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Vicky.
19-09-2018, 12:57 PM
I have been watching the catchup rather than the main show and am worried that I have missed something?! I don't recall any argument about bullying at all, so had no idea what half of them were on about...all I could get from it was that Anamelia accused Lewis F of bullying Thomasz?
Elliot
19-09-2018, 12:59 PM
Oh they were referring to Lewis f and tomasz in the bedroom
montblanc
19-09-2018, 12:59 PM
she technically didn't outrightly accuse Lewis of bullying Tomasz but she said something along the lines of "The laughing about Tomasz's snoring reminded her of high school bullies" or something like that
Elliot
19-09-2018, 01:02 PM
She kinda did accuse him by likening the situation to ‘huh school bullies’ also lol imagine if someone said that to her omfg she’d scream the place down
montblanc
19-09-2018, 01:02 PM
She kinda did accuse him by likening the situation to ‘huh school bullies’ also lol imagine if someone said that to her omfg she’d scream the place down

:devil:
Vicky.
19-09-2018, 01:03 PM
Ah right, I assumed there had been some huge blowup or something. Complaining about snoring is certainly not bullying, I would be complaining constantly if I wasn't getting sleep...I know its not the snorers fault, but it sould still be ****ing irritating :laugh:
Niamh.
19-09-2018, 01:03 PM
She kinda did accuse him by likening the situation to ‘huh school bullies’ also lol imagine if someone said that to her omfg she’d scream the place down

Yeah she tried to get off on a technicality, she was basically accusing him of bullying
user104658
19-09-2018, 01:33 PM
Ah right, I assumed there had been some huge blowup or something. Complaining about snoring is certainly not bullying, I would be complaining constantly if I wasn't getting sleep...I know its not the snorers fault, but it sould still be ****ing irritating :laugh:

Her issue seemed to be because he tried to wake him to stop the snoring, and was then laughing about it when he wouldn't wake up. She seemed to be making the argument that they were mocking / laughing AT Tomasz (when really they were just laughing about the whole situation).
Vicky.
19-09-2018, 01:39 PM
Her issue seemed to be because he tried to wake him to stop the snoring, and was then laughing about it when he wouldn't wake up. She seemed to be making the argument that they were mocking / laughing AT Tomasz (when really they were just laughing about the whole situation).

OK I don't remember this at all, so I guess I have missed an episode somewhere, or wasn't paying attention when it happened :S

I don't think Thomasz snoring is just snoring actually..sounds to me like he has sleep apnoea..seems to totally stop breathing at times, and he really needs to sort that
Niamh.
19-09-2018, 01:40 PM
OK I don't remember this at all, so I guess I have missed an episode somewhere, or wasn't paying attention when it happened :S

I don't think Thomasz snoring is just snoring actually..sounds to me like he has sleep apnoea..seems to totally stop breathing at times, and he really needs to sort that

It wasn't a major row or anything, you could have just missed it.

I agree with you about Tomasz
user104658
19-09-2018, 01:44 PM
I don't think Thomasz snoring is just snoring actually..sounds to me like he has sleep apnoea..seems to totally stop breathing at times, and he really needs to sort that

Well he seems to know and has mentioned it (he laughed about it and said "don't worry if I stop breathing, it will start again!", possibly on launch night). So I guess it has been / is being investigated or assessed? It's not always immediately dangerous but over the long term it can put strain on the heart :worry:.
MTVN
19-09-2018, 02:14 PM
OK I don't remember this at all, so I guess I have missed an episode somewhere, or wasn't paying attention when it happened :S

I don't think Thomasz snoring is just snoring actually..sounds to me like he has sleep apnoea..seems to totally stop breathing at times, and he really needs to sort that

It was at the very beginning of Monday's ep

Lewis went and tried to move him onto his side and then slapped his ass while a few of the others giggled so I sorta saw Ana's point that it was a bit like mockery and having a laugh at his expense
GoldHeart
19-09-2018, 03:07 PM
It was at the very beginning of Monday's ep

Lewis went and tried to move him onto his side and then slapped his ass while a few of the others giggled so I sorta saw Ana's point that it was a bit like mockery and having a laugh at his expense

He snores like a wild animal! :shocked:, the other housemates can't sleep properly so it's either they cry or laugh about it .
DouglasS
19-09-2018, 03:11 PM
When Tomasz was being woken up by Lewis F and someone else Anamelia said it reminded her of school days and some of the bullies.

She didn't outrightly call him a bully but she implied his behaviour reminded her of what bullies did.

I can see where they are both coming from, I think it's been blown up way too much with the help of Zoe stirring.
MTVN
19-09-2018, 03:29 PM
He snores like a wild animal! :shocked:, the other housemates can't sleep properly so it's either they cry or laugh about it .

No need to slap his ass though
GoldHeart
19-09-2018, 03:47 PM
No need to slap his ass though

He was trying to wake him up , stop making it sound like he was "bullying" him .
ThatsMyUserName
19-09-2018, 04:14 PM
Her issue seemed to be because he tried to wake him to stop the snoring, and was then laughing about it when he wouldn't wake up. She seemed to be making the argument that they were mocking / laughing AT Tomasz (when really they were just laughing about the whole situation).

I also thought it was about the way he tried to wake Tomasz. It wasn't a gentle shove/shake, instead it was a slap. That was what I had the biggest issue about, the slap.
ThatsMyUserName
19-09-2018, 04:15 PM
No need to slap his ass though

Ah good, so it wasn't just me who thought the slap was out of order.