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26-10-2015 08:48 PM |
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Originally Posted by Livia
(Post 8248138)
Not sure why anyone would want to share the dark minutiae of life that you yourself would rather forget. Make peace with it and let it go, don't burden other people with it.
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I guess sometimes it's nice to get things off your chest instead of bottling it up inside, because if you keep doing that, then you will eventually burst. I suppose my "problem" if you'd like to call it that, although it's in the past, it could creep back at any time and it's always lingering; I'm haunted with it for the rest of my life. And if it does come back, my friends won't be "prepared" because they don't know about it.
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Originally Posted by Ammi
(Post 8248195)
..maybe it's something that you find painful to consciously think about Ashley but that doesn't mean it's 'bad' and no one's life is perfect, there is no perfect...and I'm sure that some of your friends at Uni even, have their own 'bad'...and these things aren't defining at all, it's who you are now...your friends don't need to know something that isn't you now, so don't feel guilt or anything about not telling them...if they ever did somehow know and judged you in any way for it..?...then that's not a bad thing either Ashley...it may be upsetting to you but it will help you see more clearly, those people in your life that you want to carry with you and those that are better left in the past...:hug:...
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Yeah I'll definitely learn something from this. Thank you :hug: |
