Lewis F seems to be type of guy to lose it with a woman in a argument

[jamiewordsley]

Tonight's episode when Anamélia was in the kitchen not even speaking to him he was full on shaking with anger it made me uncomfortable I fully believe if she pushed hes buttons anymore he could physically lose it with her.

[armand.kay]

he seems a tad unhinged

[Mystic Mock]

I think that Lewis F overreacted last night and I think that he has an ego (like most BB Housemates do) but I do not think that he would physically hurt her or anyone in that house, I just think that he is getting carried away with how much that he dislikes her.

[GoldHeart]

Tonight's episode when Anamélia was in the kitchen not even speaking to him he was full on shaking with anger it made me uncomfortable I fully believe if she pushed hes buttons anymore he could physically lose it with her.

I think he's just emotionally drained and he's letting Ana get to him too much . It's a bit OTT to think he'd attack someone , if anything John James BB11 had those vibes :whistle: . I think Lewis F is just easily wound up and he's fed up of her .

[crashandburn]

Why does the thread title have to be "with a woman".

Surely any of us can lose it with anyone if we are pushed far enough?

I don't believe at all that he would be violent with Ana or anyone else over a situation like the current one. He was shaken up because he is sensitive to vibes and she had literally been itching for a fight all day? Did you HEAR the way she was carrying on in the garden?

I know how it feels because I grew up in a house with a volatile character and trust me you learn very quickly how to pick up on vibes and sense when something is about to kick off.

I don't believe he was shaking with anger, he was just a nervous wreck by that point. He needs to find a way to stop letting her bug him but as I said from my own experience I know how hard this is when you're sensitive to vibes and you have someone literally itching to pick a fight with you.

[jamiewordsley]

Why does the thread title have to be "with a woman".

Surely any of us can lose it with anyone if we are pushed far enough?

I don't believe at all that he would be violent with Ana or anyone else. He was shaken up because he is sensitive to vibes and she had literally been itching for a fight all day? Did you HEAR the way she was carrying on in the garden?

I know how it feels because I grew up in a house with a volatile character and trust me you learn very quickly how to pick up on vibes and sense when something is about to kick off.

I don't believe he was shaking with anger, he was just a nervous wreck by that point. He needs to find a way to stop letting her bug him but as I said from my own experience I know how hard this is when you're sensitive to vibes and you have someone literally itching to pick a fight with you.
Im talking about In a relationship also thats why I said woman. Well then he needs to sort out hes own issues cause you went in a house knowing fully well you gonna meet people all different and if he cant handle that get out of the kitchen hunny :joker: If he can be so easily wound up and let someone get to him so much I fear for anyone who he dates,

[jamiewordsley]

I think that Lewis F overreacted last night and I think that he has an ego (like most BB Housemates do) but I do not think that he would physically hurt her or anyone in that house, I just think that he is getting carried away with how much that he dislikes her.
Fair enough but its gonna get him in to trouble hes gonna be seen in a negative way.

[GoldHeart]

Fair enough but its gonna get him in to trouble hes gonna be seen in a negative way.

He just needs to calm down , he's getting paranoid & miserable aswell . I don't get any violent vibes from him . Even if he has issues i doubt it's anywhere as bad as that .

[jamiewordsley]

Why does the thread title have to be "with a woman".

Surely any of us can lose it with anyone if we are pushed far enough?

I don't believe at all that he would be violent with Ana or anyone else over a situation like the current one. He was shaken up because he is sensitive to vibes and she had literally been itching for a fight all day? Did you HEAR the way she was carrying on in the garden?

I know how it feels because I grew up in a house with a volatile character and trust me you learn very quickly how to pick up on vibes and sense when something is about to kick off.

