My mum hates my boyfriend

[Amy Jade]

So we have only been official for about 2 weeks and he only met my family last week at a friends birthday and my mum hates him she thinks he is cocky and she keeps saying don't bring him in when he drops me off at home.

I heard her on the phone to her friend aswell slagging him off and it's her house I respect her not wanting him in but to be so against him after meeting him only once has annoyed me. Should I talk to her or am I just baiting an argument?

[Zizu]

So we have only been official for about 2 weeks and he only met my family last week at a friends birthday and my mum hates him she thinks he is cocky and she keeps saying don't bring him in when he drops me off at home.



I heard her on the phone to her friend aswell slagging him off and it's her house I respect her not wanting him in but to be so against him after meeting him only once has annoyed me. Should I talk to her or am I just baiting an argument?



Maybe tell your boyfriend to try and win her over ??

Otherwise the next 60 years could be awkward ..


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[Wizard.]

Why did you get a cocky boyfriend then

[Denver]

Who takes a boyfriend to meet the family after 2 weeks?

[Crimson Dynamo]

Your mum is probably a betterr judge of character

[RileyH]

Talk to her you might not get another boyfriend

[michael21]

Well if your happy your mum should be happy for you

My advice is wait 2 months if your still with him and you mum still dont like him then have a talk with your mum

[Amy Jade]

Who takes a boyfriend to meet the family after 2 weeks?

Known him ages, just been properly together a few weeks. Not like I've moved him in but not going to hide him either :laugh:

[michael21]

Known him ages, just been properly together a few weeks. Not like I've moved him in but not going to hide him either :laugh:

What the age gab and what dose he do (job wise)

Just trying to think why your mum don't like him

[Marsh.]

Is he cocky?

I'd say it is a little judgemental after only one meeting, but he must have made quite an impression. :laugh:

I'd say it's your mum and probably nobody will be good enough for her daughter, but if this relationship lasts the course there will come a time she'll give him more of a chance and get to know him better. Now, whether that will lead to better or worse results depends on your boyfriend. :laugh:

[Denver]

What the age gab and what dose he do (job wise)

Just trying to think why your mum don't like him

Not Amy taking Nick Knowles home

[Marsh.]

What the age gab and what dose he do (job wise)

Just trying to think why your mum don't like him

She already said. Her mum thinks he's cocky.

[Marsh.]

Who takes a boyfriend to meet the family after 2 weeks?

Well, it's not as if she's had an official "meet the parents".

I imagine they're going to meet him at some point. Just so happened to be at a birthday party everybody was attending.

Did you want her to keep them in separate rooms like Rachel does with her parents on Friends? :joker:

[thesheriff443]

Probably tryed it on with her mum.

[DouglasS]

Is your mum homophobic?

[thesheriff443]

Is your mum homophobic?

She said cocky not camp

[AnnieK]

Is he cocky Amy?

I ask because when I was younger I made an awful first impression on anyone I met, I was terribly shy and so everyone thought I was moody and a bit ****ty....I wasn't but thats how it cane across.

If you really like him and he's not a cocky arse, talk to your mum. Ask her to trust your judgement and try again, one on one he will probably be a different person than meeting him on a night out etc...

No boy is really worth falling out with your mum over....unless you're really serious about him but saying that...it's your life too.

God, I'm no help am I?

[michael21]

Not Amy taking Nick Knowles home

Yes he going to build her a door so he can kick her out of it :laugh:

[thesheriff443]

You are young it’s not going to marriage and babies is it Amy

[michael21]

There he's going to drop a egg on her

[thesheriff443]

Yes he going to build her a door so he can kick her out of it :laugh:

More like smash her back doors in

[michael21]

More like smash her back doors in

:cheer2:

[Marsh.]

You are young it’s not going to marriage and babies is it Amy

Who knows, plenty longterm couples got together as teenagers/early 20s.

[thesheriff443]

Any ways amy thought you said you would rather have a rub.

[thesheriff443]

Who knows, plenty longterm couples got together as teenagers/early 20s.

