Is Lotan a good role model for his son?

[Greg!]

Here's my take on the matter.
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[letmein]

He ain't even a good role model for strippers.

[Shaun]

Only in the sense that his son might look at his dad and think "hmm, wow, I'm devoid of any talent but I could still get on TV! :)"

Not going to overreact / get too personal but his attitudes towards women / people in general are shocking and his behaviour is something he should be ashamed of.

[Firewire]

Obviously not, Isabelle doesn't lie!

[Headie]

Nope

[Jordan.]

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[Samm]

**** I voted yes

[Samm]

I meant no

[Greg!]

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[Jase.]

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[Amy Jade]

Nope.

He's aggresive, violent, sexist and I could go on but you get me...

[storybrooke]

Not anymore, before he went into the house he could have been

[Rustic bauble]

80% of the house are not good role models....

He might not be a good role model...he is sexist and cocky...but he might be a good dad.
He obviously talks about his son a lot...he was talking to Deborah about his son and they were sharing stories about their children. That's what proud parents do...you can't condemn him for that. Isabella called him out for always talking about his ex and his son..so what?...when he reacted to her she knew that bringing his son up would get a reaction....and that's what she did tonight...and she said it twice. It was uncalled for but she got the reaction she wanted.

[Northern Monkey]

80% of the house are not good role models....

He might not be a good role model...he is sexist and cocky...but he might be a good dad.
He obviously talks about his son a lot...he was talking to Deborah about his son and they were sharing stories about their children. That's what proud parents do...you can't condemn him for that. Isabella called him out for always talking about his ex and his son..so what?...when he reacted to her she knew that bringing his son up would get a reaction....and that's what she did tonight...and she said it twice. It was uncalled for but she got the reaction she wanted.

Exactly :clap1:

The fact she said it twice to make sure he definitely heard

[LukeB]

No

[reece(:]

Certainly not! Thug

[Nm5584]

Nobody can judge him as a father or role model to his son. Until u see them together stupid assumptions are invalid

[Garfie]

Although it doesn't mean he is a bad father, and this was never said by anyone in the house, he is not most definitely not a good role model in terms of how he treats women. He has targeted Isabelle since her arrival and knows how to manipulate others into joining him in such behaviour.

BB's reasons for ejecting him said it all really, and revealed he has been warned for similar behaviour previously. Ironically, he came in wanting to show there was more to him than being a 'dream boy' and all he has done is prove he is unpleasant, sexist and intimidating. He should feel embarrassed by his behaviour, and has got what he deserved.

[Vicky.]

On actions in the house no. However I think its kind of unfair to judge someones parenting based on how they behave in such a pressure cooker environment. pretty certain I wouldn't come across as a good 'rolemodel' in there.

[Garfie]

Nobody can judge him as a father or role model to his son. Until u see them together stupid assumptions are invalid

I agree he cannot be judged as a father, and he is clearly proud of his son.

However, he can be judged as a role model as it it someone's behaviour that determines that, and he has repeatedly demonstrated his attitudes and behaviour during his time in the house. He has not developed those attitudes in the few weeks of being in the house, and the facts speak for themselves so are not assumptions.

He has put himself in BB and the whole show is about judging people on their behaviour, and people will naturally judge by what they see.

[Nm5584]

But how many of them do come across as role models to their kids? Joe reacted a lot worse when his daughter was mentioned. The reason it's been made out worse is due to the fact they sisters had to clearly involve themselves and escalate the situation

[Locke.]

It is nobody's business on here or in the house how Lotan's son perceives anything.

[ChristmasNeeve]

He ain't even a good role model for strippers.

Yep :laugh:

[Jedman]

Lotan is a cool guy, rest of the house was the problem. He was pushed to the edge by some of the nasty women in there.

[Cal.]

His behaviour in the house suggests not.

[Christmas Dynasnow]

I think its would be hard to say unless you establish what you mean by role model and indeed what age his son is and when he will be able to watch an adult show (I am guessing not for another perhaps 10 years?)

So in summary I dont think his short stay in the house will be seen for quite some time by his son so i dont think it will impact on his formative years?

[Kazanne]

Are you all the same people that were crying when Kim Woodburn said to Nicola about her children might be watching ? You were all up in arms about that,why ? if what Isobelle said is 'nothing' in your opinions why was it so different for Nicola,people were out defending her enmass saying children shouldn't be brought into it ? just because you don't like someone doesn't mean the rules change .

[ChristmasNeeve]

Are you all the same people that were crying when Kim Woodburn said to Nicola about her children might be watching ? You were all up in arms about that,why ? if what Isobelle said is 'nothing' in your opinions why was it so different for Nicola,people were out defending her enmass saying children shouldn't be brought into it ? just because you don't like someone doesn't mean the rules change .

Not me :hee: