ThisisBigBrother.com - UK TV Forums

ThisisBigBrother.com - UK TV Forums (https://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forums/index.php)
-   CBB21 (https://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=725)
-   -   Would you date a transsexual? (https://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forums/showthread.php?t=333097)

Northern Monkey 07-01-2018 04:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Brillopad (Post 9776809)
Trans women are still on the same level as Men as far as physical strength goes so can never be a victim in the same way as a woman. That will never change. They only had one muscle removed not the strength related ones.

Exactly why i’m against transsexual women competing against real women in sports.

Jake. 07-01-2018 04:23 PM

And just like that, domestic abuse against men is solved!

Mokka 07-01-2018 04:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vicky. (Post 9776819)
What is your definition of woman, that includes male people? have never heard one, ever.



India is a transwoman. India will always be a transwoman. Unless India decides to detransition, at which stage India is a man. But India will never be a 'woman' unless...the meaning of woman has changed, in which case I would love to hear what the new meaning is.

Again, please let me know what the definition of woman is, if not adult human female.

India identified as woman her whole life... but didn't have the means to make that transition, nor the societal backing, till later in life.
India is a woman. This is why being referred to as him or he is grating to her.

Honestly though Vicky.. I have read enough of you transphobic views to know there is no point in discussing this with you. But India is a woman. She went into the house as a woman. Is she a bit of a part with issues... yes... as are most CBB contestants. But she is a woman.

Vicky. 07-01-2018 04:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Withano (Post 9776832)
Tbf, I too would define someone like India as a woman. The main difference is I could also define someone like India as a transwoman too, which can't be said for 99%+ of women.

I know a lot of people say 'transwomen are women'. I would genuinely love to hear an explanation of what a woman is, if it includes transwomen.

I don't understand what on earth is so wrong about saying as transwoman is a transwoman. Why must a transwoman be an actual woman. Trans is a large part of who they are, why the need to erase this? I would actually say this whole 'transwoman are women' thing is transphobic as it is making out that trans is something that needs to be hidden..like a dirty little secret!

Vicky. 07-01-2018 04:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mokka (Post 9776851)
India identified as woman her whole life... but didn't have the means to make that transition, nor the societal backing, till later in life.
India is a woman. This is why being referred to as him or he is grating to her.

Honestly though Vicky.. I have read enough of you transphobic views to know there is no point in discussing this with you. But India is a woman. She went into the house as a woman. Is she a bit of a part with issues... yes... as are most CBB contestants. But she is a woman.

Again, what is your definition of a woman if it is not adult human female? Words need to actually mean something :laugh:

And thank you. Transphobia is such a meaningless term these days anyway. I take that as a compliment.

Brillopad 07-01-2018 04:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Marsh. (Post 9776833)
Oh please.

You do women a disservice bringing the victim word into it.

Men can be victim to domestic abuse from women too you know.

Usually because they are too nice to hit back and defend themselves. The women know that and are cowards. But the amount of men killed through domestic violence bears no resemblance to that of female victims of domestic violence. Going off point a bit though aren’t we.

Withano 07-01-2018 04:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vicky. (Post 9776856)
I know a lot of people say 'transwomen are women'. I would genuinely love to hear an explanation of what a woman is, if it includes transwomen.

I don't understand what on earth is so wrong about saying as transwoman is a transwoman. Why must a transwoman be an actual woman. Trans is a large part of who they are, why the need to erase this? I would actually say this whole 'transwoman are women' thing is transphobic as it is making out that trans is something that needs to be hidden..like a dirty little secret!

I guess I prioritise the mind they have today over the genitals they had at birth, I'm guessing you don't. India is a woman, and she knows this, and thats good enough for me.

Vicky. 07-01-2018 04:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Withano (Post 9776865)
I guess I prioritise the mind they have today over the genitals they had at birth, I'm guessing you don't. India is a woman, and she knows this, and thats good enough for me.

So what is a woman then?

Jake. 07-01-2018 04:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Brillopad (Post 9776863)
Usually because they are too nice to hit back and defend themselves. The women know that and are cowards. But the amount of men killed through domestic violence bears no resemblance to that of female victims of domestic violence. Going off point a bit though aren’t we.

Proves that strength isn’t only physical then really doesn’t it

Marsh. 07-01-2018 04:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Brillopad (Post 9776863)
Usually because they are too nice to hit back and defend themselves. The women know that and are cowards. But the amount of men killed through domestic violence bears no resemblance to that of female victims of domestic violence. Going off point a bit though aren’t we.

Where did you do your research into this?

Withano 07-01-2018 04:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vicky. (Post 9776870)
So what is a woman then?

A person that considers themselves female. I think you're overthinking it (more than me anyway), its quite a simple thing for me.

Edit: I suppose woman/man only applies to adults, boys/girls before then.

Marsh. 07-01-2018 04:31 PM

That considers themselves?

So if I consider myself a woman right now then I am?

Vicky. 07-01-2018 04:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Brillopad (Post 9776809)
Trans women are still on the same level as Men as far as physical strength goes so can never be a victim in the same way as a woman. That will never change. They only had one muscle removed not the strength related ones.

This is generally false. Most of mens strength comes from testosterone. Transwomen who are on estrogen will therefor not have as much testosterone in their bodies so they will not be as strong as an average man. of course theres bone structure and muscle mass and such also, but broadly speaking, lowering ones testosterone makes one weaker. hence men being (as a group, not individually) stronger than women to start with.

Withano 07-01-2018 04:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Marsh. (Post 9776904)
That considers themselves?

So if I consider myself a woman right now then I am?

If you want to live as a female because you consider yourself to be one then yes.. i feel like you dont actually though, and this is all a metaphorical 'HA LOOPHOLE' typed thing.

Brillopad 07-01-2018 04:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Marsh. (Post 9776874)
Where did you do your research into this?

The stats on female victims are pretty well known. If as many men were being killed at the hands of their female partners we would know about it. Please don’t try to undermine the seriousness of domestic violence to try and prove a point on transgenders - it’s inappropriate and I have no intention of biting any further.

Marsh. 07-01-2018 04:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Withano (Post 9776908)
If you want to live as a female because you consider yourself to be one then yes.. i feel like you dont actually though, and this is all a metaphorical 'HA LOOPHOLE' typed thing.

No. It's spelling out what you just said.

I could want to live life as a pet dog. That doesn't make me a pet dog unless I make the steps to become a dog.

(Yes I'm aware they haven't perfected Species Reassignment Surgery)

Vicky. 07-01-2018 04:35 PM

What is 'living as a female'? Following stereotypes?

Northern Monkey 07-01-2018 04:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vicky. (Post 9776905)
This is generally false. Most of mens strength comes from testosterone. Transwomen who are on estrogen will therefor not have as much testosterone in their bodies so they will not be as strong as an average man. of course theres bone structure and muscle mass and such also, but broadly speaking, lowering ones testosterone makes one weaker. hence men being (as a group, not individually) stronger than women to start with.

That’s true.That’s why steroids work.When i was younger I actually tried them and increased my bench press by 30kg.They work.

Edited to add:Trans women will still have more muscle mass though and will be stronger.

jaxie 07-01-2018 04:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Withano (Post 9776680)
Thanks Cherie, I'm actually fine with it, I've talked about my sexuality before on here - will do again, if it was relevant to the discussion ofcourse.

I think Livia was quite clear with her first response.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Livia (Post 9776180)
No, I am not attracted to transsexuals.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Smithy (Post 9776196)
But you wouldn’t know unless they told you :conf2:

Quote:

Originally Posted by Smithy (Post 9776221)
So up until the point of sleeping with someone... you’d form a relationship with them and then all of a sudden they just become unattractive?

Quote:

Originally Posted by Smithy (Post 9776226)
https://i.amz.mshcdn.com/T5MPLvBYkF2...ltht.a4aec.jpg

So you think within one minute of meeting this man you’d click that he was trans? I very very much doubt that but if that’s the story you want to tell go for it

Quote:

Originally Posted by Withano (Post 9776232)
none of you have answered Smithy though, which speaks volumes

Quote:

Originally Posted by thesheriff443 (Post 9776233)
So come on Livia how many have you dated

Quote:

Originally Posted by Withano (Post 9776238)
I think hes asking you to think metaphorically, in a situation where you meet that blatantly attractive man, at what point would he become an unattractive transman?

Quote:

Originally Posted by Smithy (Post 9776240)
Christ at least some people on this site have common sense

Quote:

Originally Posted by Withano (Post 9776246)
So its more your issue than theirs? (I'm not saying you're wrong but just to clarify, this is in your own head?)

Quote:

Originally Posted by Withano (Post 9776248)
It is a personal choice, but others like LT clarified that he is turned off by big hands and big feet, which is fair enough, thats his personal choice. Your personal choice (and Livia's) seems to be with the word trans itself being the turn off... which seems more your problem than theirs?

Quote:

Originally Posted by thesheriff443 (Post 9776255)
You and the fear of a constructed penis, lol snunday afternoon on the tibb forum, more tea vicar?

Quote:

Originally Posted by Withano (Post 9776258)
But that is to do with words. You would be physically into that man, until you learn he is a transman? (Unless youre an expert at spotting 'constructed penis', I'd argue that your issue is only in your own mind)

Quote:

Originally Posted by Withano (Post 9776279)
I'm with you. It is hard to believe that Livia has a chromosome fetish.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Withano (Post 9776288)
I simply asked you to answer a question, and even clarified in my post that you wasnt wrong in your answer, you dont have to discuss your preference if you dont want to. But I've concluded from your posts that you wouldnt date a trans because of the word trans, now I'm asking if I'm right or wrong? You dont need to get defensive.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Withano (Post 9776315)
No not at all, your answers didnt make sense to me, so I wanted to clarify if I was right. LT's answer did make sense to me. I don't care what gender yoh are, many men may answer the same way as you, and I'd ask them the same questions, some women may answer in a similar way to LT, and I'd understand where theyre coming from.


Brillopad 07-01-2018 04:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vicky. (Post 9776905)
This is generally false. Most of mens strength comes from testosterone. Transwomen who are on estrogen will therefor not have as much testosterone in their bodies so they will not be as strong as an average man. of course theres bone structure and muscle mass and such also, but broadly speaking, lowering ones testosterone makes one weaker. hence men being (as a group, not individually) stronger than women to start with.

Fair point I guess - but they are still stronger than biological women.

Marsh. 07-01-2018 04:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Brillopad (Post 9776916)
The stats on female victims are pretty well known. If as many men were being killed at the hands of their female partners we would know about it. Please don’t try to undermine the seriousness of domestic violence to try and prove a point on transgenders - it’s inappropriate and I have no intention of biting any further.

Biting? We're having a discussion. If that offends you then feel free to leave.

I was referring more to you seemingly confirming that most male victims of domestic violence are only so because they're too polite to hit back as opposed to being an actual victim from someone abusing their mentally and maybe physically weaker partner.

Northern Monkey 07-01-2018 04:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Brillopad (Post 9776933)
Fair point I guess - but they are still stronger than biological women.

Yes.Still more muscle mass

Vicky. 07-01-2018 04:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Brillopad (Post 9776933)
Fair point I guess - but they are still stronger than biological women.

Oh yes, definitely. On an overall level, its silly to get into this 'this woman may be stronger than this man' as obviously there are outliers to all groups.

Brillopad 07-01-2018 04:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jaxie (Post 9776924)
I think Livia was quite clear with her first response.

Not pretty. Only disturbing.

Withano 07-01-2018 04:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vicky. (Post 9776919)
What is 'living as a female'? Following stereotypes?

Whatever each individual wants it to be, India clearly wants to be a female, clearly believes that she is, from my perspective that makes her a woman... and Luke A is a man.. but they are also a transwoman and transman from my perspective too.

For me, it is more to do with their brain, and less to do with their genitals, and thats the definition that I use.


All times are GMT. The time now is 05:32 PM.

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.11
Copyright ©2000 - 2025, vBulletin Solutions Inc.
User Alert System provided by Advanced User Tagging (Pro) - vBulletin Mods & Addons Copyright © 2025 DragonByte Technologies Ltd.