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sampvt
22-06-2016, 09:29 AM
Jason has openly admitted to all concerned that his relationship with Charlie is well and truly over. Charlie has openly admitted she will do anything to get him back and she is certainly doing that.

Now the last time I looked, Stalking was an offence and BB seems to be promoting it in her case. Jason cant react because he is dammed if he does and dammed if he doesent, so he is tolerating the horrible situation as it unfolds.

Why he does not walk is beyond me, but if he stays, Charlie should be warned to leave him alone. If any other HM was putting another HM in an uncomfortable situation, they would be oiked in a heart beat.

Personally I can see the storylines entertainment value, but recently, its getting a little cringeworthy and borderline uncomfortable for Jason and that's BB's doing as she feels BB have given her a licence to go for it and she doesent need any encouragement, does she.

ebandit
22-06-2016, 09:35 AM
stalking?......seriously.....

Mark L

sampvt
22-06-2016, 09:37 AM
stalking?......seriously.....

Mark L

Yes seriously, her action fit the stalking profile exactly.

Tom4784
22-06-2016, 09:40 AM
It's silly to suggest it's stalking.

Jason's problem is that he is sending mixed messages. He needs to make a decision, stick to it and make it clear to Charlie. If he doesn't want to be with her then he needs to make it loud or clear otherwise she'll still be holding out hope for a reconciliation.

Jordan.
22-06-2016, 09:40 AM
She isn't stalking him, she didn't know he was in the house.

Withano
22-06-2016, 09:42 AM
Anybody in the same house as you right now is a stalker and they shouldnt be trusted.

T*
22-06-2016, 09:43 AM
It's silly to suggest it's stalking.

Jason's problem is that he is sending mixed messages. He needs to make a decision, stick to it and make it clear to Charlie. If he doesn't want to be with her then he needs to make it loud or clear otherwise she'll still be holding out hope for a reconciliation.
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Vanessa
22-06-2016, 09:43 AM
He needs to set her straight or she will keep pestering him. It's uncomfortable to watch.

-Sue-
22-06-2016, 09:52 AM
It's silly to suggest it's stalking.

Jason's problem is that he is sending mixed messages. He needs to make a decision, stick to it and make it clear to Charlie. If he doesn't want to be with her then he needs to make it loud or clear otherwise she'll still be holding out hope for a reconciliation.

I agree with that the 'mixed messages' he is coming across the big softie but really needs to be 'cruel to be kind' but I also understand he doesn't want little miss bunny boiler to loose her rag.. or there to be an atmosphere..but he really needs to be more assertive in regards to 'no'

BBDodge
22-06-2016, 10:11 AM
She isn't stalking him, she didn't know he was in the house.

Which makes it BB's fault.

sampvt
22-06-2016, 10:14 AM
Anybody in the same house as you right now is a stalker and they shouldnt be trusted.

I am a pensioner living alone coping with cancer. My wife has been put in a home because of dementia, My eldest lad lives abroad now and my youngest was taken from us by our good lord several years ago at the hands of a brain tumour. I would love a stalker if you could organise one please.

Cherie
22-06-2016, 10:14 AM
The fact that Jason spent the days before he "knew" she was in the house bleating on about her suggests it's all set up to me. He is another one who is earning his "fee"

sampvt
22-06-2016, 10:16 AM
The fact that Jason spent the days before he "knew" she was in the house bleating on about her suggests it's all set up to me. He is another one who is earning his "fee"

Im aso very sceptical as to whether or not they suspected or knew their x's were there. None of them has even intimated they had a thought they might be there, none have twigged and non even showed a modicum of aggressiveness bar ryan when they were faced with these earth shattering confrontations. All a bit strange if you ask me.

Jordan.
22-06-2016, 10:18 AM
Which makes it BB's fault.

But they're not promoting 'stalking' like the thread is claiming. If Jason feels that uncomfortable in the situation he would walk out.

Cherie
22-06-2016, 10:19 AM
Im aso very sceptical as to whether or not they suspected or knew their x's were there. None of them has even intimated they had a thought they might be there, none have twigged and non even showed a modicum of aggressiveness bar ryan when they were faced with these earth shattering confrontations. All a bit strange if you ask me.


All Jason did when Charlie was revealed was "stare" hard at the TV, he should join a soap his acting is so hammy :hehe:

Babayaro.
22-06-2016, 10:22 AM
Could we see another Craig/Anthony situation unfold?

-Sue-
22-06-2016, 10:29 AM
Jason does need to be 'firm' with Charlie... rather than sitting on fence he has said he is not interested / not together but his actions need to stand out more and show he is not interested.. allowing her to lap dance.. nawty buggah... he should have said NO and walked away.. slave to his labido perhaps? hmm.. or just a nice guy that doesn't want to offend/ make a scene on national telly? / cause an atmosphere? hmm who knows...

VanessaFeltz.
22-06-2016, 10:30 AM
it is rigged.

ıf jason didnt knew charlie was in the house why he did talk so much about charlie

-Sue-
22-06-2016, 10:30 AM
Could we see another Craig/Anthony situation unfold?

hahaha yes :D

Cherie
22-06-2016, 10:33 AM
it is rigged.

ıf jason didnt knew charlie was in the house why he did talk so much about charlie

Thank you :love:

Cherie
22-06-2016, 10:34 AM
Could we see another Craig/Anthony situation unfold?

That wasn't a set up though it unfolded naturally, this set up would do well in Hollyoaks

BBDodge
22-06-2016, 10:35 AM
But they're not promoting 'stalking' like the thread is claiming. If Jason feels that uncomfortable in the situation he would walk out.

Why should the "victim" be the one to walk?

BB don't have an in-house restraining order.

-Sue-
22-06-2016, 10:35 AM
Thank you :love:
cos we only have a 1 hour HL show and what he said was relevant to show? he did not talk that much about her he just said there was a woman .. he mentioned no names...

smudgie
22-06-2016, 10:36 AM
Actions speak louder than words.
He has told her every which way he can that he isn't nterested, time to jump into bed with Evelyn...then see what happens. :devil:

Cherie
22-06-2016, 10:38 AM
cos we only have a 1 hour HL show and what he said was relevant to show? he did not talk that much about her he just said there was a woman .. he mentioned no names...


In a one hour show we heard him refer to his ex several times, Marco was paid to appear why wouldn't others?, this guy isn't on BB because he is a fan, he has clearly been paid in my eyes

-Sue-
22-06-2016, 10:41 AM
In a one hour show we heard him refer to his ex several times, Marco was paid to appear why wouldn't others?, this guy isn't on BB because he is a fan, he has clearly been paid in my eyes

True (about the highlighted bit) but that was over a period of time different HL shows... people asked.. he was truthful... he did not diss her on national telly (by naming n shaming) he was guarded.. protected her identity...he could have said her name to the nation but he did not...(says a lot about him)
well done :)

Cherie
22-06-2016, 10:45 AM
Actions speak louder than words.
He has told her every which way he can that he isn't nterested, time to jump into bed with Evelyn...then see what happens. :devil:

That's coming I guess :laugh:

True (about the highlighted bit) but that was over a period of time different HL shows... people asked.. he was truthful... he did not diss her on national telly (by naming n shaming) he was guarded.. protected her identity...he could have said her name to the nation but he did not...(says a lot about him)
well done :)

The housemate knew she was his ex during the reveal, no one was in any doubt as to who she was though

-Sue-
22-06-2016, 10:47 AM
That's coming I guess :laugh:



The housemate knew she was his ex during the reveal, no one was in any doubt as to who she was though
was not revealed till last few episodes... he spoke about her (but no name long before that)

erinp5
22-06-2016, 10:50 AM
Jason can leave the house at any time if he has concerns about Charlie or speak to BB if he has concerns for his safety. Jason can't have it both ways , share the house with her and not make her aware that he has no intention of them being a couple now or in the future.If Charlie can't handle that info then that's Charlie's bag not Jason's, but he should be honest with her regardless of what he thinks will be her reaction .

Cherie
22-06-2016, 10:54 AM
was not revealed till last few episodes... he spoke about her (but no name long before that)

Why are you focused on her name, it makes no odds as soon as her mask came off, the HMs knew she was Jason's ex, can you imagine how much he must have banged on about his ex for all of them (who for the most part are just interested in themselves) to know that she was connected to Jason's past?

hot2go
22-06-2016, 10:54 AM
Yes seriously, her action fit the stalking profile exactly.

I agree....both Charlie and Jayne are stalking ....don't believe Ryan is tho...I don't like him but I think Sam arrogant thinks everyone fancies him.

I don't agree with BB engineering deliberate attempts to promote that type of activity

sampvt
22-06-2016, 10:56 AM
Jason can leave the house at any time if he has concerns about Charlie or speak to BB if he has concerns for his safety. Jason can't have it both ways , share the house with her and not make her aware that he has no intention of them being a couple now or in the future.If Charlie can't handle that info then that's Charlie's bag not Jason's, but he should be honest with her regardless of what he thinks will be her reaction .

Why should Jason leave, hes done nothing wrong and walking out would make him look like a real wuss. He cant win can he.

-Sue-
22-06-2016, 10:58 AM
Why are you focused on her name, it makes no odds as soon as her mask came off, the HMs knew she was Jason's ex, can you imagine how much he must have banged on about his ex for all of them (who for the most part are just interested in themselves) to know that she was connected to Jason's past?

Jason said 'thats my ex' so of course they knew! but that was a few days ago... NOT since start of show so HM's only recently found out (like I said before) really why must we disagree with this pettiness.:shrug:

-Sue-
22-06-2016, 11:00 AM
Jason can leave the house at any time if he has concerns about Charlie or speak to BB if he has concerns for his safety. Jason can't have it both ways , share the house with her and not make her aware that he has no intention of them being a couple now or in the future.If Charlie can't handle that info then that's Charlie's bag not Jason's, but he should be honest with her regardless of what he thinks will be her reaction .

Jason does not need to leave he just needs to be firm.. he has be truthful but needs his actions to match his words..(eg things like Charlie doing a lap dance he really should have said no or walked away) but I fear he did not want a scene or an atmosphere in house


Charlie just needs to learn the word 'NO' and just have fun in the house with other HM's and not attach herself to Jason like a leech..

chriskicks
22-06-2016, 11:03 AM
hoping she gets evicted, i dont want her crying up the place and making jason feel bad to be a routine thing. she met him, he's not interested, get her out.

-Sue-
22-06-2016, 11:04 AM
hoping she gets evicted, i dont want her crying up the place and making jason feel bad to be a routine thing. she met him, he's not interested, get her out.

:cheer2:

Cherie
22-06-2016, 11:08 AM
Jason said 'thats my ex' so of course they knew! but that was a few days ago... NOT since start of show so HM's only recently found out (like I said before) really why must we disagree with this pettiness.:shrug:

I have no idea what you are talking about with the start of the show :shrug: I don't think it's petty to point out IMO he is being paid and he knew all along she would be in there

Cherie
22-06-2016, 11:09 AM
Jason does not need to leave he just needs to be firm.. he has be truthful but needs his actions to match his words..(eg things like Charlie doing a lap dance he really should have said no or walked away) but I fear he did not want a scene or an atmosphere in house


Charlie just needs to learn the word 'NO' and just have fun in the house with other HM's and not attach herself to Jason like a leech..


