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GoldHeart
19-09-2018, 12:13 AM
Why is it ok even as a joke for him to say those things about woman's private bits ??!! that was a bit extreme the way he described it ! . He basically said a woman looks like she's been battered down there WT actual hell :shocked: :facepalm: . I know they were all talking about sexual stuff but that was weird what he said.
pontyboi
19-09-2018, 12:16 AM
Oh ffs why are people on this forum so easily offended?
Women say penis's look like aliens all the time lol.
Can we just stop with the pc **** now?
Imagine BB5 or BB6 aired now they would be pulled off the air due to "fans" continually complaining on whats correct to say.
GoldHeart
19-09-2018, 12:23 AM
Oh ffs why are people on this forum so easily offended?
Women say penis's look like aliens all the time lol.
Can we just stop with the pc **** now?
Imagine BB5 or BB6 aired now they would be pulled off the air due to "fans" continually complaining on whats correct to say.
I only brought it up because his conversation was probably the worst graphically yet Isaac & Lewis G get called sleazebags for talking about sex in the garden . It's not fair is it .
Oh get a grip.
The only thing I found bizarre is that he's an advocate of embracing your feminine side and yet has a morbid fear of the female anatomy.
armand.kay
19-09-2018, 12:25 AM
were any actual women offended?
pontyboi
19-09-2018, 12:26 AM
I only brought it up because his conversation was probably the worst graphically yet Isaac & Lewis G get called sleazebags for talking about sex in the garden . It's not fair is it .
Yet you didn't even mention that in the original post?
You weren't offended you are just being offended because you think it may offend others yet none of the females in the room were offended.
Its a real issue with BB viewers.
Mystic Mock
19-09-2018, 12:27 AM
Tbf he is gay so he isn't exactly gonna love women's private parts is he!?:joker:
GoldHeart
19-09-2018, 12:29 AM
Yet you didn't even mention that in the original post?
You weren't offended you are just being offended because you think it may offend others yet none of the females in the room were offended.
Its a real issue with BB viewers.
Actually i did mention Isaac & Lewis G in the thread Elliot made about them . I said there's been all sorts of sexual talk in previous BB's
pontyboi
19-09-2018, 12:30 AM
Actually i did mention Isaac & Lewis G in the thread Elliot made about them . I said there's been all sorts of sexual talk in previous BB's
No offense intended but I didn't see that post so...
GoldHeart
19-09-2018, 12:31 AM
Oh get a grip.
The only thing I found bizarre is that he's an advocate of embracing your feminine side and yet has a morbid fear of the female anatomy.
Well i find it bizarre how certain people get a pass and others don't :whistle: .
Most of the housemates talked about sex in tonight's HL show so surely they're all horny ? and have sex on their mind .
GoldHeart
19-09-2018, 12:33 AM
No offense intended but I didn't see that post so...
I just think if one of the other guys described a woman's private bits like that then he'd be called all the names under the sun and probably sexist , just putting it out there :idc: .
crashandburn
19-09-2018, 12:33 AM
yet none of the females in the room were offended.
I think Anamelia was seriously toying with the idea of being offended and making an issue out of it. But she was too much enjoying the fact everyone was having fun with her while Lewis F was sitting alone, so she didn't want to give that up. She was reveling in it.
But seriously, she was very close to starting a fight over it.
She was itching for a fight all day... the things she was saying in the garden in the afternoon were so worrying.
pontyboi
19-09-2018, 12:34 AM
I just think if one of the other guys described a woman's private bits like that then he'd be called all the names under the sun and probably sexist , just putting it out there :idc: .
Its a different situation though seeing as Tomasz has never experienced a vagina because he is a massive homosexual :laugh:
Why over think it? It didn't offend you so stop acting offended on the behalf of women everywhere.
GoldHeart
19-09-2018, 12:34 AM
I think Anamelia was seriously toying with the idea of being offended and making an issue out of it. But she was too much enjoying the fact everyone was having fun with her while Lewis F was sitting alone, so she didn't want to give that up. She was reveling in it.
But seriously, she was very close to starting a fight over it, just watch her reaction again.
If Lewis F said that to her MY GOD ! all hell would of broke loose !!!
pontyboi
19-09-2018, 12:35 AM
If Lewis F said that to her MY GOD ! all hell would of broke loose !!!
Its different because Lewis F is sexually attracted to people with vaginas.
GoldHeart
19-09-2018, 12:37 AM
Its a different situation though seeing as Tomasz has never experienced a vagina because he is a massive homosexual :laugh:
Why over think it? It didn't offend you so stop acting offended on the behalf of women everywhere.
Well i'm a woman and i found it a weird thing for him to say especially if he's never experienced it . I don't care about people saying private bits are ugly as all kinds of people say that , even Kenaley made that comment about men .
But it was as if Tomasz wanted a reaction so took it further , that's my thought but obviously he like's being melodramatic :rolleyes: .
GoldHeart
19-09-2018, 12:38 AM
Its different because Lewis F is sexually attracted to people with vaginas.
And Kenaley is sexually attracted to men and still said their bits can look ugly :shrug:
crashandburn
19-09-2018, 12:41 AM
If Lewis F said that to her MY GOD ! all hell would of broke loose !!!
Agreed.
jamiewordsley
19-09-2018, 12:43 AM
As a gay guy a woman virgina makes me feel sick to even think about I full understand what he means
GoldHeart
19-09-2018, 12:49 AM
As a gay guy a woman virgina makes me feel sick to even think about I full understand what he means
I understand all that , you're missing my point :facepalm:.
It felt like he had to go extra with it for a reaction , as someone else mentioned Ana near enough got offended but backtracked as she sees Tomasz as harmless .
pontyboi
19-09-2018, 12:52 AM
I think Anamelia was seriously toying with the idea of being offended and making an issue out of it. But she was too much enjoying the fact everyone was having fun with her while Lewis F was sitting alone, so she didn't want to give that up. She was reveling in it.
But seriously, she was very close to starting a fight over it.
She was itching for a fight all day... the things she was saying in the garden in the afternoon were so worrying.
I get that vibe from her to she may be the Roxanne of this series which is why I find posts like this worrying as its the same type of behaviour she exhibits.
pontyboi
19-09-2018, 12:55 AM
Well i'm a woman and i found it a weird thing for him to say especially if he's never experienced it . I don't care about people saying private bits are ugly as all kinds of people say that , even Kenaley made that comment about men .
But it was as if Tomasz wanted a reaction so took it further , that's my thought but obviously he like's being melodramatic :rolleyes: .
Ok so your real reason for making this thread is your dislike for Tomasz seeing as you were fine with Kenaley acting the same way.
Proves my point.
GoldHeart
19-09-2018, 12:57 AM
Ok so your real reason for making this thread is your dislike for Tomasz seeing as you were fine with Kenaley acting the same way.
Proves my point.
NO Ponty you're not listening to what i'm saying :facepalm: .
Tomasz words were more extreme than just simply saying "i find them ugly" that's my point . I don't care but it felt he went further with it for a reaction that's what i'm saying .
This thread is being misunderstood anyway .
pontyboi
19-09-2018, 01:00 AM
NO Ponty you're not listening to what i'm saying :facepalm: .
Tomasz words were more extreme than just simply saying "i find them ugly" that's my point . I don't care but it felt he went further with it for a reaction that's what i'm saying .
This thread is being misunderstood anyway .
OK so were you seriously offended by it?
GoldHeart
19-09-2018, 01:02 AM
OK so were you seriously offended by it?
I think it was a bit extreme the way he described it , like i said it felt like he just was being OTT for a reaction can't you see my point?? .
pontyboi
19-09-2018, 01:07 AM
I think it was a bit extreme the way he described it , like i said it felt like he just was being OTT for a reaction can't you see my point?? .
I don't see your point I think people over reacting to housemates comments over the years and complaining to Ofcom has stifled Big Brother and made it less of a talking point about social situations and BB having to shut them down by ejecting housemates because they need to be politically correct.
They let the Ryan And Roxy situation play out in CBB and it made for brilliant tv and discussion...It was also so relevant to todays #MeToo society which what has made BB as famous as it is
Do you see my point?
GoldHeart
19-09-2018, 01:11 AM
I don't see your point I think people over reacting to housemates comment over the years and complaining to Ofcom has stifled Big Brother and made it less of a talking point about social situations and BB having to shut them down by ejecting housemates because they need to be politically correct.
They let the Ryan And Roxy situation play out in CBB and it made for brilliant tv and discussion...It was also so relevant to todays #MeToo society which what has made BB as famous as it is
Do you see my point?
:joker: i never complained to ofcom i'm not one of those BB viewers . But that's why i made this thread because of the overreaction to Isaac & Lewis G . And i don't understand it when most of the HL show was sexual conversations !!! .
crashandburn
19-09-2018, 01:12 AM
I think it was a bit extreme the way he described it , like i said it felt like he just was being OTT for a reaction can't you see my point?? .
Yeah the reaction being laughter. that's what happens in a group when you're all being silly. Someone says something (e.g. vaginas are ugly) and people laugh, then someone else will take it further and say something more extreme (e.g. they look like a hatchet wound) and get a bigger laugh.
So yes he was being more extreme to get a reaction, I don't understand the problem though?
GoldHeart
19-09-2018, 01:17 AM
Yeah the reaction being laughter. that's what happens in a group when you're all being silly. Someone says something (e.g. vaginas are ugly) and people laugh, then someone else will take it further and say something more extreme (e.g. they look like a hatchet wound) and get a bigger laugh.
So yes he was being more extreme to get a reaction, I don't understand the problem though?
Like i said if one of the other guys said that then a massive argument would of kicked of between Ana and the person :bored: . And as i said most of the housemates were talking about sex and who's the most attractive etc so yeah.
crashandburn
19-09-2018, 01:19 AM
Like i said if one of the other guys said that then a massive argument would of kicked of between Ana and the person :bored: . And as i said most of the housemates were talking about sex and who's the most attractive etc so yeah.
But that's more because Ana looks for any excuse to have an argument rather than because it was actually an offensive thing to say (which it wasn't).
pontyboi
19-09-2018, 01:27 AM
At the end of the day GoldHeart was apparently offended by the comment hence the thread which we "have to respect".
The whole "if a straight housemate said it" to me seems like bs as you openly said in a post that you dislikes Tomasz and it seems like you're using him to create a feminist situation which isn't there...He openly stated he loved women but didn't find them sexually attractive.
I grew up as a teenager in the 90's and early 2000's when we called vaginas gash and bum holes hoop and it was considered funny and had no pc agenda attached to it.
Im so thankful I grew up in an era where people didn't look into non situations.
If you cant see you're being overly pc then this thread is going nowhere.
GoldHeart
19-09-2018, 01:32 AM
At the end of the day GoldHeart was apparently offended by the comment hence the thread which we "have to respect".
The whole "if a straight housemate said it" to me seems like bs as you openly said in a post that you dislikes Tomasz and it seems like you're using him to create a feminist situation which isn't there...He openly stated he loved women but didn't find them sexually attractive.
I grew up as a teenager in the 90's and early 2000's when we called vaginas gash and bum holes hoop and it was considered funny and had no pc agenda attached to it.
Im so thankful I grew up in an era where people didn't look into non situations.
If you cant see you're being overly pc then this thread is going nowhere.
I wasn't offended and i'm not overly PC , I already explained that the whole HL show was sexual yet certain people get a PASS that's all i'm saying. And Tomasz clearly wanted a reaction .
I never said i disliked Tomasz atall :nono: , now you're putting words into my mouth . I think he might get more annoying but from the beginning i actually found him funny when he rolled his eyes at Lewis G and when he hid in the killer coin task .
pontyboi
19-09-2018, 01:48 AM
I wasn't offended and i'm not overly PC , I already explained that the whole HL show was sexual yet certain people get a PASS that's all i'm saying. And Tomasz clearly wanted a reaction .
I never said i disliked Tomasz atall :nono: , now you're putting words into my mouth . I think he might get more annoying but from the beginning i actually found him funny when he rolled his eyes at Lewis G and when he hid in the killer coin task .
We aren't gonna agree on this situation lets be honest lol that's what makes this forum better than Digital Spy ;)
Lets focus on the real issue...Why the **** are we awake at 2:48am?
crashandburn
19-09-2018, 01:53 AM
What I don't get then is why you asked "why is it ok to say that even as a joke?"
What I want to know is why is it not ok to say it as a joke? lol.
I get that you're now saying you weren't offended etc etc... but that's not what your OP sounds like. Not trying to embarrass you or prove you wrong or anything I just don't understand what this is about haha.
GoldHeart
19-09-2018, 01:56 AM
We aren't gonna agree on this situation lets be honest lol that's what makes this forum better than Digital Spy ;)
Lets focus on the real issue...Why the **** are we awake at 2:48am?
I know D: :joker:
Garfie
19-09-2018, 03:32 AM
I found his comments funny. Sorry if that offends anyone! And I didn't think he was over-exaggerating but really did see women's bits in that way, and I guess that's what made it amusing to me.
I thought it was harmless as he was just talking in general about a part of the human anatomy rather than directing it at someone in particular. And everyone else just laughed and continued along the theme, so it didn't seem to cause offence.
GoldHeart
19-09-2018, 03:40 AM
I found his comments funny. Sorry if that offends anyone! And I didn't think he was over-exaggerating but really did see women's bits in that way, and I guess that's what made it amusing to me.
I thought it was harmless as he was just talking in general about a part of the human anatomy rather than directing it at someone in particular. And everyone else just laughed and continued along the theme, so it didn't seem to cause offence.
It's the hatchet comment that i thought was an exaggeration that's all , we all know he doesn't like it but was still over the top .
JerseyWins
19-09-2018, 03:41 AM
Honestly this was hilarious af :joker:
were any actual women offended?
...nope, I smiled..:laugh:...whether male or female all of those bits of us are really odd when you think about it...although they’re not odd at all because they all fit together as well...but because he doesn’t find the female bits attractive...he’s able to be more analytical about it...I mean just saying what it all looks like to him...well etc, etc...I can’t believe I’m typing any of this...but no, what he said felt logical to him...
Cherie
19-09-2018, 05:25 AM
Oh get a grip.
The only thing I found bizarre is that he's an advocate of embracing your feminine side and yet has a morbid fear of the female anatomy.
He is never going to have to be bothered by a vagina so where is the issue, more cliched nonsense from him
GoldHeart
19-09-2018, 05:44 AM
He is never going to have to be bothered by a vagina so where is the issue, more cliched nonsense from him
thank you
:clap1:
every time they start talking about sex I just zone out ...... i find that works rather well
Underscore
19-09-2018, 06:03 AM
If a lesbian said something similar about a dick I wouldn’t be bothered at all
Crimson Dynamo
19-09-2018, 07:12 AM
id imagine its been a while since he was able to see his own "private part" so..
Mokka
19-09-2018, 07:19 AM
I'm gonna get Scott banned the next time he says this about women's parts in the chat thread... since I'm meant to be uber offended that a gay man doesn't like lady bits... because I'm a lady.
Thank you for telling me to be offended :smug:
Its an old and outdated comparison...a steak hanging over a washing line is the way forward.
user104658
19-09-2018, 07:41 AM
I don't think it's a particularly uncommon thought for gay men tbh. One of my gay friends practically has a phobia :umm2:.
I imagine it's due to simply not having much / any experience of actual vaginas, and having distorted / confused ideas of what they're actually all about :joker:.
Elliot
19-09-2018, 08:19 AM
I think Anamelia was seriously toying with the idea of being offended and making an issue out of it. But she was too much enjoying the fact everyone was having fun with her while Lewis F was sitting alone, so she didn't want to give that up. She was reveling in it.
But seriously, she was very close to starting a fight over it.
She was itching for a fight all day... the things she was saying in the garden in the afternoon were so worrying.
Yeah anamelia wasn’t exactly the arbiter of public opinion she’d start s fight with herself.... and she has
Also Kenaley said she doesn’t like the look of penis so like,,, this thread seems pointless
Cherie
19-09-2018, 08:42 AM
id imagine its been a while since he was able to see his own "private part" so..
:fan: I'm finding his fan very useful it has to be said
Cherie
19-09-2018, 08:43 AM
Yeah anamelia wasn’t exactly the arbiter of public opinion she’d start s fight with herself.... and she has
Also Kenaley said she doesn’t like the look of penis so like,,, this thread seems pointless
The difference being they both will have have been in contact with one :smug:
it's a pretty strange aversion, it has to be said, given thats where he came from. If I was to be a psychologist for a moment, i would say he probably has deeper rooted issues with his mother and that is how it manifests itself
Patricia4
19-09-2018, 12:23 PM
i don't find his comments funny he is vile.
Cherie
19-09-2018, 12:25 PM
it's a pretty strange aversion, it has to be said, given thats where he came from. If I was to be a psychologist for a moment, i would say he probably has deeper rooted issues with his mother and that is how it manifests itself
:fan:
Cherie
19-09-2018, 12:25 PM
i don't find his comments funny he is vile.
I don't find anything about him funny
Vicky.
19-09-2018, 12:26 PM
Meh, maybe its where I am from/the people I know, but I hear **** like that often, always from men. Axe wound, is whats usually used.
However, I do actually find penises ugly, so I cannot moan about someone saying that about vaginas :laugh:
Twosugars
19-09-2018, 12:54 PM
^ Lol, Vicky, penises are very nice :hmph:
Tbh, I too heard that stuff about vaginas looking like a wound etc. The slang term gash comes to mind, men use it, straight men use it. So I wouldn't make too much of the fact that Tomasz is gay and I deffo wouldn't look for mother issues.
The reasons are complex I'd imagine, like men's views of women are complex.
Agree tho that it is an unpleasant and brutal comparison. And doesn't make much sense as other body orifices could be described in similar way, mouth for example. Anus looks like a hole in skin made by forcing a stick through it until it punctures it producing radiating skin wrinkles in the process.
Vaginas dont' look bad, they look cute and mysterious :)
GoldHeart
19-09-2018, 01:41 PM
it's a pretty strange aversion, it has to be said, given thats where he came from. If I was to be a psychologist for a moment, i would say he probably has deeper rooted issues with his mother and that is how it manifests itself
Unless he's a platinum gay ? aka born c section without touching that area .
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