Do you like Anamelia as a person?

[Elliot]

I think it’s safe to say she’s a pretty good housemate and is testing a lot of the housemates but do you like her as a human?

[RileyH]

Yes :love:

[Elliot]

For me anyway she seems very... dim? People saying she’s opinionated but like she managed to turn a nuanced point and conversation about herself like Lewis f brought up the double standard and she was like ‘he clearly fancies me!!’ Lol
She’s very fun to watch tho

[rionablue]

I actually like her. Beneath all the hard act she is soft centered and even though she has a bit of a bullish way of saying things she is very honest about how she is

[Elliot]

Actually I know who she reminds me of personality wise
https://sites.google.com/site/friends2365/_/rsrc/1472782816715/home/monica-geller/monica.jpg

[Shaun]

It doesn't help that she looks like Jessie J

[GoldHeart]

Actually I know who she reminds me of personality wise
https://sites.google.com/site/friends2365/_/rsrc/1472782816715/home/monica-geller/monica.jpg

Don't you dare insult Monica Bing like that :nono::shocked: . Monica yes had a competitive streak and was demanding but she also had a caring side to her plus she was funny with it . And she was never a total Bitch . If anything Anamelia is more like Rachel Green with the self obsessed behaviour .

[saiwong]

With Anamelia its all Me, Me, Me

she says she respects others but ….

her actions are all to do with herself and her demands that everyone respects her views


again its just Me, Me, Me

[storybrooke]

finding her annoying and it's all her way or the highway

[Ammi]

With Anamelia its all Me, Me, Me

she says she respects others but ….

her actions are all to do with herself and her demands that everyone respects her views


again its just Me, Me, Me


...yeah she hasn’t really learned to be a team player I would say...:laugh:..to respect and consider other people within a group situation as well...(..especially if they don’t agree with her or challenge her in any way..:laugh:..)...

[Elliot]

Don't you dare insult Monica Bing like that :nono::shocked: . Monica yes had a competitive streak and was demanding but she also had a caring side to her plus she was funny with it . And she was never a total Bitch . If anything Anamelia is more like Rachel Green with the self obsessed behaviour .

The main comparison to draw is the competitiveness and the longing for being the Center of attention and mrs right. Monica is a very layered person and I’d expect this to be the case with anamelia too she just hasn’t shown these vulnerabilities yet

[GoldHeart]

The main comparison to draw is the competitiveness and the longing for being the Center of attention and mrs right. Monica is a very layered person and I’d expect this to be the case with anamelia too she just hasn’t shown these vulnerabilities yet

I know what you're saying but i'm not falling for her BS , she is very manipulative and Judy James described her perfectly on BOTS .

She used crying as a tactic in the bathroom to form a girly group and she thinks she owns them!! . She thought Kay would stay quiet & agreeable and it's hacked her off that Kay actually has a voice but difference is Kay is more diplomatic about things .

Kenaley is also diplomatic but has a strong personality and there's no way she can be dominated by Anamelia . It's obvious Anamelia want's to run the house and she's sour because she's failing miserably .

[hijaxers]

I really need to see more of her , my instant answer would be No but... i feel its still early days , if she carries on the way she is its a deffo No. :conf:

[crashandburn]

I actually agree with most of her opinions but strongly disagree with her attitude and the way she goes on about her opinions. She's all "me me me" as someone said above. You can't push your opinions on people 24/7. You can't be rude as ******* to people and then say "it's just the way God made me."

Her attitude of "I'll never change" is just the opposite of how someone who claims to be spiritual and open and "good vibey" should be. You should constantly be willing to learn and grow as a person, compromise when there's a difference of opinion and meet others half way.

The horrible way she acts and everything she says goes against the kind of open-minded spiritual person she claims to be.

The awful thing is she totally lacks ANY self awareness and I honestly don't think she even realises what a hypocrite she is when it comes to what she says v/s how she behaves.