I don't believe he was shaking with anger, he was just a nervous wreck by that point. He needs to find a way to stop letting her bug him but as I said from my own experience I know how hard this is when you're sensitive to vibes and you have someone literally itching to pick a fight with you.
And also If anyone should be getting angry and annoyed with someone then it should be Anamelia with Lewis G as all he does is Goad her singing her name and **** like he wants her reaction. its disgusting

[Mystic Mock]

Fair enough but its gonna get him in to trouble hes gonna be seen in a negative way.

Oh I agree with you on that.

[GoldHeart]

And also If anyone should be getting angry and annoyed with someone then it should be Anamelia with Lewis G as all he does is Goad her singing her name and **** like he wants her reaction. its disgusting

:joker: Are you being serious , Ana was the one being loud from the beginning singing her own name constantly . She's narcissistic and is in love with herself . But when Lewis G does it then she doesn't like it :crazy: . She wants the attention but when it suits her ! .

[armand.kay]

Anamelia wasn't even doing anything tonight, the girl was just having a laugh with everyone else and lewis was acting like a ****ing freak. he was so mad for literally no reason and even randomly had a go at Kay

[crashandburn]

And also If anyone should be getting angry and annoyed with someone then it should be Anamelia with Lewis G as all he does is Goad her singing her name and **** like he wants her reaction. its disgusting

Like Goldheart said a couple of posts up.

Literally minutes earlier, some of the girls were singing her name in the garden and she was LOVING it (primarily because she knew it was riling Lewis F).

then Lewis G does it and suddenly it's not acceptable lol.

[crashandburn]

Anamelia wasn't even doing anything tonight, the girl was just having a laugh with everyone else and lewis was acting like a ****ing freak. he was so mad for literally no reason and even randomly had a go at Kay

Oh she was doing stuff. She was itching for a fight all day, randomly shouting things in his direction in the garden, even arguing with herself, just generally throwing bad vibes his way. She then reveled in the fact that he didn't feel comfortable being in the same room as her, after she'd made it so uncomfortable for him.

She's very subtle and sly, so I'm not surprised a lot of people are missing it. But as someone who's been in this situation, trust me she IS doing stuff.

[armand.kay]

Oh she was doing stuff. She was itching for a fight all day, randomly shouting things in his direction in the garden, even arguing with herself, just generally throwing bad vibes his way. She then reveled in the fact that he didn't feel comfortable being in the same room as her, after she'd made it so uncomfortable for him.

She's very subtle and sly, so I'm not surprised a lot of people are missing it. But as someone who's been in this situation, trust me she IS doing stuff.

She was just having her monologue moment and it was messy af but she wasn't addressing ANYONE and what she was saying was so vague that only someone who wanted to take offence wold. Even lewis himself was like 'is she arguing with herself?' so there was no way he thought any of that was directed at him. In the evening sis was laughing and drinking with the rest and Lewis was in the garden pressed. Even the other housemates were telling him to chill the **** out. I'm sorry I could never be that mad over someone not directly bothering me thats just ****ing crazy to me.

[GoldHeart]

Like Goldheart said a couple of posts up.

Literally minutes earlier, some of the girls were singing her name in the garden and she was LOVING it (primarily because she knew it was riling Lewis F).

then Lewis G does it and suddenly it's not acceptable lol.

:clap1:

[armand.kay]

Lewis even snapped at Kay. WTF did Kay do to him? Was she itching for a fight all day too? in his VT when he was talking about his past I was like 'what no way him??" but tonight the arsonist JUMPED out of him.

[armand.kay]

Like Goldheart said a couple of posts up.

Literally minutes earlier, some of the girls were singing her name in the garden and she was LOVING it (primarily because she knew it was riling Lewis F).

then Lewis G does it and suddenly it's not acceptable lol.

if you're drinking having a good time and people are singing your name you're gonna play up to it not be like 'oh guys actually could you stop you might trigger the convict'...

[jamiewordsley]

Like Goldheart said a couple of posts up.

Literally minutes earlier, some of the girls were singing her name in the garden and she was LOVING it (primarily because she knew it was riling Lewis F).

then Lewis G does it and suddenly it's not acceptable lol.

