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melanie
15-10-2008, 08:32 PM
Okay there's a guy I've been seeing and I called him today and this is how our conversation went.

"Are you busy tonight? Wanna go out?"
"Oh sorry Mel. I have a boyfriend now."
-speechless-
"It's Ian."
"Are you talking about my Ian?!?!"
"I'm really sorry.."

Then I hung up on him.
Come on, my almost boyfriend and my bff? I introduced them to each other!
Apparently it's been going on for a couple of days and everyone was too afraid to tell me. Why?!!?
:bawling:

bronaaaa
15-10-2008, 08:34 PM
:hug:

Jake!
15-10-2008, 08:40 PM
That's erm, well erm, shocking! Well, we'll make you feel better :kiss:

xDramatick
15-10-2008, 08:42 PM
I came out to my mum last week! :]

Anyho.
Woah. Sorry Mel =| That must really suck.
I guess the best you can do is support them both =\
&find a straight guy.

Jake!
15-10-2008, 08:47 PM
Originally posted by Darenn
I came out to my mum last week! :]

Anyho.
Woah. Sorry Mel =| That must really suck.
I guess the best you can do is support them both =\
&find a straight guy.

Probablly the best advice...
And Darenn how did that go?

melanie
15-10-2008, 08:49 PM
Originally posted by Darenn
I came out to my mum last week! :]

Anyho.
Woah. Sorry Mel =| That must really suck.
I guess the best you can do is support them both =\
&find a straight guy.

Yeah I'm going to talk to my friend later, I'm just really shocked right now because I thought they were both straight. Congrats on coming out to your mom though!

Jake!
15-10-2008, 08:52 PM
Just go on like nothing happened. And be grateful that they told you straight up and didn't find out a couple of months down the line.

Magic
15-10-2008, 09:04 PM
Poor you.
Stay strong, dont let it get you down.

AlexBigBrother
15-10-2008, 09:06 PM
who the **** would cheat on mel??
youre super sexy and really nice
xxx

xDramatick
15-10-2008, 09:09 PM
Originally posted by melanie
Originally posted by Darenn
I came out to my mum last week! :]

Anyho.
Woah. Sorry Mel =| That must really suck.
I guess the best you can do is support them both =\
&find a straight guy.

Yeah I'm going to talk to my friend later, I'm just really shocked right now because I thought they were both straight. Congrats on coming out to your mom though!

Thank you<3
Good luck I guess, I hope it all turns out for you. You're extremely beautiful and come across as a strong, intelligent woman so I doubt you need to worry about not finding a guy. Just make sure you get one that's decent+straight!

&JustJake; went well thanks, she was fine with everything.

MrGaryy
15-10-2008, 09:24 PM
Originally posted by AlexBigBrother
who the **** would cheat on mel??
youre super sexy and really nice
xxx

A gay guy, obv. :rolleyes:

No offence Mel.! :joker:

DamonJ
15-10-2008, 09:25 PM
Posting with the caps lock key stuck on isn't allowed on TiBB - Post Removed - Red

SiaSiaSia
15-10-2008, 09:25 PM
Yeah, my best friend and my friend went off together as well.
I still haven't spoken to them. :P

Arneldo
15-10-2008, 09:27 PM
Wow thats some Hollyoaks shizz right there. Sorry Mel, 'm sure your not feeling great at the moment seeing as he was your almost bf. But your a beauitful girl and I'm sure you have queing for you ;) :hug:

Annie
15-10-2008, 09:27 PM
Hey Mel

At least you are finding out now rather than later.

You defo need to talk things over with you mate since he hasnt really been much of a mate to you - letting you see this guy and him liking him and flirting etc.

If you ask me you are better without them both if they were going to do that to you but would totally understand if you forgave them as well.

I think its mainly a shock to your system and a nights sleep might help.

Good luck with whatever you decide :kiss:

bluehill
16-10-2008, 06:20 PM
OMG the like worst case situation :hug: