What is happening to the forum?

[Brillopad]

On season is always messy I know but the ammount of trolling and baiting going on this year is genuinely off putting.

I've prefered twitter but a lot of posters here are amazing and make me laugh but honesty what is happening?

I've never used twitter but the general consensus of opinion seems to be that it is a lot worse - one of the worst - so find your post a little odd tbh.

[Kazanne]

I've never used twitter but the general consensus of opinion seems to be that it is a lot worse - one of the worst - so find your post a little odd tbh.

:wavey:Hey brillo,nice to see you in here :hee:

[Brillopad]

:wavey:Hey brillo,nice to see you in here :hee:

Thanks Kaz. I do come in now and again when Something catches my attention.

I forget it's here sometimes. SD has a way of keeping your attention. :joker:

[Kazanne]

Thanks Kaz. I do come in now and again when Something catches my attention.

I forget it's here sometimes. SD has a way of keeping your attention. :joker:

I know,pretty hostile in there at times,nice to have some light relief ,well ,sometimes:joker::joker:

[Josy]

So we just have 7 pages over people whining at being called cat ladies while we have trolls getting away with murder all this series. Good to know.
Actually this has been an interesting much needed discussion apart from the odd pointless baiting post.

If you think someone is trolling then report it and if it needs dealt with it will be.

And honestly anyone claiming they posted the cat ladies thing not knowing it was an insult is a liar.

[chuff me dizzy]

Actually this has been an interesting much needed discussion apart from the odd pointless baiting post.

If you think someone is trolling then report it and if it needs dealt with it will be.

And honestly anyone claiming they posted the cat ladies thing not knowing it was an insult is a liar.

:clap1:

[Beso]

We need a cat lady fan thread.

[Smithy]

I dont post in the bb forum so this is the first I've heard of the cat lady thing :joker:

[Kazanne]

Actually this has been an interesting much needed discussion apart from the odd pointless baiting post.

If you think someone is trolling then report it and if it needs dealt with it will be.

And honestly anyone claiming they posted the cat ladies thing not knowing it was an insult is a liar.

I feel the thread has opened up a good discussion,people have got stuff off their chests and maybe we have all been shown that sometimes we get too embroiled in a game show where the contestants neither know us or care about us (aside from Raph) all in all,I have enjoyed this thread.

[Nancy.]

This thread isn't just about people slyly being attacked using "cat ladies" its also about the double standards on here and the fact some people get away with what others get a ban for, and its time it was all brought into the open and thrashed out ,then stopped, there should be no rule for one and one for another, ALL members should be treat equally

:clap1: :clap1:

[Nancy.]

Actually this has been an interesting much needed discussion apart from the odd pointless baiting post.

If you think someone is trolling then report it and if it needs dealt with it will be.

And honestly anyone claiming they posted the cat ladies thing not knowing it was an insult is a liar.

:clap1: Exactly! You only have to check the links I posted to see it was used as a means to insult. It's all there in b/w.

[Greg!]

On the appearance thing...just came across this thread from a while back that was probably one of the worst for appearance based insults.

www.thisisbigbrother.com/forums/showthread.php?t=277229

But because its directed at a male its fine

A lot who are complaining about appearance insults this year actually posted in that thread..and joined in with the taunting about 'fat and virgin'

Looking back on it now I can't believe we didn't ban people for their attitudes in there actually. I often get shocked at just how horrible members can be when I look at old threads.

Edit. Raph in that thread :worship:





Haven't read through the whole thing and I'm not to trying to justify it in any way but Jack actually was/is very obese, and people were discussing that as a possible reason why he was voted to win some vote (can't remember what). It's slightly different from people calling female housemates (who aren't even overweight) "fat sluts" etc because they don't like them. But I admit some of the posts are horrible and not acceptable.

Are you joking?

Posted by LukeB:
http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forums/showpost.php?p=9201418&postcount=6

Posted by LukeB:
http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forums/showpost.php?p=9385472&postcount=245

Posted by Greg!:
http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forums/showpost.php?p=9318043&postcount=60

Posted by Greg!:
http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forums/showpost.php?p=9335544&postcount=26

Posted by Greg!:
http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forums/showpost.php?p=9404017&postcount=119

Posted by Amy Jade:
http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forums/showpost.php?p=9391863&postcount=15

Posted by BBUKAUSFAN:
http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forums/showpost.php?p=9413493&postcount=8

Posted by: Hayden:
http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forums/showpost.php?p=9405902&postcount=72

Posted by Epic.:
http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forums/showpost.php?p=9400399&postcount=4

Posted by Cal.
http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forums/showpost.php?p=9395257&postcount=21

Posted by Germyle:
http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forums/showpost.php?p=9394405&postcount=12

Posted by EspeonBB:
http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forums/showpost.php?p=9388779&postcount=210

Posted by Jordan.:
http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forums/showpost.php?p=9386021&postcount=580

Posted by Jason.:
http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forums/showpost.php?p=9354757&postcount=142

and that's just for starters....there's plenty more where those came from...
http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forums/search.php?searchid=10990109&pp=25

An ICONIC compilation! :clap1:
Honestly if you're offended by any of those posts over some of the vitriol posted about female housemates then you have your priorities all wrong.