He won't be firm though, because the will he/ won't he take her back is part of his manufactured storyline :joker:

Niamh.
22-06-2016, 11:09 AM
I have no idea what you are talking about with the start of the show :shrug: I don't think it's petty to point out IMO he is being paid and he knew all along she would be in there

I agree with that, all seems very contrived to me

-Sue-
22-06-2016, 11:10 AM
I have no idea what you are talking about with the start of the show :shrug: I don't think it's petty to point out IMO he is being paid and he knew all along she would be in there

Ok cool we all have opinions :) I will accept yours :D but doesn't mean we agree

I will say it again from start of show.. (all the HL shows Jason may have mentioned an ex he was with for a few months but took longer to get rid of) he mentioned no names...THAT is what I mean:shrug:

Cherie
22-06-2016, 11:11 AM
Ok cool we all have opinions :) I will accept yours :D but doesn't mean we agree

I will say it again from start of show.. (all the HL shows Jason may have mentioned an ex he was with for a few months but took longer to get rid of) he mentioned no names...THAT is what I mean:shrug:

Okay got you, the forum wouldn't work if we were all agreeing !

y.winter
22-06-2016, 11:13 AM
it is rigged.

ıf jason didnt knew charlie was in the house why he did talk so much about charlie

because editing?

Speedster
22-06-2016, 11:13 AM
Jason can and should handle this. He's a big boy fgs. It's easy-all he has to do is sit down with her calmly explain how feels then follow through with his behaviour towards her.

And BB are in the wrong for setting this up in the first place. It's utterly irresponsible.

hot2go
22-06-2016, 11:15 AM
Jayne said something interesting on the truth task in the battle of the two houses....

When asked to say who they thought was the most untrustworthy Jayne picked Charlie...reason she gave was that she knew Jason was going into BB but didn't tell him she was going in too.

Made me wonder what Charlie has told Jayne that we've not heard

ebandit
22-06-2016, 11:41 AM
....jason looking for promotion.....body double..to actor

Mark L

Ammi
22-06-2016, 11:51 AM
In a one hour show we heard him refer to his ex several times, Marco was paid to appear why wouldn't others?, this guy isn't on BB because he is a fan, he has clearly been paid in my eyes

...hmmm, the thing about that as well which was interesting...was that he made a comment when Charlie was in the pool last night that he found it awkward to talk about stuff like that../relationships etc...that it wasn't him and what he did..?../but for both of them, to me it seems as though their personalities in there have been (shown on the HL..)..as being totally defined only in relation to their relationship....it just all feels quite contrived is all...

billy123
22-06-2016, 12:04 PM
I think you are taking it too seriously.
Its only a gameshow.

Cherie
22-06-2016, 12:08 PM
I think you are taking it too seriously.
Its only a gameshow.


It used to be a gameshow, now it's partially scripted with producer led story lines and paid civilians, at least we know where we stand with CBB in that all HMs are paid to participate

erinp5
22-06-2016, 12:12 PM
Why should Jason leave, hes done nothing wrong and walking out would make him look like a real wuss. He cant win can he.

If walking is not an option then maybe the truth is better.He needs to tell her that they are Hms and nothing more. He looks like a wuss at the moment not facing up to her because she might kick off....why does her care how she conducts herself in the house .....just tell her straight....there is no "us" .

Cherie
22-06-2016, 12:26 PM
...hmmm, the thing about that as well which was interesting...was that he made a comment when Charlie was in the pool last night that he found it awkward to talk about stuff like that../relationships etc...that it wasn't him and what he did..?../but for both of them, to me it seems as though their personalities in there have been (shown on the HL..)..as being totally defined only in relation to their relationship....it just all feels quite contrived is all...

Very much so Ammi, and now we are being drip fed how awful Charlie is when she doesn't get her own way, it's only a matter of time before we see it :idc:

Kazanne
22-06-2016, 01:11 PM
But they're not promoting 'stalking' like the thread is claiming. If Jason feels that uncomfortable in the situation he would walk out.

But why should he have to? I guess he wants the experience as much as anyone else and maybe he even wants to win.