View Full Version : Ahh i need some advice!
Christina
04-01-2009, 03:22 PM
Hii,
Ok this may sound a bit weird to some of you but something rather new to me has just happened and i need some help.
Today i got a text of a girl who is in year 9 [were friends] and the text was just simply asking me how i was so i replied saying that i was revising and how i was bored. So she text me back saying she knows something that would cheer me up so i asked her what that was. She replied saying:
'Youre actually really fit ;)'
So i was like omg is she being serious. So i asked her if she was and she said:
'Yeah :)
Oh didnt i tell you i was bisexual?'
But she didnt and ive just realised that most of my friends think shes a lesbian because of the way she acts around me. E.g - Constantly coming up to me and giving me really long hugs etc.. and saying how she loves my hair and makeup. Anyway i fowarded the messages to a very close friend and she called me and said she wouldnt tell. I have no problem with her being bi but the thing is im scared now incase i act differently around her but i need to make it clear that im straight :conf2: And im rather scared because a couple of weeks ago my friend Lianne was messing around on my phone and sent a text to her and several other girls saying that i was in love with them for a joke. Im scared now incase she thinks that the text was true but i was just scared to admit it. Ahh and my mum totally heard my conversation over the phone which is even more embarassing! :bored: But yeah, do any of you have any advice, because i know when i see her im gonna feel so awkward?
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ALL IS SORTED NOW.. THANKS FOR THE HELP :love:
Annie
04-01-2009, 03:24 PM
Is she hot?
Just say to her "Sorry but im straight" or get someone to tell her or sumin. like "Babe, I'm so sure Christinas straight, she fancies that guy in the year above, you know the one with the blue bag?, Yeh its a ffing nice bag ennit"
Sumin like that. :thumbs:
Xander
04-01-2009, 03:24 PM
LOL You could ask her out to settle everything. :tongue:
Christina
04-01-2009, 03:26 PM
Originally posted by Annie
Is she hot? No. But even if she was im straight lol.
Christina
04-01-2009, 03:27 PM
Originally posted by Xander
LOL You could ask her out to settle everything. :tongue: Nooo thanks.
Christina
04-01-2009, 03:28 PM
Originally posted by Scampi
Just say to her "Sorry but Im straight" or get someone to tell her or sumin. like "Babe, I'm so sure Christinas straight, she fancies that guy in the year above, you know the one with the blue bag?, Yeh its a ffing nice bag ennit"
Sumin like that. :thumbs: LMAO, I go to an all girls school :laugh: But yeah im probably gonna get my friend Jennifer to tell her im straight and that she saw the messages down my phone LOL. Thanks :D
AyeAye_xO
04-01-2009, 03:29 PM
speak to her alone &+ just tell her that uur straight. but try not to be weird around her., cause it will be embarrasing and awkward for hur too.
MrGaryy
04-01-2009, 03:29 PM
HAHA! good old Weir-dom eh?
Originally posted by Christina
Originally posted by Scampi
Just say to her "Sorry but Im straight" or get someone to tell her or sumin. like "Babe, I'm so sure Christinas straight, she fancies that guy in the year above, you know the one with the blue bag?, Yeh its a ffing nice bag ennit"
Sumin like that. :thumbs: LMAO, I go to an all girls school :laugh: But yeah Im probably going to get my friend Jennifer to tell her Im straight and that she saw the messages down my phone LOL. Thanks :D
Whoops. Yeh good idea!
Christina
04-01-2009, 03:30 PM
Originally posted by Gazbo
HAHA! good old Weir-dom eh? LMAO its not even her Gaz, this is another one. I think i have a school full of Weirs :laugh: [PJ]
Christina
04-01-2009, 03:31 PM
Originally posted by AyeAye_xO
speak to her alone &+ just tell her that uur straight. but try not to be weird around her., cause it will be embarrasing and awkward for hur too. Lol yeah true, thanks!
WATERS
04-01-2009, 03:33 PM
Tell her you're not into girls.
Princess
04-01-2009, 03:33 PM
The getting someone else to tell her you're straight is a good idea I think. It might be a tad uncormtable to do it yourself. Although you shouldn't worry too much about it :hug:
lily.
04-01-2009, 03:35 PM
Xtina, you should go to her and have a word .. don't get others involved. Just tell her yer flattered she fancies you but that yer not into girls, and hope ye can still be friends.
pinkmichk
04-01-2009, 03:36 PM
if she is a friend you should tell her yourself why not do it by text or email if you think it may be arkward in person :hug:
Annie
04-01-2009, 03:37 PM
How do you know you are 100% straight...
MrGaryy
04-01-2009, 03:38 PM
Originally posted by Christina
Originally posted by Gazbo
HAHA! good old Weir-dom eh? LMAO its not even her Gaz, this is another one. I think i have a school full of Weirs :laugh: [PJ]
LMAO! You just attract lessys don't you?:nono::laugh:
Christina
04-01-2009, 03:38 PM
Originally posted by pinkmichk
if she is a friend you should tell her yourself why not do it by text or email if you think it may be arkward in person :hug: Ooh thanks but im not really sure what i should say lol. When she said i was fit i just said 'Thanks lol' ahh im terrible lol!
pinkmichk
04-01-2009, 03:40 PM
just say something like i'm flattered that you fancy me but i'm not into girls but i dont want it to ruin our friendship
Christina
04-01-2009, 03:40 PM
Thanks all :hug:
And Annie, dunno lol.. just never really liked the idea of me being with girls and have always been attracted to males.. never females lol.
Christina
04-01-2009, 03:40 PM
Originally posted by pinkmichk
just say something like i'm flattered that you fancy me but i'm not into girls but i dont want it to ruin our friendship Ooh thanks, if she texts me saying anything i'll say that lol.
Loukas
04-01-2009, 03:43 PM
Being Bi is difficult. The best thing to do is talk to her FACE TO FACE, it might be hard to speak to her but it's SO much better than texting. Her being Bi shouldn't make you act different. Don't see her as bi, see her as a normal person. :). Main thing is DON'T LET IT AFFECT YOUR FRIENDSHIP. :thumbs:
Bye Bi! Say that.. or not
Christina
04-01-2009, 03:45 PM
Originally posted by DoubleTrouble
Being Bi is difficult. The best thing to do is talk to her FACE TO FACE, it might be hard to speak to her but it's SO much better than texting. Her being Bi shouldn't make you act different. Don't see her as bi, see her as a normal person. :). Main thing is DON'T LET IT AFFECT YOUR FRIENDSHIP. :thumbs: Yeah id never ever judge her for being bi.. never! And thanks Loukas thats great advice.. will talk to her next time i see her.
supernoodles!
04-01-2009, 03:46 PM
Originally posted by Christina
Originally posted by pinkmichk
just say something like i'm flattered that you fancy me but i'm not into girls but i dont want it to ruin our friendship Ooh thanks, if she texts me saying anything i'll say that lol.
I think pinkmichk is totally right,thats the best thing you can do,and then see what she says.
Christina
04-01-2009, 03:46 PM
Originally posted by Scampi
Bye Bi! Say that.. or not LOL, Sam thats so cruel:nono: :laugh:
Loukas
04-01-2009, 03:50 PM
Originally posted by Scampi
Bye Bi! Say that.. or not
Hahaha. When i told a close friend i was Bi for the first time she FLIPPED and said that. I found it funny. It got worse when i told her i fancied her boyfriend LMFAO. The same day she stepped in dog mess. Serves her right. After a couple of days she saw the funny side, we are mates now. :hugesmile:
Xander
04-01-2009, 05:00 PM
Originally posted by Christina
Originally posted by Scampi
Bye Bi! Say that.. or not LOL, Sam thats so cruel:nono: :laugh:
http://i235.photobucket.com/albums/ee247/Claaydon/XX.gif
Christina
04-01-2009, 05:05 PM
Originally posted by Xander
Originally posted by Christina
Originally posted by Scampi
Bye Bi! Say that.. or not LOL, Sam thats so cruel:nono: :laugh:
http://i235.photobucket.com/albums/ee247/Claaydon/XX.gif LOL, here he goes again :laugh:
MrGaryy
04-01-2009, 05:05 PM
Originally posted by DoubleTrouble
Being Bi is difficult. The best thing to do is talk to her FACE TO FACE, it might be hard to speak to her but it's SO much better than texting. Her being Bi shouldn't make you act different. Don't see her as bi, see her as a normal person. :). Main thing is DON'T LET IT AFFECT YOUR FRIENDSHIP. :thumbs:
Yeah it's a real struggle.
Kate..
04-01-2009, 05:15 PM
Originally posted by Annie
Is she hot?
Ily Annie!
Oooh tough situation Christina. Well as long as you don't make any suggestions to her that you're attracted to her there's no reason to say it outright to her - because that could hurt her feelings, you're a great girl and if you know you don't want to be awquard around her, then you wont be, just go with the flow
:love:
Christina
04-01-2009, 05:21 PM
Originally posted by Kate..
Originally posted by Annie
Is she hot?
Ily Annie!
Oooh tough situation Christina. Well as long as you don't make any suggestions to her that you're attracted to her there's no reason to say it outright to her - because that could hurt her feelings, you're a great girl and if you know you don't want to be awquard around her, then you wont be, just go with the flow
:love: Aww thanks Kate :D
Btw she just text me and asked me if im still her friend and said 'Of course' and now were texting normally.. so all is well. Thanks for everyones help :bigsmile:
Kate..
04-01-2009, 10:57 PM
Haha no probz. I just realised I said suggestions that you're attracted to her, I meant to put not in that sentence somewhere.
Golly Christina you got the boys and girls falling head over heels for you!
Christina
04-01-2009, 11:03 PM
Originally posted by Kate..
Haha no probz. I just realised I said suggestions that you're attracted to her, I meant to put not in that sentence somewhere.
Golly Christina you got the boys and girls falling head over heels for you! LOL, not boys just girls :laugh::laugh:
AngRemembered
05-01-2009, 07:53 PM
Originally posted by Linda
Xtina, you should go to her and have a word .. don't get others involved. Just tell her yer flattered she fancies you but that yer not into girls, and hope ye can still be friends.
Thats what I'd do, poor Christina first its dogs now its bitches on heat following you about :laugh3:
Have you tried using a differnet body lotion :whistle:
Follow Linda's advice and good luck :wink:
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