mean jack ****e. If your in a relationship, your in a relationship. In my mind no such thing as a bloody free pass. Your either taken or not. And dexter is or was, but he doesn't know about that. Long relationships or New relationship are still under the title that your taken. Jesus.

That's just your personal view are you're obviously entitled it, in the same way that Dexter and the girl he'd had a couple of dates with are entitled to their own view and way of doing things.
She's happy for Dexter so why on Earth is anyone else's opinion on their situation even relevant ? It clearly isn't!!!:nono:

As an example Will Smith and his wife, Jada Pinkett Smith have been married for 16 years and have two teenage children but they have an open relationship. They both love each other and have the greatest respect for each other but aren't the sort of people who want to be restricted to having one sexual partner for the rest of their lives so they both have relationships outside of their marriage.
Not many people would agree with doing this or would want their husband or wife to sleep with other people but that's their opinions and what someone else does is nobodies business apart from the people directly involved. I wouldn't judge someone else for the way they choose to live their lives. It doesn't affect me and it's their relationship which they're both very happy with so what anyone else may or may not think about it is irrelevant.

[sampvt]

There seems to be a lot of qualified lawyers on this forum of late casting judgements on others opinions like confetti at a wedding.. Nobody knows Daleys story for sure as he hasn't really made public his side of it bar a few of the cuff comments and we certainly don't know who is telling the truth were Dexter is concerned cause we don't even know if he is really called Dexter, so illusive is he. Yet we do know Daley had a GF that outed him so on balance he was wrong to a degree.

Now we have a GF of Dexters who comes on Tv and says she IS HIS GF and then she comes to support him on eviction night and is announced AS HIS GF, then we get Dexter saying he has a hall pass. Like the little boy who cried wolf, do we automatically believe dexter. I personally don't care because I don't like or support him but his supporters are all over this like a rash defending him with little or no evidence of the truth and even calling posters that dare to question his motives as liras and arse holes.

Surely this is wrong and we should be a little more conservative when it comes to casting blame.

[Tozzie]

I know it is. I was just answering on the level of this thread! ;)

There is no girlfriend at all actually... but let's keep that to ourselves - it only upsets people! :)

I'm his girlfriend!!!!!!!!!!!!! don't tell my hubby though will ya ;-)

[sampvt]

Tozzie, let me tell you a little secret and its between just you and I as the kids are all asleep anyway.........If sam goes this week, I will be voting for Dexter against Gina as that is one person I do actually hate. Dexter is a lightweight were she is concerned. Now don't tell anyone or I will get the sack from the morality police.

[Jords]

Its a really fair point actually. I guess it boils down to Dexter being an interesting HM whilst Daley was dull (except the "night") so people have been forgiving. Whether thats a good or poor excuse well..

[BigBuk]

Its quite annoying constantly see Sam fans have a go at Dexter. We all know that his girlfriend was either paid or it wasn't a serious relationship if she is given him a free pass, thats hardly a relationship but you's all ignore that to have a dig at Dexter, quite sad in all honesty.

[Ammi]

..I've thought about this as well, but I think Dexter and his girlfriend broke up before he went in and she's with someone else..?..also, there isn't even any flirtation, Charlie has no interest at all...

[Jords]

..I've thought about this as well, but I think Dexter and his girlfriend broke up before he went in and she's with someone else..?..also, there isn't even any flirtation, Charlie has no interest at all...

Dexter and his girlfriend were together on his entry into the house, she joked that he had a "hallpass" but seems Dexter didnt take it that way.

[Ammi]

Dexter and his girlfriend were together on his entry into the house, she joked that he had a "hallpass" but seems Dexter didnt take it that way.

..ahh, I did question it in the highlight discussion thread last night and someone said they had broken up before he went in and only been on a couple of dates anyway..like it was a really casual thing..so is his girlfriend now with someone else, Jords..?..

[Jords]

..ahh, I did question it in the highlight discussion thread last night and someone said they had broken up before he went in and only been on a couple of dates anyway..like it was a really casual thing..so is his girlfriend now with someone else, Jords..?..

I have no idea my knowledge is from an old BOTS show :laugh:

If she is with somebody else already cant have been a very good or serious relationship!

[Ammi]

I have no idea my knowledge is from an old BOTS show :laugh:

If she is with somebody else already cant have been a very good or serious relationship!

..I think maybe why it's not a double standard thing is because it's a real 'non relationship' with Dexter and Charlie, she's not interested at all so all he's really done is say he likes her..(I know that's not what a girlfriend would want to hear but it's much less than what happened between Daley and Hazel..)...

[Jords]

..I think maybe why it's not a double standard thing is because it's a real 'non relationship' with Dexter and Charlie, she's not interested at all so all he's really done is say he likes her..(I know that's not what a girlfriend would want to hear but it's much less than what happened between Daley and Hazel..)...

I reckon so too, plus were given the impression that Dexter's gf isnt that bothered, unlike Daley's.

I do wish Dexter would stop saying "I made a sacrafice and it didnt pay off, youre not losing anything" to sort of guilt-trip Charlie, that does grind my gears.

[Ammi]

I reckon so too, plus were given the impression that Dexter's gf isnt that bothered, unlike Daley's.

I do wish Dexter would stop saying "I made a sacrafice and it didnt pay off, youre not losing anything" to sort of guilt-trip Charlie, that does grind my gears.

..tbh, I think they're both really annoying, Charlie is obviously not interested, nor was she in Callum but I think she sees the attention as a 'storyline' which I think he also does as well...

[Jamie.]

Dexter didn't pin Charlie down by her throat...

[Tozzie]

Tozzie, let me tell you a little secret and its between just you and I as the kids are all asleep anyway.........If sam goes this week, I will be voting for Dexter against Gina as that is one person I do actually hate. Dexter is a lightweight were she is concerned. Now don't tell anyone or I will get the sack from the morality police.

Mums the word :laugh: Morning Samps :wavey:

[Livia]

..I've thought about this as well, but I think Dexter and his girlfriend broke up before he went in and she's with someone else..?..also, there isn't even any flirtation, Charlie has no interest at all...

Dexters "girlfriend" was there last Friday (2nd August) with Dexter's Mum. That's just over a week ago, long after Dexter had started hounding the idiotic Charlie.

Considering the absolute hatred that Hazel got, even though she wasn't the one with the partner... the backing of Dexter in his futile pursuit of the brainless one is a little sickening.

[sampvt]

Mums the word :laugh: Morning Samps :wavey:

Morning Tozzie, rocky night last night eh, plenty of warriors and extreme views flying around. I am going to give these topics a bit of a wide birth from now on. Seems like Dexters situation is not only confusing to the HM,s its making my head spin. The lad has more stories than Jackanory. Lets just hope he is safe this week and bride of chucky goes. lol.

[Livia]

Morning Tozzie, rocky night last night eh, plenty of warriors and extreme views flying around. I am going to give these topics a bit of a wide birth from now on. Seems like Dexters situation is not only confusing to the HM,s its making my head spin. The lad has more stories than Jackanory. Lets just hope he is safe this week and bride of chucky goes. lol.

LOL... inspired.