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rusticgal
18-09-2018, 10:54 PM
I understand how he feels. He dislikes Ana intensly and when you dislike someone that much, watching your 'mates' accommodate her need of attention, can make you withdraw. Lewis knows that many of them feel the same way about her and finds it hard to see them laughing and joking with her.
Are they bigger people for not challenging her?...or are they weak because they don't want to get involved in an arguement with her?..because she is a self righteous annoying individual.
If Lewis doesn't pick himself up and stop focusing on her...Ana wins.
There are 12 other people in there...he needs to forget Ana and just try and have some fun with the others and play her at her own game. He is letting her get the better of him. I'm not a big fan of Lewis but he is an idiot if he lets her ruin his experience.

Beso
18-09-2018, 11:01 PM
Who is this bloke trying to be?

armand.kay
18-09-2018, 11:02 PM
Also how can you dislike someone that much after knowing them for like 4 day? like thats just weird to me the guy is obsessed

Glenn.
18-09-2018, 11:03 PM
He’s lost it

rusticgal
18-09-2018, 11:04 PM
He’s lost it

I think he has..

Beso
18-09-2018, 11:07 PM
I think he has..

Hes trying way to hard to be dramatic in the diary room.


Maybe its lack of sleep?

rusticgal
18-09-2018, 11:07 PM
Also how can you dislike someone that much after knowing them for like 4 day? like thats just weird to me the guy is obsessed


Because he has allowed her to get to him. They are quite alike in the fact that they both think they are better than anyone else..and that their opinion is the ONLY opinion.

armand.kay
18-09-2018, 11:12 PM
Because he has allowed her to get to him. They are quite alike in the fact that they both think they are better than anyone else..and that their opinion is the ONLY opinion.

My theory is that he cant take the fact that she said she didn't fancy him, probably not use to not being adored. Because he loved how extra she was before that argument.

rusticgal
18-09-2018, 11:14 PM
Who is this bloke trying to be?

Righteous..

No one really likes Ana IMO...and he wants to be the one to chalłenge her and get respect from the other housemates. He wants to be the Alpha male and wants everyone to see him as the 'saviour' bringing down mouth almighty..but it's not gone the way he hoped it would.
That's what is getting him down more than anything...

Amy Jade
18-09-2018, 11:17 PM
He clearly fancies her and is fuming she's rather sit on Brookes face than his dick.

Elliot
18-09-2018, 11:20 PM
I think he thinks he’s some like noble white knight since he knows the housemates don’t like her but don’t have the guts to be honest,, idk or maybe as others said he’s jut a psychopath or even anamelia is just THAT annoying

GoldHeart
18-09-2018, 11:20 PM
I understand how he feels. He dislikes Ana intensly and when you dislike someone that much, watching your 'mates' accommodate her need of attention, can make you withdraw. Lewis knows that many of them feel the same way about her and finds it hard to see them laughing and joking with her.
Are they bigger people for not challenging her?...or are they weak because they don't want to get involved in an arguement with her?..because she is a self righteous annoying individual.
If Lewis doesn't pick himself up and stop focusing on her...Ana wins.
There are 12 other people in there...he needs to forget Ana and just try and have some fun with the others and play her at her own game. He is letting her get the better of him. I'm not a big fan of Lewis but he is an idiot if he lets her ruin his experience.

I understand his frustration , he IS like a dog with a bone though the weird thing is him & Ana are similar as they both have to have the last word and they both constantly go on and on .

Imagine having to LIVE with Ana though :facepalm::oh: I'd probably go mad aswell .

rusticgal
18-09-2018, 11:24 PM
I understand his frustration , he IS like a dog with a bone though the weird thing is him & Ana are similar as they both have to have the last word and they both constantly go on and on .

Imagine having to LIVE with Ana though :facepalm::oh: I'd probably go mad aswell .



She would do my head in...

crashandburn
19-09-2018, 12:25 AM
I understand how he feels. He dislikes Ana intensly and when you dislike someone that much, watching your 'mates' accommodate her need of attention, can make you withdraw. Lewis knows that many of them feel the same way about her and finds it hard to see them laughing and joking with her.
Are they bigger people for not challenging her?...or are they weak because they don't want to get involved in an arguement with her?..because she is a self righteous annoying individual.
If Lewis doesn't pick himself up and stop focusing on her...Ana wins.
There are 12 other people in there...he needs to forget Ana and just try and have some fun with the others and play her at her own game. He is letting her get the better of him. I'm not a big fan of Lewis but he is an idiot if he lets her ruin his experience.

I agree with every word of this OP.

I can understand his frustration and why he felt isolated tonight. Hopefully tomorrow is a better day. He can't let her win like this.

It doesn't help when people like Cian come over, ask him what's wrong, make him bring it all up and then immediately walk off because they don't want a serious chat, leaving him with it all brought up to the surface again. Zoe did the same which was disappointing especially as she had been upset by Ana earlier in the day.

Ana was a dick tonight. She was reveling in the "Look they're all having fun with me and you're all alone" situation.

Don't get me wrong, I understand that the other housemates want to all bond together and it's not all about Lewis F, they're not just there for him. But i really don't get why they were all sucking up Ana's ass tonight (who most of them hate) while Lewis was clearly in need of some support.

Mystic Mock
19-09-2018, 12:31 AM
I like Lewis F, but he does need to have some fun in the house if he is to last in the game long term.

crashandburn
19-09-2018, 12:40 AM
I like Lewis F, but he does need to have some fun in the house if he is to last in the game long term.

It's true he needs some fun. It will do him the world of good.

But I've also been in his position in certain social situations - it's impossible to have fun when there is someone getting to you that badly, especially when they're being loud and the centre of attention.

Mystic Mock
19-09-2018, 12:48 AM
It's true he needs some fun. It will do him the world of good.

But I've also been in his position in certain social situations - it's impossible to have fun when there is someone getting to you that badly, especially when they're being loud and the centre of attention.

I get his frustration, but tbf Anamelia didn't really do anything to him in last night's episode so he makes himself look like a moody bastard when moaning about her having fun with the other Housemates, and there I say it a little bit like bullying with how moody he was at people being nice to Anamelia rather than them all being hostile towards her.

Btw I'm not saying that Lewis F is a bully, but I do think that he could be playing into her hands on that front if he keeps moaning at people for socialising with her.

crashandburn
19-09-2018, 01:17 AM
I get his frustration, but tbf Anamelia didn't really do anything to him in last night's episode so he makes himself look like a moody bastard when moaning about her having fun with the other Housemates, and there I say it a little bit like bullying with how moody he was at people being nice to Anamelia rather than them all being hostile towards her.

Btw I'm not saying that Lewis F is a bully, but I do think that he could be playing into her hands on that front if he keeps moaning at people for socialising with her.

I completely see both sides of that.

However I don't think Anamelia was completely innocent in today's ep. She deliberately riled him up all afternoon, itching for a fight in the garden, shouting random things in his direction etc.

then reveled in him secluding himself later on. She was loving the fact that they were all in there with her and not with him.

She may not have outright "done anything to him" in last night's ep but sometimes people work more subtly than that.

Shaun
19-09-2018, 02:21 AM
He's coming across as a miserable arsehole - even moreso than Anamelia is - but ofc he's a good-looking male so it'll be a while before the public turn against him if at all.

crashandburn
19-09-2018, 02:31 AM
He's coming across as a miserable arsehole - even moreso than Anamelia is - but ofc he's a good-looking male so it'll be a while before the public turn against him if at all.

Actually I strongly disliked him on launch night and day 1, but Anamaniac's actions have made me sympathise with him.

armand.kay
19-09-2018, 02:41 AM
Because he has allowed her to get to him. They are quite alike in the fact that they both think they are better than anyone else..and that their opinion is the ONLY opinion.

Yes they both want to control peoples opinions of them but Lewis also seems to be obsessed with controlling peoples opinions of others. The way he lost it at kay for not agreeing with him 100% and everyone feeling like they had to walk out the room when he was going off is what makes me think this.

Eveie
19-09-2018, 02:41 AM
Actually I strongly disliked him on launch night and day 1, but Anamaniac's actions have made me sympathise with him.

Yes same. I didn't like Lewis for the first couple of days but I believe he wears his heart on his sleeve and is particularly sensitive.

I hope the new day brings a new mood for him.

LemonJam
19-09-2018, 02:53 AM
Yes same. I didn't like Lewis for the first couple of days but I believe he wears his heart on his sleeve and is particularly sensitive.

I hope the new day brings a new mood for him.

I think every new hour brings a new mood for him :laugh:

I felt that he was draining the show quite a bit last night. He's one of the more complex people in there and he's jumped a lot in my rankings so far but I'm not sure if the viewing public are gonna love him or grow tired of it

Garfie
19-09-2018, 03:16 AM
I think every new hour brings a new mood for him :laugh:

I felt that he was draining the show quite a bit last night. He's one of the more complex people in there and he's jumped a lot in my rankings so far but I'm not sure if the viewing public are gonna love him or grow tired of it

Yes, you are right- he is definitely one of the more complex housemates, but I think that's what makes him interesting. I get the impression that a whole story about him is going to gradually unfold, which will explain his behaviour. There's definitely some deeper issues going on for him that I think are somehow being triggered by Anamelia's character. I want to find out more.

I think if his story does unfold the public will empathise with him and come to love him, but if he carries on this way without revealing what's truly behind it, people will tire of him.

crashandburn
19-09-2018, 03:25 AM
Yeah I agree. Hopefully he also gets the chance to show a more fun side!

Garfie
19-09-2018, 03:34 AM
Yeah I agree. Hopefully he also gets the chance to show a more fun side!

I'm really enjoying reading your interesting and insightful posts this evening.

Ammi
19-09-2018, 04:59 AM
...he seems to absorb ‘bad energy’ as he says...but he doesn’t seem to see the bad energy that he himself is creating...in a way I think he and Ana are quite alike in some ways...they both wear their thoughts and hearts on their sleeves...Ana just comes right out and says things though...like she felt he had behaved in a bullying way...?...I do agree with Cameron that, that was thrown out there too easily and she’s really hurt Lewis ...I mean how could it not hurt him because he’s not a bully at all...or doesn’t feel like one...and he just can’t get beyond that point with her...even though the other housemates have reassured him and BB have reassured him in the diary room as well...he’s just not being reassured, he’s not allowing himself to be reassured ...even though he knows he’s not a bully...and that’s what’s causing the bad energy atm...he’s draining the house in the way he feels that Ana is...ironic...sometimes similarities gel but in their case, they’re just not at all...because he’s not seeing anything positive in Ana anymore ...everything she does, everything she says etc...he sees as a negative and sees as aimed at him in some way...he has no perspective at all left where Ana is concerned and he’s now hugely contributing to any drain on the house I feel...he just needs to give himself a shake really ...her thoughts and words do not revolve around him at all...

JerseyWins
19-09-2018, 05:08 AM
This is the part of Lewis F I don't really like -and I even find Anamelia annoying too- but he drags on about her and doesn't let things go. Overall I'm interested to see more of him though, at the least.

Let's just all adore sweet Kay who manages to get stuck in the middle of each of their pettiness :love:

Ammi
19-09-2018, 05:25 AM
This is the part of Lewis F I don't really like -and I even find Anamelia annoying too- but he drags on about her and doesn't let things go. Overall I'm interested to see more of him though, at the least.

Let's just all adore sweet Kay who manages to get stuck in the middle of each of their pettiness :love:

..I don’t dislike him for it...I think he’s quite a deep person and as he says, an over thinker..?...it’s part of him in the same way that other character traits are part of Ana...but he’s just not seeing his own contribution to the ‘bad energy’...Ana has moments of lightness and just enjoying herself etc...and the other housemates accept that...(...even though they’ll probably nominate her for her more outspoken times etc..)..but he just can’t seem to accept anything about her because of what she said...and she won’t take it back I don’t think because she didn’t say he was a bully, just that she felt that specific thing felt like bullying...she shouldn’t have said that though, it was a grim thing to say...but he does need to get over it for the house dynamics and for the sake of the other housemates...neither him or Ana seem to see beyond themselves and me, me, me, me, me...

Cherie
19-09-2018, 05:37 AM
This is the part of Lewis F I don't really like -and I even find Anamelia annoying too- but he drags on about her and doesn't let things go. Overall I'm interested to see more of him though, at the least.

Let's just all adore sweet Kay who manages to get stuck in the middle of each of their pettiness :love:

Kay seems just naturally lovely

Ammi
19-09-2018, 05:40 AM
Kay seems just naturally lovely

...she’s like a female version of Lostie...I look at Kay and all I see is Lostie, so I was already lost in love with her..:lovedup:..

bots
19-09-2018, 05:47 AM
To be fair to him, she has singled him out a couple of times with her irrational rants, so it has got to him. Where the other housemates are largely not letting her get to them, once you get to that position its very difficult to shake it off, particularly in that confined environment. A good nights sleep would most certainly help him .... if he can get it :laugh:

On a rather amusing side note. Anamelia is totally faking it up for the cameras which I absolutely detest. Something that struck me last night was that if she just stopped all that crap, she would actually be really nice, so we can but hope, but I wont hold my breath

Ammi
19-09-2018, 05:50 AM
To be fair to him, she has singled him out a couple of times with her irrational rants, so it has got to him. Where the other housemates are largely not letting her get to them, once you get to that position its very difficult to shake it off, particularly in that confined environment. A good nights sleep would most certainly help him .... if he can get it :laugh:

On a rather amusing side note. Anamelia is totally faking it up for the cameras which I absolutely detest. Something that struck me last night was that if she just stopped all that crap, she would actually be really nice, so we can but hope, but I wont hold my breath

..yeah I do agree it would be difficult to shake off in that environment when you can’t distance yourself from someone, you know...remove yourself from that ‘bad energy’ as he sees her...but he has to realise how he’s contributing as well because of that...how his energy is becoming equally as negative as he feels hers is...he’s completely losing his perspective with her and any perspective of the other housemates, is the thing...

Crimson Dynamo
19-09-2018, 11:04 AM
I think he is my fave

:amazed:

Niamh.
19-09-2018, 11:07 AM
He just needs a good nights sleep is all

Vanessa
19-09-2018, 11:13 AM
Send him my way. I'll cheer him up. A good cuddle and some nice pasta should do the trick :pipe:

Vanessa
19-09-2018, 11:13 AM
I think he is my fave

:amazed:

Mine too. I think he's interesting.

bots
19-09-2018, 11:15 AM
Mine too. I think he's interesting.

"interesting" :laugh:

Vanessa
19-09-2018, 11:17 AM
"interesting" :laugh:

Did i spell it wrong? Lol sorry :laugh: