Why do older mature women fancy boy babies like Bear and BB17 Marco?

[alex_front2]

Seeing women lusting after Jason BB17 was bad enough, but fair play he was a masculine older affluent guy in an increasingly feminised heterosexual male pool. But the number of women in 30s, 40s who fancy the likes of Bear is truly sickening. C'mon folks, that's just indefensible. Bear is a toddler.

Forget Renee, who fancies the pants off him and Bb17 Jayne who on bbots admitted she found him hot; social media shows it's not just the usual dumb teen girls, cock worshipping gay guys or desperate reality TV bloke fancying 20 something women. It's women in their 30s, 40s, women who ought to be able to make mature sound judgements, who ought to know better, women my age who fancy BEAR. Really? Really people. One poor girl on Snapchat was revolted to discover her mum fancied Bear. Do women just fancy ANY bloke on TV? The whole but he's "good looking" (is he?) argument won't wash as his personality is the key factor. Vote for him to save or win, fair play that's you're own judgement but seriously, fancying him is just insanity. Its bad enough women his own age like him. And yet Vicki Pattinson, Lexie (apparently turned down a place at uni to do engineering to do fashion, so we can't label her a thicko), Anna Shipwrecked, Chloe, Renee and numerous others do. How the feck does he get women. How. How? Once again I question the judgement and discernment of females. Anything with a penis will do. Anything. :laugh2:

As an older woman I need to ascertain why so many of my peers seem to be attracted to Bear and previously BB17 MARCO PW. Women old enough to be his mum. How can a grown woman like Renee see anything sexy about a man child?

Marcos fiancee was about 35, his previous was c33, Laura and twin Emma 30.

[Vanessa]

He makes me laugh, simple as :laugh:

[Niamh.]

ew I'm 37 and certainly don't fancy either of those creeps

[Garfie]

It's beyond me! :shrug:

I can't see how men who behave like children and who have no maturity or self-control could have any appeal to any woman, at any age actually! Well, maybe to teenagers who haven't matured themselves.

I can only assume that maybe some want to mother them, some want to save them, but who knows?

[power2thepeople]

Mid forties and was repulsed by Marco and would want to glue Bear to a naughty step with no sexual overtones whatsoever. He's like a man child from a Haribo advert. Prefer strong female hms and thankfully so do my 17 and 21 year old daughters.

[Livia]

I suppose for the same reason that so many old men go for young women. Only that way round it's apparently more acceptable.

[Niamh.]

I suppose for the same reason that so many old men go for young women. Only that way round it's apparently more acceptable.

That's just fine though according to the OP............who's a woman apparently :suspect:

[chuff me dizzy]

They are not even in the same league ....I couldn't stand Marco

[Livia]

That's just fine though according to the OP............who's a woman apparently :suspect:

Hmmm... to be honest I don't know any one of my peers who could be bothered with a boy. I'm not qualified to teach.

[Vanessa]

I like that bear doesn't hold grudges. Anyone else would have caused a huge fuss of having their drink/food spat on. But he let it go.

[Livia]

I like that bear doesn't hold grudges. Anyone else would have caused a huge fuss of having their drink/food spat on. But he let it go.

He asked her to spit in his mouth and she did. I'm guessing he's not really repulsed by saliva.

[Niamh.]

Hmmm... to be honest I don't know any one of my peers who could be bothered with a boy. I'm not qualified to teach.

:laugh:

Yeah same here, I already have a couple of kids

[Cherie]

ew I'm 37 and certainly don't fancy either of those creeps


:clap2:

[Vanessa]

He asked her to spit in his mouth and she did. I'm guessing he's not really repulsed by saliva.

Probably :laugh:

[Cherie]

Seeing women lusting after Jason BB17 was bad enough, but fair play he was a masculine guy in an increasingly feminised heterosexual male pool. But the number of women in 30s, 40s who fancy the likes of Bear is truly sickening. C'mon folks, that's just indefensible. Bear is a toddler.

Forget Renee, who fancies the pants off him and Bb17 Jayne who on bbots admitted she found him hot; social media shows it's not just the usual dumb teen girls, cock worshipping gay guys or desperate reality TV bloke fancying 20 something women. It's women in their 30s, 40s, women who ought to be able to make mature sound judgements, who ought to know better, women my age who fancy BEAR. Really? Really people. One poor girl on Snapchat was revolted to discover her mum fancied Bear. Do women just fancy ANY bloke on TV? The whole but he's "good looking" (is he?) argument won't wash as his personality is the key factor. Vote for him to save or win, fair play that's you're own judgement but seriously, fancying him is just insanity. Its bad enough women his own age like him. And yet Vicki Pattinson, Lexie (apparently turned down a place at uni to do engineering to do fashion, so we can't label her a thicko), Anna Shipwrecked, Chloe, Renee and numerous others do. How the feck does he get women. How. How? Once again I question the judgement and discernment of females. Anything with a penis will do. Anything. :laugh2:

As an older woman I need to ascertain why so many of my peers seem to be attracted to Bear and previously BB17 MARCO PW. Women old enough to be his mum. How can a grown woman like Renee see anything sexy about a man child?

Marcos fiancee was about 35, his previous was c33, Laura and twin Emma 30.


I don't think it's as widespread as you are reporting, and as for Marcos fiancé maybe she was attracted by his cash and his name rather than him, same for Laura who seemed to get over his exit pretty sharpish and Emma went back to her boyfriend

[Ellen]

I dont know either, i am at a loss as to why any woman would find him attractive after the way he behaves. Toddler behaviour in a grown man does not appeal to me in the slightest :yuk:

[Garfie]

I suppose for the same reason that so many old men go for young women. Only that way round it's apparently more acceptable.

I can understand why older women would go for younger men, no problem and absolutely acceptable. It's just those particular men the OP has mentioned whose appeal I can't understand.

[Cal.]

It beats me if I'm honest.

[Clootie Dumpling]

Mid forties and was repulsed by Marco and would want to glue Bear to a naughty step with no sexual overtones whatsoever. He's like a man child from a Haribo advert. Prefer strong female hms and thankfully so do my 17 and 21 year old daughters.

You've hit the nail on the head, here. That's exactly what he's like and it's sickening.

I'm an older woman (much older than Bear in any event) and I find him and Marco absolutely repulsive - mainly because of their ghastly personalities and gross antics, and don't find them remotely attractive.

I'm married to a man 15 years my junior, but he is attractive and not a total dickhead! :hee:

[jennyjuniper]

I don't understand it either. It's not even as though he IS good looking. He's very average at best, but even if he were handsome, his childish, petulant immaturity and lack of intelligence would be very off putting anyway, even if I fancied younger men, which I don't.

[Paula D]

I don't see the appeal in Bear at all, he's an annoying twat and a very bad actor. I can see why people would fancy Marco though, he is physically attractive without a doubt and a bad boy rather than a child.

[Cherie]

Straw poll for you right there Alex ...the answer is not that many :hee:

[Crimson Dynamo]

renee is still a kid herself

[alex_front2]

Straw poll for you right there Alex ...the answer is not that many :hee:

I suspect my OP shamed most from coming out of the Bear fancying closet and coerced them into reconsidering their tastes. :joker:

[power2thepeople]

I suspect my OP shamed most from coming out of the Bear fancying closet and coerced them into reconsidering their tastes. :joker:

The opinion given by some that Renee may have reconsidered her taste on Bear has made me reconsider my level of voting support for her.

[Cherie]

I suspect my OP shamed most from coming out of the Bear fancying closet and coerced them into reconsidering their tastes. :joker:

Possibly :laugh:

[Clootie Dumpling]

I suspect my OP shamed most from coming out of the Bear fancying closet and coerced them into reconsidering their tastes. :joker:

I dunno, Alex, there seem to be some diehards here, who seem determined to fancy any young male in the House, who demonstrates an ugly temper and childish behaviour.

[smudgie]

Could be a case of confusing a chav with a bad boy.:shrug:
Massive difference .

[mr rochester]

I suppose for the same reason that so many old men go for young women. Only that way round it's apparently more acceptable.

Exactly.

[Northern Monkey]

Cos they're horny and they want something athletic between their thighs?

[power2thepeople]

Or possibly wanting athletic thighs and something scrawny between them. Like his neck.

[Anaesthesia]

You've hit the nail on the head, here. That's exactly what he's like and it's sickening.

I'm an older woman (much older than Bear in any event) and I find him and Marco absolutely repulsive - mainly because of their ghastly personalities and gross antics, and don't find them remotely attractive.

I'm married to a man 15 years my junior, but he is attractive and not a total dickhead! :hee:

With my husband 17 years my junior, I'm so happy to see another age gap. I wouldn't fancy Bear in a million years, Idk who even Marco is :) We have been together 10 years, he's not remotely immature and we connect on a level where age doesn't even factor into it, guess you are the same Clootie :kiss:

[user104658]

I suppose for the same reason that so many old men go for young women. Only that way round it's apparently more acceptable.

Exactly! People for some reason have this idea that men and women are different, that men are just "horny dogs" but women are somehow above it but it is not true... just a social perception. Women and men are pervs, in exactly the same proportions. Of course not ALL older women are interested in younger boys but not ALL men are interested in younger women either.

The difference I guess is that no one really bats an eyelid if an older guy admits being attracted to a woman in her 20's, whereas it's seen as "weird" for a middle aged woman to be attracted to a young male, and so maybe it's traditionally been more common for them to hide it :shrug:.

Some of the older women who come into my work, early in the morning to place their little £1 Irish Lotto bets, are incorrigible flirts :joker:. Totally shameless some of them. It's just a bit of fun but yeah... there's this totally false idea that it's only older men.

In fact I remember it going right back to school age when the age gaps were negligible. People found it totally normal for an 18 year old (or even up to 21 or so) to be seeing a 16 year old girl. But people were like ":omgno: WEIRD what's that all about??" if a 17 year old girl was with a guy even just one school-year younger.

[Kazanne]

I don't fancy Bear at all I think he's quite ugly,I DID like Jason,i thought he was lovely, I do find Harry Styles attractive but he is the only really young one I like tbh, I mainly like men my own age

[empire]

older women need fresh meat to stay alive,

[user104658]

older women need fresh meat to stay alive

:joker::joker::joker: I'm not even sure why this made me laugh so much.

[empire]

the places that I have worked the older women who are in their 40s,50s, make very crude sexual remarks to the younger males, sometimes they take it to far, renee is 48 years of age, but her mind is stuck at the age of 23, and many older women may regret not going after boys like bear, in there younger days, most women wish to stay at the age of 21, and die with a body of a young woman.

[Clootie Dumpling]

the places that I have worked the older women who are in their 40s,50s, make very crude sexual remarks to the younger males, sometimes they take it to far, renee is 48 years of age, but her mind is stuck at the age of 23, and many older women may regret not going after boys like bear, in there younger days, most women wish to stay at the age of 21, and die with a body of a young woman.

Bit sweeping and a bit harsh, Empire!

I think of myself as about 35 and wish I looked the way I did then, but maybe I'm weird! :)

[Ammi]

....hmmm, maybe I'm over-thinking this but I'm assuming you mean because of behaviour rather than age as such, Alex...?...because it would be like being attracted to a child, the same as if it were an older guy and attracted to younger female who behaved and acted/talked 'baby'...?...yp, I just cannot fathom 'fancy' with Bear at all because he's a misbehaving spoilt child is all and in no way for me would have anything 'adult' attached to him/my thoughts of him at all...

[Kizzy]

Yeah what Ammi said it's the child like rather than young that is the turn off, especially if you're a mother, no way would I or could I tolerate in a relationship what I wouldn't tolerate from my kids!

[Livia]

I have no interest in men much younger than me. I prefer someone who knows what to do with it if I give it to them.

[Miranda123]

Seeing women lusting after Jason BB17 was bad enough, but fair play he was a masculine older affluent guy in an increasingly feminised heterosexual male pool. But the number of women in 30s, 40s who fancy the likes of Bear is truly sickening. C'mon folks, that's just indefensible. Bear is a toddler.

Forget Renee, who fancies the pants off him and Bb17 Jayne who on bbots admitted she found him hot; social media shows it's not just the usual dumb teen girls, cock worshipping gay guys or desperate reality TV bloke fancying 20 something women. It's women in their 30s, 40s, women who ought to be able to make mature sound judgements, who ought to know better, women my age who fancy BEAR. Really? Really people. One poor girl on Snapchat was revolted to discover her mum fancied Bear. Do women just fancy ANY bloke on TV? The whole but he's "good looking" (is he?) argument won't wash as his personality is the key factor. Vote for him to save or win, fair play that's you're own judgement but seriously, fancying him is just insanity. Its bad enough women his own age like him. And yet Vicki Pattinson, Lexie (apparently turned down a place at uni to do engineering to do fashion, so we can't label her a thicko), Anna Shipwrecked, Chloe, Renee and numerous others do. How the feck does he get women. How. How? Once again I question the judgement and discernment of females. Anything with a penis will do. Anything. :laugh2:

As an older woman I need to ascertain why so many of my peers seem to be attracted to Bear and previously BB17 MARCO PW. Women old enough to be his mum. How can a grown woman like Renee see anything sexy about a man child?

Marcos fiancee was about 35, his previous was c33, Laura and twin Emma 30.

Well I am a woman of a certain age and I wouldnt touch Bear with yours!

No idea who Marco is as I no longer sully myself by watching the civilian BB, though to be fair, the celeb version is getting more like the civilian version every year, with all the non celebs they put in

I think most women of a certain age, even if they found Bear attractive, would soon lose that feeling, once he opened his gob and showed what a foul little prick he is

But of course, there are some very sordid women out there, old slags who are trying to hang on to their youth by mixing with young scum and laughing at their attempts to be noticed

I will never understand that, in the same way that I will never understand suicide

Would still rather top myself than go anywhere near the scumbag Bear though, he must be riddled with crap, and I havent seen him have a shower alone yet, filth

[hazyjo]

I'm in my 40s (OUCH that sounds so old lol) but don't look it. I still picture 40-somethings as old, forgetting I'm there myself.

I HATED Bear, certainly didn't fancy him, but now I do. Same with Marco - he was more compelling though.

I wouldn't touch either with a bargepole - that's what maturity does for us, but it's cos they're who I would have gone for 20-30 years ago.

(I remember playing it cool with a boy called Brandon at school. He got expelled and used to put matches out in his mouth and we'd hang around together like Bonnie & Clyde lol. I always went for the rebels.)

In my head, I'm still 25. I dated several 20-somethings in my 30s and 40s (despite much preferring older men).

I don't have kids so don't think I ever really grew up in my head. I think that's it.

[Ian Coke]

He makes me laugh, simple as :laugh:

So, Vanessa, if you and Stephen went for a few drinks, to set the mood, would you do him?

(Apologies if this is an intrusive question, but you are supporting Satan!)

[the truth]

some women like big muscles , cocks and pretty eyes....for those attractions.they're clearly willing to overlook profound twaitishness

[Binbin]

...But the number of women in 30s, 40s who fancy the likes of Bear is truly sickening. C'mon folks, that's just indefensible. Bear is a toddler.

How can a grown woman like Renee see anything sexy about a man child?

You sound like you might be in your 90s - don't forget to request your telegram from the Queen when the time comes, they don't send them automatically anymore.

To answer your question - Lewis and Bear are Essex stallions. I can imagine middle-aged housewives looking between their beer-bellied hubbies relaxing in their pants and the TV set, wishing just for a moment that Lewis would slap his ample nuts on her face, literally.

[susie q]

ew I'm 37 and certainly don't fancy either of those creeps

Me neither