I’d have a bet with you that they are not together in less than six months.

[Maru]

Knowing nothing about you and your mom's relationship, I would ask yourself if she's a good judge of character on this particular issue. You only met him 2 weeks ago and were pretty hasty to bring him to the house, so maybe it is seen as jumping the gun (or been seen that way)... and if he was actually "cocky" with such a short relationship, maybe the relationship has gone to his head quite a bit for such a short period and she may see it as a red flag

Mothers are protective of their kids, but maybe consider with how short the relationship is, him being cocky may not have been OK for someone she (and you) barely know in this way. Some people really value their family's opinion, to the extent they will break up with folk... others, they don't have that kind of family anyway. So consider where her opinion matters for you.

I almost always think it is worth an argument to speak with someone I care about about issues between us. The exception is when the person is already well aware of the conflict they are causing or if there are emotional problems that cause them to act a certain way...

The other possibility. If you've had a string of bad relationships, then your mother may be overly protective and erring on the side of viligence. It's stressful to see someone we care about get hurt over and over again... and if he's cocky, and she's seen you've been majorly mistreated, then she may be drawing boundaries where she can in order thinking hopefully you'll get the message... after all, if you're old enough she can't tell you what to do, then this may be her way of not only warning off the bf but you for who you bring home... (again knowing nothing about your history) ...

If you really feel it will risk a major argument, then consider that there is more going on with her opinion than just the bf... if she is just this opinionated in general, then obviously the context would be very different... some people are just judgemental, but because of how blunt she was, maybe he did something that she felt went way over the line... and she is not good at putting that into words except for sounding overly critical. Sometimes that's not clear what is really felt when people are upset... you could wait until she's less upset.

If this is your mom, then I think give her the space "to be" who she is, and maybe respect her wishes... at least until until (and if) the relationship is far more serious... maybe also give it more time before bringing someone home, that way you have more experience with that person, you can use that to explain some of their behavior if your mom is a nit-picker... again, all depends on context and a ton of variables :spin: ... it could just be that they're oil & water... it happens.

[michael21]

I’d have a bet with you that they are not together in less than six months.

I have some of that :laugh:

[AnnieK]

I’d have a bet with you that they are not together in less than six months.

Not particularly classy betting on someone's potential happiness and relationship. You don't know Amy any more than I do, seems kind of crass to me

[Zizu]

Knowing nothing about you and your mom's relationship, I would ask yourself if she's a good judge of character on this particular issue. You only met him 2 weeks ago and were pretty hasty to bring him to the house, so maybe it is seen as jumping the gun (or been seen that way)... and if he was actually "cocky" with such a short relationship, maybe the relationship has gone to his head quite a bit for such a short period and she may see it as a red flag

Mothers are protective of their kids, but maybe consider with how short the relationship is, him being cocky may not have been OK for someone she (and you) barely know in this way. Some people really value their family's opinion, to the extent they will break up with folk... others, they don't have that kind of family anyway. So if her opinion doesn't really matter here (or she is wrong).

I almost always think it is worth an argument to speak with someone I care about about issues between us. The exception is when the person is already well aware of the conflict they are causing or if there are emotional problems that cause them to act a certain way...

The other possibility. If you've had a string of bad relationships, then your mother may be overly protective and erring on the side of viligence. It's stressful to see someone we care about get hurt over and over again... and if he's cocky, and she's seen you've been majorly mistreated, then she may be drawing boundaries where she can in order thinking hopefully you'll get the message... after all, if you're old enough she can't tell you what to do, then this may be her way of not only warning off the bf but you for who you bring home... (again knowing nothing about your history) ...

If you really feel it will risk a major argument, then consider that there is more going on with her opinion than just the bf... if she is just this opinionated in general, then obviously the context would be very different... some people are just judgemental, but because of how blunt she was, maybe he did something that she felt went way over the line... and she is not good at putting that into words except for sounding overly critical. Sometimes that's not clear what is really felt when people are upset... you could wait until she's less upset.

If this is your mom, then I think give her the space "to be" who she is, and maybe respect her wishes... at least until until (and if) the relationship is far more serious... maybe also give it more time before bringing someone home, that way you have more experience with that person, you can use that to explain some of their behavior if your mom is a nit-picker... again, all depends on context and a ton of variables :spin: ... it could just be that they're oil & water... it happens.



See post#8
Don't know if it effects your post but she's known him for ages ..


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[Marsh.]

I’d have a bet with you that they are not together in less than six months.

About two people who you don't know?

Go ahead.

[thesheriff443]

Not particularly classy betting on someone's potential happiness and relationship. You don't know Amy any more than I do, seems kind of crass to me

Well from Amy,s previous boyfriends she don’t pick one of a very few good ones.

I’m not being crass, bring your personal life to the forum and it’s open to anyone’s opinion positive or negative.

By the way I like Amy.

[Maru]

See post#8
Don't know if it effects your post but she's known him for ages ..


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Not really, no. Most of my post focuses on Mom & Daughter.

[thesheriff443]

About two people who you don't know?

Go ahead.

We are now in age were marriage has a short shelf life, young people are having more partners, so the odds are in my favour

Plus I’d like to ask how long has her longest relationship been.

[Marsh.]

Well from Amy,s previous boyfriends she don’t pick one of a very few good ones.

I’m not being crass, bring your personal life to the forum and it’s open to anyone’s opinion positive or negative.

By the way I like Amy.

I'd say making jokes about a young girl on a forum having anal sex is extremely crass.

[Maru]

Well from Amy,s previous boyfriends she don’t pick one of a very few good ones.

I’m not being crass, bring your personal life to the forum and it’s open to anyone’s opinion positive or negative.

By the way I like Amy.

:spin:

Yeah, but there's something to be said about tactfulness, sheriff... otherwise I agree with your point. Making bets they won't last is a bit snarky.

[thesheriff443]

I'd say making jokes about a young girl on a forum having anal sex is extremely crass.

That’s your opinion but it is only a joke, so lighten up.

[Epic.]

Maybe just ask her upfront what her opinion of him is amid mid conversation? That way it's casual, you get answers and she's not being put on the edge

[thesheriff443]

:spin:

Yeah, but there's something to be said about tactfulness, sheriff... otherwise I agree with your point. Making bets they won't last is a bit snarky.

If you take what’s said on here as gospel then you need a wake up call.

If her mum is so against him, the cock remark is probably her being tacfull

[thesheriff443]

Also Amy is a young woman not a young girl marsh

[Maru]

If you take what’s said on here as gospel then you need a wake up call.

If her mum is so against him, the cock remark is probably her being tacfull

I don't really understand what the first sentence means. I barely read/post in Chat.

The second, we don't know that for sure. We're effectively spreading hearsay rather than gospel... if that's what was meant.

[Marsh.]

That’s your opinion but it is only a joke, so lighten up.

I don't need to lighten up.

I'm pointing out your crass comment, when you said you're not being crass.

Be crass all you want, I don't care, but don't deny it. :laugh:

[thesheriff443]

I don't really understand what the first sentence means. I barely read/post in Chat.

The second, we don't know that for sure. We're effectively spreading hearsay rather than gospel... if that's what was meant.

It was ment as gospel, none of us know what’s really gong on in her mums head just the same as none of us are relationship experts.

We are all just voicing our own opinions

It’s just how the forum is.

[Marsh.]

Also Amy is a young woman not a young girl marsh

A girl is a young woman.

Being picky about my choice of word doesn't change the point I made.

[michael21]

Amy gone to bed she got work tomorrow

[thesheriff443]

I don't need to lighten up.

I'm pointing out your crass comment, when you said you're not being crass.

Be crass all you want, I don't care, but don't deny it. :laugh:

The crass comment was a reply to Annie comment not yours.

[thesheriff443]

A girl is a young woman.

Being picky about my choice of word doesn't change the point I made.

Of course it does, Amy is an adult not a school girl, she said in the sex thread abouthaving sex she would rather have a rub, so I’m happy with my joke to m21 you want to go all moral as you usually do.

[Maru]

It was ment as gospel, none of us know what’s really gong on in her mums head just the same as none of us are relationship experts.

We are all just voicing our own opinions

It’s just how the forum is.

Ok.

[Zizu]

Of course it does, Amy is an adult not a school girl, she said in the sex thread abouthaving sex she would rather have a rub, so I’m happy with my joke to m21 you want to go all moral as you usually do.



Wait ... .. there's a sex thread ?!?!


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[Marsh.]

The crass comment was a reply to Annie comment not yours.

I never said it wasn't?

[Marsh.]

Of course it does, Amy is an adult not a school girl

I never called her a school girl.

as you usually do.

I'd make a comment in kind but I really have no interest in what you "usually do".

[Amy Jade]

Is he cocky Amy?

I ask because when I was younger I made an awful first impression on anyone I met, I was terribly shy and so everyone thought I was moody and a bit ****ty....I wasn't but thats how it cane across.

If you really like him and he's not a cocky arse, talk to your mum. Ask her to trust your judgement and try again, one on one he will probably be a different person than meeting him on a night out etc...

No boy is really worth falling out with your mum over....unless you're really serious about him but saying that...it's your life too.

God, I'm no help am I?

I wouldn't say cocky. Confident yes but he's not arrogant, that would be a deal breaker for me. He's very chatty though. My step dad liked him but my mum is being quite toxic about him.

Example we went to see Creed ll and if I was with the girls she would have just said enjoy or whatever but she made a passive aggresive comment about it being a sports film and asked sarcastically if it was my choice.

[Amy Jade]

Is he cocky?

I'd say it is a little judgemental after only one meeting, but he must have made quite an impression. :laugh:

I'd say it's your mum and probably nobody will be good enough for her daughter, but if this relationship lasts the course there will come a time she'll give him more of a chance and get to know him better. Now, whether that will lead to better or worse results depends on your boyfriend. :laugh:

Honestly no I wouldn't say so, confident yes but he makes me feel confident too so I don't see it as a negative at all.

My mums not normally like that she''s normally really interested in my dates and stuff we are pretty close.

[Marsh.]

Honestly no I wouldn't say so, confident yes but he makes me feel confident too so I don't see it as a negative at all.

My mums not normally like that she''s normally really interested in my dates and stuff we are pretty close.

Aww, it was probably just a bad first impression then. She'll come round if he is a nice bloke.

If that is the only time they've met then there's plenty of opportunity to fix it.

Even if it takes a bit of overdoing it like "Omg, LOOK what he's done for me for Christmas!!" :laugh:

[Zizu]

I still think it's down to him to win her mother over tbh


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[Marsh.]

I still think it's down to him to win her mother over tbh


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Yes, but equally, it's down to her mum to give him a fair chance.

There's no winning over someone who is stubborn and refuses to accept they might be wrong. :laugh:

[Ant.]

I've no idea on how far in you are with your relationship but you clearly know your boyfriend better than your mum, your mum veeerry likely just had a bad first impression with him. Also I could only guess there's an inkling of "my daughter deserve better!" and her wanting you to have what's best, and even if he is the best for you (I feel bad using 'if' but as I say, I don't know him) your mum wouldn't know that

what matters is your happiness. And besides, some people that don't like each other end up being the best of friends. Who knows, your mum and boyfriend may become the best of friends

[Amy Jade]

Knowing nothing about you and your mom's relationship, I would ask yourself if she's a good judge of character on this particular issue. You only met him 2 weeks ago and were pretty hasty to bring him to the house, so maybe it is seen as jumping the gun (or been seen that way)... and if he was actually "cocky" with such a short relationship, maybe the relationship has gone to his head quite a bit for such a short period and she may see it as a red flag

Mothers are protective of their kids, but maybe consider with how short the relationship is, him being cocky may not have been OK for someone she (and you) barely know in this way. Some people really value their family's opinion, to the extent they will break up with folk... others, they don't have that kind of family anyway. So consider where her opinion matters for you.

I almost always think it is worth an argument to speak with someone I care about about issues between us. The exception is when the person is already well aware of the conflict they are causing or if there are emotional problems that cause them to act a certain way...

The other possibility. If you've had a string of bad relationships, then your mother may be overly protective and erring on the side of viligence. It's stressful to see someone we care about get hurt over and over again... and if he's cocky, and she's seen you've been majorly mistreated, then she may be drawing boundaries where she can in order thinking hopefully you'll get the message... after all, if you're old enough she can't tell you what to do, then this may be her way of not only warning off the bf but you for who you bring home... (again knowing nothing about your history) ...

If you really feel it will risk a major argument, then consider that there is more going on with her opinion than just the bf... if she is just this opinionated in general, then obviously the context would be very different... some people are just judgemental, but because of how blunt she was, maybe he did something that she felt went way over the line... and she is not good at putting that into words except for sounding overly critical. Sometimes that's not clear what is really felt when people are upset... you could wait until she's less upset.

If this is your mom, then I think give her the space "to be" who she is, and maybe respect her wishes... at least until until (and if) the relationship is far more serious... maybe also give it more time before bringing someone home, that way you have more experience with that person, you can use that to explain some of their behavior if your mom is a nit-picker... again, all depends on context and a ton of variables :spin: ... it could just be that they're oil & water... it happens.

I've know him a while and she met him at a party (a family friends birthday) before I even suggested he might come to the house and it was only to pick me up and I just said he might pop in she said no and made an excuse that she was in her pjs.

I get the protective part but it doesn't feel like that it feels petty with some of the comments she makes and I have only ever had one long term relationship and my mum still talks to him as far as I know and he cheated on me so she's not exactly the type to draw blood if anyone hurts me if that makes sense.

[Maru]

I've know him a while and she met him at a party (a family friends birthday) before I even suggested he might come to the house and it was only to pick me up and I just said he might pop in she said no and made an excuse that she was in her pjs.

I get the protective part but it doesn't feel like that it feels petty with some of the comments she makes and I have only ever had one long term relationship and my mum still talks to him as far as I know and he cheated on me so she's not exactly the type to draw blood if anyone hurts me if that makes sense.

Any chance your mom is maybe a bit codependent?

[Amy Jade]

Aww, it was probably just a bad first impression then. She'll come round if he is a nice bloke.

If that is the only time they've met then there's plenty of opportunity to fix it.

Even if it takes a bit of overdoing it like "Omg, LOOK what he's done for me for Christmas!!" :laugh:

I think she just wants to dislike him or something though it's frustrating and I heard her say to her friend she can't bare him and he's a knob and I just find her reaction extreme.

[Amy Jade]

Any chance your mom is maybe a bit codependent?

No not at all she's glad when I go away from the weekend or am on call all day in work on her days off :laugh:

[Denver]

Has he got a big dick? if not dump him

[Marsh.]

I think she just wants to dislike him or something though it's frustrating and I heard her say to her friend she can't bare him and he's a knob and I just find her reaction extreme.

:eek: SHE'S SLEEPING WITH HIM!! :omgno:

[Maru]

No not at all she's glad when I go away from the weekend or am on call all day in work on her days off :laugh:

Codependency doesn't necessarily infer clinginess. It can just mean we become too "enmeshed" when we are around certain people. For example, we internalize other people's experiences as our own. It doesn't have to be all the time. Just enough that in certain instances, that how someone may rub us the wrong way may affect us more the way they're attached to someone we care about than if it were just another Tim, Dick & Harry off the street... codependency isn't always unhealthy either (but can complicate changes in your environment)

Maybe more likely, it just sounds like she thinks he's a prick. :spin: Because "cocky" isn't always bad... if it helps to raise your self-esteem, that's a good thing. As long as you feel it's in healthy balance with your own personality and he's not domineering with you. Maybe your mother can see things you can't, so I wonder could that if you have a close relationship. After all, it's a bit different when he is just a friend... relationship material is a different story.

I had a male best friend who I was attached with nearly daily for about a decade and he came and went from my family's home. We would take bus trips downtown and do all kinds of traveling... but had we ever got into a relationship, I don't think my family would've approved. We were too brother-sister like... keeping in my mind, my husband was never threatened when we were dating with how much time we spent to gether. Probably because yes, we argued too much... like brother and sister... :spin:

[Maru]

Has he got a big dick? if not dump him

*/big butts*

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[rusticgal]

If you are close to your mum you should be able to talk to her...ask her why she thinks he is cocky..and tell her how much you like him and how he makes you feel. Tell her it's unfair that she hasn't given him a chance and ask her to do it for you.
Every parent wants the best for their children...maybe she has heard things about him that she doesn't like..:shrug:
Ask her to give him a chance...and take it from there. If she sees how happy he makes you she might change her mind. We all want our kids to be happy...but sometimes you can be blinded 'by love' and not see what is blatantly obvious to those who care about you.

[thesheriff443]

I never called her a school girl.



I'd make a comment in kind but I really have no interest in what you "usually do".

Well we all know you want to be at the centre of any thread, trying to hold the moral high ground.

It’s also clear you did not quote everything I said only one part that you think makes you right.

You called Amy a young girl, when in reality she is an adult, anyways continue with your life on the forum however I have a real life in the real world.

My own daughter who is twenty four and autistic is currently having mental health problems which have escalated to her screaming and shouting and hitting herself violently around the head. We have not slepted for more than three hours a night for weeks while we are waiting on the mental health service

I rang the crisis team tonight as she begged to be taken to a secure unit, only for someone to tell me he can come out but with no meds, so yea I got a bit on my plate so forgive me if I don’t continue with the rather pointless chat.

[Marsh.]

If you have too much on your plate why respond at all?

Because it's clearly you trying to score "morality points" and make it all personal.

Oh, look, sheriff has a real life and real problems. Yeah, we all do. But I don't come in here looking for sympathy for it because someone used the word "girl", yeah that's right "girl", not "young girl".

Don't DARE presume to know anything about me or what I deal with off this forum and then give me a self pitying paragraph expecting sympathy!
Do one!

[Twosugars]

I think she just wants to dislike him or something though it's frustrating and I heard her say to her friend she can't bare him and he's a knob and I just find her reaction extreme.

That is extreme
I'd tell her to mind her own business

[AnnieK]

If this is really out of character Amy, is there any way your mum could have seen / met / know of him before. It seems an intense dislike and if she's not like this with other guys you've dated could she know something about him that she's not telling you. I would sit down with her and have a chat and ask her to be honest. Tell her you really like him(if you do) and thats its important to you for her to give him a chance.

Hope it works out x

[user104658]

on a forum having anal sex

kY-pUxKQMUE

[user104658]

Don't worry about it Amycakes, my mother in law still doesn't like me and I'll have been with my wife for 12 years in April :joker:.

[thesheriff443]

If you have too much on your plate why respond at all?

Because it's clearly you trying to score "morality points" and make it all personal.

Oh, look, sheriff has a real life and real problems. Yeah, we all do. But I don't come in here looking for sympathy for it because someone used the word "girl", yeah that's right "girl", not "young girl".

Don't DARE presume to know anything about me or what I deal with off this forum and then give me a self pitying paragraph expecting sympathy!
Do one!
You are so deluded thinking I want sympathy from any one on here. And no I won’t do one!.

[Marsh.]

You are so deluded thinking I want sympathy from any one on here. And no I won’t do one!.

Diddums.

[caprimint]

If you're happy she should let it be, it's not her place to try and decide your relationships for you

[caprimint]

She sounds honestly like she'd be great for a BB forum however

[Niamh.]

My mum is usually right about people and it takes alot for her to dislike a person so if it were me I'd pay attention to that but not everyone is my mom, is yours a good judge of character generally?

[Crimson Dynamo]

My mum is usually right about people and it takes alot for her to dislike a person so if it were me I'd pay attention to that but not everyone is my mom, is yours a good judge of character generally?

I think Justin Beiber wrote a song about that


:spin:

[thesheriff443]

I think Justin Beiber wrote a song about that


:spin:

You can go and fcuk yourself are the lyrics

[Beso]

Your mum's probably banged him on a night out in the past, it happens.

[Amy Jade]

Your mum's probably banged him on a night out in the past, it happens.

Yeah these kind of posts just aren't funny at all.

[Amy Jade]

Thanks for the advice everyone who offered any x

[Crimson Dynamo]

Don't worry about it Amycakes, my mother in law still doesn't like me and I'll have been with my wife for 12 years in April :joker:.

Kaween of laser guided perception

[Twosugars]

Kaween of laser guided perception

:oh:
:nono:

[Glenn.]

Stab her in the face

[Crimson Dynamo]

Stab her in the face

or shoot her with a Jesy inspired handgun?


(i dont really mean shoot your mum but for the sake of levity)

[Beso]

Stab her in the face

:yuk:

[GoldHeart]

Don't worry about it Amycakes, my mother in law still doesn't like me and I'll have been with my wife for 12 years in April :joker:.

It's like a weird cliche' :facepalm: , but TS if I was you and if it's been 12 years !!! and you're still disliked then I would have to confront the person and ask WHY :skull: . If you still get a frosty reception then sadly you'll never be close with your in laws .

[user104658]

It's like a weird cliche' :facepalm: , but TS if I was you and if it's been 12 years !!! and you're still disliked then I would have to confront the person and ask WHY :skull: . If you still get a frosty reception then sadly you'll never be close with your in laws .

They live 300 miles away in another country and we only see them 3 or 4 times a year, I don't think we're ever going to be bezzies :joker:. And to be fair at this point its perfectly polite and civil, which is fine :shrug:.

[Barry.]

How did it go Amy?

[user104658]

How did it go Amy?Her mum kicked the **** out of the poor lad. Up and down the street.

[Barry.]

Her mum kicked the **** out of the poor lad. Up and down the street.

Poor guy.

[GoldHeart]

They live 300 miles away in another country and we only see them 3 or 4 times a year, I don't think we're ever going to be bezzies :joker:. And to be fair at this point its perfectly polite and civil, which is fine :shrug:.

Ohhh well I guess that's something then . Didn't realise they lived far from you .

[bots]

Time to drop your Mum then because what she is telling you is that you are not a good judge of character

[Amy Jade]

She likes him now, let's him in all the time without question. He's here like 80% of the time actually :love:

Oh and was it sheriff who said we wouldn't last 6 month?

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[Mitchell]

She likes him now, let's him in all the time without question. He's here like 80% of the time actually :love:

Oh and was it sheriff who said we wouldn't last 6 month?

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QUEEN

[Marsh.]

Babies soon. :love:

[Wizard.]

Babies soon. :love:

I mean why else is he round her house 80% of the time?

[Tony Montana]

She likes him now, let's him in all the time without question. He's here like 80% of the time actually :love:

Oh and was it sheriff who said we wouldn't last 6 month?

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:joker::joker::joker:

[Tony Montana]

Your mum's probably banged him on a night out in the past, it happens.

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[Ammi]

....oh mums, eh...who’d have them..:laugh:...anyways, hello Amy’s mum and hello Amy’s boyfriend...it’s lovely to see you both getting along...:lovedup:..

[michael21]

She likes him now, let's him in all the time without question. He's here like 80% of the time actually :love:

Oh and was it sheriff who said we wouldn't last 6 month?

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He might be cheating on you with your mum it dose happen

[Wizard.]

Amy’s mom has got it going on

[Calderyon]

He might be cheating on you with your mum it dose happen

Only in porn for most of the time, in real life people know to say no. There are tons of content with that scenario.