Last night when Kay came to her in the bedroom to discuss her feelings, Anamelia interrupted EVERY SINGLE SENTENCE that Kay said - and I'm not talking once or twice I'm talking well over 20 times. She interrupted everything....... and then had the sheer AUDACITY to yell at Kay "Do not interrupt me because I'm making a point!" It was obnoxiously hypocritical and showed a complete lack of self-awareness. Someone believing so alll-mightily that they are right and having no awareness whatsoever of how wrong they are acting.

[Calderyon]

Actually I know who she reminds me of personality wise
https://sites.google.com/site/friends2365/_/rsrc/1472782816715/home/monica-geller/monica.jpg

Insult tbh.

[Jordan.]

No she'd get on my tits

[Calderyon]

But yeah, I would imagine she would be a hard person to get along with.

[Niamh.]

No not all, good HM though

[Maru]

I don't know. I find her really harmless. I think she could potentially be a good HM but she needs to stop talking. She does say things that just don't need to be said. She can be really defensive and that is unappealing for a lot of ppl.

[Niamh.]

I don't know. I find her really harmless. I think she could potentially be a good HM but she needs to stop talking. She does say things that just don't need to be said. She can be really defensive and that is unappealing for a lot of ppl.Her preaching about Kay wanting her to change her personality when all she did was ask her not speak rudely to her

[MTVN]

I don't dislike her, she means well and does care about other people but she's got flaws like everyone

[crashandburn]

Her preaching about Kay wanting her to change her personality when all she did was ask her not speak rudely to her

All she's done is moan to other people about their behavior or words, and then makes a big deal out of how she's not gonna change lol. Hypocrite. Shut the f-up about other people then.

[Niamh.]

All she's done is moan to other people about their behavior or words, and then makes a big deal out of how she's not gonna change lol. Hypocrite. Shut the f-up about other people then.Yeah I had to laugh when Cameron was talking about her calling Lewis a bully and he said it was manipulative a d she said oh that's a big word um yeah as is bully you ****ing tit

[TaylorCallum]

Not at all. Keep her in though.

[Elliot]

A surprising number of people on this forum like her personality.. I expected her to unanimously be regarded as the obnoxious villain :I

[michael21]

She good tv


Would i want to be stuck in a house with her 24/7


Hell yea :evilgrin:

[Garfie]

I'm not saying she's a horrible person or anything, but she's definitely not my type of person; I couldn't be around someone like her- she's too intense, loud and heavy going. I like people to be chilled and laid back so she would do my head in! I think I'd feel as tired of her presence as Lewis F does!

[Calderyon]

No, i do not.

[MB.]

She is the mother I never had, she is the sister everybody would want, she is the friend that everybody deserves

https://thumbs.gfycat.com/DenseUltimateCusimanse-size_restricted.gif

[Calderyon]

She is the mother I never had, she is the sister everybody would want, she is the friend that everybody deserves

https://thumbs.gfycat.com/DenseUltimateCusimanse-size_restricted.gif

1: Not enough info on this, so cannot answer
2: No
3: No

[MB.]

It wasn't a question

[michael21]

No, i do not.


She hot so :cheer2:

[Calderyon]

It wasn't a question

Still answered correctly.

[Glenn.]

No she’s a monster

[Robodog]

Totally self-obsessed; she treats everyone like they are guests on 'the Anamelia show' - very draining to be around


.

[Ammi]

...I think I probably would like her as a human..:laugh:...she doesn’t seem to be a bad person in any way...not mean spirited or anything...but probably not in the context of the BB house though because I think she would be energy draining...with lots of time, not such a tense environment and popping ear plugs in now and again to zone out to some music...I think she’d be someone I could spend time with getting to know...and trying to get a little word in edgeways here and there...she’s very intense, she’s very deep and she interesting...just not really BB house material I don’t think...

[Cal.]

Yeah. I don’t think she has bad intentions at all.

[Crimson Dynamo]

no she is not a nice person, lies to herself and is devious and manipulative

[user104658]

She's an extreme narcissist, she literally talks about herself all of the time. ALL of the time. If a conversation isn't about her, she MAKES it about her, or someone / something from her past... I've honestly never seen anything like it and I've known plenty of narcissists. She referred to her own vagina as being "the gateway to another dimension"!

Other people are seen as actors on her stage to further her own drama and narrative. One of the most telling things is... she doesn't know how to handle Lewis G when he's winding her up, so to get around that, she basically pretends that he doesn't exist. Like he's a blooper in the Anamelia show :umm2:.

[mr rochester]

She's an extreme narcissist, she literally talks about herself all of the time. ALL of the time. If a conversation isn't about her, she MAKES it about her, or someone / something from her past... I've honestly never seen anything like it and I've known plenty of narcissists. She referred to her own vagina as being "the gateway to another dimension"!

Other people are seen as actors on her stage to further her own drama and narrative. One of the most telling things is... she doesn't know how to handle Lewis G when he's winding her up, so to get around that, she basically pretends that he doesn't exist. Like he's a blooper in the Anamelia show :umm2:.

Well said...

[Ammi]

She's an extreme narcissist, she literally talks about herself all of the time. ALL of the time. If a conversation isn't about her, she MAKES it about her, or someone / something from her past... I've honestly never seen anything like it and I've known plenty of narcissists. She referred to her own vagina as being "the gateway to another dimension"!

Other people are seen as actors on her stage to further her own drama and narrative. One of the most telling things is... she doesn't know how to handle Lewis G when he's winding her up, so to get around that, she basically pretends that he doesn't exist. Like he's a blooper in the Anamelia show :umm2:.

...she isn’t a narcissist at all TS..I’m sorry but she just isn’t ...that seems to be thrown into most series of BB of recent times...like we have to have a narcissist housemate..:laugh:...she has narcissistic qualities...every single one of us has narcisstic qualities ...and I do agree she has more than an ‘average’...but she’s far from an extreme that would go to make a narcissist though...she does discuss herself a lot and her own associations with things.......many people do that though...it’s not really a great trait always for a housemate but it’s something many people do both in and outside the house...she saw what she perceived as bullying behaviour and whether it was or not...that’s how she saw it and it showed empathy and consideration for another housemate...a veritable stranger to her..?..that’s not a narcissistic quality...she also listened to Cameron and accepted and respected his opinion, even though she may not have agreed with it...?...so she sees the viewpoint of others but hasn’t necessarily yet come to a place of agreement with them..?...again that would indicate she’s not a narcissist...she explains her associations as she did with Zoe when she’d been subjected to being talked about in her past, in her childhood....and how that’s given her an aversion...but she also accepted, that association didn’t apply with Zoe and that situation and she explained that to Zoe...that she realised she’d misinterpreted....?...so no, no narcissist for me but she’s someone who finds it difficult to be in a group situation and accept others, I would say...and someone who likes to feel that they’re always heard in terms of explaining these things and why things have made her feel a certain way...but then doesn’t always give the same consideration to others is the problem..and Lewis G is the one furthering his own drama by winding her up and taunting her...he obviously has no drama to provide himself or no personality so he has to adopt a Stephen Bear character ...and especially as he lost Ellis as a bit of a showmance talking point...he doesn’t exist to me either as a person until he actually reveals who he is and stops pretending to be someone else and a copy cat caricature type person....if he can’t be ‘real’ why should he deserve any attention...

