Equality only when it suits.

[Nancy.]

Why is it in 2018 a man get's frowned upon for having a disagreement or argument with a woman?

Feminists want equality, yet after breaking down so many barriers for women we seem to have reached a point now where men cannot raise their voice or argue without being attacked, ridiculed and labelled as a misogynist - but it's fine for women to say and do what they like to men?

We either want equality or we don't, we can’t have it all ways. Being a woman doesn't automatically grant us special privileges.

[Niamh.]

Well, I can't speak for everyone else but my issue with Lewis isn't that he argues with women, it's that he seems to speak down to them. Also, I don't think I've seen anyone on here say he shouldn't argue with women because they're women, they've said that he only seems brave enough to argue with women and he usually bottles it when its a man (unless he's drunk)

[chuff me dizzy]

Well, I can't speak for everyone else but my issue with Lewis isn't that he argues with women, it's that he seems to speak down to them. Also, I don't think I've seen anyone on here say he shouldn't argue with women because they're women, they've said that he only seems brave enough to argue with women and he usually bottles it when its a man (unless he's drunk)

I know I like Lewis, but that aside I cannot see wheres he's disrespected any woman in there,I truly cant .. I think it was Issy who said he shouldn't have had an argument because she was there ? ..It takes 2 to have an argument and Akeem was no angel either .... people just need to get over it and move on, it was a little row, nothing major ffs, its only because this series has been so quiet that peoples even still talking about it .. We've been crying out for something ,anything to happen ,then when it does everyones up in arms like Lewis has killed their bloody cat

[rusticgal]

When did he 'bottle' an arguement with a man..?

[Niamh.]

When did he 'bottle' an arguement with a man..?

Lewis G and Hussain, he bitched about them behind their backs constantly and when they asked him if he had a problem, he said no :shrug:

[Niamh.]

I know I like Lewis, but that aside I cannot see wheres he's disrespected any woman in there,I truly cant .. I think it was Issy who said he shouldn't have had an argument because she was there ? ..It takes 2 to have an argument and Akeem was no angel either .... people just need to get over it and move on, it was a little row, nothing major ffs, its only because this series has been so quiet that peoples even still talking about it .. We've been crying out for something ,anything to happen ,then when it does everyones up in arms like Lewis has killed their bloody cat

OK Issy said that, fair enough I though Nancy was saying Forum members were which I've not seen.

[chuff me dizzy]

When did he 'bottle' an arguement with a man..?

People think because he didn't shout or get nose to nose with Hussain that he bottled it, as Ive said before you can win an argument without shouting

[chuff me dizzy]

OK Issy said that, fair enough I though Nancy was saying Forum members were which I've not seen.

Im sure some snowflakes have also said it on here :joker:

[Niamh.]

People think because he didn't shout or get nose to nose with Hussain that he bottled it, as Ive said before you can win an argument without shouting

There is noticeable differences in how he deals with men and women is the point

[chuff me dizzy]

There is noticeable differences in how he deals with men and women is the point

Without any bias I cannot see that

[Niamh.]

Im sure some snowflakes have also said it on here :joker:

Who though? I've not seen it. I've seen people say, he only argues with women and that he speaks down to them but not that he shouldn't argue with women because they're women

[Niamh.]

Without any bias I cannot see that

Without any bias I can :hee:

[chuff me dizzy]

Who though? I've not seen it. I've seen people say, he only argues with women and that he speaks down to them but not that he shouldn't argue with women because they're women

Im sure a couple of people said it this morning :conf:

[rusticgal]

Lewis G and Hussain, he bitched about them behind their backs constantly and when they asked him if he had a problem, he said no :shrug:

Hussein was lying when he said he didn't hide the pillows etc and Lewis couldn't prove it...so it was never going to happen.
Lewis G just did childish pranks to wind him up....Lewis told him he was a ****ing idiot..you can't reason with morons like that because they will just do it all the more..
The best way to deal with childish behaviour is to ignore them...which he did.

Anymore...?

[poppsywoppsy]

Because Lewis didn't rise to Hussains baiting does not mean he bottled it.

