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Beso 26-10-2023 10:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Kazanne (Post 11359757)
Who's to say its a love triangle anyway ? It's the aftershow that promotes that angle and people run along with that as its good TV for them. Maybe just maybe they all get along and are having fun and.maybe there is some flirting going on but I really don't think there is any using going on?I do prefer the Jordan /Henry friendship , Matty is a little strange, but they are all different.



If you find matty strange then you must find jordan slightly strange ..which leaves henry the only unstrange one of the 3.

GoldHeart 26-10-2023 10:08 PM

It's all a game to Jordan , he frolic's around with Matty like he's in a meadow dancing ... then when he's bored he runs back to Henry to rescue him. He's always saying stuff like ' don't pay attention to Matty' type of style, yet he's the one chasing him.

Zizu 26-10-2023 10:11 PM

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Originally Posted by GoldHeart (Post 11359784)
It's all a game to Jordan , he frolic's around with Matty like he's in a meadow dancing ... then when he's bored he runs back to Henry to rescue him. He's always saying stuff like ' don't pay attention to Matty' type of style, yet he's the one chasing him.


Jordan isn’t doing anyone any favours at the moment


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GoldHeart 26-10-2023 10:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Zizu (Post 11359787)
Jordan isn’t doing anyone any favours at the moment


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Did you see the way he kept being hot & cold with Matty , then he's chasing him saying "come back" ... and i thought Matty was desperate :rolleyes: . I noticed he acts differently around Henry to Matty.

Beso 26-10-2023 10:17 PM

He just cast henry aside tonight to give all his attention to matty. He chickened out repeating what he said when matty was walking out the door . Matty asked him 3 times and he only reveaed it was "your confusing" in a sarcastic way after matty stopped asking him.


Then chased him up the hall saying come back, before falling to the floor in a far to dramatic manner to be acceptable. Good for matty for just walking on. Then henry just walked past matty and jordan got up and said those words...never mind matty, hes being strange...which he says a lot..put his arm round henry and marched down the corridor like some fragrant prince toying with all his servants.

PoppyC 26-10-2023 10:59 PM

I'm not sure he's thinking to himself "I'll play with Henry's feelings now", but I don't think he's considering Henry's feelings either

caprimint 26-10-2023 11:36 PM

I don't really think he's into Henry in that way, but it's possible that the more time they spend together he's feeling an attraction/connection. As long as he's not with Matty it's fine anyway :idc:

GoldHeart 26-10-2023 11:39 PM

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Originally Posted by caprimint (Post 11359865)
I don't really think he's into Henry in that way, but it's possible that the more time they spend together he's feeling an attraction/connection. As long as he's not with Matty it's fine anyway :idc:

He's goes from Matty to Henry then back to Matty again in front of their eyes, Jordan isn't bothered.. he's playing them both like a fiddle.

GlitterUK 27-10-2023 12:46 AM

I think he see's them both as friends and pawns, he will pick/drop them whenever he needs to.

Zizu 27-10-2023 12:49 AM

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Originally Posted by GlitterUK (Post 11359906)
I think he see's them both as friends and pawns, he will pick/drop them whenever he needs to.


I don’t think it’s calculated though ..


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GoldHeart 27-10-2023 12:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Zizu (Post 11359907)
I don’t think it’s calculated though ..


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Jordan is 100% calculated , he can talk about others not being genuine...but he was like 2 different people around Matty & Henry in Thursday's HL show .

He went from Sarcastic deadpan with Henry to smirking & blushing with Matty , then he switched back to deadpan ...once Henry saw him laid in the corridor wondering what's happening.

GlitterUK 27-10-2023 01:06 AM

I think he soon dropped Henry once he was nominated and moved on to his new play thing Matty then went back again. I don't think Jordan is malicious in any way at all but he is playing the game well.

Zizu 27-10-2023 01:30 AM

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Originally Posted by GlitterUK (Post 11359920)
I think he soon dropped Henry once he was nominated and moved on to his new play thing Matty then went back again. I don't think Jordan is malicious in any way at all but he is playing the game well.


Do you think so ?

I remember Matty hanging around the group and flirting terribly with Jordan . I think Jordan was intrigued with Matty but the timing was poor ..


I think it’s far more likely that Matty calculated that it was a good time to wooo Jordan and he did manage to turn his head


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Maru 27-10-2023 03:21 AM

It only hurts Jordan to mislead him if he is not careful. But, it helps Henry quite a bit to build up public support. We would not see another side of Henry otherwise. He has been somewhat wooden.

joeysteele 27-10-2023 06:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 11359665)
It's not like Jordan and Henry are in a relationship. They are just friends.
Jordan is free to flirt with who he wants.

.... and that's the truth.
Plus they all know of the connection of Jordan, Henry and Matty.
With no complaining or real expectations from any to any.
Often they're all together at the same time.

If they aren't complaining about each other or judging each other then I cannot see a single thing to criticise on personally as to Henry, Jordan or Matty.
They were and still are ALL free agents.
Immaterial of feelings and emotions.

Ammi 27-10-2023 07:05 AM

…it feels as though Jordan’s quite confident of Henry’s adoration and admiration etc …and they have this whole playful thing going on of calling each other their husband…they seemed to have an instant bond and connection between them, same humour etc…it’s obvious to see Henry’s enjoyment and fun around Jordan…Jordan doesn't shoe enjoyment and fun on his face, he’s very deadpan…I’m not sure that Jordan has any romantic attraction to Henry, though…they obviously have cuddles before sleep etc but more a comfort and affection thing…I do think that Henry might feel more than that affection, though and that Jordan knows that and encouraged it and stirred it etc…I’m beginning to wonder, was a showmance something Jordan was looking for, maybe not a game plan from before he came into the house …but something he’s thought from early days when he and Henry more became two in a friendship connection etc…but Henry would be the one to hold back there because he’s said that he told Jordan that he wasn’t going to kiss on TV, in similar words….he’d said that to Jordan so kissing had been mentioned but we didn’t see that conversation, hmmmmmm….so if Jordan was looking for a romantic storyline or any such thing…he knows that Henry is not the guy…but Matty’s an open relationship guy so he could be the guy….?…if all of that makes sense…but if he were to fully reject Henry in favour of Matty….hmmmmm, not a good look …so it all starts to get complicated…maybe he’s actually thought…oh this trio would be a much more interesting storyline, hmmmmm…

Zizu 30-10-2023 12:49 AM

Sadly Jordan looks to be wooing both Henry and Matty tonight …


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Mich3LL3 30-10-2023 01:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Zizu (Post 11363145)
Sadly Jordan looks to be wooing both Henry and Matty tonight …


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Jordan told Henry he doesnt find Matty attractive. Then why he is all over him? It feels like he thought Henry was a goner so he leeched to Matty, but Henry stayed and so he Got trapped in a threeway.

Atake25 30-10-2023 07:50 AM

He just doesn’t seem to be aware or care about anyone except himself , I still can’t get over the fact he said when Henry was up for eviction that he was just happy that he himself wasn’t up. Even if you think that you wouldn’t express it out loud on a show where everyone is watching your every move and word
I just think he’s very self centred and probably does think Henry was put in just to make him happy 😆
I wish people would just realise he’s a bit of a user and keep their distance
I don’t like Matty much but found myself feeling sorry for him when Jordan tells Henry he doesn’t find him attractive , he would never speak to him outside the house , that he needs to keep his distance etc etc and at the same time telling matty how cute he is all the time and getting into bed with him etc

joeysteele 30-10-2023 08:02 AM

I say again.
No he isn't

Vanessa 30-10-2023 08:02 AM

I think Jordan has grown very fond of Henry.
But he's definitely attracted to Matty.
Hopefully Matty will go and leave them to it.

rusticgal 30-10-2023 08:22 AM

I think Jordan was initially quite attracted to Matty but is not interested in Matty's set up.
Last couple of episodes I can see Jordan and Henry are getting much closer but neither of them want to make a big thing of it whilst in the house. Whatever happens Jordan and Henry will be the best of friends.

rusticgal 30-10-2023 08:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 11363215)
I think Jordan has grown very fond of Henry.
But he's definitely attracted to Matty.
Hopefully Matty will go and leave them to it.

Matty needs to go....

Garfie 30-10-2023 11:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Jayson (Post 11359740)
Jordan knows what he's up to. His traumatic childhood made him neurotic to the point of literally learning and using a more proper accent. His sense of humour is a coping mechanism for pain as it is with most consistently funny people. I imagine being rasied by a young mum and his dad being an absent (now dead) heroin addict developed a strong attention seeking streak in him which is the fuel for most of what he does, rather than genuine love for this person or that person, hence seeming quite the **** when he uses people to maximise attention gained.

I think you make some good points here, particularly in terms of his humour being a coping mechanism for pain. I should imagine he also has some insecurities about abandonment and rejection, which might be why he has learnt not to show emotion and why he toys with people rather than showing any deeper underlying feelings.

I believe he and Henry have a genuine friendship which will last outside of BB, and I think he is aware that Henry feels more than friendship. However, Henry provides acceptance and, more importantly, security so he depends on him more than he will admit to himself.

With Matty, I do think Jordan is attracted to him - hence the flirting- but his insecurities make him pull back after he allows Matty to get too close, as he feels vulnerable. I believe that Matty is interested in more with Jordan, and has been left totally confused by the mixed messaging.

Garfie 30-10-2023 11:35 AM

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Originally Posted by parmnion (Post 11359796)
……like some fragrant prince toying with all his servants.

Oh, I love this. What a brilliant description. :laugh:


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