I know, they are so cliquey it's unreal. They don't want to disappoint their crew, It's just spineless. What they said yesterday was just so wrong, I can't believe they're blanking you, If anything it should be the other way round the way they were insulting people yesterday.

That's cool. I hope you feel better.

No problem.

Like I said, I sent the pm to all three of you, so if Vanessa wants to waste her time reporting me for sending her a pm to open a dialogue where we can all move forward, then good luck to her with that course of action.

I'll leave it with you, and when you're feeling better then let me know.

That maturity shining through again.

No problem - I will not be offering the chance to find a solution again. I sent you one pm, that went to You, Kaz, and Vanessa - so don't try and make it sound like I'm harassing you. Cowardice.

Here is the pm for everyone to read:

I've been reading a lot about how I'm this super bully, and I'm harassing people, and trying to get people bans.

Firstly, if that's what you think, I have no problem with it, but when you start hunting down other FM's to lie about it, then I really don't think it's appropriate.

Bullying - please provide some examples of this.

Harassment - please provide some examples of this.

Trying to get fm members bans - please provide some examples of this.

Like I said, I have no problem what you think of me at all, but when you start spreading your maliciousness, then we're going to have a problem.

I'm writing this mail to try and find a solution moving forward, and I'm not looking for an argument.

Give it some time, Kate. I'm sure you'll be friends with them again. They like you.

why would you lose Glenn/Lucas kate?

Yeah. But if I've lost Lucas and Glenn over this, I'm off.

Okay so I've had to split this into two messages because theres some sort of character limit. I never knew that before.

And the Twat thing was mean but it wasn't aimed just at you. We didn't even mean it seriously, okay? We were genuinely just using the place as somewhere private to chat. I set the group to be private like that so no-one could join without an invite, because I didn't want anyone coming in and starting arguments and creating drama just by posting in there. It fixed the problem by separating out our two groups.

And I do have most of you guys on ignore. But ignore isn't exactly the best system on here. I still get those little boxes with the messages you guys have posted (I don't have you on ignore might I add).

I know it's not nice what they did but the main annoyance was that Marcus, Kaz etc would enter the thread and start having a huge conversation which would displace all those who were already there. It certainly irritated me so I can understand what Scott and Jesus did.

And I think they're annoyed because you encouraged Marcus, Vanessa etc to remain in the thread which inevitably wound up as an argument, and has gotten the thread shut down indefinitely. I'm not exactly pleased about it either. I've used those threads regularly for two years y'know.

So am i. But i love this forum and i won't let anyone drive me away. I'll never give them the satisfaction.