Oh come on you cant tell me its the same Hes doing it to piss her off they are doing it cause they like her.

[jamiewordsley]

if you're drinking having a good time and people are singing your name you're gonna play up to it not be like 'oh guys actually could you stop you might trigger the convict'...

EXACTLY but when Lewis G does it its not from a good place hes doing it to get to her and goad her end off

[armand.kay]

Also I found it a bit self obsessed that he actually convinced himself that everyone else had come together and agreed to sing his name just to piss him off. YIKES, are you really telling me this is normal???

[armand.kay]

EXACTLY but when Lewis G does it its not from a good place hes doing it to get to her and goad her end off

He doesn't care when Lewis G does it because he knows Lewis G also has it out for her. He seems like a controlling idiot who cant stand it that everyone in the house doesn't outright hate her and seems to want her to suffer because she dared to not fancy him.

[jamiewordsley]

He doesn't care when Lewis G does it because he knows Lewis G also has it out for her. He seems like a controlling idiot who cant stand it that everyone in the house doesn't outright hate her and seems to want her to suffer because she dared to not fancy him.

SO SO true. He hates the fact noone is on hes side, They all no she can be annoying AF but noone is gonna single her out like he wants to happen he wants to be the victim

[crashandburn]

was like 'is she arguing with herself?' so there was no way he thought any of that was directed at him

You obviously need to look up the words "subtle" and "sly" which is what I was trying to explain in the post this was in reply to :shrug: they mean pretty much the opposite of "direct".

Oh she knew what she was doing.

[armand.kay]

You obviously need to look up the words "subtle" and "sly" which is what I was trying to explain in the post this was in reply to :shrug: they mean pretty much the opposite of "direct".

Oh she knew what she was doing.

I know what they mean if not a ****ing moron. I just don't agree with you. I don't think Anamelia was directing her rant at anybody subtly or not and I also don't believe that Lewis thought they were being directed at him in anyway. I think is just a control freak who just lost in the evening when he realised everyone wasn't anti Ana like he has thought they were during the day.

[crashandburn]

Fair enough.

As someone who had to endure a lot of years being forced to live with someone exactly like Anamelia I know exactly what she was doing and I'm definitely more sensitive or "aware" of people doing this kind of subtle manipulation than the average person so I don't blame you at all for not being able to see it - you're definitely not the only one! :)

Lewis literally spent the entire day in anticipation and anxiety of a fight kicking off because of the kind of tension she was subtly creating. I don't blame him at all for being a nervous wreck by the end of the night. I knew exactly how he felt when she came into the kitchen at the end. No wonder he was shaking - it wasn't anger.

[Garfie]

Fair enough.

As someone who had to endure a lot of years being forced to live with someone exactly like Anamelia I know exactly what she was doing and I'm definitely more sensitive or "aware" of people doing this kind of subtle manipulation than the average person so I don't blame you at all for not being able to see it - you're definitely not the only one! :)

Lewis literally spent the entire day in anticipation and anxiety of a fight kicking off because of the kind of tension she was subtly creating. I don't blame him at all for being a nervous wreck by the end of the night. I knew exactly how he felt when she came into the kitchen at the end. No wonder he was shaking - it wasn't anger.

Excellent posts, crashandburn. :clap1:

I totally agree with you that Lewis F is ultra-sensitive to bad vibes and energy, probably due to previous experiences that have yet to be revealed. I agree, too, that it was anxiety about a situation developing which made him shake and be abrupt with others, rather than anger. It was as if he was on high alert, and finding it difficult to cope. I'd even say that his anxiety even tipped him over into paranoia about Anamelia. I believe you are spot on when you suggest he has had experience of living with someone who was fiery and very unpredictable and was probably always trying to provoke negative and uncomfortable situations.

To me, it was like his anxiety was so severe that he'd gone into fight or flight. However, I disagree with those who feel he would become physical with a woman, as he told Cameron his urge was to leave the house which suggests his reaction is one of flight, not fight. I believe we will see him crumble into a heap, rather than become aggressive, as his anxiety gets the better of him.

I think Lewis is a very complex and interesting character, and I'm glad that he is in the house- he is multi-dimensional, rather than two-dimensional, which I think some of the housemates will turn out to be. I'm looking forward to discovering the reasons behind his behaviour now, as well as some of the criminal behaviour others have mentioned, as his story unfolds. It is the psychological aspect of BB that is most fascinating for me, and which I think makes for good viewing.

I'm also interested to see how the relationship between them develops, and the outcomes of that.

[Elliot]

Fair enough.

As someone who had to endure a lot of years being forced to live with someone exactly like Anamelia I know exactly what she was doing and I'm definitely more sensitive or "aware" of people doing this kind of subtle manipulation than the average person so I don't blame you at all for not being able to see it - you're definitely not the only one! :)

Lewis literally spent the entire day in anticipation and anxiety of a fight kicking off because of the kind of tension she was subtly creating. I don't blame him at all for being a nervous wreck by the end of the night. I knew exactly how he felt when she came into the kitchen at the end. No wonder he was shaking - it wasn't anger.

Great post

All I can say to anamelia is... if you play with fire, you’ll get burnt

[Amy Jade]

Great post

All I can say to anamelia is... if you play with fire, you’ll get burnt

Yeah especially around an arsonist who brags about it like a badge of honour.

[Niamh.]

He seems to be very emotional and takes things to heart, what do you mean by "lose it" though? He doesn't seem to have any anger issues to me so far

[Vanessa]

He's probably fed up with her and i don't blame him. She must be a nightmare to live with.

[user104658]

Nah I agree with the above; I don't think Lewis F has an anger problem or is in any way dangerous, he does seem to have an anxiety problem though. The real risk for him is sadly that he'll get so wound up that it'll affect his own mental health, more than anything else.

Also just to add fuel to the fire; lack of sleep is a major trigger for anxiety problems in people who have suffered from them before, and Tomasz'sesz snoring is causing a lot of them to be sleep deprived.

[Vanessa]

I really hope Amelia goes on Friday. I prefer Thomas to stay. At least he's a nice guy.

[clairefromsomewhereinnort]

Yeah, not sure, he may do, seems to be the kind of person that gets very angry quickly over small issues not that he was wring about sexism way Women talk about men shouldn't be allowed either if men correctly shouldn't be allowed to talk like that, he was right with that but goodness only knows he should've let it drop so seems to be sort of person who would get angrier than he should do over small issues too. Goodness knows how he d behave if faced with a real serious problem ? I've never liked him before he kept having go at Anamelia wouldn't let point drop cos he seems full of himself too and is one of the HM s in there, they are probably all like that cos its very rare people generally anywhere admit when they're wrong, but know already hes one of them in there who wont ever admit when he s wrong.

[TaylorCallum]

Yeah especially around an arsonist who brags about it like a badge of honour.

:skull:.

[DouglasS]

That seems a big conclusion to come through to essentially say he seems like a woman beater. It's quite disgusting to say also imo.

[poppsywoppsy]

I am happy for Anamelia and Lewis G to slog it out together, they are both as bad as each other.

If Lewis F had any sense, when she was targeting him, he should bring in Lewis G to be his guard dog, then she wouldn't get her own way. I'd watch that.

[Vanessa]

That seems a big conclusion to come through to essentially say he seems like a woman beater. It's quite disgusting to say also imo.

He seems like a nice guy, but he's emotional and can be can be volatile. A bit like me :laugh:

[DouglasS]

He seems like a nice guy, but he's emotional and can be can be volatile. A bit like me :laugh:

He'll be a great housemate. I'm not sure whether I like or dislike him yet but I'd like him to stay for awhile :laugh:

I'd prefer a bore to go first in all honesty while I make up my judgements on the rest.

[Vanessa]

He'll be a great housemate. I'm not sure whether I like or dislike him yet but I'd like him to stay for awhile :laugh:

I'd prefer a bore to go first in all honesty while I make up my judgements on the rest.

He's definitely not boring and I'm so happy about that!

[Beso]

He is acting, its so transparent..

Acting to turn hms against her and throwing compliments left right and centre to everyone else...biggest gameplayer in there.

[caprimint]

He hasn't even done anything, he's literally just spoken about how he feels :shrug: He's doing his best to avoid her.

[user104658]

He is acting, its so transparent..

Acting to turn hms against her and throwing compliments left right and centre to everyone else...biggest gameplayer in there.

I doubt it, his hands were visibly shaking with anxiety in the diary room and he had a lump in his throat (struggling not to cry). It takes a good actor to pull something like that off.

[user104658]

He hasn't even done anything, he's literally just spoken about how he feels :shrug: He's doing his best to avoid her.

I do think he's obsessing over it and maybe a little paranoid; some of the things he's saying ARE true, but then other things he's said she's doing to target him I think he's misattributing (and she's just being inconsiderate). He doesn't seem to be able to let it go, I think he probably also suffers from "intrusive thought" (literally being unable to stop thinking in circles about something until it gets blown way out of proportion) as well as general anxiety.

He's quite interesting to watch but I'm not convinced that he's cut out for something like Big Brother... For his own sake, as I said before. I doubt there's any risk of him harming anyone else... just heading off down a bad path himself.

[Vicky.]

I doubt it, his hands were visibly shaking with anxiety in the diary room and he had a lump in his throat (struggling not to cry). It takes a good actor to pull something like that off.



I do think he's obsessing over it and maybe a little paranoid; some of the things he's saying ARE true, but then other things he's said she's doing to target him I think he's misattributing (and she's just being inconsiderate). He doesn't seem to be able to let it go, I think he probably also suffers from "intrusive thought" (literally being unable to stop thinking in circles about something until it gets blown way out of proportion) as well as general anxiety.

He's quite interesting to watch but I'm not convinced that he's cut out for something like Big Brother... For his own sake, as I said before. I doubt there's any risk of him harming anyone else... just heading off down a bad path himself.

Again spot on. TS, have you ever thought of becoming a psychologist?! :laugh:

[caprimint]

I do think he's obsessing over it and maybe a little paranoid; some of the things he's saying ARE true, but then other things he's said she's doing to target him I think he's misattributing (and she's just being inconsiderate). He doesn't seem to be able to let it go, I think he probably also suffers from "intrusive thought" (literally being unable to stop thinking in circles about something until it gets blown way out of proportion) as well as general anxiety.

He's quite interesting to watch but I'm not convinced that he's cut out for something like Big Brother... For his own sake, as I said before. I doubt there's any risk of him harming anyone else... just heading off down a bad path himself.
I agree with your analysis, it's probably just because there's not a lot else for them to think/talk about in the house than each other though so he's gotten caught up in it all so much. And also because of how the main focus is always on her, whereas it'd be different if it was someone like Sian who nobody talks about or chants their name. It's like he can't get away from her I suppose.

[y.winter]

I don't think he's going to get physical.
He just can't hear her talking about herself anymore, it's like a fly circling his ears. Once the notion of it being annoying got into his head, he can't shake it off.

[Vicky.]

Like, I don't overthink things like he says he does, but I try to imagine being confined in whats really a small place, with one of those people who just randomly grate on me badly, and then think that that grating person was basically a foghorn that I could not get away from, so even when they weren't having a dig at me..all I could hear is them. That way I understand his reaction to Anamelia :laugh:

[Lostie!]

I think saying he'd be an abusive boyfriend based on what we've watched is perhaps just a little unnecessary...

[user104658]

Again spot on. TS, have you ever thought of becoming a psychologist?! :laugh:

I am actually planning to finish my social psychology degree next year :joker:. A mere 13 years after I started it. :umm2: