I missed it all too. Best forget it now though. Got to admit though stropz I thought it was all for a bit of a joke. and i love the snippets thread. Especially the one you done on me :hug:

Where's the snippets thread?

:hugesmile: The snippets thread is great!

Where is it? I've looked but can't find it.

Ah that one.

Cheers.

yes tibb snippets on chat and games :joker::joker::joker:

Ive only come on as i have been told about your statement on MSN. I guess some could call it gracious, but grace wouldve attempted to resolve the situation in private!

Since i have come on to TIBB i have done nothing except have a laugh, it is not my intention to have e-fight/e-conflicts with people. Anyone who has objectivity can see everyone of my posts have been about having a joke - there is too much drama in the real world without the need for it in cyberland!

I am new and have no awareness of the history you and other members share. However, if i did it still does not affect me. I have had a laugh over the "rumour" about you and James in the past... and something I too found amusing. I am a tad disapointed it is NOT true as according to you he was good in bed.

It is normal for the jealous e-girlfriend to get angry with her e-bf's lover, it was all part of the joke. A joke i thought you were playing but decided NOT too when it offended you.

If you were offended by the witch comment you couldve u2u'd me and i would have edited it. If you thought it was a geniunue insult then let me assure you "witch" and "dog" are not the insults i would use if i was REALLY affected by your actions and angry at you.

As i was NOT taking you or the whole rumour seriously i didnt viciously insult you with a barrage of swear words or bring in anything REALLY personal about you. A geniunely ANGRY person would have.

In all reality I thought this "e-rift" wouldve been a good next chapter to the Jamesha story plot... The whole time it was going on I was in MSN with James taking the piss out of him and actually trying to see why he didnt meet you as you lived so close. I even asked you in for a 3some (which you sadly declined).

I am assuming your statement was written as you were "spoken to", only cos i was spoken to last night for my "behaviour". I was shocked that moderators intervened in what was obviously a joke and it took it to a next level.

I was also very angry to find out I was given special treatment, I had no idea until about 1.30am that mods were asked NOT to warn me.

Yes I have abused my e-relationship on TIBB but that was only to get new icons and not to avoid the TIBB rules. It was only at that stage I was informed that people were upset that i had insulted you. Up until that stage I assumed it was part of the joke.

As a mod myself, (on another site) this situation couldve been ressolved by a simple u2u to check if it was still a joke OR a u2u saying the joke has got out of hand. However there was none of that and I was oblivious to the fact it was becoming a "drama" becuase the whole time i was viewing James pics in MSN (What a hottie!).

As for me and James, yes it was a little bit of e-fun to start with, to be honest it was never part of the "sasha plan" for him to submit - i like the chase! But over the past week i am glad he has as he is a nice guy and a great e-buddy who i can chat to for ages about everything.

I was banned last night over this for x hours, and decided to leave as i couldnt believe i would get banned for having a laugh. I decided after my ban that TIBB was way to serious for my type of humour and wasnt the place for me. Maybe an over reaction, but people do hasty things when they are angry and upset.

Fair enough Sasha, but there's been instances where you have broken rules for other things. All of them piled together would've probably got you a longer ban but they seemed to be overlooked (Not your fault, but being a mod on another site you should have taken the rules into account).

:whistle::whistle::whistle: hope everyone is friends again :hug::flowers:

I wasn't "spoken to" at all regarding last night. I chose to leave as I thought the situation was becoming nasty, and I didn't want to get into an argument on the internet (as per my signature quote). Also, you may or may not know, I'm already on one warning, and a further warning carries an automatic 48 hour ban. I'm not exactly TiBB's Good Girl.

I made the statement here this morning, because I wanted to air my views. I'm not in the habit of going behind people's backs when things are irritating me. That was the main reason for me posting a thread out in the main. I was rather hoping James would respond to it, and to be honest, I'm glad you responded to it. I'm well known here for speaking my mind. It's not always a good thing, but I figure that honesty is the best policy.

I agree with what you said about drama in real life. Also, I'm sure you will agree that jokes sometimes do not come across well on the net, because there are no facial expressions or body language to read, and sometimes things can get misconstrued.

I enjoyed our chats prior to recent events, and would be happy to start over and forget this whole sorry episode. I hope we can move past it, however if you would rather not, then that is obviously your choice.

Im glad thats sorted then, i apologise if you thought things were getting nasty..... maybe other things were going on as the posts alone werent THAT nasty.

But hey, its over now..... whenever you want a 3some you let me know.

:lovedup::lovedup::lovedup: well said both of you

I can not and will not be held responsible for the actions of others. I am not sure where i have broken the rules prior to this occassion, however if mods chose not to address me - your issue is with THEM and NOT with me.

I only came on to addres Stropz, i have read the rest of the comments on this thread and the word FICKLE descibes them aptly! :rolleyes:

Tell yer man to get his sorry arze in here! He's the only one who aint said nothing yet.. typical... :rolleyes:.. Leave it to the women to sort it out.. :tongue:

I won't point the exact posts out as there's too many, but you used text speech in most of them. As you should be well aware, text speech is against forum rules. :nono:
And you may have just came on to address Stropz, but unfortunately for you this is a forum where we are all free to express our own opinions (while following forum rules).

I'm going from this thread now, I've said my opinion and this could very easily lead into an un-needed argument.

:hug: I really think this whole thing is a misunderstanding. Thanks to everyone for explaining it all. I hope you can continue posting here, if other people had got to know you like I have they'd realise what a nice person you are. I shouldn't have said the thing about giving special treatment to the other mods but it was only cause I feel I know what you're really like

"But over the past week i am glad he has as he is a nice guy and a great e-buddy who i can chat to for ages about everything. "

aww thanks :hug:

Not sure about how the pics showed me to be a 'hottie' though lol.

Shuddup you, let them fight.

I really can't think there's any problem here, there's other peoples' posts that are less well written. I think Sasha's posts are well written.

No need to bring this into this topic.

Can I just ask why she recieved "special treatment" from the mods?

She didn't receive special treatment. I was only pointing out that I thought it was a misunderstanding and things might be taken out of context.

Last night I mean... I should have been keeping a better eye on the forum... I might have been able to nip it in the bud.

I've still got my sig btw. :whistle:

Well she just said she shouldn't have mentioned the special treatment she recieved. If it's true, it wouldn't surprise me.

But she did James!

Yeah, your right. I contradicted myself there. What I meant was I thought I saw it was a misunderstanding and that.

I should have talked to the other mods more last night. Explained it better.

^^ Thats not what i said, What James said......

He has apologised to me to for asking the mods to give me special treatment, when he told me i went ape sh!t as its not right.

He has admitted it to me in private and on here publically. Both occassions he has apologised for it.

As for the text speak, its a habit. But yet again i maintain my stance about not being responsible for the actions of mods. I am ASSUMING that as you are soooo offended by it you reported it when it happend.....(if you didnt, thats your problem and fault!)

If they CHOSE not to warn me, so be it. Take the matter up with them and dont use it as a barrel scraping bandwagon jumping exercise to attack me!