[chuff me dizzy]

Hussein was lying when he said he didn't hide the pillows etc and Lewis couldn't prove it...so it was never going to happen.
Lewis G just did childish pranks to wind him up....Lewis told him he was a ****ing idiot..you can't reason with morons like that because they will just do it all the more..
The best way to deal with childish behaviour is to ignore them...which he did.

Anymore...?

Lewis was the grown up in both these situations

[chuff me dizzy]

Because Lewis didn't rise to Hussains baiting does not mean he bottled it.

Exactly,he was the bigger man

[rusticgal]

Im sure a couple of people said it this morning :conf:


Several have...people implying he should argue differently with a woman??.
He indicated to Isabella to steer clear..then when she persisted he told her it wasn't her business...I mean what's the problem??

[chuff me dizzy]

Several have...people implying he should argue differently with a woman??.
He indicated to Isabella to steer clear..then when she persisted he told her it wasn't her business...I mean what's the problem??

Thank you, I knew I had seen it

[Niamh.]

Im sure a couple of people said it this morning :conf:
Show me a quote then
Hussein was lying when he said he didn't hide the pillows etc and Lewis couldn't prove it...so it was never going to happen.
Lewis G just did childish pranks to wind him up....Lewis told him he was a ****ing idiot..you can't reason with morons like that because they will just do it all the more..
The best way to deal with childish behaviour is to ignore them...which he did.

Anymore...?

Yes very mature of him ......when it's a man

[Niamh.]

Several have...people implying he should argue differently with a woman??.
He indicated to Isabella to steer clear..then when she persisted he told her it wasn't her business...I mean what's the problem??

No, several here have said that he does argue differently with women, big difference

[Elliot]

I think yesterday was the first time he exchanged blows with a Male Hm, ykno while deeply intoxicated lol

[Cherie]

Well, I can't speak for everyone else but my issue with Lewis isn't that he argues with women, it's that he seems to speak down to them. Also, I don't think I've seen anyone on here say he shouldn't argue with women because they're women, they've said that he only seems brave enough to argue with women and he usually bottles it when its a man (unless he's drunk)

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[Vicky.]

Well, I can't speak for everyone else but my issue with Lewis isn't that he argues with women, it's that he seems to speak down to them. Also, I don't think I've seen anyone on here say he shouldn't argue with women because they're women, they've said that he only seems brave enough to argue with women and he usually bottles it when its a man (unless he's drunk)

This. Put way better than I could :laugh:

[Amy Jade]

Niamh :clap1:

[GoldHeart]

Well, I can't speak for everyone else but my issue with Lewis isn't that he argues with women, it's that he seems to speak down to them. Also, I don't think I've seen anyone on here say he shouldn't argue with women because they're women, they've said that he only seems brave enough to argue with women and he usually bottles it when its a man (unless he's drunk)

Completely agree :clap1:

He kept ranting about Hussain behind his back mostly, when Hussain confronted him he dismissed by saying "no there's no problem" .

Of course people will justify Lewis' actions by saying he ignores Hussain because he thinks it's best to ignore "childish behavior" :sleep: .

[Epic.]

When did he 'bottle' an arguement with a man..?

Lewis G, Hussain, Tomasz, Akeem in the past, Isaac, Cian at first, pretty much every male except Cameron :laugh:

[Beau]

I wonder if he avoids confrontation due to being in prison?! Whereas he is more comfortable to address issues with women.

[GoldHeart]

I wonder if he avoids confrontation due to being in prison?! Whereas he is more comfortable to address issues with women.

Lewis behaves like a bipolar boxer who's had too many hits to his head :facepalm:

[Vicky.]

I wonder if he avoids confrontation due to being in prison?! Whereas he is more comfortable to address issues with women.

I thought it was Lewis G that had been to prison, not Lewis F? I remember a bit of confusion over it and a link that seemed to say Lewis F...but forum members said that it was Lewis G that said he had been to prison. All second hand, and possibly mis-remembered though :laugh:

[Nancy.]

OK Issy said that, fair enough I though Nancy was saying Forum members were which I've not seen.

I should've made myself more clear but yes, that is exactly what I was referring to.

[Cherie]

Also its the fact that he dodged confronting LG or indeed Hussein but was happy to pin Anamelia and Kay down to have a go them

[Niamh.]

I should've made myself more clear but yes, that is exactly what I was referring to.[emoji106]