[Nancy.]

I've NEVER seen anyone call another member a cat lady.

That's because you've been far to busy calling others Cat Ladies to notice.

[Ross.]

From now on Facebook Hags will be the go-to term

https://media.giphy.com/media/l0Iy3P9XyRwbvehl6/giphy.gif

:joker:

[Greg!]

That's because you've been far to busy calling others Cat Ladies to notice.

None of your examples showed anyone calling another MEMBER a cat lady so try again. I can't believe I'm even having this conversation, it's ridiculous.

[Ashley.]

The baiting against cats should stop.

Let the cats live!!

:laugh:

[caprimint]

None of your examples showed anyone calling another MEMBER a cat lady so try again. I can't believe I'm even having this conversation, it's ridiculous.
Because people know if they do that then they get banned as it's an insult, it's not that hard to work out :shrug: That's what I meant by people doing it slyly thinking that they can get away with it by directing it at fb when it becomes an issue.

[Nancy.]

None of your examples showed anyone calling another MEMBER a cat lady so try again. I can't believe I'm even having this conversation, it's ridiculous.

I've never read so much sh!t in all my life. What do you think I am? I was called a cat lady myself on Thursday and the person who said it isn't to far away either. It was removed for obvious reasons but a moderator will be able to clarify this.

[Greg!]

Because people know if they do that then they get banned as it's an insult, it's not that hard to work out :shrug: That's what I meant by people doing it slyly thinking that they can get away with it by directing it at fb when it becomes an issue.

People direct it at Facebook because that's what it means. Not everything is a bloody conspiracy or some sort of coded message towards other people on here.

[Samm]

meow

[T*]

We're allowed to dig up old posts? Good to know heh

[LukeB]

None of your examples showed anyone calling another MEMBER a cat lady so try again. I can't believe I'm even having this conversation, it's ridiculous.

Pretty sure people mean casuals (non-forum members etc) but it's only an issue to take the attention away from their slut shaming and appearance attacks which is a lot worse than the whole cat lady thing.

[Greg!]

I've never read so much sh!t in al my life. What do you think I am? I was called a cat lady myself on Thursday and the person who said it isn't to far away either. A moderator will be able to clarify this for obvious reasons.

Oh no I'm so sorry to hear that! :( Poor you.

Sounds like an isolated incident to me mind you, not a widespread cat lady conspiracy like some are making out.

[Greg!]

Pretty sure people mean casuals (non-forum members etc) but it's only an issue to take the attention away from their slut shaming and appearance attacks which is a lot worse than the whole cat lady thing.

:clap1:

[TaylorCallum]

Mess what is happening in here?

I actually find this forum pretty mild compared to other sites. I agree people shouldn't be personally attacking each other but I've not actually seen anything bad. I think a little bit of trolling can liven things up now and again.

[smudgie]

:bawling: now my thinking of The cat ladies being dear old ladies stroking their pussies in their rocking chairs is all blown to pieces.

[caprimint]

People direct it at Facebook because that's what it means. Not everything is a bloody conspiracy or some sort of coded message towards other people on here.
If you look at the definition that's not what it is at all. :facepalm:

Not saying everyone who used it was directing it at members but I know for a fact that some were because of who they support and typically fit the 'stereotype' of the word.

[Ashley.]

I'm sorry but I'm reading through this thread and it's basically just "oh you don't like what I say? Well here's what you've said. You're just as bad. Hey, now we're even"... What are we actually gaining here? :shrug: You can't emphasise on other people's behaviour as a way of justifying your own.

[Vicky.]

:bawling: now my thinking of The cat ladies being dear old ladies stroking their pussies in their rocking chairs is all blown to pieces.

Smudgie get your mind out of the gutter ffs. We have kids on here :bored:

[Nancy.]

Oh no I'm so sorry to hear that! :( Poor you.

Sounds like an isolated incident to me mind you, not a widespread cat lady conspiracy like some are making out.

Isolated incident my arse. It's a bit late to be playing the innocent now considering you've been exposed. Keep digging.

[Greg!]

Isolated incident my arse. It's a bit late to be playing the innocent now considering you've been exposed as a liar. Keep digging.

Exposed as a liar!!!?? :joker: :joker: :joker:

Get a GRIP.

[Nancy.]

Exposed as a liar!!!?? :joker: :joker: :joker:

Get a GRIP.

So basically nothing else to say?

Run along, babe. You're boring me now.

[Marsh.]

This thread isn't just about people slyly being attacked using "cat ladies" its also about the double standards on here and the fact some people get away with what others get a ban for, and its time it was all brought into the open and thrashed out ,then stopped, there should be no rule for one and one for another, ALL members should be treat equally
I agree. All members should be treated equally. So why on earth you're allowed to get away with disgusting bigotry time after time is baffling.

[thesheriff443]

Can everyone draw a line under it and move on.
Both sides have had a a say and the mods have had input.

[Greg!]

So basically nothing else to say?

Run along, babe. You're boring me now.

"Exposed as a liar" though?
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You're talking śhite hen, and you know it.

[Marsh.]

Pretty sure people mean casuals (non-forum members etc) but it's only an issue to take the attention away from their slut shaming and appearance attacks which is a lot worse than the whole cat lady thing.
Since when has cat lady meant a casual viewer? That's bizarre.

[LukeB]

Since when has cat lady meant a casual viewer? That's bizarre.

I didn't say it does mean that.. its about who they are talking about which is facebook!!!(casual viewer)

[Marsh.]

I didn't say it does mean that.. its about who they are talking about which is facebook!!!(casual viewer)
You literally just said. Don't deny it hun. :nono:

[TaylorCallum]

Can I ask what is wrong with being a cat lady in the first place? If anything it's a term of endearment. Cats are great.

[Nancy.]

"Exposed as a liar" though?
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You're talking śhite hen, and you know it.

You are. :shrug:

[LukeB]

You literally just said. Don't deny it hun. :nono:

no i didn't, people thought cat lady was aimed at forum members which i said 'pretty sure people mean casual voters" we wasn't talking about the meaning of cat ladies we were talking about who it was aimed at.

[Greg!]

You are. :shrug:

Okay explain to me why I'm a liar then if you want. I've got nothing planned today so I could gladly talk all afternoon!

[LukeB]

Can I ask what is wrong with being a cat lady in the first place? If anything it's a term of endearment. Cats are great.

Nothing, my nan is one herself which i call it her sometimes and she finds it funny.

[Black Dagger]

Actually this has been an interesting much needed discussion apart from the odd pointless baiting post.

If you think someone is trolling then report it and if it needs dealt with it will be.

And honestly anyone claiming they posted the cat ladies thing not knowing it was an insult is a liar.

Pretty sure I have reported Novo's tedious nonsense enough times. Can't be bothered doing it anymore!

[Nancy.]

Okay explain to me why I'm a liar then. I've got nothing planned today so I could gladly talk all afternoon!

Oh ffs, go away. i've already provided examples which show you are. Unfortunately, other people DO have things planned, so I can't sit her all afternoon like you. Bye.

[TaylorCallum]

Nothing, my nan is one herself which i call it her sometimes and she finds it funny.

Exactly. It's hardly offensive.

[Locke.]

Oh ffs, go away. i've already provided examples which show you are. Unfortunately, other people DO have things planned, so I can't sit her all afternoon like you. Bye.

Don't fall for their baiting Nancy, they're not worth it :nono:

[Greg!]

Oh ffs, go away. i've already provided examples which show you are. Unfortunately, other people DO have things planned, so I can't sit her all afternoon like you. Bye.

No you haven't but okay. Have a lovely day hon!

[DouglasS]

I personally choose to stay away/ignore the lot that stick together and believe the forum belongs to them. Usually the types that posted often during off season/in the chat threads. I'd suggest to others feeling the same to do likewise and that way it won't affect you and will prevent any drama occuring :). It's also good to have some originality on the forum I believe, it's not fun if everyone has the same opinion all the time or all post exactly the same, so it's good to welcome healthy debate.

[LukeB]

Exactly. It's hardly offensive.

I do understand now people do find it offensive but theres always a chance some don't. It really depends on the context but would i care if i was called one? No because theres nothing wrong with being one.

[Greg!]

Don't fall for their baiting Nancy, they're not worth it :nono:

Baiting? No, I just wanted her to explain why she thinks I'm a liar. She has failed to do so but that's her perogative I guess!

[Beso]

:bawling: now my thinking of The cat ladies being dear old ladies stroking their pussies in their rocking chairs is all blown to pieces.

I often think of of certain members like that.

[Marsh.]

Oh ffs, go away. i've already provided examples which show you are. Unfortunately, other people DO have things planned, so I can't sit her all afternoon like you. Bye.
*spends thread moaning and trying to prove other forum members are insulting and baiting*

*then insults and baits other members*

[Nancy.]

Don't fall for their baiting Nancy, they're not worth it :nono:

Oh, I'm not, babe. I'm aware of how certain people work in here, so i'm going to ignore the baiting and enjoy my day away from the forum after this. x

[Vicky.]

Well. An adult discussion was nice while it lasted I guess. Of course it has to descend into petty bickering and as such, closed.