[Crimson Dynamo]

...she isn’t a narcissist at all TS..I’m sorry but she just isn’t ...that seems to be thrown into most series of BB of recent times...like we have to have a narcissist housemate..:laugh:...she has narcissistic qualities...every single one of us has narcisstic qualities ...and I do agree she has more than an ‘average’...but she’s far from an extreme that would go to make a narcissist though...she does discuss herself a lot and her own associations with things.......many people do that though...it’s not really a great trait always for a housemate but it’s something many people do both in and outside the house...she saw what she perceived as bullying behaviour and whether it was or not...that’s how she saw it and it showed empathy and consideration for another housemate...a veritable stranger to her..?..that’s not a narcissistic quality...she also listened to Cameron and accepted and respected his opinion, even though she may not have agreed with it...?...so she sees the viewpoint of others but hasn’t necessarily yet come to a place of agreement with them..?...again that would indicate she’s not a narcissist...she explains her associations as she did with Zoe when she’d been subjected to being talked about in her past, in her childhood....and how that’s given her an aversion...but she also accepted, that association didn’t apply with Zoe and that situation and she explained that to Zoe...that she realised she’d misinterpreted....?...so no, no narcissist for me but she’s someone who finds it difficult to be in a group situation and accept others, I would say...and someone who likes to feel that they’re always heard in terms of explaining these things and why things have made her feel a certain way...but then doesn’t always give the same consideration to others is the problem..and Lewis G is the one furthering his own drama by winding her up and taunting her...he obviously has no drama to provide himself or no personality so he has to adopt a Stephen Bear character ...and especially as he lost Ellis as a bit of a showmance talking point...he doesn’t exist to me either as a person until he actually reveals who he is and stops pretending to be someone else and a copy cat caricature type person....if he can’t be ‘real’ why should he deserve any attention...

go watch her x factor audition

classic narcissist

:bored:

[Cal.]

She's an extreme narcissist, she literally talks about herself all of the time. ALL of the time. If a conversation isn't about her, she MAKES it about her, or someone / something from her past... I've honestly never seen anything like it and I've known plenty of narcissists. She referred to her own vagina as being "the gateway to another dimension"!

Other people are seen as actors on her stage to further her own drama and narrative. One of the most telling things is... she doesn't know how to handle Lewis G when he's winding her up, so to get around that, she basically pretends that he doesn't exist. Like he's a blooper in the Anamelia show :umm2:.

:laugh2:

[Ammi]

...I just watched her audition as you suggested, LT...oooops..:laugh:...she’s no great singing voice for sure...arrogant yeah, rather than confident...I would definitely say that fits...but narcissistic....nope....

[arista]

With Anamelia its all Me, Me, Me

she says she respects others but ….

her actions are all to do with herself and her demands that everyone respects her views


again its just Me, Me, Me


Yes she Rubs it in their face
And hates Lewis brick layer
taking the Piss of her

[Elliot]

I honestly think she’s more socially awkward than Cameron lol like she always bangs on about how she doesn’t really have any friends on the outside and her experience with other people is usually just women bitching, which could possibly explain why she doesn’t have the capacity to talk about anything but herself

[Ammi]

I honestly think she’s more socially awkward than Cameron lol like she always bangs on about how she doesn’t really have any friends on the outside and her experience with other people is usually just women bitching, which could possibly explain why she doesn’t have the capacity to talk about anything but herself

... it the it’s one of those tricky things though, Elliot...where she has to look to herself and her own part....?...does she not have friends because of her arrogance and is that why she’s ‘bitched about’...so it’s kind of a circle thing, you know...but that would be something to only speculate, you know...she doesn’t always allow for the character or ‘associations’ of others being very different from hers, is the thing...


...actually when I come to think of it...the most ‘narcissistic’ personality in there is Lewis G....who ironically imitates Stephen Bear...another person up there on the narcissism spectrum in terms of housemates...neither of them seem to consider others at all...all for their own amusement etc....

[Niamh.]

She's an extreme narcissist, she literally talks about herself all of the time. ALL of the time. If a conversation isn't about her, she MAKES it about her, or someone / something from her past... I've honestly never seen anything like it and I've known plenty of narcissists. She referred to her own vagina as being "the gateway to another dimension"!

Other people are seen as actors on her stage to further her own drama and narrative. One of the most telling things is... she doesn't know how to handle Lewis G when he's winding her up, so to get around that, she basically pretends that he doesn't exist. Like he's a blooper in the Anamelia show :umm2:.

Yep, perfect analyse of her imo. It's a little bit scary to see actually but very interesting HM. I'm not sure how long I will find her interesting for though. I don't want to miss out on other HMs for the sake of the Anamelia show either

[user104658]

...she isn’t a narcissist at all TS..I’m sorry but she just isn’t ...that seems to be thrown into most series of BB of recent times...like we have to have a narcissist housemate..:laugh:...she has narcissistic qualities...every single one of us has narcisstic qualities ...and I do agree she has more than an ‘average’...but she’s far from an extreme that would go to make a narcissist though...she does discuss herself a lot and her own associations with things.......many people do that though...it’s not really a great trait always for a housemate but it’s something many people do both in and outside the house...she saw what she perceived as bullying behaviour and whether it was or not...that’s how she saw it and it showed empathy and consideration for another housemate...a veritable stranger to her..?..that’s not a narcissistic quality...she also listened to Cameron and accepted and respected his opinion, even though she may not have agreed with it...?...so she sees the viewpoint of others but hasn’t necessarily yet come to a place of agreement with them..?...again that would indicate she’s not a narcissist...she explains her associations as she did with Zoe when she’d been subjected to being talked about in her past, in her childhood....and how that’s given her an aversion...but she also accepted, that association didn’t apply with Zoe and that situation and she explained that to Zoe...that she realised she’d misinterpreted....?...so no, no narcissist for me but she’s someone who finds it difficult to be in a group situation and accept others, I would say...and someone who likes to feel that they’re always heard in terms of explaining these things and why things have made her feel a certain way...but then doesn’t always give the same consideration to others is the problem..and Lewis G is the one furthering his own drama by winding her up and taunting her...he obviously has no drama to provide himself or no personality so he has to adopt a Stephen Bear character ...and especially as he lost Ellis as a bit of a showmance talking point...he doesn’t exist to me either as a person until he actually reveals who he is and stops pretending to be someone else and a copy cat caricature type person....if he can’t be ‘real’ why should he deserve any attention...

I have to disagree Ammi... it doesn't have to be extreme for her to be a narcissist, I'm not saying she has actual Narcissistic Personality Disorder, but she is a cookie-cutter example of a basic narcissist. She rarely sees other people's point of view; she accepts that they have one, but it's fairly evident that she doesn't find those points of view to be relevant to her (i.e. she doesn't actually care) and I don't see any evidence that she acknowledges them at all for any reason other than that she knows that's "the right thing to say" to make herself look good.

As for the Tomasz situation, far from being evidence of empathy, that actually cements my opinion further. She brought it up in the first place to "white knight" and make herself seem like "a rly good person" - but beyond and far worse than that - she flat out refused to let it go when it was making Tomasz quite clearly uncomfortable. He didn't feel bullied, he wanted just to forget about it and let it drop, the whole thing was clearly making him feel bad BUT she chose to drag him back into it three or four times - one of those times demanding that he come to the garden to "settle the disagreement" between her and Lewis F - with absolutely ZERO regard for the fact that it was making Tomasz uncomfortable. Her need to "win that argument" and be "in the right" regarding the entire situation was far more important to her than the feelings of the person she was supposedly "sticking up for" in the first place.

I don't think she's nasty or malicious though. I don't think she was thinking, "This might upset Tomasz but I don't care". Her sphere of observation just doesn't extend very far beyond the other dimension that she keeps inside her vagina... so it was irrelevant to her.

Likewise, she didn't give a **** about what Kay was trying to tell her, repeatedly interrupting her and not letting her speak and then declaring "You're not letting me finish!" if she didn't get to narrate her own version of events. She then declared that she "is who she is and has to be true to that", whilst basically disregarding the fact that Kay was trying to say the same thing about herself. She believes that it's of prime importance that SHE gets to be who SHE is. Not that anyone else gets to be their own person. Not if it impacts on her in any way, at least.

But the easiest way to spot it is to boil it down to one of the basics of narcissism. Believing that one is naturally superior to others (which she clearly does), whilst similtaneously crafting a victim narrative e.g. that other people are persecuting, bullying or -- the classic that she has already used several times -- that "they're jealous".

100% bonafide narcissism I'm afraid.



...I actually like her though :joker:. Absolute mess, couldn't be around her for 5 minutes, but absolute fire on telly.

[Ammi]

I have to disagree Ammi... it doesn't have to be extreme for her to be a narcissist, I'm not saying she has actual Narcissistic Personality Disorder, but she is a cookie-cutter example of a basic narcissist. She rarely sees other people's point of view; she accepts that they have one, but it's fairly evident that she doesn't find those points of view to be relevant to her (i.e. she doesn't actually care) and I don't see any evidence that she acknowledges them at all for any reason other than that she knows that's "the right thing to say" to make herself look good.

As for the Tomasz situation, far from being evidence of empathy, that actually cements my opinion further. She brought it up in the first place to "white knight" and make herself seem like "a rly good person" - but beyond and far worse than that - she flat out refused to let it go when it was making Tomasz quite clearly uncomfortable. He didn't feel bullied, he wanted just to forget about it and let it drop, the whole thing was clearly making him feel bad BUT she chose to drag him back into it three or four times - one of those times demanding that he come to the garden to "settle the disagreement" between her and Lewis F - with absolutely ZERO regard for the fact that it was making Tomasz uncomfortable. Her need to "win that argument" and be "in the right" regarding the entire situation was far more important to her than the feelings of the person she was supposedly "sticking up for" in the first place.

I don't think she's nasty or malicious though. I don't think she was thinking, "This might upset Tomasz but I don't care". Her sphere of observation just doesn't extend very far beyond the other dimension that she keeps inside her vagina... so it was irrelevant to her.

Likewise, she didn't give a **** about what Kay was trying to tell her, repeatedly interrupting her and not letting her speak and then declaring "You're not letting me finish!" if she didn't get to narrate her own version of events. She then declared that she "is who she is and has to be true to that", whilst basically disregarding the fact that Kay was trying to say the same thing about herself. She believes that it's of prime importance that SHE gets to be who SHE is. Not that anyone else gets to be their own person. Not if it impacts on her in any way, at least.

But the easiest way to spot it is to boil it down to one of the basics of narcissism. Believing that one is naturally superior to others (which she clearly does), whilst similtaneously crafting a victim narrative e.g. that other people are persecuting, bullying or -- the classic that she has already used several times -- that "they're jealous".

100% bonafide narcissism I'm afraid.



...I actually like her though :joker:. Absolute mess, couldn't be around her for 5 minutes, but absolute fire on telly.

...see if narcissistic were to be applied, TS...I would say that more applied to Lewis G because he hasn’t shown any consideration of any housemate on any level so far as I can see...and similar with Stephen Bear, the narcisstic king of them all...every person was for his own entertainment value...no thought of the actual person or any feelings...it’s okay thought TS...obviously you’re wrong and I accept that but as always...I adore you anyway ...and maybe even more now...because I realise you’re not perfect in your assessments...you’re so beautifully human and I love that..:lovedup:..


...I can’t think of anyone better to disagree with..:laugh:...or anyone more lovely than you to be wrong...

[Niamh.]

I have to agree with TS on this one Ammi, sorry :laugh:

[user104658]

...see if narcissistic were to be applied, TS...I would say that more applied to Lewis G because he hasn’t shown any consideration of any housemate on any level so far as I can see...and similar with Stephen Bear, the narcisstic king of them all...every person was for his own entertainment value...no thought of the actual person or any feelings...it’s okay thought TS...obviously you’re wrong and I accept that but as always...I adore you anyway ...and maybe even more now...because I realise you’re not perfect in your assessments...you’re so beautifully human and I love that..:lovedup:..


...I can’t think of anyone better to disagree with..:laugh:...or anyone more lovely than you to be wrong...

:nono: Lewis G can't be a narcissist because he has "uncaring empathy". He "gets" people nearly instantly and he clearly must be watching everyone very closely to figure them out. A narcissist (like Anamelia) wouldn't care. If you'll notice, she DOESN'T tailor her interactions in any way based on who she's talking to, because they're all just "generic others" i.e. "not her" and all the same. She doesn't recognise individuality beyond her own... people are just "there".

I don't know what Lewis G is though. Like I said, can't be a narcissist because he understands other people intuitively, more than anyone else this year and frankly more than most people in general and that's a form of extreme empathy... but not the good kind, because he's not a caring person and uses those observations either A) because he's playing some sort of game or B) purely for his own amusement.

If it's B), it might be some variety of sociopathy :think:. If it's A) then it just is what it is and he has some sort of game plan.

I do know that he's one of the more (if not THE most) intelligent housemates in there and yet he for whatever reason acts like he's the stupidest. Hmmm.

[Ammi]

:nono: Lewis G can't be a narcissist because he has "uncaring empathy". He "gets" people nearly instantly and he clearly must be watching everyone very closely to figure them out. A narcissist (like Anamelia) wouldn't care. If you'll notice, she DOESN'T tailor her interactions in any way based on who she's talking to, because they're all just "generic others" i.e. "not her" and all the same. She doesn't recognise individuality beyond her own... people are just "there".

I don't know what Lewis G is though. Like I said, can't be a narcissist because he understands other people intuitively, more than anyone else this year and frankly more than most people in general and that's a form of extreme empathy... but not the good kind, because he's not a caring person and uses those observations either A) because he's playing some sort of game or B) purely for his own amusement.

If it's B), it might be some variety of sociopathy :think:. If it's A) then it just is what it is and he has some sort of game plan.

I do know that he's one of the more (if not THE most) intelligent housemates in there and yet he for whatever reason acts like he's the stupidest. Hmmm.

..he doesn’t understand her though...he just knows her buttons press easily so he aims to purposefully push them...if he understood her then he would be getting a rise out of her constantly and he’s not...she’s able to ignore him...why is that..?..because he doesn’t understand her, has no depth of understanding people...he just plugs away and eventually that rise will come because it’s no great shakes to realise she’s quite vocal..:laugh:..a child could have worked that one out, TS...

[Ammi]

I have to agree with TS on this one Ammi, sorry :laugh:

...that’s okay...even though he’s wrong..:laugh:...

[user104658]

..he doesn’t understand her though...he just knows her buttons press easily so he aims to purposefully push them...if he understood her then he would be getting a rise out of her constantly and he’s not...she’s able to ignore him...why is that..?..because he doesn’t understand her, has no depth of understanding people...he just plugs away and eventually that rise will come because it’s no great shakes to realise she’s quite vocal..:laugh:..a child could have worked that one out, TS...

Every interaction he has with her is designed to make it so that she can't come after or target him, which he basically outright stated in last night's show. I don't think he's looking to get a rise, he's building an "Anamelia shield".

[Ammi]

Every interaction he has with her is designed to make it so that she can't come after or target him, which he basically outright stated in last night's show. I don't think he's looking to get a rise, he's building an "Anamelia shield".

...Lord you give him credit for having a brain and thought process...I guess your faith in people is quite admirable, however misplaced and misguided..:laugh:..

...I’m running late for a lunch date so I’ll leave it there..(..with you being wrong and me being right, obviously..)...it’s been lovely disagreeing with you...as lovely as it is to agree with you, surprisingly..?..:love:..

[bots]

The narcissism debate can be decided by comparing each against Trump. From where I'm standing Anamelia and Trump are 2 peas in a pod.

[Niamh.]

...Lord you give him credit for having a brain and thought process...I guess your faith in people is quite admirable, however misplaced and misguided..:laugh:..

...I’m running late for a lunch date so I’ll leave it there..(..with you being wrong and me being right, obviously..)...it’s been lovely disagreeing with you...as lovely as it is to agree with you, surprisingly..?..:love:..

tbf he did know that eggs weren't dairy

[Niamh.]

The narcissism debate can be decided by comparing each against Trump. From where I'm standing Anamelia and Trump are 2 peas in a pod.

I'm sure I heard her say that she was there to make Big Brother great again :think:

[user104658]

tbf he did know that eggs weren't dairy

The measure of a genius in this year's BB;

1) Knowing that eggs aren't dairy

2) Knowing how many sides a hexagon has

3) Not watching a soap every day for your whole life and then - when being asked what street it's set on - accidentally naming the TOWN :joker:

[Elliot]

The measure of a genius in this year's BB;

1) Knowing that eggs aren't dairy

2) Knowing how many sides a hexagon has

3) Not watching a soap every day for your whole life and then - when being asked what street it's set on - accidentally naming the TOWN :joker:

I mean, last years measure was the earth being flat or round

‘Don’t walk too far that way or you’ll fall off the edge’

[Niamh.]

I mean, last years measure was the earth being flat or round

‘Don’t walk too far that way or you’ll fall off the edge’

Best line of the series for me, i laughed so much and I can't even remember who said it now :laugh:

[Elliot]

Best line of the series for me, i laughed so much and I can't even remember who said it now :laugh:

Ledgendary Arthur
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Remember when the two best housemates of last series walked :(

[Niamh.]

Ledgendary Arthur
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Remember when the two best housemates of last series walked :(

ahhh yes yes, that was so funny

[Vanessa]

No, for me she's awful. I hate attention seekers like her!

[Eddie.]

I'm not sure, when you are having a normal conversation with her, she's likable, though if you argue with her, you'll get attention-seeking vibes...

[Patricia4]

No

[Crimson Dynamo]

Ledgendary Arthur
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Remember when the two best housemates of last series walked :(

:clap1:

Arthur schooling the borderline moron couple suhkvinder and doormat

[DouglasS]

Shes so annoying. I don't think I could deal with her for the whole season. I'd like her to get enough coins to get past this eviction and a bore to go and then she can go in the next tbh. Two weeks of her will be a good enough Storyline for the show and anymore of her will get tedious.

[Robodog]

:clap1:

Arthur schooling the borderline moron couple suhkvinder and doormat

- who compared themselves (and their experience in the house) to nelson mandela

:joker: :joker: :joker:

[Vicky.]

She's an extreme narcissist, she literally talks about herself all of the time. ALL of the time. If a conversation isn't about her, she MAKES it about her, or someone / something from her past... I've honestly never seen anything like it and I've known plenty of narcissists. She referred to her own vagina as being "the gateway to another dimension"!

Other people are seen as actors on her stage to further her own drama and narrative. One of the most telling things is... she doesn't know how to handle Lewis G when he's winding her up, so to get around that, she basically pretends that he doesn't exist. Like he's a blooper in the Anamelia show :umm2:.

Yup I agree with all of this. This is why I find her fascinating to watch actually.

[Crimson Dynamo]

She looks like a bloke

that face

[mr rochester]

Ammi - please read up on Covert Narcissicm.

She isn’t a malignant narcissist however, she very definitely veers to covert narcissism. She makes others say they feel inferior and indeed guilty ( for doing very little).

I would gauge that she is well aware of her personality and has put amour over every flaw she has ever been told she has by others. She says herself that others have had problems with her for most of her life.

Her self-placed armour is to make herself ok to herself and she is very well rehearsed in ramming who she is down every one else’s throat...

Lewis Daft is damaged and simply doesn’t know how to behave - he hasn’t actually got a clue who he is or who he’s supposed to be. I don’t believe he is dangerous though. He’s a toddler in a body that will help him along in life. However fragrant that might or might not be ...

In my opinion A is potentially quite a dangerous person to others.